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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by TrebleChamp(m): 8:40am On Apr 04
GloriousGbola:


delta? my understanding is that women there give no fks. Edo women too
I think Isoko, Urhobo and some part of Benin mostly, women who marries men from that tribe dare not cheat on thier husband.

Modified.

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 8:45am On Apr 04
TrebleChamp:
I think Isoko, Urhobo and some part of Benin mostly, their married women dare not cheap on thier husband.

grin

Just Dey play !

Let them mandate DNA for women from those places u mentioned and u will be surprised that they cheat as much as their counterparts from other parts of the country

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by iamoyindamola(m): 8:56am On Apr 04
All these barbaric traditions still exist and una they criticize religion
Okay let's pretend to go back to our forefathers religion, the same culture still exist right?
Drinking dead man water, inheriting brother's wife, shaving someone hair against her wish etc
Funny thing is women are at the receiving end abi will the man shave his hair too or drink his dead wife dead water undecided undecided
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by seankafor(m): 8:56am On Apr 04
izzou:


Like i said, i only hear, hear, hear...

I have never experienced it as an Igbo. I have lost my dad, aunts, uncles, and so on, and never did i see anybody drink it

I even started this year with a burial in Imo, and nobody drank anything.

Maybe others who are Igbos can share their personal experiences, but i have never seen it happen
like you said ,these trads are obsolete..the last weird tradition i experienced was like 15 to 20 years ago where an impotents mans wife was brought to one of my kindred man to help him pregnant, and the man helped this guy pregnant his wife..

im a lover of traditions and upholding our old cultures and traditions,but there is just where you draw the line
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by folake4u(f): 8:59am On Apr 04
TrebleChamp:
I think Isoko, Urhobo and some part of Benin mostly, their married women dare not cheap on thier husband.

Loooooooool. Keep playing.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by seankafor(m): 9:00am On Apr 04
iamoyindamola:
All these barbaric traditions still exist and una they criticize religion
Okay let's pretend to go back to our forefathers religion, the same culture still exist right?
Drinking dead man water, inheriting brother's wife, shaving someone hair against her wish etc
Funny thing is women are at the receiving end abi will the man shave his hair too or drink his dead wife dead water undecided undecided
na women dey suffer most for our igbo tradition,infact our men holds little or no regards to women in terms of tradition..lol
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by iamoyindamola(m): 9:05am On Apr 04
seankafor:
na women dey suffer most for our igbo tradition,infact our men holds little or no regards to women in terms of tradition..lol
Not only igbo sef
Marrying off widow to the deceased brother happens in yoruba too
But i think that one is choice
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by GloriousGbola: 9:06am On Apr 04
folake4u:


Loooooooool. Keep playing.

thank God say you say am with ya very full chest tongue
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Theflint1(m): 9:07am On Apr 04
GrammarNazi1:

This is the first time I am learning this.

The widow was usually inherited by the late brother's wife.
Nigerian tribal customs tend to overlap than not.

Gloriousgbola mentioned it being an old Yoruba custom as well, and the one I'm referring to, where the woman is "married" to a child from the deceased husbands family is practiced by certain tribes in Edo State, I'm sure there's several other customs in Nigeria that would have variants of this.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by iamoyindamola(m): 9:07am On Apr 04
Which cell they wan put this idiot now grin grin

https://www.nairaland.com/8050863/efcc-arrests-bobrisky-naira-abuse

They should release his mugshots
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by seankafor(m): 9:09am On Apr 04
iamoyindamola:
Which cell they wan put this idiot now grin grin

https://www.nairaland.com/8050863/efcc-arrests-bobrisky-naira-abuse

They should release his mugshots
yabaleft Don already dry call am she cheesy
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by ouzo1(m): 9:11am On Apr 04
iamoyindamola:
Which cell they wan put this idiot now grin grin

https://www.nairaland.com/8050863/efcc-arrests-bobrisky-naira-abuse

They should release his mugshots

Na Female cell Dem put senior man o.. grin
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by iamoyindamola(m): 9:14am On Apr 04
ouzo1:


Na Female cell Dem put senior man o.. grin
Why
The inmates should sue efcc then
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by iamoyindamola(m): 9:15am On Apr 04
seankafor:
yabaleft Don already dry call am she cheesy
Shebi police say he's crossdressing
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by GrammarNazi1(m): 9:17am On Apr 04
Theflint1:
Nigerian tribal customs tend to overlap than not.

Gloriousgbola mentioned it being an old Yoruba custom as well, and the one I'm referring to, where the woman is "married" to a child from the deceased husbands family is practiced by certain tribes in Edo State, I'm sure there's several other customs in Nigeria that would have variants of this.
Understood.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by A001: 9:20am On Apr 04
It's humans that create cultures and traditions, not any divine entity. Good elements of culture and traditions such as compassionate science, wise sayings and proverbs that teach morality, and other beneficial traditions need to be promoted.

However, the bad ones such as religion, slavery, caste system, and forcing/coercing widows to remarry within the late husband's family, etc., should be abolished because they do more harm than good overall, especially in modern times.

Humans create all cultures and traditions in the world, not God. God is a man-made construct.

Every culture around the world has its good and bad aspects. It's always good to promote good aspects of one's culture and traditions and condemn the bad elements.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by afrodoc2: 9:20am On Apr 04
TrebleChamp:
I think Isoko, Urhobo and some part of Benin mostly, their married women dare not cheap on thier husband.

Shall we tell him? 🤐
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by ouzo1(m): 9:21am On Apr 04
iamoyindamola:

Why
The inmates should sue efcc then

I just tire for Efcc, I dey wait to see and hear reactions from concerned citizens cus me I no send senior man matter.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by iamoyindamola(m): 9:23am On Apr 04
ouzo1:


I just tire for Efcc, I dey wait to see and hear reactions from concerned citizens cus me I no send senior man matter.
Portable fit bribe some brotherhood in male prison to mend our sisterhood face grin grin
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by ouzo1(m): 9:31am On Apr 04
iamoyindamola:

Portable fit bribe some brotherhood in male prison to mend our sisterhood face grin grin

I trust my artiste for that one die..... Portable Ft Verydarkman
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by folake4u(f): 9:35am On Apr 04
GloriousGbola:


thank God say you say am with ya very full chest tongue

Lol. He knows nothing.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by OasisX: 9:41am On Apr 04
Theflint1:
Ehen, you see why I talk say na rookie numbers, you sef based on your levels fit use strong head generate this 11mw wey the state dey post as achievement.

grin

.......he promises to build mega station before end of his tenure, so let's see. Luckily for Oyo, there is huge dam in Iseyin, they should work on hydroelectric power project.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by OasisX: 9:42am On Apr 04
afrodoc2:


Shall we tell him? 🤐

cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by OasisX: 9:51am On Apr 04
......I don't know whether the news is real or just a rumor but someone sew a thread for it on X with pictorial evidence to back it up.

https://twitter.com/Siroluaye/status/1775738016193032433?t=9Z9BaiNqz-6gq1tgc8ekug&s=19

Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 9:54am On Apr 04
GloriousGbola:


delta? my understanding is that women there give no fks. Edo women too
Understanding from where? Where did you get this understanding from. Calm down before typing things you have no idea of.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 10:00am On Apr 04
TrebleChamp:
I think Isoko, Urhobo and some part of Benin mostly, their married women dare not cheap on thier husband.

Urhobo, Isoko and Esan women are covered when it comes to that regard. Na only Yoruba people their wife dey cheat on pass.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by GloriousGbola: 10:02am On Apr 04
Melvyn11:

Understanding from where? Where did you get this understanding from. Calm down before typing things you have no idea of.

Fortunately others have confirmed what you are in expected denial of tongue
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 10:09am On Apr 04
TrebleChamp:
You will be amazed with what some tribes practice as tradition in this country till this day. In some parts of Edo and Delta State, a married woman cannot cheap on her husband. Any woman that does will die a slow and painful death, yet married men can cheat on their wives and nothing happens.
Point of correction the married man is not cheating. The man is entitled to as many wives and concubines as he can afford and take care of. We practice polygamy not monogamy.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 10:10am On Apr 04
GloriousGbola:


Fortunately others have confirmed what you are in expected denial of tongue
Confirm what?
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by OasisX: 10:12am On Apr 04
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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by TrebleChamp(m): 10:15am On Apr 04
Itsrm:


Because the tradition is a ruse and it does not work.

The women have since realised. No be Janemena Tonto Dike ex husband be dey knack wetin no good while still in her husbands house. She's from Isoko in Delta State.
Bro that tradition is not a ruse ooh, plus Tonto Dike married a Yoruba Man. I think it only affect women who did traditional marriage with Isoko/Urhobo/Benin men, I don't know for court or church wedding sha. Why do you think Isreal DMW has been boasting that his ex-wife Sheila cannot sleep with another man. The tradition (curse) may be broken if the woman returns the bride price and the husband accept it.

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 10:15am On Apr 04
* Shaving the woman's hair is just a mourning ritual for the late husband. Nothing barbaric about it

*Drinking the water use to bath the late husband only happens when the woman is suspected to have an hand in the husband's death. If she is involved it's believe she will start confessing. Its hardly even practiced again.


* Passing the widow to the brother is so that she can have someone take care of her and the children. Its basically telling the brother that he is now responsible for his late brother's wife and children. Something you should realize is that all these culture was from a time when women didn't really do much to provide for the home so a man presence is needed.

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