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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by Maxcollins042(m): 11:22am On May 09 |
emmeyen: No mind the people criticizing the girl without hearing her own side of the story. The truth is that these same people won't allow their sister marry a man still living in his family house. 5 Likes |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by ItisWell22(f): 11:30am On May 09 |
ozo13: And that’s on period. 🎯 Just that guys enjoy chasing women who don’t love them, then come to complain all women are terrible. When a woman loves you, life gets far easier. This is not in connection with the topic, but relationships in general. 1 Like |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by FertilityH: 11:39am On May 09 |
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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by dangotesmummy: 11:55am On May 09 |
emmeyen:exactly. Even the epistle wey I write sef na because I get time.too many baby men in adult male body.from their utterances you go know them.no wonder na women dey quick age for African marriage.na the wife go dey resemble the husband elder sister because as inlaws dey carry their own garbage put for the woman head,the man too dey carry him own put for the woman head.tufuaaakwa.narcisstic men go make you die 10 times before you actually die Tuehhh 1 Like |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by 1Sharon(f): 12:28pm On May 09 |
gift2xl: What home? The home of her husband's parents? And the man that wants to marry into his parents home is not rubbish? You lot have truly lost it 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by mhychophelha1(m): 12:32pm On May 09 |
Sincerely, it's improper for a man to marry into his family house 🏠 it clearly shows he is not ready to settle down. Marriage involves privacy. Even if na one room at early stage is ok, by then God will open door 🚪 for more..... In a nutshell I concur with the bride 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by emmeyen: 12:38pm On May 09 |
dangotesmummy: Ndi "if you love me, you will accept me the way I am". "I just need someone that will understand me". "Nobody is perfect". Make everybody just rest. Understanding fiancee say she no do again 2 Likes |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by poshestmina(f): 1:04pm On May 09 |
Solofresh2: You were so quick to quote me and didn't even read what I wrote...and YES ,I'll contribute or rent an apartment myself at this stage /age I am. Not all females are financially handicapped, like the ones you have in your corner. 1 Like |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by ngwababe(f): 1:11pm On May 09 |
adanny01: The best relationship is the one kept from afar. Your father's house isn't your house, it's your mother's house. Go rent a house and keep your wife to avoid see finish. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by ozo13(m): 1:29pm On May 09 |
ItisWell22:exactly. The lady in question was interested in someone else wn she opened up to me and since parents don't want the person, so she wasn't really into me from her actions and inactions and some of her utterance.so it's just the parents pushing the thing. So I sat down and advice myself if I really want drama in my life from someone that already own up to me she was in love with another person and am not really sure if she isn't still in love with the person.That was how I started pulling out strategically 3 Likes |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by dangotesmummy: 2:06pm On May 09 |
emmeyen:lol understanding wife don enter one chance 2 Likes |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by dangotesmummy: 2:10pm On May 09 |
1Sharon:no be small lost o Like he go dey bring out preek when him know say him papa and mama dey house say he wan fvck him wife Tufiaaa 1 Like |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by dangotesmummy: 2:18pm On May 09 |
Callosobruchus:it is not about love.love alone doesn't sustain a marriage.if at your adult life you don't know this,I am sure you're still one of the people believing Lai Mohamed Anyway the guy is simply not ready.its not a question of him being a simp.hes not ready to be married financially and mentally, period! It's just like a girl saying she's ready to get married but she's not ready to have sex because I don't understand how a man will claim to be a man and still want to be living under the shadows of his parents aka parents house.make he kuku dey collect monthly allowance aka pocket money from his wife's father then as he no get sense 1 Like |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by 2mch(m): 2:23pm On May 09 |
If you know you are the lazy type please don’t marry an ambitious woman. Find a leech and lazy woman so both of you can kill yourselves with poverty in family house. No sane woman should agree to live in family house except they are living there alone. You want to marry somebody daughter and make her a slave to your mother. You are crazy guy. Wait until you can afford room and parlor before you marry. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by dangotesmummy: 2:25pm On May 09 |
optm:lol any woman that agrees to live with a man's family after wedding is a compound fool and her education is a complete waste. How can a man claim hes a man and he is still dependent on his parents at his adult age.even young boys as young as 21,22 move out of their father's house as soon as they start a business or get a job.ho abroad,by 18 or less you're out of your parents house.but an adult man wants to get married and live with his parents.tufiaaaa.una no dey get shame talk some kain things outside? If you cannot survive alone without your parents whether they're alive or dead it means you're not mature enough not to talk of mature to get married.e remain make una dey ask for pocket money from your retired father.na una type go dey fight una mama say she no cook food for you #Spits in disgust# tufiakwa once again 1 Like |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by dangotesmummy: 2:28pm On May 09 |
2mch:na so narcissistic men dey behave.with his mom and sisters and the flying monkeys |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by Callosobruchus(m): 2:57pm On May 09 |
dangotesmummy:I didn't use the word "love" in my comment,long and short of the whole story is that there can never be a successful marriage without commitment from both parties and that includes affection for eachother.A successful marriage and no feelings for eachother are totally mutually exclusive.In this case the girl is unwilling to come to compromise with the dude.Do you think a girl who's willing to become a wife to the one she's willing to would act like how she's acting? |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by morgstreme: 3:26pm On May 09 |
ChizzyBuna: Peasant perceiving "Juvenile".. Stop being half as smart.. There goes another pedestrian statistic that has his feeling hurt with his flattened ego making outbursts instead of learning.. You will be here in another 15years, complaining about how the woman you married left you cos you couldn't "keep up".. Mentally Lazy Lad! |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by 1Sharon(f): 3:28pm On May 09 |
dangotesmummy: Abi o. How do you feel comfortable having sex with your wife knowing your parents are just in the next room? Some people have mind 1 Like |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by morgstreme: 3:29pm On May 09 |
ChizzyBuna: I mentioned what I know and live and experience... You mentioned from your own world of lack and "survival"... Why are your feelings hurt Initially you used one brush to paint women of nowadays.. Now you have seen your faulty "keyhole perspective ",you want to do a fast one and twist what you said earlier on.. As I said, It's your LEVEL.. Embrace it is you always have..Enjoy it |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by morgstreme: 3:31pm On May 09 |
ChizzyBuna: Poor slowpoke! Apart from not being COGNITIVE,you are plain DAFT.. How many rich do you see divorce on grounds of financial survivability You are just a poor kid! |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by dangotesmummy: 3:43pm On May 09 |
1Sharon:it just irks of mannerlessness and lack of self respect |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by morgstreme: 3:44pm On May 09 |
ChizzyBuna: Hallucinating It's what I know..it's my world.. What you know is what's obtainable daily in your world of peasantry.. I am a 3rd generation rich kid tuned 50 something year old man and it will follow my kids.. My granddaddy was a millionaire in any currency..name it...till he passed at almost 90..I sure know if I mention his name,it will ring a bell.. He taught my dad how to live that way and my parents taught us how to live that way and pass it on to our kids.. I don't know what it means to "manage" life and it's same with my kids and will be same with my grandkids.. So I don't understand your Miscreant spews.. Why the animosity and "hidden" jealousyIt is what it is.. And we're you expecting the rich to be like 30% of the population? How "myriad"can one be upstairs Stop being pained and stop with the generalisation that when you go to church on Saturday and see a man getting married,you pity him.. It's your kind you should pity.. Your same kind just like the men you see marrying on Saturdays.. It's what you know all your life..and might be so till you die.. And that's why you generalised.. You did a bad job trying to cover your mess up about how women these days are out for survival.. These "money hungry" girls from the boondocks have really dealt with you in this your short wretched life..🤣 |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by dangotesmummy: 3:49pm On May 09 |
Callosobruchus:they're both immature.i repeat A man that is not mature is one who is still living off his father.its not a question of compromise.of course compromise is a necessity in marriage but there's a thin line between compromise and making foolish decisions and the man not having a home of his own is CLEARLY NOT READY TO BE MARRIED and his priority should not be marriage.it should be self development and financial autonomy.in the same way any girl whose mind is not made up and she's still indecisive about the man she wants to get married to is immature. That thing you're calling compromise is what will destroy their marriage eventually because of inlaw Intrusion.moreover it is a man who doesn't respect himself or love his family and privacy that will be saying his wife should live in a family house.everybody will now be chooking mouth in his matter.both the one wey get sense and the one wey no get sense.above all it's indecent. |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by 1Sharon(f): 3:49pm On May 09 |
2mch: Exactly. Marrying into a family house is beneficial for the man, not the wife. Nigerians generally are not good hosts. They make you work for your stay. The wife will not only become a slave to the mother, but the entire extended family. |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by Omoluabi16(m): 4:33pm On May 09 |
PrimadonnaO:Exactly @ the bolded. It should never have dragged on for too far. Red flags everywhere by both of them.who threatens to call off a wedding over 15k. Quote an indecisive woman. Then the man promising to move out after marriage is just deception. |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by Omoluabi16(m): 4:37pm On May 09 |
Ishilove:Exactly. But nothing spoil. She must return am. |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by campbelljosh(m): 4:44pm On May 09 |
As she don cancel the wedding i hope she is ready to return and refund the guy the bride price and all money spent for her family concerning the wedding? |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by Gentlesoul2021(m): 5:46pm On May 09 |
I've never agreed with this style of living. If not for early demise, I believe I, too, would have an apartment in my father's house. I don't intend to stay there forever but stay and grow from there That's a solid foundation for any man that's a young upstart. The advantages such has far outweigh the woman's feelings. To her, it's just feelings, but it saves one money. It helps with having able-bodied men around to defend territories, from harm. The unity can be transferred to the children and they know their siblings and have closer relationships. The bills are less burdensome because that separation comes with enormous bills. My father and his siblings had such a kind of relationship and my children will surely have it. Boys have men to look up to, girls have women to look up to. Everyone attends to chores as a unit. I still remember those days when we were growing up. It was perfect but it will forever be glued to my heart. If I see women hammering on separation, I'm just disgusted because that is exactly why it is believed that men will be fine until a woman comes in with her separation mindset and ruins the family. I am not against them wanting privacy but they'd still have privacy even in a man's father's apartment. 1 Like |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by oloritunmmy(f): 6:43pm On May 09 |
Leaving comes before cleaving. If the man is not ready to leave, then he is as well not ready to cleave. What if she proceed with the wedding, and he refused to leave after the wedding as promised? What will the lady do? Afterall, she's got no choice anymore. My take is that she was supposed to support in raising the house rent, instead of cancelling the wedding |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by Prettychild(f): 7:57pm On May 09 |
poshestmina:Thank God you said ‘let’s contribute and rent’, it will shock you that this lady no go bring shishi to contribute for rent |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by optm(m): 8:55pm On May 09 |
dangotesmummy:I do not have the whole picture of things and why he decided to have gone about it this way. I am just particular about her making demands and not contributing in anyways. That spells one who would be a liability rather than an asset to the man in marriage. 1 Like |
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