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LadyRosa:
Unfortunately for you, I'm currently nursing a third.
You better start praying for your unfortunate sisters with white hairs already growing an amazon forest on their puzzies, yet unmarried, and without even a goat to leave behind when they die of depression.

LadyRosa:
Unfortunately for you, I'm currently nursing a third.
You better start praying for your unfortunate sisters with white hairs already growing an amazon forest on their puzzies, yet unmarried, and without even a goat to leave behind when they die of depression.

LadyRosa:
Unfortunately for you, I'm currently nursing a third.
You better start praying for your unfortunate sisters with white hairs already growing an amazon forest on their puzzies, yet unmarried, and without even a goat to leave behind when they die of depression.

theredaddy:
i don't have sisters

TONERO500:

Interesting15:
We know this is a woke generation that's quick to challenge wise counsel that encourages proper conduct - and the average young person today just wants to be allowed to do what they want unrestricted. But, come to think of it, with all our wokeness, where have we been heading? In the area of marriage, for instance, a lot of folks have replaced ancient principles that guarantee success in marriage, with woke liberty to do whatever they want. The result? Emotional trauma, high divorce, suicide, etc.

Hence, you should pay serious attention to ancient and proven wisdom that will guarantee success as far as the ancient institution known as marriage is concerned (hey, marriage is way older than you, you shouldn't approach it just as driven by your feelings or what you think).

Having said all this, let's go into the subject at hand.

When Your Dating Partner Is Disturbing You For Marriage

In a previous post, I summarised the protocol to be observed from the point of dating someone to the point of being wedded (you can read it here https://www.nairaland.com/8075548/what-girlfriend-disturbing-sex)

Now, let's say you were ignorant of the knowledge of when and how and who to start a relationship with, and you are currently with someone, and the person has been disturbing you for marriage, you should first check them out keenly before you decide if you should agree to marry them or go your separate ways (yes, if you can't marry someone, you have no business wasting your time dating in the first place).

Here are basic things to look out for from the person you want to marry:

1. Must Be Genuinely Saved

A person who is not saved will struggle to be a good person and to do you good perpetually. The person might think and make you feel they love you and won't do anything to hurt you, but if they don't have a good relationship with God (who is Love), how can they know how to love? True love can only be imparted upon a person by God, and folks who don't have a good relationship with the LORD can't know how to define and give true love (so they keep mixing up lust for love).

The way to salvation is to have faith in Christ Jesus, embrace Him as Lord and Savior, and repent from anything sinful. Through faith in Jesus Christ, a person is injected with eternal life (the life of God) and becomes a living and new creature.

2. Must Be Submitted To the Holy Spirit

After embracing Jesus as Lord and Savior, we get started off on the cadre of babyhood in the faith. A baby does what he or she wants without shame, and we ignore their babyish acts because we know they are not yet mature. However, a baby Christian is expected to grow into maturity after some time and should grow from childhood to sonship.

And the way you identify a mature believer is through their submission to the government of the Holy Spirit.

"For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, these are sons of God." Romans 8:14‬‬

In other words, such a mature believer only do the things God wants them to do, and not what they feel like doing. You can rest assured that such a person won't intentionally set out to do what will hurt you in marriage.

LadyRosa:


If you rush in, you will be rushed or dragged out.
Marriage should no be a parlour party.

When I was under pressure to marry, I almost made a terrible mistake of marrying someone. Thanks to my Godmother, who stood her ground and vowed the marriage will not happen.

LadyRosa:
Unfortunately for you, I'm currently nursing a third.
You better start praying for your unfortunate sisters with white hairs already growing an amazon forest on their puzzies, yet unmarried, and without even a goat to leave behind when they die of depression.

MichaelSokoto:
if u are married now then dat godmother is an angel from above...

but if u are not yet married, sorry to say

dat godmother is an ekwensu!

na me talk am I no fear anybody!

LadyRosa:


If you rush in, you will be rushed or dragged out.
Marriage should no be a parlour party.

When I was under pressure to marry, I almost made a terrible mistake of marrying someone. Thanks to my Godmother, who stood her ground and vowed the marriage will not happen.

concho:
You will soon get to hate her . Mark my words don’t quote me

LadyRosa:
I'm married with kids.

And no, even if I wasn't married she is not still an ekwenzu. The guy sef isn't married till now.

Kaxmytex:
U are dating a guy, ur godmother scatter the relationship, u ended up marring another person, u don born 3 and u still have the information that the guy ur godmother stopped u from marrying is still single till date....

Wowwww...
I just pray u don't end up hating that godmother for life coz it's obvious u still have feelings for that guy, u are stalking him to know the kind of girl she dey with wether she's better than you.
If the guy condition had been better, I'm sure ur godmother no get mind to shook mouth ontop r'ship wey she no know how e take start.
Now the guy condition still the same after u don born 3, ur godmother deserve some flowers for halting the union..
I pray God elevate that guy sha, he has been through a lot enough...

LadyRosa:
I still have feelings for WHO?!WTF!!!
I didn't care to read the remaining of your writeup after that sentence. Love kor! Blokus ni!

Kaxmytex:
The self-deception is real...

Make I clear ur first lie, u read everything finish...
Feelings no dey there and u have the information that he is still single,... like WTF!!!
Only God knows other information u had about him...

I just dey imagine the guy dey in good condition, the union prep. between u guyz going on smoothly, no godmother wey talk anything, but the guy godfather tok sey make hin halt the preparation, and the guy had to settle down and marry another lady ...

E sure me, the guy go don run mad by now...

LadyRosa:
Mtchew!
So as I no marry am, you think say na because him no get money

Una can mumu for this NL Walayi!
So the one wey marry me, give me children no be man that one be?!

Make una try dey comot una sense from una rectum to reason well.

Kaxmytex:
Typical 9ja Lady, she don shapaly result to insult

Who said anything about u not marrying him because he doesn't have any money...
Lolzz, I only said condition, many circumstances fit be the condition..
I don't want to believe ur godmother told u to leave him because of the circumstances u stated above coz you are smart and if u are to have a godmother, it's definitely going to be a smarter one..
Big respect to the man wey marry and give u children, na real man hin be but how u wan make hin process am if he gets to know that u still gathering information on the man ur godmother told u not to marry