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You cannot save who does not wish to be saved and the job of saving or correcting her is that of your parents.

Your primary concern should be your peace of mind and saving yourself.

Karma will balance everything out.

Well....you need to let your parents know about the recent happenings.

They should call her up and advice her since she doesn't want to heed to your own advise

If I was in your shoes..... I will cut off from her and allow her to learn her lessons.


I will bear in mind that I don't have a sister. I will focus on myself and ensure that I do great and achieve my dreams. Improve and if possible, move out of the apartment and rent a better place to accommodate my peace of mind.


Not to pray for evil to befall her.... Rather pray that she comes to her senses before it's too late for her....


You can't correct her. The fact that your parents can't do anything about it means that she's taking her freedom for granted. Allow her to explore it and she will return like a prodigal daughter. And if she comes back with pregnancy, let her groom the child herself.

Leave her, there's little you can do. She's an adult who can make decisions for herself and can also live with the consequences of her actions

If u have my kind of heart,just pack out of that environment.

U want to save who,a woman in love...that's absolutely madness.

Alternatively, u can report the matter to the police quietly since ciltism is a crime in Lagos and gets a maximum prison sentence.

There are some lessons a person has to learn on their own. Sha be praying for her.

yomi007k:
You cannot save who does not wish to be saved and the job of saving or correcting her is that of your parents.

Your primary concern should be your peace of mind and saving yourself.

Karma will balance everything out.

As an elder brother, he has every right to correct his younger ones not only the parents

NigeriaIsGreat:
As an elder brother, he has every right to correct his younger ones not only the parents

And if the younger ones refuse, should he lose his life in the process?

confessionsad:
My younger sister has recently begun spending time with a neighbor in our apartment complex, a situation I find troubling. Despite her assurances that their friendship is harmless and she understands what she's involved in, I have reservations. This neighbor, who is part of a confra, engages in drug use, smoking hemp, taking Colorado among other concerning behaviors, and my sister has been increasingly involved with his circle of friends, which has greatly influenced her behavior and character

Over the past year, my concern for my sister has grown as I've noticed a shift in her attitude and behavior, which seems influenced by her new acquaintances. Our conversations about this issue have led to tension between us. Recently, this tension escalated into a physical altercation of me hitting her, which I deeply regret. Following our confrontation, my sister sought the assistance of the boy, who, along with his friends, retaliated against me. This situation left me feeling isolated and unsure of what just happened

I have reached out to our parents for support, but so far, they have not intervened in a way that has led to a resolution. It feels as though I am being positioned as the problem for trying to address these concerns. Despite the challenges, my primary goal remains to find a way to ensure my sister's safety and well-being, even as it seems we've drifted apart since she started associating with this group.

Leave her alone. Stay out of this issue and when the consequences also comes, let her face it alone and don't get involved either.

You have done what every sensible brother will do. Leave her to learn from her mistakes. I pray it's not too late then

Fly wey no dey hear word,dey follow de.ad body enter grave

Your sister does not care about your life if she involved the guy. What if he had injured or killed you? Your parents should be the ones intervening but if they're not, then you too face front and leave her be.

yomi007k:
And if the younger ones refuse, should he lose his life in the process?

correct beating can reset their brain

confessionsad:
My younger sister has recently begun spending time with a neighbor in our apartment complex, a situation I find troubling. Despite her assurances that their friendship is harmless and she understands what she's involved in, I have reservations. This neighbor, who is part of a confra, engages in drug use, smoking hemp, taking Colorado among other concerning behaviors, and my sister has been increasingly involved with his circle of friends, which has greatly influenced her behavior and character

Over the past year, my concern for my sister has grown as I've noticed a shift in her attitude and behavior, which seems influenced by her new acquaintances. Our conversations about this issue have led to tension between us. Recently, this tension escalated into a physical altercation of me hitting her, which I deeply regret. Following our confrontation, my sister sought the assistance of the boy, who, along with his friends, retaliated against me. This situation left me feeling isolated and unsure of what just happened

I have reached out to our parents for support, but so far, they have not intervened in a way that has led to a resolution. It feels as though I am being positioned as the problem for trying to address these concerns. Despite the challenges, my primary goal remains to find a way to ensure my sister's safety and well-being, even as it seems we've drifted apart since she started associating with this group.

If your sister is above 18yrs, just leave her alone

Experience is the best teacher

Sope Otilor. In this situation, it is better to allow her learn from her experience because it is the better teacher.

confessionsad:
■ My younger sister has recently begun spending time with a neighbor in our apartment complex, a situation I find troubling. Despite her assurances that their friendship is harmless and she understands what she's involved in, I have reservations. This neighbor, who is part of a confra, engages in drug use, smoking hemp, taking Colorado among other concerning behaviors, and my sister has been increasingly involved with his circle of friends, which has greatly influenced her behavior and character
Over the past year, my concern for my sister has grown as I've noticed a shift in her attitude and behavior, which seems influenced by her new acquaintances. Our conversations about this issue have led to tension between us. Recently, this tension escalated into a physical altercation of me hitting her, which I deeply regret. Following our confrontation, my sister sought the assistance of the boy, who, along with his friends, retaliated against me. This situation left me feeling isolated and unsure of what just happened
I have reached out to our parents for support, but so far, they have not intervened in a way that has led to a resolution. It feels as though I am being positioned as the problem for trying to address these concerns. Despite the challenges, my primary goal remains to find a way to ensure my sister's safety and well-being, even as it seems we've drifted apart since she started associating with this group.

How old is this younger sister?