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STEWpid:
Chai..





Even though I understand what you mean by No.10,


...buh, no one has ever done it alone.
True

Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.

STEWpid:
Chai..





Even though I understand what you mean by No.10,


...buh, no one has ever done it alone.

otipoju:
It means one has to take the initiative .

I have a cousin of about the same age. While he was waiting for one uncle to help him, I was making small small moves to better myself.

Uncle disappoint and after twenty five years they are now blaming him for not trying to improve himself.

Till date that nasty " come and save me mindset " is still in him and I am the new messiah. Person wey senior me ooo.

I had to ignore a message he sent some months back saying I am the only one who can help him.

This man was told to go learn any digital skill and I will pay for the training and certification so he can compete on the global scene and earn in dollars. Na lie na motor him wan make I buy for am to dey do Uber.


That mindset is deadly. No one is coming to save you for real.

STEWpid:
Chai..


What you narrated is absolute uselessness.



That's not what I'm talking about.




I have witnessed a guy with wife and two kids struggling but determined in his place of work as an employee in a construction company.

One big client saw him and his efforts and decided to take him as a partner because of his experience. The guy basically run the new company and the big client is just based on return. The client took a loan of N500m to push the business - it wasn't up to 6 months that the money was regained and returned.

The guy right now is a mad multimillionaire and the client too is richer and never regretted his investment on the young man.

Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.

Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.

kokoA:
I don't agree with number 3. Family is family, there's no difference.

STEWpid:
Chai..





Even though I understand what you mean by No.10,


...buh, no one has ever done it alone.

Kutunban:
Learn to give credit to source, this piece was picked from Quora.

Godfullsam:
Number 10 is a direct opposite of what is obtainable in Nigeria.

Here in Nigeria, you will rarely make it by doing it alone.
You need helps, prayers and connections to be successful or to get out of trouble.

If you think you can handle your problems alone, the problem may consume you.
It all boils down to the volume of issues you have and the calibre of people you meet for help.

STEWpid:
Chai..


What you narrated is absolute uselessness.



That's not what I'm talking about.




I have witnessed a guy with wife and two kids struggling but determined in his place of work as an employee in a construction company.

One big client saw him and his efforts and decided to take him as a partner because of his experience. The guy basically run the new company and the big client is just based on return. The client took a loan of N500m to push the business - it wasn't up to 6 months that the money was regained and returned.

The guy right now is a mad multimillionaire and the client too is richer and never regretted his investment on the young man.

otipoju:
It means one has to take the initiative .

I have a cousin of about the same age. While he was waiting for one uncle to help him, I was making small small moves to better myself.

Uncle disappoint and after twenty five years they are now blaming him for not trying to improve himself.

Till date that nasty " come and save me mindset " is still in him and I am the new messiah. Person wey senior me ooo.

I had to ignore a message he sent some months back saying I am the only one who can help him.

This man was told to go learn any digital skill and I will pay for the training and certification so he can compete on the global scene and earn in dollars. Na lie na motor him wan make I buy for am to dey do Uber.


That mindset is deadly. No one is coming to save you for real.

Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.