Please this is a serious case she happens to be my younger sister I'm putting this up on her behalf.

1. The husband doesn't give her money for upkeep.

2. Most times he beat her up mercilessly.

3. Disgraced her in the compound by telling a mechanic that she doesn't wear pants.

4. Treat her like rag.

5. Doesn't have regard for my family.

6. Monitor her everywhere and accuse her wrongly of following men, this is someone that they've been married for more than 15yrs and have 4kids together.

7. Always accuse her wrongly of stealing his money.

8. Follow her to the market and pays for any food items she buys.

9. The little money my sister earns as a teacher he will make sure she spends all the money at home.

10. Locks his phone but told my sister to always unlock her own so he will be seeing all her messages and calls. Even put tracker on her phone to monitor her calls.

11. Smells my sister's undies atimes to know if she went to meet a man.

12. There was a time my sister was into restaurant business the husband didn't allow the business to last, he told her customers should not sit down to eat they can only buy and go.

13. He now bought a Sienna he still put tracker to monitor the car and inner tracker to monitor calls inside the car. If he noticed some conversation in the car he will start calling my sister, if she doesn't pick while driving he will start insulting her.

14. He pays the children school fees and house rent with complains. They're living at Ajah.

Although I have reported the case to Human Rights. Please what advice can you give if she's your sister.

Note: They dated long before marriage almost 5yrs, but I wonder why she didn't see those red flags then.

Women should be careful in their choice of selection, most men pretends to be nice during dating but not knowing they're beast in human form.

I am sure he showed her some signs of the beast in him but she ignored those signs, hoping her pastor's prayer will change him in the marriage. Daughter of zion don dey chop iron, pastor dey him house.

She might be the type that marry for money in order to upgrade her social status. If so, she will not leave him because of shame.

It might be that the man used voodoo on her.

It might also be that... I don't want to say this one.

Taylor90:
Is your sister cripple? Abi she no know the address of her fathers house Because I don’t understand while she’s still with him if all you said here is true. Anyways I won’t jump into conclusions yet because something must have prompted this man’s insecurities and the reason why your sister doesn’t want to leave justifies it allMaybe your sister don cheap woto woto in the past

Your narratives reeks of bias!

We won't judge him until we hear his part of the story.

Even at that, I guess there are circumstances your have not been told or are not privy of.
Do you even know why your sister opted to keep quiet against such allegations? There must be something that prompted such an usual behavior from her husband. Mind you there is no smoke without fire! What if she was found guilty.
I know of a woman who was entangled in the web of adultery in her place of work...her marriage was saved but her relationship with her husband remained estranged despite him forgiving her for the sake of their children

How people marry nonsense still a wonder to me. Stop ignoring redflags they won't hear. One thing I'm very sure of is that I can never marry nonsense.

First the man is rich

Secondly, advise your sis to stop challenging the man.

She was not blind before marriage.

Let her calm down for the man.

If all those too hard. Make she leave the house and divorce.

Simple.

Human rights will only end up doing nothing.

Will they lock the man up.

Who will pay the school fees.

And the bills

is ur sister a SLAVE? His attitude is probably due to bill he paid on top of ur sister.


Whatever .
Her best bet is to leave him now b4 God leave her.There's death in the pot.Runzx

I asked a friend why women go for guys like this, he said the calm ones are boring,cuz I don't know how your sister chose someone like this out of all men.

You also sound calm asking us what we will do, when the average man will at least challenge the husband.

qtguru:
I asked a friend why women go for guys like this, he said the calm ones are boring,cuz I don't know how your sister chose someone like this out of all men.

You also sound calm asking us what we will do, when the average man will at least challenge the husband.

I have done that several times but he still continued.

qtguru:
I asked a friend why women go for guys like this, he said the calm ones are boring,cuz I don't know how your sister chose someone like this out of all men.

You also sound calm asking us what we will do, when the average man will at least challenge the husband.

Some women are easily carried away by one yeye vibes and this is what they normally end up with. Thank God I can easily perceive a violent man even from ordinary chats.

Confirm4real:


I have done that several times but he still continued.

It's time to involve family members, this is a serious issue.

DSS1335:
Your narratives reeks of bias!

We won't judge him until we hear his part of the story.

Even at that, I guess there are circumstances your have not been told or are not privy of.
Do you even know why your sister opted to keep quiet against such allegations? There must be something that prompted such an usual behavior from her husband. Mind you there is no smoke without fire! What if she was found guilty.
I know of a woman who was entangled in the web of adultery in her place of work...her marriage was saved but her relationship with her husband remained estranged despite him forgiving her for the sake of their children

This is someone that always paint my sister black to everybody including his family members. He's a womanizer that's why he believes my sister might also be cheating.

I've got a fam in same situation, my initial plan was to use my military friends to treat his fvckup, my dad warned me against going that path due to family and religious reputation, when shit hits the roof I designed his face pretty well that he couldn't leave home for months though I also got black eye, but since then he's stopped the shvt including threatening my parents.
You either keep your sister to your parents home or show em you've got more madness.

Maxxim:
I've got a fam in same situation, my initial plan was to use my military friends to treat his fvckup, my dad warned me against going that path due to family and religious reputation, when shit hits the roof I designed his face pretty well that he couldn't leave home for months though I also got black eye, but since then he's stopped the shvt including threatening my parents.
You either keep your sister to your parents home or show em you've got more madness.

My type of people jare, I'll organize people too, I don't understand all that calm behavior

qtguru:


My type of people jare, I'll organize people too, I don't understand all that calm behavior

Typical my parents personality, those calm behavior actually makes the oppressor think they can get away with everything.

Oga,

I don't believe your sister is innocent in all this.

Sit the husband and ask him why he does all this, let him pour out his heart to you on where or how your sister has offended him.

Also, I hope your family did not "over charge" the man with "List" when he came to marry your sister.... because this looks more like revenge...

Maxxim:

Typical my parents personality, those calm behavior actually makes the oppressor think they can get away with everything. My parents believed everything would eventually get better.
My sister lost her baby due to these assault before the last one, thank God we stepped in on time.

I agree our parents humility is what dulls us from taking action, kudos to you

qtguru:


I agree our parents humility is what dulls us from taking action, kudos to you

Exactly and they also learned violence solve things😁

It's because the man has money. Your sister should leave the toxic thing called husband unless there's something she's not telling you.

Ab025:
Oga,

I don't believe your sister is innocent in all this.

Sit the husband and ask him why he does all this, let him pour out his heart to you on where or how your sister has offended him.

Also, I hope your family did not "over charge" the man with "List" when he came to marry your sister.... because this looks more like revenge...

I have tried to ask him several times but he will always lie against my sister. Even his siblings also confirmed it that he's naturally wicked he normally embarrass their parents when they were alive.
As for the overcharge my parents didn't do that, he didn't even fulfill all the rights at that time.

Confirm4real:


I have tried to ask him several times but he will always lie against my sister. Even his siblings also confirmed it that he's naturally wicked he normally embarrass their parents when they were alive.
As for the overcharge my parents didn't do that, he didn't even fulfill all the rights at that time.

then why did your sister chose to marry him?

Answer this simple question

blackgold2018:
then why did your sister chose to marry him?

Answer this simple question

Maybe she was blind folded by love.

Shes with a narcist
prolly a mentally deranged man

Confirm4real:
Please this is a serious case she happens to be my younger sister I'm putting this up on her behalf.

1. The husband doesn't give her money for upkeep.

2. Most times he beat her up mercilessly.

3. Disgraced her in the compound by telling a mechanic that she doesn't wear pants.

4. Treat her like rag.

5. Doesn't have regard for my family.

6. Monitor her everywhere and accuse her wrongly of following men, this is someone that they've been married for more than 15yrs and have 4kids together.

7. Always accuse her wrongly of stealing his money.

8. Follow her to the market and pays for any food items she buys.

9. The little money my sister earns as a teacher he will make sure she spends all the money at home.

10. Locks his phone but told my sister to always unlock her own so he will be seeing all her messages and calls. Even put tracker on her phone to monitor her calls.

11. Smells my sister's undies atimes to know if she went to meet a man.

12. There was a time my sister was into restaurant business the husband didn't allow the building to last, he told her customers should not sit down to eat they can only buy and go.

13. He now bought a Sienna he still put tracker to monitor the car and inner tracker to monitor calls inside the car. If he noticed some conversation in the car he will start calling my sister, if she doesn't pick while driving he will start insulting her.

14. He pays the children school fees and house rent with complains. They're living at Ajah.

Although I have reported the case to Human Rights. Please what advice can you give if she's your sister.

Note: Although they dated long before marriage almost 5yrs, but I wonder why she didn't see those red flags then.

Maybe he is rich, I think that is the only thing that can keep a woman for so long and have 4 kids for a man like that.
Only money can do such MAGIC

Confirm4real:
Please this is a serious case she happens to be my

Confirm4real:


Maybe she was blind folded by love.

that’s a very insincere answer..

I ask again. Why did your sister chose to marry him?

blackgold2018:
that’s a very insincere answer..

I ask again. Why did your sister chose to marry him?

When they were dating he tried to be nice to her but she didn't know he was only deceiving her.

That's an average African Man.

lady like ur sis preferred TOUGH,Rascal guys. I believe she saw all this tell-tale in the relationship but still Married him.Her type will neglected gentle, shi shi less guy to the broken bottle.

See am now

Confirm4real:
Please this is a serious case she happens to be my younger sister I'm putting this up on her behalf.

1. The husband doesn't give her money for upkeep.

2. Most times he beat her up mercilessly.

3. Disgraced her in the compound by telling a mechanic that she doesn't wear pants.

4. Treat her like rag.

5. Doesn't have regard for my family.

6. Monitor her everywhere and accuse her wrongly of following men, this is someone that they've been married for more than 15yrs and have 4kids together.

7. Always accuse her wrongly of stealing his money.

8. Follow her to the market and pays for any food items she buys.

9. The little money my sister earns as a teacher he will make sure she spends all the money at home.

10. Locks his phone but told my sister to always unlock her own so he will be seeing all her messages and calls. Even put tracker on her phone to monitor her calls.

11. Smells my sister's undies atimes to know if she went to meet a man.

12. There was a time my sister was into restaurant business the husband didn't allow the building to last, he told her customers should not sit down to eat they can only buy and go.

13. He now bought a Sienna he still put tracker to monitor the car and inner tracker to monitor calls inside the car. If he noticed some conversation in the car he will start calling my sister, if she doesn't pick while driving he will start insulting her.

14. He pays the children school fees and house rent with complains. They're living at Ajah.

Although I have reported the case to Human Rights. Please what advice can you give if she's your sister.

Note: Although they dated long before marriage almost 5yrs, but I wonder why she didn't see those red flags then.

Confirm4real:
Please this is a serious case she happens to be my younger sister I'm putting this up on her behalf.

1. The husband doesn't give her money for upkeep.

2. Most times he beat her up mercilessly.

3. Disgraced her in the compound by telling a mechanic that she doesn't wear pants.

4. Treat her like rag.

5. Doesn't have regard for my family.

6. Monitor her everywhere and accuse her wrongly of following men, this is someone that they've been married for more than 15yrs and have 4kids together.

7. Always accuse her wrongly of stealing his money.

8. Follow her to the market and pays for any food items she buys.

9. The little money my sister earns as a teacher he will make sure she spends all the money at home.

10. Locks his phone but told my sister to always unlock her own so he will be seeing all her messages and calls. Even put tracker on her phone to monitor her calls.

11. Smells my sister's undies atimes to know if she went to meet a man.

12. There was a time my sister was into restaurant business the husband didn't allow the building to last, he told her customers should not sit down to eat they can only buy and go.

13. He now bought a Sienna he still put tracker to monitor the car and inner tracker to monitor calls inside the car. If he noticed some conversation in the car he will start calling my sister, if she doesn't pick while driving he will start insulting her.

14. He pays the children school fees and house rent with complains. They're living at Ajah.

Although I have reported the case to Human Rights. Please what advice can you give if she's your sister.

Note: Although they dated long before marriage almost 5yrs, but I wonder why she didn't see those red flags then.

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Confirm4real:


When they were dating he tried to be nice to her but she didn't know he was only deceiving her.

then she was not blinded with love.
She was blinded with money.

Woman thinks when a man spends on her means he loves her.

Exactly what I do advise my girlfriend. When a man be all nice and provides all you need without questions.. then you should be suspicious

Your sister married a mad man because of money. Sorry for her