A. 90,000 Schoolgirls Aged 10 To 19 Fall Pregnant In 2023 - South African Minister of Social Development, Lindiwe Zulu
B. 3 in 10 teen American girls will get pregnant at least once before age 20. That's nearly 750,000 teen pregnancies every year. Parenthood is the leading reason that teen girls drop out of school. More than 50% of teen mothers never graduate from high school.
C. According to the World Health Organization, nearly 12 million girls aged 15–19 years and at least 777,000 girls under 15 years give birth each year, with at least 10 million unintended pregnancies occurring each year among adolescent girls aged 15–19 years in the developing world.
Let's stop here.
We know immorality has been around even many years before now, but we have to admit that it is currently on the increase. Also, various factors could be held responsible, including media, peer pressure, failed parenting, the rise in perverted adults who are taking advantage of the unmastered hormones of these young ones, etc.
One of the things we should always remember is that the devil is always interested in young people (of course, for evil purposes) and he targets places where there is a reasonable amount of young people, like schools. This is one of the reasons darkness is strong in many secondary schools today, and one of the implications is a high rate of immorality among young students.
However, the solution is God's Word. We must teach these young folks the truth of God's word. Inherent in the word of God is the fear of God. Once a young chap can have and keep the fear of God, like Joseph, they will easily be constrained to live righteously irrespective of where they find themselves.
Kingdom-minded Christians, who are ordained as light by the Lord Jesus, must rise and be proactive in tutoring the world and the people on the pathway of God's perfect Will. Believers, who are light and salt of the earth, should teach the parents of this world proper parenting; they should have direct interactions with the young folks of the society and disciple them unto righteousness; we should become major stakeholders in the media space and ensure the media won't corrupt youngsters again; we should infiltrate influential societal positions and enact laws and policies that protect these young ones from sexual predators; etc.
Finally, the so-called sex education being taught at many climes (where the young ones are given the option of using contraceptives for sexual acts) should be revamped. Rather, we should teach them abstinence sexual education, where they are granted wisdom to practice sexual purity and avoid all kinds of sexual immorality.
We have to inculcate the fear of God in these youngsters, which is possible via vehement exposure to God's word. So, for instance, they will see from God's Word that all forms of sexual pleasure must only be shared between a married husband and his female wife inside the safe confines of their marriage institution, with no other party involved. They will also be tutored to create the right structures where it will be difficult to go beyond boundaries, and we will disciple them to learn how to control their healthy sexual urges.
Even In the early 2000s. Things started nosediving from 2010.
I agree. I was in uni in the early to mid 2000s, and things were definitely not this bad. Back then, guys had to go to clubs to get girls if they needed s*x, or go to brothel, or Allen avenue. It was around early 2010s that olosho/call girl business really kicked off in naija. Thanks to smartphones and social media.
It's crazy, especially on Facebook.... Facebook Reels and all. I always wonder if they don't have parents or other family members that see it these videos.
That's Facebook has been adulterated with reels and Co. It's the devil's tactics to lure unsuspecting users to destruction. It was never so in the past. I wonder Facebook is doing anything about it. The more I block reels videos, the more they post videos, which I never solicited. Such sultry videos have made the Facebook become uninteresting to me
I agree. I was in uni in the early to mid 2000s, and things were definitely not this bad. Back then, guys had to go to clubs to get girls if they needed s*x, or go to brothel, or Allen avenue. It was around early 2010s that olosho/call girl business really kicked off in naija. Thanks to smartphones and social media.
Yes you are right. Allen Avenue used to be the hotspot back then. Let's not forget the fact that the terrible economic policies of government in recent years which led to increase in poverty also played a vital role.
Does female genital mutilation reduce their desire for men?
Of cos na. Why do you think they were doing it back then. I had a girl that her parents did it to her back then, and she had no desire for s*x... She might get attracted to a guy, but no sparks or electricity flying.
crossfm: The children are not to blame, the society and parents have failed them.
The contents they watch and the people they make their role models too has a lot to do with their actions.
From movies, music and dance steps,all have been sexualized. Parents are at home shaking bom bom to even gospel music,while the children watch.
Our celebrities now release sex tapes in batches,yet top companies instead of canceling them,they reward them with endorsements.
Not really parents but society because every lady at 14yrs and above will want to do shits/adventure
Now the society or friends keep telling them the fun parts etc and they decide to go ahead
I once dated a prophetess daughter,the parents no dey allow them go outside but we dey see sometimes(no ask me how,lol)... we dey kiss etc even begged me to disvirgin her or make love to her, whenever we are kissing and touching Ps,I'll refuse and when we are done, we go our separate ways, some minutes later she go dey thank me for not having sex with her....
So you see,society plays the larger part,parents may give the best, in universities, parents won't know what the children are doing, society or internet are the ones doing damage
Now lastly
It boils down to the said individual
I grew up in okpoko in anambra state, I started having sex with my landlord's daughter,she was supposed to be taking care of me since my parents go to work and hand me over to her till they are back in the evening, I started having sex right in nursery school, was barely 6yrs,at age 8, honestly all the girls for the compound, I don sex them, even the one from edo wey come holiday... now na society but my parents no know and me as the individual liked it then.... I hope you understand
bassdow: Sheybi those of the old practiced Female genital mutilation to prevent/reduce this. Those who advocated for a STOP, failed to get a replacement
NowAdays, especially with advent of internet, and social media, it's more difficult lying to kids as most understand use of internet, and social media much more than their elders.
How else do you think youngsters are able to be somewhat smarter & well informed than their elderly ones ?
You are mad abi? How about we cut off your penis so you be immoral? Sperm can be extracted without sex
A. 90,000 Schoolgirls Aged 10 To 19 Fall Pregnant In 2023 - South African Minister of Social Development, Lindiwe Zulu
B. 3 in 10 teen American girls will get pregnant at least once before age 20. That's nearly 750,000 teen pregnancies every year. Parenthood is the leading reason that teen girls drop out of school. More than 50% of teen mothers never graduate from high school.
C. According to the World Health Organization, nearly 12 million girls aged 15–19 years and at least 777,000 girls under 15 years give birth each year, with at least 10 million unintended pregnancies occurring each year among adolescent girls aged 15–19 years in the developing world.
Let's stop here.
We know immorality has been around even many years before now, but we have to admit that it is currently on the increase. Also, various factors could be held responsible, including media, peer pressure, failed parenting, the rise in perverted adults who are taking advantage of the unmastered hormones of these young ones, etc.
One of the things we should always remember is that the devil is always interested in young people (of course, for evil purposes) and he targets places where there is a reasonable amount of young people, like schools. This is one of the reasons darkness is strong in many secondary schools today, and one of the implications is a high rate of immorality among young students.
However, the solution is God's Word. We must teach these young folks the truth of God's word. Inherent in the word of God is the fear of God. Once a young chap can have and keep the fear of God, like Joseph, they will easily be constrained to live righteously irrespective of where they find themselves.
Kingdom-minded Christians, who are ordained as light by the Lord Jesus, must rise and be proactive in tutoring the world and the people on the pathway of God's perfect Will. Believers, who are light and salt of the earth, should teach the parents of this world proper parenting; they should have direct interactions with the young folks of the society and disciple them unto righteousness; we should become major stakeholders in the media space and ensure the media won't corrupt youngsters again; we should infiltrate influential societal positions and enact laws and policies that protect these young ones from sexual predators; etc.
Finally, the so-called sex education being taught at many climes (where the young ones are given the option of using contraceptives for sexual acts) should be revamped. Rather, we should teach them abstinence sexual education, where they are granted wisdom to practice sexual purity and avoid all kinds of sexual immorality.
We have to inculcate the fear of God in these youngsters, which is possible via vehement exposure to God's word. So, for instance, they will see from God's Word that all forms of sexual pleasure must only be shared between a married husband and his female wife inside the safe confines of their marriage institution, with no other party involved. They will also be tutored to create the right structures where it will be difficult to go beyond boundaries, and we will disciple them to learn how to control their healthy sexual urges.
You are yet to show an increase in the rate of teenage pregnancy or teenage sex. According to you, teenagers are have more sex than ever but research shows that you are wrong. Young people are having less sex than previous generations.
Before condom was introduced in Nigeria, young boys and young girls abstained from sex not for religious reasons but because of fear. Girls were afraid because their parents told them they would become pregnant once they are touched by a man. Boys abstained from sex because their parents told them that once they touch a girl she would be pregnant. The fear of contracting sexually-transmitted diseases was another thing that kept children away from sexual activities then. But immediately condom came and children discovered that they can get away with underage sex, sexual activities began to thrive among children in Nigeria.
It is also wrong to blame social media and movies. Social media platforms don't supply themselves contents and movies don't create themselves. Adults create and release those contents. If social media should be blamed, why are you using the same social media to preach the gospel and tackle societal problems?
Keeping the tools away from them is more effective than trying to change their minds when they have the tools.
I am afraid you are very wrong in your analysis,when I was a curious teen in the secondary school in the late 80s ,the only naked woman you can ever see is if you peep in the bathroom,forget about adult movies,how many people has black and white television talk more of VCR those days,even adult magazines is rare,only lolly magazine is were you can see an exposed breast but you can't even buy such at the stands because of your age and lack of money.nowadays almost 80% of these young teenagers have smart phones and with it the ability to watch any sexual fantasy they desire,the contents that is available to these kids at the press of a button is pure fantasy to imagine when we are growing up,moreover you cannot deny the fact that most of the erotic scenes will cause arousal and with their high hormone levels the result is best left to your imagination,the early exposure is too much and with the relentless March of civilization nothing can be done about it,from movies,music videos,pictures,phone,we are constantly bombarded with erotic images, For example just last week I caught a 10 yrs old girl fingering herself,after angry rebuke I decided to know what can cause a girl that has not even develop breast to masturbate,I asked what caused her to do such,she replied that is what she sees in her sisters phone,she even confessed to be kissed by adults and she regularly sucks their dicks but yet to have sex because it is too painful when they tried to penetrate,this is terrible.
We're we not teens and youthful once in the least.....?! I was like the mind lover...exploring the opposite sex from a view and distance and inculcating safe methods not to blow it all up..... But we all loved to have sex...... ...if you question this, go ask our genes and hormones.....
And don't come here acting like the youth is really to blame..... The generation ahead of them bleeped up and don't want to take some blame. Even with birth pills ...many children still came through
okoroemeka: I am afraid you are very wrong in your analysis,when I was a curious teen in the secondary school in the late 80s ,the only naked woman you can ever see is if you peep in the bathroom,forget about adult movies,how many people has black and white television talk more of VCR those days,even adult magazines is rare,only lolly magazine is were you can see an exposed breast but you can't even buy such at the stands because of your age and lack of money.nowadays almost 80% of these young teenagers have smart phones and with it the ability to watch any sexual fantasy they desire,the contents that is available to these kids at the press of a button is pure fantasy to imagine when we are growing up,moreover you cannot deny the fact that most of the erotic scenes will cause arousal and with their high hormone levels the result is best left to your imagination,the early exposure is too much and with the relentless March of civilization nothing can be done about it,from movies,music videos,pictures,phone,we are constantly bombarded with erotic images, For example just last week I caught a 10 yrs old girl fingering herself,after angry rebuke I decided to know what can cause a girl that has not even develop breast to masturbate,I asked what caused her to do such,she replied that is what she sees in her sisters phone,she even confessed to be kissed by adults and she regularly sucks their dicks but yet to have sex because it is too painful when they tried to penetrate,this is terrible.
You are using the same social media and the same smart phone you accuse to pass this message.
1. Do social media platforms and smart devices supply themselves those bad contents?
2. Most of the bad contents are created by adults and the few created by kids are inspired by the ones from adults. Isn't this true?
3. If social media and smart devices are bad, there will be no good contents on them at all. Aren't there good contents for kids on those media?
4. Do the movies and magazines create themselves? Aren't adults the ones that determine the contents?
After reading all through 4pages I now believe most nairaland members are Dumb! Puberty and Increase in hormones are the major factors teenagers tends to experience at the early stages of life. Even before the advent of social media, alot has been happening already.
Thought they said going half naked and having sex was a sign of female empowerment? What do you expect when their idols on TV promote sex and drugs and parents have no time to even attend to them either due to over working to feed the family or poor parenting skill. Sex education is something that should not be frowned upon by the parent and school counsellors.
Poor parenting is the root course of the problem. For instance in developed countries, most ladies are single parents and they bring different men to their homes in the presence of grown up teens girls. Most of these ladies allow those men to have sexual intercourse with them in their homes. Most of this teens hear when their mum is making the funny noise when the actions is going on. Definitely, they want to know the reason for such a funny noise. Secondly, the social media menace is another disaster that contribute to the problem.
Of cos na. Why do you think they were doing it back then. I had a girl that her parents did it to her back then, and she had no desire for s*x... She might get attracted to a guy, but no sparks or electricity flying.
Of cos na. Why do you think they were doing it back then. I had a girl that her parents did it to her back then, and she had no desire for s*x... She might get attracted to a guy, but no sparks or electricity flying.
Knowledge is indeed wide. But Why are Europeans and white men, doctors painting the practice as evil?
A. 90,000 Schoolgirls Aged 10 To 19 Fall Pregnant In 2023 - South African Minister of Social Development, Lindiwe Zulu
B. 3 in 10 teen American girls will get pregnant at least once before age 20. That's nearly 750,000 teen pregnancies every year. Parenthood is the leading reason that teen girls drop out of school. More than 50% of teen mothers never graduate from high school.
C. According to the World Health Organization, nearly 12 million girls aged 15–19 years and at least 777,000 girls under 15 years give birth each year, with at least 10 million unintended pregnancies occurring each year among adolescent girls aged 15–19 years in the developing world.
Let's stop here.
We know immorality has been around even many years before now, but we have to admit that it is currently on the increase. Also, various factors could be held responsible, including media, peer pressure, failed parenting, the rise in perverted adults who are taking advantage of the unmastered hormones of these young ones, etc.
One of the things we should always remember is that the devil is always interested in young people (of course, for evil purposes) and he targets places where there is a reasonable amount of young people, like schools. This is one of the reasons darkness is strong in many secondary schools today, and one of the implications is a high rate of immorality among young students.
However, the solution is God's Word. We must teach these young folks the truth of God's word. Inherent in the word of God is the fear of God. Once a young chap can have and keep the fear of God, like Joseph, they will easily be constrained to live righteously irrespective of where they find themselves.
Kingdom-minded Christians, who are ordained as light by the Lord Jesus, must rise and be proactive in tutoring the world and the people on the pathway of God's perfect Will. Believers, who are light and salt of the earth, should teach the parents of this world proper parenting; they should have direct interactions with the young folks of the society and disciple them unto righteousness; we should become major stakeholders in the media space and ensure the media won't corrupt youngsters again; we should infiltrate influential societal positions and enact laws and policies that protect these young ones from sexual predators; etc.
Finally, the so-called sex education being taught at many climes (where the young ones are given the option of using contraceptives for sexual acts) should be revamped. Rather, we should teach them abstinence sexual education, where they are granted wisdom to practice sexual purity and avoid all kinds of sexual immorality.
We have to inculcate the fear of God in these youngsters, which is possible via vehement exposure to God's word. So, for instance, they will see from God's Word that all forms of sexual pleasure must only be shared between a married husband and his female wife inside the safe confines of their marriage institution, with no other party involved. They will also be tutored to create the right structures where it will be difficult to go beyond boundaries, and we will disciple them to learn how to control their healthy sexual urges.
A. 90,000 Schoolgirls Aged 10 To 19 Fall Pregnant In 2023 - South African Minister of Social Development, Lindiwe Zulu
B. 3 in 10 teen American girls will get pregnant at least once before age 20. That's nearly 750,000 teen pregnancies every year. Parenthood is the leading reason that teen girls drop out of school. More than 50% of teen mothers never graduate from high school.
C. According to the World Health Organization, nearly 12 million girls aged 15–19 years and at least 777,000 girls under 15 years give birth each year, with at least 10 million unintended pregnancies occurring each year among adolescent girls aged 15–19 years in the developing world.
Let's stop here.
We know immorality has been around even many years before now, but we have to admit that it is currently on the increase. Also, various factors could be held responsible, including media, peer pressure, failed parenting, the rise in perverted adults who are taking advantage of the unmastered hormones of these young ones, etc.
One of the things we should always remember is that the devil is always interested in young people (of course, for evil purposes) and he targets places where there is a reasonable amount of young people, like schools. This is one of the reasons darkness is strong in many secondary schools today, and one of the implications is a high rate of immorality among young students.
However, the solution is God's Word. We must teach these young folks the truth of God's word. Inherent in the word of God is the fear of God. Once a young chap can have and keep the fear of God, like Joseph, they will easily be constrained to live righteously irrespective of where they find themselves.
Kingdom-minded Christians, who are ordained as light by the Lord Jesus, must rise and be proactive in tutoring the world and the people on the pathway of God's perfect Will. Believers, who are light and salt of the earth, should teach the parents of this world proper parenting; they should have direct interactions with the young folks of the society and disciple them unto righteousness; we should become major stakeholders in the media space and ensure the media won't corrupt youngsters again; we should infiltrate influential societal positions and enact laws and policies that protect these young ones from sexual predators; etc.
Finally, the so-called sex education being taught at many climes (where the young ones are given the option of using contraceptives for sexual acts) should be revamped. Rather, we should teach them abstinence sexual education, where they are granted wisdom to practice sexual purity and avoid all kinds of sexual immorality.
We have to inculcate the fear of God in these youngsters, which is possible via vehement exposure to God's word. So, for instance, they will see from God's Word that all forms of sexual pleasure must only be shared between a married husband and his female wife inside the safe confines of their marriage institution, with no other party involved. They will also be tutored to create the right structures where it will be difficult to go beyond boundaries, and we will disciple them to learn how to control their healthy sexual urges.
Last week I went out to charge my phone at a phone charging shop due to poor power outrage in my area, so as I was there waiting for the phone to be fully charged I meet saw a girl maybe between the ages of 13to15 at first I thought she came to charge her phone as well and later notice her conversation with the guy in charge of the shop , due to my curiosity I decided to know what they were discussing and I ask the guy if the girl was her younger sister, and he replied like this, no na bros she resemble me, na my smally so as I enquire to knw more I ask again smally as in how, he replied and said boss we day knack na ,I was shock to hear that,and I ask him this small girl how you day do am, and he said boss day there , u think say small girls day again na them day even knack pass those big girls , I started asking my self alot of questions like does the parent of this girl knows more about there daughter if not for the fact that I heard from the guy I wouldn't have believe what I was told , I think parent should focus more on their female child cause most of them knows way more then they look
Don't Blame the girls, remember they learned it from there parents, imagine this picture 👇 and the Woman have a daughter imagine what lesson her daughter will learn from her,the woman has destroyed so many homes, imagine girls watching her contents🙆, just tell me what the girls will gain from it?was it not Bad attitude?
Well, they get informed about sex a lot so they naturally tend to explore. I started having sexual urges when during my reproduction and sex education classes too. Thank God I was in a single-sex school so I didn't have the opportunity to explore. Soany kids however go south
Well, they get informed about sex a lot so they naturally tend to explore. I started having sexual urges when during my reproduction and sex education classes too. Thank God I was in a single-sex school so I didn't have the opportunity to explore. So many kids however go south
the mothers are the one to blame. they're pushing them to men so that they bringing money to them. expecially when they see what the matured lady are doing with money and extra vacant life style. they will be forcing their female daughter to grow quick and become their source of income
I will blame two institutions, government and parents. The government couldn't sanction some programs like bbn and others insensitive program. The parents no longer parent, they fail in their responsibility, all they are after is work and materials life nothing more. In conclusion we are in fail society with fail generation. May God should intervene and help us
