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kokoA:
I don't agree with number 3. Family is family, there's no difference.

Obviously a kid. When u grow up, I mean in ur head o, not physically necessarily, u will understand.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.


Nigerians ehn!

Thief dey give advice. Lol.

Atleast you should have written the source (The person and the Site).
You can't say it's yours because I have read something very similar on Quora.

kokoA:
I don't agree with number 3. Family is family, there's no difference.

When you get married, you will understand that number 3. And again, you will see your immediate family to be the core family. Before you even say you want to give one sister or brother something, na your wife and children you will want to focus on the more.

Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Op, These are just scratches on the surface of what life really entails as these points have been posted several times.

Well you tried.

The real knowledge about life is dark and hidden.

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Dangotes rich wealthy uncle gave himn 500k loan to start business. 500k the year he gave him several decades ago, when $1 less than 200naira, is worth over BIG BROTHER NAIJA 100million naira prize money,today at the present exchange rate

the loan Dangote received, which was worth ₦500,000 in 1977, could now purchase something worth ₦2.9 billion in today's ...

GUYS MY UNCLE GO EPP ME MAKE ME BLOW EVEN AS I SHOW SIGNS OF RESPONSIBILITY AND HELPING MYSELF ALREADY BEFORE THAT BIG UNCLE EPP SHOWS

imagine am Femi Otedolas child, or Adeleke omo I don blow for life

kokoA:
I don't agree with number 3. Family is family, there's no difference.

Don't mind him, people forgot that there are some problems that even your wife and children will have no choice but to call attention of those you feel are not important.

The family you created could be the first on the scale of preference but the one you came from should also be important to you.

BeigJawnson:
When you get married, you will understand that number 3. And again, you will see your immediate family to be the core family. Before you even say you want to give one sister or brother something, na your wife and children you will want to focus on the more.

and when your wife leaves you, and dna says your children isnt yours, you'll cry to your family. Simple man

kokoA:
I don't agree with number 3. Family is family, there's no difference.

what he mean is that if you don't come from rich family, let rich family come from you

And without Jesus Christ in your life. All is baseless

Number 5 is bullshit.


Do you how much a senator earn? Which other dream would be has wished?


What about if my dream is to for someone as long as I exist and use the salary to take care of me?

If you can follow the steps according you wont be a fool @ 40

No. 9 is the pivot point in my life. It was when I forgave my dad, I started seeing progress in my life.

Please add the fact that nobody owes you anything in this life. You have to work for anything you want.

Omor op u see that no. 4? very valid, everybody for my house na govt. worker (except me) including our last born wey go soon graduate frm police academy wudil. It took a lot of convincing for my dad to agree to for me to go into own line of business... For this life make u try be the boss of ur own.

I see a lot of folks here justifying their selfishness and wickedness to not help their brothers in need.

I weep for this generation.

Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.

God bless u for this post.
Every point stated here was nothing but the bitter TRUTH

0001Lagos:
Thread like this don't make front page

Na nonsense dey make front page

And for good reason. Threads like these SHOULD NOT make front page.
YouTube and internet in general are full of videos and aphorisms like these.
Quite annoying

This is a worthy topic.

NICE !!!

otipoju:
It means one has to take the initiative .

I have a cousin of about the same age. While he was waiting for one uncle to help him, I was making small small moves to better myself.

Uncle disappoint and after twenty five years they are now blaming him for not trying to improve himself.

Till date that nasty " come and save me mindset " is still in him and I am the new messiah. Person wey senior me ooo.

I had to ignore a message he sent some months back saying I am the only one who can help him.

This man was told to go learn any digital skill and I will pay for the training and certification so he can compete on the global scene and earn in dollars. Na lie na motor him wan make I buy for am to dey do Uber.


That mindset is deadly. No one is coming to save you for real.

You talk too much you are not a man

Everything up there is nothing but FACTS!

Thanks Op.

legendsofthesee:
and when your wife leaves you, and dna says your children isnt yours, you'll cry to your family. Simple man

Then you don't inquire very well before jumping into marriage... Yes call me a simp or whatever... I have a lovely family with a lovely woman.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

The above is for the lazy boy Helinue, who spend all his life on NL defending the undefendable.

phorget:
This is a worthy topic.

But don't put it on front page. YouTube, TiKTok, etc are full of videos and write-ups like these

Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.

That's a great piece of wisdom... Thanks 👍🏾😊

Abegi next page

That number five is great

STAY AWAY FROM SOCIETY ADVISE,MANY OF THEM DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT THEY ARE DOING, SAYING POSTING ON SOCIAL MEDIA!

Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.

Excellent write-up
I feel this is pointing directly to me
But I've tried to overcome most of it.. it shows progress.
Mods pls front page

Noted