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pls elaborate:"how can your underage kids not sleep at home and you only find out later?" dont you live with your family?

Yamleg:
My children (<6) didn't sleep at home a few days ago and I got to find out. Meanwhile my wife was trying to hide that scenario from me.

Kindly advise me. I feel betrayed as well.

How many children do you have?
And why are you not aware of the whereabouts of your own kids?
Are you a Baby daddy?

Your story is not complete. Come and finish it so that we would know how to advise you.

Puss360:
How many children do you have?
And why are you not aware of the whereabouts of your own kids?
Are you a Baby daddy?

I don't always sleep at home due to the nature of my job

MrBrownJay1:
pls elaborate:"how can your underage kids not sleep at home and you only find out later?" dont you live with your family?

I was on night shift on this particular day.

Yamleg:
I was on night shift on this particular day.

So, where did they sleep, and why did it hurt you?
What is the whole story?

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Yamleg:
She said she went to the market to stock up her store. She told me that she go back very late in the night and by then, the kids went home with an associate around her shop.

I got to know when I asked the eldest child about school and stuffs. While the children narrated the scenarios, their mum tried keeping them quiet.

Mind you, we have always had conflict about her returning late whenever she go to stock up her store. Probably she decided to lie so I won't know she got home late.

so the kids went to sleep at that "associate around her shop"s place or what? or did she go to pick the kids from that associate's place when she came back home late? bro, be more specific as your story is very incomprehensible...

- where did the kids sleep?
- how well do you guys know that "associate"?
- if its a close friend (that you trust your children with them) then why the big deal?

Yamleg:
She said she went to the market to stock up her store. She told me that she go back very late in the night and by then, the kids went home with an associate around her shop.

I got to know when I asked the eldest child about school and stuffs. While the children narrated the scenarios, their mum tried keeping them quiet.

Mind you, we have always had conflict about her returning late whenever she go to stock up her store. Probably she decided to lie so I won't know she got home late.

Obviously she was scared of how you react. I don't think it is a big issue. You two have to come to a consensus on where the children can stay whenever she goes to the market to stock up her store. It's not every situation that requires one to start raising their voice. You two can talk about the best backup plan in such situation.