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If Your Child Said, "I Don't Want To Go The University" What Will You Do? by RevenuesBoost(op):
I've got a sister who told my parents that she doesn't need university education, not because she wasn't smart but because she knew what she wanted. She even had good grades in her SSCE yet she didn't want to know what the four walls of the University looked like.


While growing up, she was clinked to thread and needle. She would practically sew anything using thread and needle.
I remember then, she would sew beautiful bags using just needle and thread.
She even sold most of them.


My Parents asked her, what does she want to do, she said she wants to study Fashion and design.
My parents moved her to Lagos so she would attend the best fashion and design school.
She lived with our senior cousin for protection sake while she schooled.



After a year, she was done but she decided to spend an extra year in her favourite teacher's sewing shop to learn more.
In this life, you need a mentor to pull you by the hand and take you to your destination.
I'll talk about my brother that attended a Technical College and is now an architect because a secondary school teacher took interest in his art skills and perfected him, he is now a University graduate, that's a story for another day.



On her way back home from Lagos, she bought a Teddy bear, that teddy bear inspired her to start making Teddy bags.

So now, She makes:
1. Professional Teddy bags,
2. Teddy bears,
3. Children school bag,
4. Souvenir bags
5. Sews fashionable clothes.
6. She even made my wedding dress.


She's sews all my clothes.

I'm glad she followed her dreams.
In all, one's aim of having a career is to cater for one's self, don't follow the trend, do what you love doing that'll fetch you money.

Re: If Your Child Said, "I Don't Want To Go The University" What Will You Do? by libertyfather(m): 9:04am On Jan 19, 2024
she has made her decision, forcing her to go the university may end up a mistake on your own part....she definitely knows what she want
Re: If Your Child Said, "I Don't Want To Go The University" What Will You Do? by RevenuesBoost(op): 9:07am On Jan 19, 2024
School bags

Re: If Your Child Said, "I Don't Want To Go The University" What Will You Do? by CameroonPepper: 9:11am On Jan 19, 2024
This is a possessed bear not teddy bear.
She should have gone to school.
Re: If Your Child Said, "I Don't Want To Go The University" What Will You Do? by RevenuesBoost(op): 9:13am On Jan 19, 2024
Souvenir bags

Re: If Your Child Said, "I Don't Want To Go The University" What Will You Do? by RevenuesBoost(op): 9:16am On Jan 19, 2024
She made my wedding dress

Re: If Your Child Said, "I Don't Want To Go The University" What Will You Do? by RevenuesBoost(op): 9:17am On Jan 19, 2024
She made all the dresses in the photo, including the one the little baby is wearing.

She's happily married and the mother of the two babies in the photo.

She's the one carrying her son in the photo.

Re: If Your Child Said, "I Don't Want To Go The University" What Will You Do? by superCleanworks(m): 9:26am On Jan 19, 2024
RevenuesBoost:
I'm glad she followed her dreams.
In all, one's aim of having a career is to cater for one's self.
if my child says he/she doesn't want to go to UNI... there are many universities in the business world, and that type of university has only one topic. MONEY.
Re: If Your Child Said, "I Don't Want To Go The University" What Will You Do? by RevenuesBoost(op): 9:31am On Jan 19, 2024
libertyfather:
she has made her decision, forcing her to go the university may end up a mistake on your own part....she definitely knows what she want
Exactly👌
Re: If Your Child Said, "I Don't Want To Go The University" What Will You Do? by RevenuesBoost(op): 9:34am On Jan 19, 2024
CameroonPepper:
This is a possessed bear not teddy bear.
She should have gone to school.
To study Fashion and design?
She now makes money more than people who have gone to university with no job.
Re: If Your Child Said, "I Don't Want To Go The University" What Will You Do? by RevenuesBoost(op): 9:35am On Jan 19, 2024
superCleanworks:
if my child says he/she doesn't want to go to UNI... there are many universities in the business world, and that type of university has only one topic. MONEY.
You're very right
Re: If Your Child Said, "I Don't Want To Go The University" What Will You Do? by matify83: 9:54am On Jan 19, 2024
I would wonder how he/she got that maturity mentality at such a young age.

AI will revolutionise tertiary education the way we know it in the not too distant future.

Have you not noticed that some courses have lost their relevance already?

The era of going to the university to read just anything so that you can boost your CV is gone. Most graduates are dragging uber and okada with people who barely had formal education.
Re: If Your Child Said, "I Don't Want To Go The University" What Will You Do? by RevenuesBoost(op): 10:05am On Jan 19, 2024
matify83:
I would wonder how he/she got that maturity mentality at such a young age.

AI will revolutionise tertiary education the way we know it in the not too distant future.

Have you not noticed that some courses have lost their relevance already?

The era of going to the university to read just anything so that you can boost your CV is gone. Most graduates are dragging uber and okada with people who barely had formal education.
I love this comment ❣️
Re: If Your Child Said, "I Don't Want To Go The University" What Will You Do? by Epurogonogono(m): 10:48am On Jan 19, 2024
The truth is that university is not for everyone.

In all things, a person must know his or her self.

The problem with universities nowadays is that a lot of people get into it for the wrong reasons;
If your vision is to become a fashion designer, go to a fashion school.

If yours is to become a footballer, then go to a football academy and hone your skills.

If yours is to become an engineer, go to university and also get the necessary practical skills too.

If yours is to become a scientist, then go to the university and make sure that you love your field.




Don't follow trends senselessly and end up with regret because if you don't like what you do, you would never be the best or one of the best at it.
Re: If Your Child Said, "I Don't Want To Go The University" What Will You Do? by RevenuesBoost(op): 11:06am On Jan 19, 2024
Epurogonogono:
The truth is that university is not for everyone.

In all things, a person must know his or her self.

The problem with universities nowadays is that a lot of people get into it for the wrong reasons;
If your vision is to become a fashion designer, go to a fashion school.

If yours is to become a footballer, then go to a football academy and hone your skills.

If yours is to become an engineer, go to university and also get the necessary practical skills too.

If yours is to become a scientist, then go to the university and make sure that you love your field.




Don't follow trends senselessly and end up with regret because if you don't like what you do, you would never be the best or one of the best at it.
You said it all
Re: If Your Child Said, "I Don't Want To Go The University" What Will You Do? by RevenuesBoost(op): 11:15am On Jan 19, 2024
superCleanworks:
if my child says he/she doesn't want to go to UNI... there are many universities in the business world, and that type of university has only one topic. MONEY.
Seeing Through Your Created Threads,
It is obvious you love playing scrabble, we can host a National Scrabble Competition in Nigeria Starting Right Here on Nairaland. What Do You think ?
Re: If Your Child Said, "I Don't Want To Go The University" What Will You Do? by Cassandraloius: 3:01pm On Jan 19, 2024
Perhaps she made the right decision.
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