Pepperdemisback:

Just 2 years? Just pray nothing happens to her in your custody, you will live the remaining of your life behind bars without trials.
She will endure anything from you and your family because the shame will be on her if she complains.

You speak out of ignorance and emotional diabetes,sometimes it is better to just keep shut,silence is golden.You don't know the picture nor have the details so hold your peace and don't be quick to judge least you make your self look ......d.

This is what you get when you spend your YOUNG years chasing Sugar Daddies,.....

onadana:


You speak out of ignorance and emotional diabetes,sometimes it is better to just keep shut,silence is golden.You don't know the picture nor have the details so hold your peace and don't be quick to judge least you make your self look ......d.

Just say you are too poor to buy 2 packets of biscuits they demanded from you because they stopped her allowance when they detected she was feeding you. She was pregnant and didn't want to be a baby mama, Period!
No wonder, so this is how you address her family? Go and make money! Ewu Gambia!

cococandy:
They want him to marry someone they handpicked for him so that he’ll be miserable.

Then while married he’ll be running games on the side because his heart is not in the marriage. People will really wish misery on you just so that you can fit into a box they designed for you.

The whole public statement is disgusting in and off itself

It is not THEY, it is just the father.

His parents are separated.

They are obviously not close to the father as he most likely has other wives.

This is the typical situation where the man thinks they would fall back to him during their wedding and they didn't.

The guy's siblings and mother were all present at the wedding.

The father can't win this one. He is a Lagos old money that asides having a street to their name, have lived their time.

At first I thought it was the whole family and thought to myself, she is s___d.

Wofai is not 38. At best she is 33. When did she graduate from UNICAL to be 38?

Tallesty1:

Never heard of him oo, it is the lady we know.

They don't make noise, their generation has been rich.

pocohantas:


It is not THEY, it is just the father.

His parents are separated.

They are obviously not close to the father as he most likely has other wives

This is the typical situation where the man thinks they would fall back to him during their wedding and they didn't.

The guy's siblings and mother were all present at the wedding.

The father can't win this one. He is a typical Lagos old money that asides having a street to their name, have lived their time.

At first I thought it was the whole family and thought to myself, she is s___d.

Wofai is not 38. At best she is 33. When did she graduate from UNICAL to be 38?

Inspector Poco has become more lagosian than lagosians

She has the full lowdown

See these mumu family, the dickk choose her and shes pregnant with their son and they still claim ignorant,

GloriousGbola:


Inspector Poco has become more lagosian than lagosians

She has the full lowdown

NL no dey quick bring update. That is why I love Twitter. His secondary school mates are speaking up and they are pissed that his family is called old money. Say shishi them no get and dude was a bully. I am angry at Wofai sef. The guy no fine and I am sure asides being a "Cole", he has nothing much to his name.

Na wetin dey pain me for grown hardworking women be this. Look at all the drama. Wofai that has zero scandal in all her entertainment years is now being accused of runs by NL dregs. If you want to be a gold-digger, do a good job. Wetin be Cole? Shey na charcoal? No be person marry Fashola pikin? Radarada!

obaidan:
Dear young girls,

He is not my type, he is not rich enough, he is not trendy enough, he is not tall dark and handsome, he doesn't have full beards. He is not this, he is not that. Dem dey tell una now, una dey find weytin no lost.
Shey u see weytin dey happen to ur role models at 38. This babe still dey lucky na, shey the boy still decided to go ahead with her against the wish of his family, plenty babes dey for street, dem no even mind make the family of the man even do billboard and advert on NTA news to rubbish them like ds, make the boy just decide to be with them. Even if e no Marry them, make e just dey for dem like bf or fiance, make dem for get chance of pregnancy.

The babe dey play with fire sha, make nothing happen to the boy o, otherwise she go pay lawyer money tire. She no go jail o but they will unsettle her in a very big way

Gdfo.

sunsweet33:


I think this is the bone of contention…how many parents bother to bond with and understand their kids?

The way you are approaching it is from a nice angle but just know that majority of African parents are not as enlightened as you. They merely see their relationship with their child as a means of control and subjugation rather than an expression of love.

If we even look closely it seems that this guy is even lashing out after a lifetime of being misunderstood!

That's the very firsts thing that struck me when I first read the post.......but the girl is the more foolish person here. I don't know her....I had to use Google to discover her. In her mind let them do what they want she will not sacrifice anything for this event.....emphasis being on the wedding ceremonies ...... She will deal with the consequences later. She is obviously desperate and there is nothing wrong with that......it's the handling that matters. All she needed to do was to in all humility cultivate a tight relationship with some other members of the family especially the boys mother. It would take time but then it would work......and if it doesn't work you move on. This option is like living your life walking sometimes on thorns and nails and then other times on eggs.

Don't underestimate the successes of private detectives in Nigeria. I am still amazed at what they can achieve. And the family is supposedly a well known and well to do one.

I don't envy her at all.

When real men are talking SIMPs like this will also be draging us on Nairaland … Wofia wey everybody don knack clean mouth … wey no get value na m u gather wan go wife am … Teuhhh

Tallesty1:

That is very possible but I don't like to base conclusion on assumptions.

The father complained of the girls age and also the fact that the two families never met, this is may or may not be entirely true.

For instance, it could be an extension of the beef between his father and mom, they are divorced.
They Mom is okay with the union, she was there, it is the father's people that are missing, you get?

I am not sure what the actual case is but it is less likely the girl's fault.

Absent/estranged fathers always love to show themselves at their child's wedding. It's their last attempt at control and getting relevancy.

pocohantas:


NL no dey quick bring update. That is why I love Twitter. His secondary school mates are speaking up and they are pissed that his family is called old money. Say shishi them no get and dude was a bully. I am angry at Wofai sef. The guy no fine and I am sure asides being a "Cole", he has nothing much to his name.

Na wetin dey pain me for grown hardworking women be this. Look at all the drama. Wofai that has zero scandal in all her entertainment years is now being accused of runs by NL dregs. If you want to be a gold-digger, do a good job. Wetin be Cole? Shey na charcoal? No be person marry Fashola pikin? Radarada!

thats why they are dregs and better ignored

dominique:
So na dem get Aboyade Cole Street. Make dem rest jare. They're in no position to make decisions for their ADULT son

They are and if he goes otherwise then he is left to whatever happens .....Dont joke with the opinions of your parents concerning marriage ....if the parents of the man or either father or mother you are getting married to dont want you...please i beg yu for the sake of yourself and unborn children please leave him alone.. this things have far reaching implications that your fantasizing mind cannot fathom

1Sharon:


Absent/estranged fathers always love to show themselves at their child's wedding. It's their last attempt at control and getting relevancy.

wedding ke? you know see as mobhad deadbeat dad is now jumping on his son's corpse?

GloriousGbola:


wedding ke? you know see as mobhad deadbeat dad is now jumping on his son's corpse?

Kaii 🤣

True.

1Sharon:


Gdfo.

no vex na, Come let me hug you

Zonefree:

When an Adult son is in love, it's best he listen to his family. They see things he can't see cos a Man in love is a foolish man.

yet no one can tell you who to love. Remember this. So it is only you that knows who you love

Thanks for the better insight

Well old dude can come off his high horse 🙄

pocohantas:


It is not THEY, it is just the father.

His parents are separated.

They are obviously not close to the father as he most likely has other wives.

This is the typical situation where the man thinks they would fall back to him during their wedding and they didn't.

The guy's siblings and mother were all present at the wedding.

The father can't win this one. He is a typical Lagos old money that asides having a street to their name, have lived their time.

At first I thought it was the whole family and thought to myself, she is s___d.

Wofai is not 38. At best she is 33. When did she graduate from UNICAL to be 38?

Does this guy love this girl in question...my family cannot tell me what to do marriage wise..I will seek counsel from those who are married over 30years plus💯

ONNYX:


That's the very firsts thing that struck me when I first read the post.......but the girl is the more foolish person here. I don't know her....I had to use Google to discover her. In her mind let them do what they want she will not sacrifice anything for this event.....emphasis being on the wedding ceremonies ...... She will deal with the consequences later. She is obviously desperate and there is nothing wrong with that......it's the handling that matters. All she needed to do was to in all humility cultivate a tight relationship with some other members of the family especially the boys mother. It would take time but then it would work......and if it doesn't work you move on. This option is like living your life walking sometimes on thorns and nails and then other times on eggs.

Don't underestimate the successes of private detectives in Nigeria. I am still amazed at what they can achieve. And the family is supposedly a well known and well to do one.

I don't envy her at all.

Well, maybe that’s what she had been doing and the family were frustrating her. Cos this is a very drastic action by Nigerian standards.

dudes mom and sister were actually in attendance…seems like the father wants to use the wedding to flex muscle…whatever the investigators may have found, the guy obviously doesn’t mind.

I wish them the best sha…even wedding wey the whole umunna don bless still fit crash…what do we know 🤷🏾‍♀️

pocohantas:


NL no dey quick bring update. That is why I love Twitter. His secondary school mates are speaking up and they are pissed that his family is called old money. Say shishi them no get and dude was a bully. I am angry at Wofai sef. The guy no fine and I am sure asides being a "Cole", he has nothing much to his name.

Na wetin dey pain me for grown hardworking women be this. Look at all the drama. Wofai that has zero scandal in all her entertainment years is now being accused of runs by NL dregs. If you want to be a gold-digger, do a good job. Radarada!

mmmh ! 🤭 🤭

obaidan:

no vex na, Come let me hug you

Come for the hug






🔪

pocohantas:


It is not THEY, it is just the father.

His parents are separated.

They are obviously not close to the father as he most likely has other wives.

This is the typical situation where the man thinks they would fall back to him during their wedding and they didn't.

The guy's siblings and mother were all present at the wedding.

The father can't win this one. He is a typical Lagos old money that asides having a street to their name, have lived their time.

At first I thought it was the whole family and thought to myself, she is s___d.

Wofai is not 38. At best she is 33. When did she graduate from UNICAL to be 38?

So the father wants to make life decisions for a son whose son he was barely involved in. Na their way be that. His comrades will come and say it was the mother they made him go against his father.

Mad o 😂
No be this same girl be this https://www.nairaland.com/4615376/wofai-fada-tired-using-vibrator#69339686

dominique:


So the father wants to make life decisions for a son whose son he was barely involved in. Na their way be that. His comrades will come and say it was the mother they made him go against his father.

As they are already throwing allegations to suit their usual stereotype. Amidst the noise, his sister has posted on Twitter that Wofai is welcome to the family. Women have her back, the father would be fine.

cococandy:
Thanks for the better insight

Well old dude can come off his high horse 🙄

Make e face his other wives.

Period. As long as the women have accepted her, she’s good!

pocohantas:


As they are alreasy throwing allegations to suit their usual stereotype. Amidst the noise, his sister has posted on Twitter that Wofai is welcome to the family. Women have her back, he father would be fine.



Make e face his other wives.

dominique:


They're a prestigious "silent billionaire" family, they would want their children to marry from equally prestigious families or spouses handpicked by them. So naturally they would oppose marriage to a nobody, a nollywood actress for that matter.

What do you expect from a Billionaire family?
If you are not from their circle, they view someone as a Leach!

onadana:


You speak out of ignorance and emotional diabetes,sometimes it is better to just keep shut,silence is golden.You don't know the picture nor have the details so hold your peace and don't be quick to judge least you make your self look ......d.

Lolz! Wetin consign Diabetes with Emotions again?
I hail ooo

george5084:
Does this guy love this girl in question...my family cannot tell me what to do marriage wise..I will seek counsel from those who are married over 30years plus💯

Bros families have big influence on marriages, especially your parents listen to them to have peaceful marriage case closed.