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Struggling Parent Likely To Struggle Till Death by Kingrshd3(op): 2:45pm On Jan 21, 2024
Hi house,
I discovered something and have seen it in nearly like everywhere make I no exaggerate .

Most parents that gave birth it's normal to cater for them from child till adult now let me assume they grow up as an adult then get a job and leave the house for d parents ..

These children forget the parents all because they struggle on their own to feed again and this so called parent have worked all their lives to send this child to school untill adult now that the parents are aging too they are still working working and working ..

Those this simply means giving birth to a child doesn't guarantee rest at old age?

Elders in the house oya óò drop comments
Re: Struggling Parent Likely To Struggle Till Death by Coly2012(m): 2:48pm On Jan 21, 2024
Children are not retirement plan, because life is a cat race, work while you are still young and make plans for old age.
Re: Struggling Parent Likely To Struggle Till Death by Kingrshd3(op): 2:52pm On Jan 21, 2024
Coly2012:
Children are not retirement plan, because life is a cat race, work while you are still young and make plans for old age.
God bless you is like u hitted the nail immediately ✅

Giving birth or not is at ur own peril because they ain't retire plan at all 🙁
Na wá oo
Re: Struggling Parent Likely To Struggle Till Death by yomi007k(m): 2:57pm On Jan 21, 2024
Op you have answered the question yourself.

Giving birth doesn't guarantee rest at old age UNLESS the parents are lucky.
Re: Struggling Parent Likely To Struggle Till Death by Nice2023(m): 3:25pm On Jan 21, 2024
Giving birth does not Guarantee anything but it keeps hope alive and far better than one without a child.

Secondly,there is a saying in my place that says," one doesn’t brag with children because no one knows tomorrow.

Even if you are not ur parents retirement, take it that it's only foolish children that finds it tough to take care of their poor parents at old age.

As an African, there is no excuse too heavy to watch
your parents suffer at old age.
Re: Struggling Parent Likely To Struggle Till Death by Tayorshd87(m): 9:05pm On Jan 21, 2024
He get as he be óò because some
child usually kill their parents.
some child is d source of parents problem .
Some child make d parent to labour for wahala till old age and death.

Some parents blames themselves for giving birth.

What Abt the once that gave birth to physical challenged nko 🤔

He plenty for list abeg 🙏
Make God help us
Re: Struggling Parent Likely To Struggle Till Death by frozen70(f): 9:15pm On Jan 21, 2024
Kingrshd3:
Hi house,
I discovered something and have seen it in nearly like everywhere make I no exaggerate .

Most parents that gave birth it's normal to cater for them from child till adult now let me assume they grow up as an adult then get a job and leave the house for d parents ..

These children forget the parents all because they struggle on their own to feed again and this so called parent have worked all their lives to send this child to school untill adult now that the parents are aging too they are still working working and working ..

Those this simply means giving birth to a child doesn't guarantee rest at old age?

Elders in the house oya óò drop comments
The economy is hard and the children may still be finding their feet and so the parents doesn't want to be an early liability to them

The parents may not want to retire from struggling and do they still have strength to hustle
Re: Struggling Parent Likely To Struggle Till Death by Anunakeeh: 11:55am On Jan 22, 2024
Kingrshd3:
Hi house,
I discovered something and have seen it in nearly like everywhere make I no exaggerate .

Most parents that gave birth it's normal to cater for them from child till adult now let me assume they grow up as an adult then get a job and leave the house for d parents ..

These children forget the parents all because they struggle on their own to feed again and this so called parent have worked all their lives to send this child to school untill adult now that the parents are aging too they are still working working and working ..

Those this simply means giving birth to a child doesn't guarantee rest at old age?

Elders in the house oya óò drop comments
You must not procreate if you are from a poor home in nigeria until you become financially successful.

Else your generations will keep wallowing in abject poverty.
Re: Struggling Parent Likely To Struggle Till Death by Tayorshd87(m): 2:29pm On Jan 22, 2024
frozen70:
The economy is hard and the children may still be finding their feet and so the parents doesn't want to be an early liability to them

The parents may not want to retire from struggling and do they still have strength to hustle
Exactly
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