Na Dem . you should be thanking your God for revealing what the future holds for you

And you are asking for advice.dont ever call the bitch again

PrayWills:
Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.

I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.

As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?

PS: she was raised by a single mom

Go and thank your God for what He has done for you.
Ladies raised by single moms are most times filled with hatred and bitterness cos of what they saw or told by their mom while growing up.

Thank your star and move on. She never loved you before. Being raised by a single mom is already in her DNA. Please take your children for DNA test. One of them is not your own. Either the first or the last born. Thank me later

Abeg go for DNA test on your kids then come back and tell us the result before further comments

PrayWills:
Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.

I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.

As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?

PS: she was raised by a single mom

VTJN:
did he caught her in bed with the man?

I don't blame women like you at all. I blame the foolish men who have been condoning your LovePeddler-ness.

I just hope you are the real father of those kids

Pls go beg her. Tell her she can continue to keep the married man too. Offer to stay out if he wants to come visit. Thats what a good man should do.

You should be happy na 😂

VTJN:
did he caught her in bed with the man?

na people like you dey raise other people’s children for una matrimonial home

PrayWills:
Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.

I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.

As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?

PS: she was raised by a single mom

Foolish man


Go and do Thanksgiving.


Who are the 2 kids ,by the way ?


Little brides or you're kids ?

Wawelexy:
Rejoice for what the lord has done... You just escaped! Rejoice bro.

Allow her go with the kids, let this current economic situation reset her brain, but make sure you are doing your quota has regards to the kids upkeep. If she comes back for reunion, please don't take her back. If you do, premium tears awaits you.


I don't know why a part of my mind is telling me that your name is Oluwasimpleton, and that you will take her back when she comes begging.

Yes, you are correct. He will take her back when she return because that is what the guy want. He want her back. Have seen so many cases like this one and what they did is to take them back all in the name of kids and love and bcs d Lady was kind at a time to them.

The one that got me angry most is one mumu man across my area that married my area dog even after he was told. He claimed she is pregnant for him and he was told the lady is his future wife. After the whole thing, they had children and behold, those kids were not his kids and she was caught sleeping with another man. She realized casalar don bust so she secretly moved out of the house with d kids and this mumu man was crying ni sha, saying he want his wife back. Funny enough, is this same mumu man that will tell u of a man that beat is wife, a wife that sleep with neighbors and be criticising peoples marriage

If you already have kids with her and she doesn't want to marry you, then what are you troubling yourself for. Afterall no be you pursue her

Bro relax jor

Enemyofpeace:
na people like you dey raise other people’s children for una matrimonial home

The funny thing is that they don't even Mind.
So many senseless guys around this days.

Imagine a guy saying he prefer to marry olosho than the Virgine or good girls

You just dodged a bullet

CodeBlooded:
Pls go beg her. Tell her she can continue to keep the married man too. Offer to stay out if he wants to come visit. Thats what a good man should do.

Lol. Na so the guy mumu reach

This is a sure red flag.Are u sure your father those 2 children self

Go to her moms house. kneel down naked and start begging lol. Sad we have to spell these things out to grown men with alleged working brains, so unfortunate. after that wire the single mom of two a sum of 5 million naira for just listening to you wail ozwoor . it must have been horrible for the banny to put up with a silly weak man like yoursef

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pointblank247:
Op.
It's God that saved you from serious heart break. First you sound like a very soft man. If my woman is talking to another man and I caught her telling him "I love you" hmmmmm omo the marriage thing is very over. If she dare talk back in such situation she is in a more serious trouble.

Now let me talk to you as a man that is experienced in marriage.
SAVE YOUR SELF AND REFUSE TAKING HER BACK. Right now a married man is fuvking her mercilessly and when they her done, her parent will invite you for reconciliation and she may shade a few crocodile tears and like a simp, you will stupidly take her back.
Please don't.
A man that tolerate the disrespect of a loose woman doesn't live long

God bless you man.

PrayWills:

What do I do?

PS: she was raised by a single mom

What do you do? If I were you, I'll commit suicide. That's what you should do. There is a level you'll get as a man, you won't need people's advice on what to do in relationship matters that involve infidelity or disrespect.

fredopareto:
Dem dey talk A u dey talk B.. definitely u re high on colos

Probably someone that knows the lady and the guy

Mindlog:


What do you have to say abou rapists, ritualists, kidnappers, assassins, thugs, prostitutes, arsonists, drug addicts, gamblers etc who grew up into adulthood under the same roof with their fathers and mothers who are/were married to each other?..... Generalization is a dangerous mindset

Maybe those convicted criminals in Nigerian prisons were raised only by their mothers.

You are talking about crime not marital stuff that is being discussed...

immortalcrown:
Cohabitation is a red flag.

Who owns the 2- kids?
This your Story no complete and are you sure of the two- kids are yours?
Anyway,try to sort things out ,as she may be joking with the sweet words!
Our Women can be funny,for I have seen a lady,who normally deceived an Oga in an Office,by saying Sweet words to another guy in same Office-that he loves one guy( not true) only for the Oga to be punishing the young innocent guy, because the lady in question was just using the boy as a camouflage and it almost cost the boy's job because the Oga lust on the lady was too Mumurish!

PrayWills:
Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.

I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.

As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?

PS: she was raised by a single mom

You don't know what to do? Seriously? Move on already. She will make your life miserable only that you will eventually open another account when it happens.

We dey here.

PrayWills:
Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.

I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.

As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?

PS: she was raised by a single mom

congratulation man move on with your life

Bluntemperor:


Who owns the 2- kids?
This your Story no complete and are you sure of the two- kids are yours?
Anyway,try to sort things out ,as she may be joking with the sweet words!
Our Women can be funny,for I have seen a lady,who normally deceived an Oga that he loves one guy( not true) only for the Oga to be punishing the young innocent guy, because the lady in question was just using the boy as a camouflage and it almost cost the boy's job because the Oga lust on the lady was too Mumurish!

Na me you quote oh, no be the OP.

PrayWills:
Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.

I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.

As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?

PS: she was raised by a single mom

She doesn't give a hoot about you because it's like she's the one who wanted to do you a service by marrying you.

She's got the single mom mojo in her blood right from time immemorial.

Let her be because you would be chasing shadows in the dark relationship.

Lastly, she doesn't love you a bit and it seems you initially exuded the SIMP attitude.

Cheers!

People raised by single parents are usually dysfunctional in marriage or in a relationship because of their own circumstances.

Being raised by a single parent would include absent parents. That is, mom and dad are together but one of them lives separately because of circumstances including working out of town.

The only way out of that loop is if the subject recognises this issue and compensates for it. Unfortunately, you already have kids with her and she's going to bring them up with her poorly ways. Please try to be there for those kids as much as you can.

VTJN:
interesting

So you guys have been cohabiting for years with 2 kids? Like seriously? You probably took advantage of her because her father is either late or not together with her mum. And all of a sudden she's no longer a good woman? Your supposed wife to be left the house with the kids and you didn't deem it fit to visit her family to inform them what is happening? You came to nairaland to seek opinion and gladly someone who probably don't know what marriage is was telling you not to accept her back again like seriously? I can also add more fuel to what those guys told you. Do you know what? I'm a bloody single guy with no intention of getting married any time soon. The same me will come to nairaland and advice a supposed married man or a married man to be. I'd make sure i scatter their union. Isn't that what they're doing right now? End it as they say and probably they'd give you one of their sisters to continue from where you stopped

Sadly. they can't give you their sister because they've seen clearly the red flag in you. Cohabiting with someone's child to the extent of producing 2 kids. They can't give you their sister or daughter obviously but they can push you to end your supposed marriage to be and go out looking for your next victim or probably remain single like them.

If that lady was their sister or daughter. Trust me, you'd hear a different thing entirely from them. You'll be seriously lashed and whitewashed. Unfortunately, it's not their sister or daughter so they care less about her.

Btw, how i want my sister or daughter to be to be treaded same way I'd treat ANY lady known or unknown to me.

All the best

Baba you need help..you have psychological issues seriously.Some of the things you said made small sense but mehnn you be bitter human being .

PrayWills:
Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.

I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.

As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?

PS: she was raised by a single mom

Your No 1 mistake was having kids with her. You should be grateful to her for preventing you from making the second mistake of getting married to her.
But wait o, if she no call d marriage off, u for still go ahead and marry her? Are u sure u were also not raised by a single mother, because i dont understand what kind of man raised u to think u should marry a woman professing love to another man. Na so u no rate urself reach?

What did u expect when she was raised by single mom lol.....