MrBrownJay1:


what reality are you talking about? are Nigerians not opening businesses any longer? are Nigerians not buying used cars any longer? are Nigerians not traveling out (japa) any longer? as i said earlier, if you got a woman pregnant and you are unsure if the child is yours or not then you MUSTfind a way to do dna test rather than possibly raising a bastard child for 18yrs.

all these yeye lifestyles that you guys are trying to feed us should NEVER EVER happen... aka yeye men happily raising bastard children (calling us "gay" because we suggest to do DNA test if unsure of a child's paternity)!

this is not an attack on (Nigerian) women or marrying (Nigerian) women, its a direct attack on low life deceitful wh0res out there trying to have innocent men unknowingly raising their bastard children.

Let's face it..Nigerians will rather spend 100k on these ventures than do a DNA test for all of their children..
Not only that, their comrades are taking the pressure up a notch and saying they need to use more than 1 DNA company.

Talk is cheap...

The average nigerian man isn't about to do all of that 🤣

MrBrownJay1:


Nigerians are some of the most resourceful people on earth, and when it matters, they easily can come out on top.

Tell them to come out of POVERTY na
Tell them to come out of insecurity
Tell them to come out of unemployment
Tell them to come out of kidnapping
Tell them to come out of corruption
Tell them to come out of electing bad leaders every four years
Tell them to come out of Hunger
Tell them to come out of power epilepsy
Tell them to come out of banditary
Tell them to come out of bokoharam

They never dream to come out of all these major problem na paternity test they wan come out of

You must be a comedian and at this point i won't engage you anymore

1Sharon:
Let's face it..Nigerians will rather spend 100k on these ventures than do a DNA test for all of their children..
Not only that, their comrades are taking the pressure up a notch and saying they need to use more than 1 DNA company.

Talk is cheap...

The average nigerian man isn't about to do all of that 🤣

so you believe that the average Nigerian man would happily raise a child that he has paternity doubts upon? spend the little he has on a child that he doesnt even know is his or not?

yes Nigerians would rather spend 100k on a lot of other useless things, but when PATERNITY UNCERTAINTY creeps in, that would be the most important thing in their life, by far!

NO RED BLOODED MAN WOULD RATHER RAISE A CHILD (NOT KNOWING IF THAT CHILD IS HIS OR NOT), THAN MAKING SURE FIRST AND FOREMOST THAT THIS CHILD IS HIS, BEFORE PAYING FOR THAT CHILD'S UPKEEP.

in which world you guys are living that men are knowingly raising these bastard children (with a smile on their face)?

MrBrownJay1:


you are the one chasing yeye clout... 1st it was too expensive, now its something else... again, whether Minimum salary is 30k or even 5k. NO MAN ON EARTH SHOULD RAISE BASTARD CHILDREN THAT AINT HIS, and therefore any poor man who impregnated a woman (that he is unsure of the paternity) better go do whatever he can to get dna test rather than raising bastard children.

common Nigerian family men are coughing much more than 500k for various things/gadget/businesses/cars etc out there...paternity test is no different. look around you: better phones in people's hands (how much is Iphone/Samsung sef?); fuel super high yet people are still driving cars that are worth much more than dna test; people opening new businesses; women buying yeye fake hair and all the beauty products out there that they use...

if some women can go sell their nyansh to buy Iphone and wigs, then men can definitely hustle to pay for dna test TO KEEP THEIR DIGNITY

you're one of those Nigerian men that cannot afford paternity test for their children prove me wrong with your account balance

UnfairLife7:


Tell them to come out of POVERTY na
Tell them to come out of insecurity
Tell them to come out of unemployment
Tell them to come out of kidnapping
Tell them to come out of corruption
Tell them to come out of electing bad leaders every four years
Tell them to come out of Hunger
Tell them to come out of power epilepsy
Tell them to come out of banditary
Tell them to come out of bokoharam

They never dream to come out of all these major problem na paternity test they wan come out of

You must be a comedian and at this point i won't engage you anymore

go outside, see the amount of cars queueing at petrol stations, selling petrol at god know how much, then come here trying to fool us that Nigerians are so broke, they cant even pay for anything on earth (let alone a dna test)

MrBrownJay1:


what reality are you talking about? are Nigerians not opening businesses any longer? are Nigerians not buying used cars any longer? are Nigerians not traveling out (japa) any longer? as i said earlier, if you got a woman pregnant and you are unsure if the child is yours or not then you MUST find a way to do dna test rather than possibly raising a bastard child for 18yrs.

all these yeye lifestyles that you guys are trying to feed us should NEVER EVER happen... aka yeye men happily raising bastard children (calling us "gay" because we suggest to do DNA test if unsure of a child's paternity)!

this is not an attack on (Nigerian) women or marrying (Nigerian) women, its a direct attack on low life deceitful wh0res out there trying to have innocent men unknowingly raising their bastard children.

you be small pikin so you're free fooling yourself as you like. Naija men no get money for paternity test for their children. Who never chop belle full no dey talk of DNA test. 95% of Nigerian men no get money to do DNA test for their children.

UnfairLife7:
you're one of those Nigerian men that cannot afford paternity test for their children prove me wrong with your account balance

@MrBrownJay1

Prove us wrong with your account balance

UnfairLife7:
you're one of those Nigerian men that cannot afford paternity test for their children prove me wrong with your account balance

VTJN:
@MrBrownJay1
Prove us wrong with your account balance

me i cannot afford 150K o (even 10k sef), so i will save every month until i save enough for the test, even if it lasts 5/10yrs. only a very foolish person would expect Nigerian men to just forget it and just raise that possibly bastard child.

MrBrownJay1:



me i cannot afford 150K o (even 10k sef), so i will save every month until i save enough for the test, even if it lasts 5/10yrs. only a very foolish person would expect Nigerian men to just forget it and just raise that possibly bastard child.

this doesn't sound at all, how can you tell someone who barely feed to survive, no savings, to raise 100k go do DNA

Those that really make sense to you.. 100k na joke..

VTJN:
you be small pikin so you're free fooling yourself as you like. Naija men no get money for paternity test for their children. Who never chop belle full no dey talk of DNA test. 95% of Nigerian men no get money to do DNA test for their children.

yes sir, you are right !about the above, so now Nigerians shouldnt save small small for dna test, and instead they should raise these possibly bastard children, abi?!

i understand you'd rather raise possibly bastard children than have a DNA test... and thats ok but pls dont expect every Nigerians to be YEYE IGNORANT SIMPs raising these bastard children. thats a simp mentality.

MrBrownJay1:


yes sir, you are right !about the above, so now Nigerians shouldnt save small small for dna test, and instead they should raise these possibly bastard children, abi?!

i understand you'd rather raise possibly bastard children than have a DNA test... and thats ok but pls dont expect every Nigerians to be YEYE IGNORANT SIMPs raising these bastard children. thats a simp mentality.

na someone that carry hoe his expectations to save and do DNA tests, Oga not all women are the same..

superintendents:
this doesn't sound at all, how can you tell someone who barely feed to survive, no savings, to raise 100k go do DNA

Those that really make sense to you.. 100k na joke..

- is raising a possibly bastard child for 18yrs (that eventually will cost you 1000 times more than 100k) a joke to you?

superintendents:
na someone that carry hoe his expectations to save and do DNA tests, Oga not all women are the same..

we are not discussing about what type of women men are carrying....we are discussing the possible PATERNITY DOUBTS that any man can have, and thereafter save however he has to to get a paternity test, to remove the doubts from his mind.

what man in his right mind would want to raise/care/cherish a child that possibly aint his, for 18 long years minimum?

MrBrownJay1:



me i cannot afford 150K o (even 10k sef), so i will save every month until i save enough for the test, even if it lasts 5/10yrs. only a very foolish person would expect Nigerian men to just forget it and just raise that possibly bastard child.

i know you're a broke man. Right from day one i always tell those that care to listen, any guy that derived joy in bashing women or try as much as he can to ridicule women are nothing but BROKE guy. 95% of guys on this nairaland that does that are obviously dead broke guys. It is a known fact to any sane person. No guy doing fine for himself will have that luxury of time bashing women. It's not possible

These broke guys literally see any guy taking care or having a marriage proposal to their woman as SIMP. Their misery want company obviously and they forgot planet Earth doesn't revolve around them

These women are getting married every fvcking Saturday. You only have a say to your life not to anyone's life.

MrBrownJay1:


- is raising a possibly bastard child for 18yrs (that eventually will cost you 1000 times more than 100k) a joke to you?

if I raised bastard unknowingly is equall to nothing..

So I don't have to think twice about it, depend on the kind woman I have..

MrBrownJay1:


we are not discussing about what type of women men are carrying....we are discussing the possible PATERNITY DOUBTS that any man can have, and thereafter save however he has to to get a paternity test, [/b]to remove the doubts from his mind.[b]

what man in his right mind would want to raise/care/cherish a child that possibly aint his, for 18 long years minimum?

that's what I want you to know, boldly, that doubts with DNA or without it, it kills marriage totally, you don't have to be doubting that some of your kids are not yours, don't even bother to get married to a woman u would be doubting on.. Is not cool at all,

VTJN:
i know you're a broke man. Right from day one i always tell those that care to listen, any guy that derived joy in bashing women or try as much as he can to ridicule women are nothing but BROKE guy. 95% of guys on this nairaland that does that are obviously dead broke guys. It is a known fact to any sane person. No guy doing fine for himself will have that luxury of time bashing women. It's not possible

These broke guys literally see any guy taking care or having a marriage proposal to their woman as SIMP. Their misery want company obviously and they forgot planet Earth doesn't revolve around them

These women are getting married every fvcking Saturday. You only have a say to your life not to anyone's life.

the problem with you people is that you have such a yeye narrow minded way of thinking, so every time someone has an opinion, you make it a male vs female issue. when i bash yeye men for their actions, you are the same ignoramus that will now call me women wrapper.
now if you had a damn brain, and understood common English, you would have read my initial post on this issue where i equally put the blame on MEN... but sadly, now you wanna twist this discussion as if its an issue to ridicule women.
so now DNA TEST IS TO RIDICULE WOMEN ABI, BWAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!

again, the above is MY HUMBLE OPINION... you can either take it, or take it,

i really do feel sorry for men like you living such a miserable life, possibly raising bastard children.

MrBrownJay1:


yes sir, you are right !about the above, so now Nigerians shouldnt save small small for dna test, and instead they should raise these possibly bastard children, abi?!

i understand you'd rather raise possibly bastard children than have a DNA test... and thats ok but pls dont expect every Nigerians to be YEYE IGNORANT SIMPs raising these bastard children. thats a simp mentality.

they never save to tackle the Hunger wey dey naija na to save for DNA test your mumu no get rival

VTJN:
they never save to tackle the Hunger wey dey naija na to save for DNA test your mumu no get rival

I wonder my bro, 100k can really go a long way despite recession in the country,..

superintendents:
that's what I want you to know, boldly, that doubts with DNA or without it, it kills marriage totally, you don't have to be doubting that some of your kids are not yours, don't even bother to get married to a woman u would be doubting on.. Is not cool at all,

you are absolutely RIGHT.. any paternity doubts in marriage will kill that marriage, but ignoring such doubts is equally wrong.

if at the time of conception, your wife cheated with your neighbor (for example), wouldnt you do ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING in your power to figure out who the biological father of that child is... OR would you just ignore this paternity issue and possibly raise a bastard child?!

superintendents:
that's what I want you to know, boldly, that doubts with DNA or without it, it kills marriage totally, you don't have to be doubting that some of your kids are not yours, don't even bother to get married to a woman u would be doubting on.. Is not cool at all,

seriously most of these guys no just get sense. Someone advise him to leave women alone instead and date his fellow men that won't bring in bastard children, is that not a beautiful advise that will avoid all these their epistle?

Now you also told him never to think that any of his children or all are not his or rather he should marry someone he trust and there won't be any need for that. That's another brilliant idea. Watch how the mumu go give you reason not to follow any of the advice

VTJN:
seriously most of these guys no just get sense. Someone advise him to leave women alone instead and date his fellow men that won't bring in bastard children, is that not a beautiful advise that will avoid all these their epistle?

Now you also told him never to think that any of his children or all are not his or rather he should marry someone he trust and there won't be any need for that. That's another brilliant idea. Watch how the mumu go give you reason not to follow any of the advice

MrBrownJay1:


the problem with you people is that you have such a yeye narrow minded way of thinking, so every time someone has an opinion, you make it a male vs female issue. when i bash yeye men for their actions, you are the same ignoramus that will now call me women wrapper.
now if you had a damn brain, and understood common English, you would have read my initial post on this issue where i equally put the blame on MEN... but sadly, now you wanna twist this discussion as if its an issue to ridicule women.
so now DNA TEST IS TO RIDICULE WOMEN ABI, BWAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!

again, the above is MY HUMBLE OPINION... you can either take it, or take it,

i really do feel sorry for men like you living such a miserable life, possibly raising bastard children.

you're a dead broke man so you dedicate all your time discussing about women

VTJN:
they never save to tackle the Hunger wey dey naija na to save for DNA test your mumu no get rival

we don hear sir... every Nigerians are poor and cant afford a dna test nor can they afford to save any money, so they should instead raise bastard children in peace... have a great day!

VTJN:
you're a dead broke man so you dedicate all your time discussing about women

yes o, i am super broke. i live in Nigeria in some gutter...

superintendents:
I wonder my bro, 100k can really go a long way despite recession in the country,..

i believe he knows all these. Him and his group of alpha male abi na half nale are just fooling themselves due to hatred they had against women.

Thank God they don't own the oxygen women breathe in daily. I wonder what'd have happen to our women

MrBrownJay1:


you are absolutely RIGHT.. any paternity doubts in marriage will kill that marriage, but ignoring such doubts is equally wrong.

if at the time of conception, your wife cheated with your neighbor (for example), wouldnt you do ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING in your power to figure out who the biological father of that child is... OR would you just ignore this paternity issue and possibly raise a bastard child?!

does DNA test guarantee not cheating you, if your woman can hav an affair with your neighbor, you think DNA is the solution
Why if they always use protection?

Can DNA show that too?

if your woman would cheat you she must and possibly go free, and later na you go raise your kids, is that okay to you.. To cheat you.. or for you to raise your kids is your problem?

MrBrownJay1:


we don hear sir... every Nigerians are poor and cant afford a dna test nor can they afford to save any money, so they should instead raise bastard children in peace... have a great day!



yes o, i am super broke. i live in Nigeria in some gutter...

Go back to your alpha male group to get more coaching you need to put in more energy while those women keep progressing daily

VTJN:
i believe he knows all these. Him and his group of alpha male abi na half nale are just fooling themselves due to hatred they had against women.

Thank God they don't own the oxygen women breathe in daily. I wonder what'd have happen to our women

Most of them are not financially comfortable to married that's why they cut their coat according to their size

superintendents:
does DNA test guarantee not cheating you, if your woman can hav an affair with your neighbor, you think DNA is the solution
Why if they always use protection?

Can DNA show that too?

if your woman would cheat you she must and possibly go free, and later na you go raise your kids, is that okay to you.. To cheat you or for you to raise your kids is your problem?

again, the issue of this thread is about DNA testing for a man's kid, not "how to prevent your woman from cheating"... if you want us to discuss cheating then open a thread on the subject and i will oblige... BUT if a man (for whatever reason) has paternity doubts over his children, then the ONLY solution is a dna test. if that man doesnt have the money to pay for a dna test "now", then he MUST SAVE (FOR HOWEVER LONG IT IS NEEDED) UNTIL HE DOES...rather than forgetting his paternity doubts and jejely accepting to raise a possibly bastard child.

superintendents:

Most of them are not financially comfortable to married that's why they cut their coat according to their size

Lol

You truly sabi them wella

I get one for my area. The guy is in his 40s, broke and still living with his parents. Instead of baba to focus on his life he's busy calling himself alpha male the werey always call young successful guys simp for taking care of their woman. They're just frustrated due to their condition. I understand their predicament though but women are the wrong people to channel their frustrated life to seriously.

MrBrownJay1:


again, the issue of this thread is about DNA testing for a man's kid, not "how to prevent your woman from cheating"... if you want us to discuss cheating then open a thread on the subject and i will oblige... BUT if a man (for whatever reason) has paternity doubts over his children, then the ONLY solution is a dna test. if that man doesnt have the money to pay for a dna test "now", then he MUST SAVE (FOR HOWEVER LONG IT IS NEEDED) UNTIL HE DOES...rather than forgetting his paternity doubts and jejely accepting to raise a possibly bastard child.

you are a joker my bro,

VTJN:
Lol

You truly sabi them wella

I get one for my area. The guy is in his 40s, broke and still living with his parents. Instead of baba to focus on his life he's busy calling himself alpha male the werey always call young successful guys simp for taking care of their woman. They're just frustrated due to their condition. I understand their predicament though but women are the wrong people to channel their frustrated life to seriously.

you are 1000% correct..
am one of them before .
All because I don't have money and others are doing well, so by that time am claiming red pill, just to cover up..
Honestly the hates towards women is too much, I wonder those guys na only man born una or what... I focus in life and switch..

I know alpha more than so call Andre tate