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oluwaseyi0:
Her ban doesn't make sense
You may not agree with her view which I also do not agree to

But banning her social accounts just for her non criminal opinion is terrible

If we continue with this nonsense it means one day some few elite will be the one deciding all we think otherwise they will ban us

One day when you speak against gayism they will ban you, when you speak against your leaders they will ban you, when you speak against smoking and drinking they will ban you, when you speak against popular but untrue opinion they will ban you

It’s a criminal opinion, she went against social medias usage rules. Do you know that she can go to jail in some countries for that her controversial takes? She’s spreading falsehood, promiscuity, body for money, hatred for men and so on. You need to watch her videos to know that she deserves whatever she got

theredaddy:
There are websites dedicated to promote hookup, prostitution and orgies but NOT social platforms like facebook,tik tok and instagram

Onlys fans is not on the same pedestals as facebook, X and instagram, only fans is private and entails premium membership i.e you intentionally subscribe for explicit content you want to view. private misconduct is allowed not public.

What makes you think women can't report, whose gender image is on the line ?? or does her action & utterances glorify women's image, e.g nobody uses report button more than pocohantas/friends on NL (fact)

It is no crime to carry olosho and pay 10k, as long as payment is made no Sin, lets assume the lady was your lil sister will you be happy she is prostituting ?
whether 10k or 20m is prostitution a thing of pride in our society? so why do you think the society only frowned at her cos of the ridiculous price ? if it was 10k would Nigerians have celebrated her.

Premium as measurement/scale, aside breast and yansh weytin she carry, is it name, brand, or net worth
if there are explicit and raunchy content on social media like facebook, X e.t.c it is because they are yet to be detected and reported.

which stupid society


mtchw

shortgun:
When will people realize that content creators say all these stupid things just for engagements?

Just like Reno Omokri, that's the only way they feed.

sometimes the stupid things they say are detrimental to the society. I know most of it is for content and the ones that are negative should be punished regardless of if they feed from it or what not

HellVictorinho6:
which stupid society


mtchw

You want to know what society is, outside your compound, try having sex or waank

rubbish

SAMBARRY:
my point is if you want to get rid of clowns like Saidaboj and make her irrelevant or stop her negative influence,podcasters should stop inviting her for podcasts, bloggers should stop carrying her opinions and making it go viral.she is having audacity and liver because of the social media attention men,podcasters and other social media influencers are giving her.instead promote decent and self respecting women that promote healthy family values and work ethics.but I know men don't like women like that.its the controversial ones that say weird creepy things they like.

What is wrong in inviting those women I mentioned earlier? Stable, decent and well brought up ladies?

Ok she will not come out half naked with big eyelashes,bbl yansh and long nails.she will be modest, homely and polished

It's the werey ones una like

We are almost saying the same thing. A lot of the decent ones are getting married each day silently. Then to bloggers, I know some of them do invite career ladies for interview and highlighting their careers. Though it won't generate much traffic like those "wayward" ladies. It is the same men and women that will flood the page just to see and catch cruise in order to get some entertainment and forget their worries. But most men don't take them serious except for weekend fun while going to the decent ones for permanent relationship and marriage.

SAMBARRY:
lmao no wonder girls like saidaboj have no issues disrespecting you and looking down on you

Ignorant, unintelligent and overly emotional men are the Lowest versions of men.they are worse than beta men and even lower than dogs because they don't have the capacity to think, understand and look beyond their noses, anyone can play them

You're still writing rubbish, the olosho you're hyping as god only have the attention of a jobless m0rons like you


I don't even know the lady and I don't want to know, write this your shit to simp


Left to kids you ladies are irrelevant to me, get sense or borrow one

ThothHermes:
She said she only sleeps with men with money. That's free and protected speech. It's her right to sleep with whoever she likes. How does that violate their terms and conditions?
If enough people report your account, you will get blocked regardless of what you did. That's what happened here.
Nigerian men are just angry that the amount she was calling was above their range. What has self-respect got to do with it?

I think the issue here may be with her delivery. Obviously Saida Boj has the right to set her boundaries and expectations, even if it completely disregards social norms. I have absolutely no problem with that. But I feel there are better ways she could have communicated these expectations, without making it look as if men were simply just tools or objects to be used for her self-satisfaction. I think it's the lack of respect for men's agency and consent in her comments that's riling guys up. She really does come across as conceited in that regard. At least, to me.

That being said, I think it's funny how many posters here are using this lady's comments to judge women as an entire category. Not that I'm surprised though. Most people simply do not understand the concept of having personal opinions that may not resonate with everybody.

Watianoengineer:
Imagine how hypocritical Peter Obi is? Today is president Tinubu's one year anniversary yet he has not congratulated him for a job well done. But assuming president Tinubu decide to introduce more taxes to make Nigeria a better country he would have criticized the patriotic decision.

I used to be an Obidient but when I saw the light I keep praying for Tinubu's government to succeed so we can all see that he mean well for Nigeria

which light Nepa light or Torch light

I don't get why people are attacking SAMBARRY over writing a long post. If reading lengthy comments is not your speed, why not just scroll past and find another comment else to read? Are you guys funding his internet services?

SAMBARRY:


Saida saida every naija man's nightmare

But you sef you too do,you too talk.even blessing CEO wey be your role model no talk like this

There are some things that you should not be saying on the internet and aside that I have issues with podcasters like nedu.dont you see decent, intelligent and self respecting women to bring on your podcast? Why always controversial girls that say the most outrageous things. I also blame bloggers for making her funny opinions go viral.there are girls with master's Degree who are inventing things, some are pilot,nurses,chefs , journalists,lawyers,traders etc you will not invite those ones.you see why I said a lot of men deserve girls like saidaboj.you elevate lousy girls like her by giving her undue attention but the agreeable ones with a stable mind and a decent character you see those ones as boring and dry

Saida you can go and rest from the internet space and do a little introspection.everything is not Cho Cho Cho Cho Cho.you have attracted too much negative attention and energy on yourself.try and minimize your words.you fight a,you fight b,you fight c on the internet.when you now need help how you go take do am?

Another issue you say untill a man gives you 20 million before you can nack am, ABI? I don't know whether this is childishness or narcissism or you're just being opinionated.i wish you have a big sister that can be real with you.let me tell you,yhy only people that can drop 30 million for your poosy in Nigeria of today where there's pervasive unemployment and the minimum wage is 30k are maybe people engaged in large scale crime like drug peddling, human trafficking or kidnapping because they do crime to make money so they can afford to throw it carelessly and you see those types of men they are a danger to themselves, family , society and even you.so any man giving you that type of money to engage in casual sex with you is up to something very dangerous because men don't just throw money like that especially for poosy that is everywhere

Again you can decide to prostitute if that's the life you choose, fine.but why must you implicitly encourage prostitution on podcast.o wrong NAU.do your prostitution alone,don't drag others.this is to also say any man that gives you such amount is likely baiting you to kill, kidnap or do something terrible to you.br careful how you look for money.the streets is not nice, internet too never forgives nor forgets

However TikTok did you a favor by holding your account.maybe this time you can start on a new slate and start promoting positive values with your page.

Though I Know a lot of naija men don't like decent women if not you will see women who openly encourage prostitution, debauchery and sexual promiscuity having millions of followers with long list of men in their DMS begging them for dates while the ones who go to work, church/mosque and live a peaceful quiet life Minding their buisness and covering up their bodies are the ones with 20likes and 40 followers on social media.this only goes to show naija men like toxic,rude, promiscuous and vulgar women but come outside to say they want homely and agreeable women

she wan trend now. Now she don trend enter ban.

Babaric

I think people like this making life difficult for responsible women should be taken down to avoid intimidation. Good for her!

oluwaseyi0:
Her ban doesn't make sense
You may not agree with her view which I also do not agree to

But banning her social accounts just for her non criminal opinion is terrible

If we continue with this nonsense it means one day some few elite will be the one deciding all we think otherwise they will ban us

One day when you speak against gayism they will ban you, when you speak against your leaders they will ban you, when you speak against smoking and drinking they will ban you, when you speak against popular but untrue opinion they will ban you

ban well deserved.


Seun, lalasticlala, Mynd44, Dominique, justwise, and other moderators please delete her nairaland account before she pollutes us, because me I want to make heaven o

theredaddy:
You want to know what society is, outside your compound, try having sex or waank

rubbish

Just fly away

Nonsense

Enemyofpeace:
ban well deserved.


Seun, lalasticlala, Mynd44, Dominique, justwise, and other moderators please delete her nairaland account before she pollutes us, because me I want to make heaven o

Enemy of peace that want to make heaven what an irony

Awon eyan MC Oluomo

Tame26:
It’s a criminal opinion, she went against social medias usage rules. Do you know that she can go to jail in some countries for that her controversial takes? She’s spreading falsehood, promiscuity, body for money, hatred for men and so on. You need to watch her videos to know that she deserves whatever she got

Criminal opinion? LOL. Let's not get overly dramatic, please. She only just stated her own personal opinion, which isn't intended to constitute any form of danger to anyone.

oluwaseyi0:
Enemy of peace that want to make heaven what an irony

Awon eyan MC Oluomo

ban well deserved.


Seun, lalasticlala, Mynd44, Dominique, justwise, and other moderators please delete her nairaland account before she pollutes us, because me I want to make heaven o

One girl wey I know they give rimming for 15k
Na fine girl ooo

She dey rim well well

JessicaRabbit:
I don't get why people are attacking SAMBARRY over writing a long post. If reading lengthy comments is not your speed, why not just scroll past and find another comment else to read? Are you guys funding his internet services?

I Taya o

Their comments just keep justifying my point of view

Timothy89:
You're still writing rubbish, the olosho you're hyping as god only have the attention of a jobless m0rons like you


I don't even know the lady and I don't want to know, write this your shit to simp


Left to kids you ladies are irrelevant to me, get sense or borrow one

you're just justifying my point and displaying your folly.if not you will understand that there was no where I was supporting her but because you lack the capacity to think,read and comprehend you think I'm supporting her

theredaddy:
There are websites dedicated to promote hookup, prostitution and orgies but NOT social platforms like facebook,tik tok and instagram

Oga. There are social media pages and groups where these things happen.

Onlys fans is not on the same pedestals as facebook, X and instagram, only fans is private and entails premium membership i.e you intentionally subscribe for explicit content you want to view. private misconduct is allowed not public.

Oga there are pages and podcasts on Facebook that discuss the activities of OnlyFans models. Explain which part of this lady's comments qualifies as misconduct.

What makes you think women can't report, whose gender image is on the line ?? or does her action & utterances glorify women's image, e.g nobody uses report button more than pocoh antas/friends on NL (fact)

Suddenly men are concerned about gender image (whatever that means)

It is no crime to carry olosho and pay 10k, as long as payment is made no Sin, lets assume the lady was your lil sister will you be happy she is prostituting ?
whether 10k or 20m is prostitution a thing of pride in our society? so why do you think the society only frowned at her cos of the ridiculous price ? if it was 10k would Nigerians have celebrated her.

It was because of the price. Men who pay that kind of money are not bothered about what she said. So far say you dey sleep with woman wey no be your wife, you no better pass that girl.

Premium as measurement/scale, aside breast and yansh weytin she carry, is it name, brand, or net worth
if there are explicit and raunchy content on social media like facebook, X e.t.c it is because they are yet to be detected and reported.

Na brand o my brother. Bottled water for go-slow no be the same price as bottled water for club, even though na from the same factory.
Think about it.

Santalpharay:
We are almost saying the same thing. A lot of the decent ones are getting married each day silently. Then to bloggers, I know some of them do invite career ladies for interview and highlighting their careers. Though it won't generate much traffic like those "wayward" ladies. It is the same men and women that will flood the page just to see and catch cruise in order to get some entertainment and forget their worries. But most men don't take them serious except for weekend fun while going to the decent ones for permanent relationship and marriage.

if you want decent ladies to be more in number then promote them instead of jokers like saidaboj.promoting her page I giving her the attention she's hoeing for.unfortunately you're giving impressionable girls the impression that being a hoe, attention seeker and nudist is cool but being a decent girl will make you not have a good life hence the narrative

GOOD GIRL NO DEY PAY that girls push around on social media

JessicaRabbit:
I think the issue here may be with her delivery. Obviously Saida Boj has the right to set her boundaries and expectations, even if it completely disregards social norms. I have absolutely no problem with that. But I feel there are better ways she could have communicated these expectations, without making it look as if men were simply just tools or objects to be used for her self-satisfaction. I think it's the lack of respect for men's agency and consent in her comments that's riling guys up. She really does come across as conceited in that regard. At least, to me.

That being said, I think it's funny how many posters here are using this lady's comments to judge women as an entire category. Not that I'm surprised though. Most people simply do not understand the concept of having personal opinions that may not resonate with everybody.

Yes. Her delivery triggered men. How did she disrespect men's agency and consent? She only said she sleeps with a certain calibre of men. The men who did not fall into that group brought out their knives.

Idun2024:
Hehehe

If this had happened in Nigeria, some enemies of progress from a cursed region would have said Tinupoo paid tiktok to ban that person

Another empty brain spotted, what's the correlation between the topic and the gibberish you spilled?

oluwaseyi0:
Her ban doesn't make sense
You may not agree with her view which I also do not agree to

But banning her social accounts just for her non criminal opinion is terrible

If we continue with this nonsense it means one day some few elite will be the one deciding all we think otherwise they will ban us

One day when you speak against gayism they will ban you, when you speak against your leaders they will ban you, when you speak against smoking and drinking they will ban you, when you speak against popular but untrue opinion they will ban you

I don't believe TikTok banned her for her controversial statement on that podcast, rather it was a massive account report by fellow Nigerians that got her banned. Either ways I support the ban for body shaming that Delta comedienne I can't remember her name though.

ThothHermes:
Yes. Her delivery triggered men. How did she disrespect men's agency and consent? She only said she sleeps with a certain calibre of men. The men who did not fall into that group brought out their knives.

I felt like her objectification of men as mere ATMs was the primary disrespect here. I guess that's what I was trying to convey when I said it undermines their agency. Perhaps I didn't word it correctly. I'm just trying to acknowledge the perspective of those who might be offended by her comments.

ThothHermes:
Oga. There are social media pages and groups where these things happen.

Oga there are pages and podcasts on Facebook that discuss the activities of OnlyFans models. Explain which part of this lady's comments qualifies as misconduct.

Suddenly men are concerned about gender image (whatever that means)


It was because of the price. Men who pay that kind of money are not bothered about what she said. So far say you dey sleep with woman wey no be your wife, you no better pass that girl.

Na brand o my brother. Bottled water for go-slow no be the same price as bottled water for club, even though na from the same factory.
Think about it.

Stop arguing whats unjustifiable, I am not disputing whether those pages exist or not on facebook or whatever

My stand is clear n simple listen, the moment people find it offensive and report it they will take it down, what the gurl posted if people had not reported against her she will still have account up n running

You keeping shouting it is the price, if a gurl post a nude picture on facebook and ask for 2k .. does it mean it will generate 10m likes & share, or is it only men that follow/comment on that page

your reasoning is sickening or don't you think

HellVictorinho6:
Just fly away

Nonsense

go outside n waank naw, that sense you no wan get society will beat it back into your coconut head

se you no wan get sense nii rubbish

ThothHermes:
She said she only sleeps with men with money. That's free and protected speech. It's her right to sleep with whoever she likes. How does that violate their terms and conditions?

Was that what she said? Why una dey like lies like this? She advertised herself as a sex object. Not only that, she literally said that she could be violated anyhow as long as you pay her good money.

If enough people report your account, you will get blocked regardless of what you did. That's what happened here.
Nigerian men are just angry that the amount she was calling was above their range. What has self-respect got to do with it?

Not regardless of what you did. The truth is that you may post some things that violate their terms and conditions but may escape them sanctions if people don't report you. But if your post doesn't violate their rules, 1 million reports can't make your handle blocked

Tit tok didn't ban her. Multiple people likely flagged her account

justnaijagist12:
TikTok has officially banned Saida Boj After she went viral for her comments on a podcast


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iSC95g7gncw?si=0NaG81p6wJH3WDXz



https://leadership.ng/influencer-saida-boj-chased-from-social-media-over-controversial-comments-on-men/

dis girl life deserve to be banned too, so who's not beautiful, and who should be sending who money, BRO if u are still sending any girl money, who is not ur sister, daughter, wife or mother for anything, u are d one of d biggest problems we have in this country...