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PrayWills:
Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.

I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.

As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?

PS: she was raised by a single mom

My advice is simple and trust me it is not usual nairaland yan.

Do DNA on those two kids because they are likely not to be yours. If anyone of them happens to be yours then go for him/her. NEVER HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THAT WOMAN OF YOU DISLIKE OPEN RELATIONSHIP. SHE IS HAS NEVER BEEN YOUR ALONE. SHE HAS BEING COMMUNITY KPEKUS.

PrayWills:
Sabi Man.

I was trying to be a good man and father and made life too easy for her.


Thank you for your words, e touch me for the right place.

Baba, you na correct man.

As per say you no even throw tantrums or even form savage, I salute you big time.

PrayWills:
Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.

I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.

As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?

PS: she was raised by a single mom

Your reaction to her is an answered prayer. She has been waiting for the opportunity. Now she will have time to explore.

jejely move on with your life... you dodged a bullet!

My brother you just judged a Vladimir Putin powerful air missile. If I were you ehh, i will close my street to celebrate this deliverance from mental and psychological slavery. Enjoy your bachelorhood bro

PrayWills:
What are you saying?

Some spirits are stalking me

PrayWills:
Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.

I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.

As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?

PS: she was raised by a single mom

If you are ready to keep living with her forever, knowing that she may still be keeping lover and you are fully prepared to keep taking nonsense, go back to her and keep and marry her then plan for your funeral in advance

But if you know that you have had enough, just ghost her and rest then start your life afresh, that she has kids for you doesn't mean that you must marry her. She is too strong for your fragile heart

PrayWills:
Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.

I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.

As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?

PS: she was raised by a single mom

Sometimes in life the only thing one can/should do is nothing.

You should be concerned if those kids are yours to start with.

Ire ooooo

PrayWills:
Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.

I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.

As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?

PS: she was raised by a single mom

You are the luckiest man on earth right now

PrayWills:
Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.

I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.

As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?

PS: she was raised by a single mom

Do what you want bro!

Some of you just come online and say things that you don’t know. Many people come online to say half side of the story. There is absolutely nothing wrong in being raised by a single mum.

Did anyone here asked him, if he has cheated before? When it comes to women, you people will always want to bring them down.
Make una Dey know Wetin una Dey talk

frozen70:
If you are ready to keep living with her forever, knowing that she may still be keeping lover and you are fully prepared to keep taking nonsense, go back to her and keep and marry her then plan for your funeral in advance

But if you know that you have had enough, just ghost her and rest then start your life afresh, that she has kids for you doesn't mean that you must marry her. She is too strong for your fragile heart

You men support what you hear

MrSly:
My advice is simple and trust me it is not usual nairaland yan.

Do DNA on those two kids because they are likely not to be yours. If anyone of them happens to be yours then go for him/her. NEVER HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THAT WOMAN OF YOU DISLIKE OPEN RELATIONSHIP. SHE IS HAS NEVER BEEN YOUR ALONE. SHE HAS BEING COMMUNITY KPEKUS.

It is obvious that, that the kind of women you carry, they are still faithful women out there. Allow him solve his issues with his family without putting fire or spiting out rubbish

PrayWills:
Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.

I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.

As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?

PS: she was raised by a single mom

Most children raised by single mothers have questionable characters

Dshocker:
Most children raised by single mothers have questionable characters

Are you saying children raised by both parents doesn’t have questionable characters?

Diamond1605:
Are you saying children raised by both parents doesn’t have questionable characters?

Compared to single mothers.

Na why the duty of a man or father is to install discipline in a child.

Women are too emotional and overlook bad behavior that needs proper morals in a child.

90% of wayward people on social media were raised by single mother.

Diamond1605:
Some of you just come online and say things that you don’t know. Many people come online to say half side of the story. There is absolutely nothing wrong in being raised by a single mum.

Statistics say different.

Diamond1605:
Did anyone here asked him, if he has cheated before? When it comes to women, you people will always want to bring them down.
Make una Dey know Wetin una Dey talk

So does that justify her cheating or gaslighting attempt? Typical triggered female response. Work with the data you are given and stop creating fictional scenarios in your mind. Even if he cheats nko?

Diamond1605:
Did anyone here asked him, if he has cheated before? When it comes to women, you people will always want to bring them down.
Make una Dey know Wetin una Dey talk

So does that justify her cheating or gaslighting attempt? Typical triggered female response. Work with the data you are given and stop creating fictional scenarios in your mind. Even if he cheats nko?
He is a man and it's expected. He can impregnate 10 women a week at the minimum. But women can only get pregnant once a year. So she should be happy he hasn't brought in other kids from outside.

PrayWills:
What are you saying?

I have monitoring spirit

Dshocker:
Compared to single mothers.

Na why the duty of a man or father is to install discipline in a child.

Women are too emotional and overlook bad behavior that needs proper morals in a child.

90% of wayward people on social media were raised by single mother.

That is a big lie

Everybody has their own opinions, your opinion doesn’t make it right.
You saying that 90% of wayward people on social media were raised by a single mother is a wrong statistic.

Go and make your findings very well

adolphus08:
Statistics say different.

What statistics?

adolphus08:
So does that justify her cheating or gaslighting attempt? Typical triggered female response. Work with the data you are given and stop creating fictional scenarios in your mind. Even if he cheats nko?

So if he cheats it is okay? I’m not saying what she did was right but don’t charge on one party and ignore the wrongs of the other party.

adolphus08:
So does that justify her cheating or gaslighting attempt? Typical triggered female response. Work with the data you are given and stop creating fictional scenarios in your mind. Even if he cheats nko?
He is a man and it's expected. He can impregnate 10 women a week at the minimum. But women can only get pregnant once a year. So she should be happy he hasn't brought in other kids from outside.

I just realized that answering you is a total waste of time. I have better things to do

Seun:
I strongly recommend having a DNA test conducted for the children before going any further. If they aren't yours, you're completely free. For now, you need to ignore her until she comes to beg you to take her back, or to bill you, then you'll insist on the DNA test as the condition.

Petty seun