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jaxxy:
u mean expose his marriage and family to public disgrace and ridicle? including the children?


And after that what next?


Better think b4 u destroy ur family further with childish actions.

It won't instead it will create a buffer and constraints for the woman since he wanted to keep her. Any time she messed up he will remind her of what she did, it's all a mind game

Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as I type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her.

There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but I keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much.

Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation.

It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all.

Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice.

Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?

Don't forgive a cheating wife.

NEVER.

guysbewise:
Hacking a wife's phone without her permission is an offence. So him showing it to them can get him into more trouble.

na Nigeria we day

achimendy:
After the whole thing just walk away.

Exactly

[quote author=Coolgent post=129778234]Sorry for this unfortunate situation you found yourself in.
Firstly... communication is the key gather evidence and confront your wife and she must tell you the reason why she engaged into adultery.
Secondly... cut any kind of relationship even if it us churchy thing between your wife and the adulterer.
Lastly... tell her you will forgive her only if she swear that this gonna be tha last time she will do such appalling thing!


Thanks so much!!!

marksonrick:
Women can't be predicted, you wouldn't know where you went wrong.

These days, it's as if a shot on any woman and she'll fall for it.

Now you know how women feel

You don’t even need to take a shot on a man, many are cheaper than Oxygen

Ynix:
It won't instead it will create a buffer and constraints for the woman since he wanted to keep her. Any time she messed up he will remind her of what she did, it's all a mind game

buy playing the video for the world to see?

what makes u think the public shame to all her family won't have a worse effect on her and even his family and the other man's family?

Tallesty1:
Let us see your marriage certificate then we will know how to advise you.

your common sense is not common.

Hmm
You don't need any advice here coz you've already stated what you want.

You be mumu man. You wife is fvckin another man for real, you are here blabbing "I love my wife" just shut up and take the pvssy sharing. Welcome her home with kisses and hugs after she comes home with another man's cum in her pvssy and play loving dog role like you are.

Ynix:
Do all you can to record all their conversations, pretend as if all is well and after that call for a special meeting preferably on her birthday and invite your parents, her parents and the boss of yours then show up all the evidences, and keep Mute after

E no pass like that!!! Keep mute

Ynix:
Do all you can to record all their conversations, pretend as if all is well and after that call for a special meeting preferably on her birthday and invite your parents, her parents and the boss of yours then show up all the evidences, and keep Mute after

Badt Niggha
You're so damn on point, I will do exactly what you said if I am in his shoes!!

Lexusgs430:
Start by conducting a DNA on your children, this would determine if you are willing to forgive her or not...........

help me with the mod version of the vpnify app please sir

Ynix:
Do all you can to record all their conversations, pretend as if all is well and after that call for a special meeting preferably on her birthday and invite your parents, her parents and the boss of yours then show up all the evidences, and keep Mute after

I agree with your suggestions with some reservations:
- This OP is not showing seriousness in his own matter,so something is fundamentally wrong here!
- So,can OP tell the World that he owns those Children- he is calling his Children or may be he is waiting for a DNA solutions to make him stand, afterall your 'boss love to your wife is deep' and your are not ready to ask the weres' question to give you space?
• You don't need to wait for a y Special day- just call your Family and hers and burst the yeye thing!
Call the Boss attention - by printing out all their discussions,so that they are shamed and shattered!
•Don't forget the DNA Solutions - to know if you are safe!

Iykegodslove:
Thanks!!

If you're interested in reconciliation as you said, don't involve your family members. Keep it away from your parents.
Get only her family involved, unless she comes from irresponsible family.

Iykegodslove:
Thanks!!

you don't have to involve your family since you already know you don't want to divorce her. You can invite only her family as that would make her put an end to it

how were u able to hack her call..make I learn abeg 🙏

Will you still forgive her if you eventually finds out that you're not the father to one of your so called kids Think about this.

Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as I type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her.

There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but I keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much.

Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation.

It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all.

Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice.

Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?

YOU
DON'T HAVE CUTLASS?

If you don’t send her away, you won’t live long on earth, not a curse but FACT.

Iykegodslove:
The bond i tie with my children is very strong. Even though it happens that i am not their biological father, they remain my children. So, DNA not needed. Thanks

stvpidass SIMPle guy.

you may notice i didnt call you a man, cause u r surely NOT a man.

This story is fiction. You claim you are a farmer and don't work for anyone but yet you claim he is your boss. He is your boss in the farm?

Besides, farmers don't make 500k per month.

The only moral from this fiction for guys is that other guys will sleep with your wife whilst you are on minimum wage

KingLennon:
You say wetin? It seems u're a SIMPle man

a child born under your roof belongs to you. Unless you intentionally want to throw such child away having realised through DNA that the child wasn't yours. A sperm donor isn't the owner of a child but someone that singlehandedly raise a child

Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as I type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her.

There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but I keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much.

Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation.

It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all.

Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice.

Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?

if I tell u wats on my mind now, I will get banned..ur lucky day...


I'm glad u aren't my family member

Adonko:
Sincerely advising you is not that easy cos you are the one wearing the shoe and you know were it hurts most.

Be that as it may...if your woman have been indulging in this thing for long and have been behaving normal as if nothing is happening....am talking about a married woman with kids given the husband is not far away and she sees him everyday and she is not even girlfriend but a wife is a major cause for concern..and it shows her level of heartlessness.

Furthermore...you are currently standing on a keg of gun powder given the fact that you know and she does not know that you know can result in high BP resulting in deteriorating health issues and by extension untimely death. Sincerely I don't envy you at all.

Also...I smell from your write up given you are a church goer (a Christian ) you are scared of the scandal of divorce (if there is any these days ) and your kids loosing thier mom..but you forgot even the bible gave ground to put away your wife only on the ground of infidelity which she has crossed.

In conclusion...I will suggest you start thinking and putting things in place to live a life without that woman cos she's very dangerous to live with cos once a woman start sleeping with other men not to talk of sticking to one for long..it means you are finished.

If I were in your shoe I will cross my heart and scatter the full table by doing the following..cos am not going to go down alone...

1. Like the first commenter advise get solid evidence and present it to the said lover's wife as well as family members .

2. Present the evidence to his pastors and matured church members as well as his neighbourhood and work place.

3. As for the woman ...since you don't want divorce I really don't know what you say...cos oneday you will be so furious about it that you will hit her and go to jail..I don't care if she has been your helper since Adam is not a yardstick to cheat ..she is just a cheap hoe..

I once had a lady who slept with an NNPC worker claiming the man said that is the only way he can get the job she requested from him for her boyfriend which is me.. by 5am the next morning she was already an ex..

Go count your teeth with your tongue man and act well you only live life once no spare.

look at how ur are dispensing energy typing all these....some ppl really have time

Seunpapa65:
In our culture it's believed that woman wey the play away match and use the same hands to Cook for the man can lead to death of the man

Actually it's not good

Adonko:
Sincerely advising you is not that easy cos you are the one wearing the shoe and you know were it hurts most.

Be that as it may...if your woman have been indulging in this thing for long and have been behaving normal as if nothing is happening....am talking about a married woman with kids given the husband is not far away and she sees him everyday and she is not even girlfriend but a wife is a major cause for concern..and it shows her level of heartlessness.

Furthermore...you are currently standing on a keg of gun powder given the fact that you know and she does not know that you know can result in high BP resulting in deteriorating health issues and by extension untimely death. Sincerely I don't envy you at all.

Also...I smell from your write up given you are a church goer (a Christian ) you are scared of the scandal of divorce (if there is any these days ) and your kids loosing thier mom..but you forgot even the bible gave ground to put away your wife only on the ground of infidelity which she has crossed.

In conclusion...I will suggest you start thinking and putting things in place to live a life without that woman cos she's very dangerous to live with cos once a woman start sleeping with other men not to talk of sticking to one for long..it means you are finished.

If I were in your shoe I will cross my heart and scatter the full table by doing the following..cos am not going to go down alone...

1. Like the first commenter advise get solid evidence and present it to the said lover's wife as well as family members .

2. Present the evidence to his pastors and matured church members as well as his neighbourhood and work place.

3. As for the woman ...since you don't want divorce I really don't know what you say...cos oneday you will be so furious about it that you will hit her and go to jail..I don't care if she has been your helper since Adam is not a yardstick to cheat ..she is just a cheap hoe..

I once had a lady who slept with an NNPC worker claiming the man said that is the only way he can get the job she requested from him for her boyfriend which is me.. by 5am the next morning she was already an ex..

Go count your teeth with your tongue man and act well you only live life once no spare.

he said he doesn't want to divorce her so i don't think all these are needed. He should just let both his wife and boss know their secrets is already open with evidence and he should inform his wife parents too

Ynix:
Do all you can to record all their conversations, pretend as if all is well and after that call for a special meeting preferably on her birthday and invite your parents, her parents and the boss of yours then show up all the evidences, and keep Mute after

This is wise advice.

Thundafireseun:
I just confirmed that this story is a fictional story in secret search of likes and comments

because he didn't do what you expected or want then that automatically makes it untrue and fictional?

Iykegodslove:
The bond i tie with my children is very strong. Even though it happens that i am not their biological father, they remain my children. So, DNA not needed. Thanks

You are an idiot then. A fool at that. Thats why after you have known that she is fvcking the man, you can't still man up and face her. I doubt if your story is true anyway.

Elzazzi:
Actually it's not good

Why is it not good I have seen it happens although it's not necessarily that the man would die but life will be a living hell for you

Seunpapa65:
Why is it not good I have seen it happens although it's not necessarily that the man would die but life will be a living hell for you

You are right. A cheating woman is a disaster that should be avoided.