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UnfairLife7:
Having gone through Comfirm4real post regarding his sister's marriage, i decided to share my own personal experience.

This happened to my mum younger sister. She had been married for 18 years with 4 kids. Her husband often abuse her. He beat her, smell her pants whenever she returned from shop. He decides the kind of clothes she'd put on. The man is naturally insecure. This my mum sister is a gentle and quiet person. The man feels insecure because of her beauty. He often chase male customers away from her shop. This my mum sister hid how her hubby treat her away from family. Her husband will give her bible to swear if she doesn't had sex with any man before coming home. He often check her phone and monitor her movements. It was when she couldn't take it anymore she reported to her family. She invited her family to her house on Sunday when the hubby will be around

My mum went with her elder brother and sister. It was when they got there she narrated all what she has been going through in marriage. My mum was extremely mad.

Let me briefly summarise the kind of person my mum is; My mum experience domestic violence when she was 13 from her neighbour. The man derived joy beating his wife. My mum said she came prepared into marriage. My mum is married for 31 years and my late dad never raise his hand on her. She said if a woman is too calm and quiet, men will take advantage of her, especially Nigerian men. My mum said she had it in plan that the very day a man (my father) will raise his hand on her, she will treat his fvck up big time without traces. My dad has the tendency of hitting women though but i guess because my mum wasn't a calm and quiet person.

My mum in particular insulted the living daylights out of her sisters husband. They later find out the man cheat on his wife. He thought that was how his wife too will cheat on him couple with the fact that his wife is a beautiful woman. He naturally feel insecure. He apologised and begged his wife and family. Although my mum took her sister and children that very day away from his house. He came with his family begging like a fool. They later settled it and live peacefully since then. He bought her a car as a gift. When she returned back to her husband's house, her neighbours almost ate her up. They were so happy for her. They kept asking her so she had a No nonesense family and she's taking shit from her hubby in the name of marriage. If you have sisters, daughters or friends that are too quiet and calm. Just pray for them to meet their type o. Men do take advantage of calm and quiet women seriously.

When i saw Comfirm4real post, i thought he was referring to my mum sister.

To those Men giving flimsy excuses unbehalf of Op inlaw for treating his sister like trash. We know the kind of person y'all are. We know you select your choice of spouses because obviously you can't try that nonesense to all women

How I wish your mom can try such rudely attitude with me. I will have teaches her what she failed to teach you.

UnfairLife7:
Having gone through Comfirm4real post regarding his sister's marriage, i decided to share my own personal experience.

This happened to my mum younger sister. She had been married for 18 years with 4 kids. Her husband often abuse her. He beat her, smell her pants whenever she returned from shop. He decides the kind of clothes she'd put on. The man is naturally insecure. This my mum sister is a gentle and quiet person. The man feels insecure because of her beauty. He often chase male customers away from her shop. This my mum sister hid how her hubby treat her away from family. Her husband will give her bible to swear if she doesn't had sex with any man before coming home. He often check her phone and monitor her movements. It was when she couldn't take it anymore she reported to her family. She invited her family to her house on Sunday when the hubby will be around

My mum went with her elder brother and sister. It was when they got there she narrated all what she has been going through in marriage. My mum was extremely mad.

Let me briefly summarise the kind of person my mum is; My mum experience domestic violence when she was 13 from her neighbour. The man derived joy beating his wife. My mum said she came prepared into marriage. My mum is married for 31 years and my late dad never raise his hand on her. She said if a woman is too calm and quiet, men will take advantage of her, especially Nigerian men. My mum said she had it in plan that the very day a man (my father) will raise his hand on her, she will treat his fvck up big time without traces. My dad has the tendency of hitting women though but i guess because my mum wasn't a calm and quiet person.

My mum in particular insulted the living daylights out of her sisters husband. They later find out the man cheat on his wife. He thought that was how his wife too will cheat on him couple with the fact that his wife is a beautiful woman. He naturally feel insecure. He apologised and begged his wife and family. Although my mum took her sister and children that very day away from his house. He came with his family begging like a fool. They later settled it and live peacefully since then. He bought her a car as a gift. When she returned back to her husband's house, her neighbours almost ate her up. They were so happy for her. They kept asking her so she had a No nonesense family and she's taking shit from her hubby in the name of marriage. If you have sisters, daughters or friends that are too quiet and calm. Just pray for them to meet their type o. Men do take advantage of calm and quiet women seriously.

When i saw Comfirm4real post, i thought he was referring to my mum sister.

To those Men giving flimsy excuses unbehalf of Op inlaw for treating his sister like trash. We know the kind of person y'all are. We know you select your choice of spouses because obviously you can't try that nonesense to all women

Hey dear, your dad didn't hit your mum because he's a gentle man... And has a lot of control over his emotion and temperament... Not because your mum is tough. Na women like your mum they chop beating pass. And they are forced to be cooperative. That's my major concern in your post. And as for the insecure man, God help him find his security.

Capernum:
Hey dear, your dad didn't hit your mum because he's a gentle man... And has a lot of control over his emotion and temperament... Not because your mum is tough. Na women like your mum they chop beating pass. And they are forced to be cooperative. That's my major concern in your post. And as for the insecure man, God help him find his security.

Lol

I know a woman that used millitary MEN to beat her husband blue black without him getting to know it was from her. This was when her hubby hit her for the first time. What you don't know is that once a woman is being raised from a functional home with love, she wouldn't tolerate nonsense in the name of marriage. Even men don't try nonsense to women from good united family. My mum already know marriage is never a do or die affair and the experience she had while she was growing, she already know that no man born of a woman will try such with her for the first time and go scot free

Only insecure women, that had been brainwashed to believe marriage is a do or die affair takes anything from men all in the name of marriage. My mum came from a large family and had all boys as siblings. My dad knows they'd give him the beating of his life

My mum dey even deal with some men wey dey maltreat their wives. That is to tell you how mean she was.

Kobojunkie:
People typically don't change that easily. Since you say the man is dead, it ended well.

Are you not sick? Something about you ain't right. You were probably raised by a single mother who fed you a lot of bullshit.

louken:
Are you not sick? Something about you ain't right. You were probably raised by a single mother who fed you a lot of bullshit.

Absolutely none of that. 😂