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Good day nairalanders, thank God this site is a faceless forum... Few weeks ago my dad told me he is HIV positive, when he told me I was disappointed but I made sure I didn't show it and I encouraged him... Him and my mother has been sick for a while and I certainly know he has transferred it to my mum.... My dad was very promiscuous when he was younger even after he married my mom he was still promiscuous. I am the only child and I have been footing the bills for their medical cares I am just 26 years old and I have spent so much and there is more spending still to come.... My father only told me, my mother is not aware of her health status all she thinks it's just a normal sickness happening to her. I have no one to talk to, I don't trust any friends because I believe when I tell them, they will certainly spread the news and you know the stigmatization against HIV patients, it's not good... I am frustrated, depressed and financially drained, sometimes I stay in my room and cry.... To avoid thinking, sometimes I just drink some alcohol... This issue has been in my heart for several weeks I just had to put it on Nairaland to ease my pain. My father just called me today that my mom has been admitted to the hospital, she was too weak to even walk.... Another spending and I am running out of cash, don't know what to do anymore. It wouldn't be this severe if they found out earlier, it's almost late. May God help me and my parents.

Please let your mother go for test so she can start medication biko

JoyousFurnitire:
Please let your mother go for test so she can start medication biko

she has already gone for test, the results is not yet out

Frost124:
Good day nairalanders, thank God this site is a faceless forum... Few weeks ago my dad told me he is HIV positive, when he told me I was disappointed but I made sure I didn't show it and I encouraged him... Him and my mother has been sick for a while and I certainly know he has transferred it to my mum.... My dad was very promiscuous when he was younger even after he married my mom he was still promiscuous. I am the only child and I have been footing the bills for their medical cares I am just 26 years old and I have spent so much and there is more spending still to come.... My father only told me, my mother is not aware of her health status all she thinks it's just a normal sickness happening to her. I have no one to talk to, I don't trust any friends because I believe when I tell them, they will certainly spread the news and you know the stigmatization against HIV patients, it's not good... I am frustrated, depressed and financially drained, sometimes I stay in my room and cry.... To avoid thinking, sometimes I just drink some alcohol... This issue has been in my heart for several weeks I just had to put it on Nairaland to ease my pain. My father just called me today that my mom has been admitted to the hospital, she was too weak to even walk.... Another spending and I am running out of cash, don't know what to do anymore. It wouldn't be this severe if they found out earlier, it's almost late. May God help me and my parents.

If you need someone to talk to, you can reach out to me.

Immediately register your parents on HMO. It will cost you abt 3 to 5k monthly. With that, HMO will be footing most of the bills.

I understand how you feel... Stay strong bro

dawnomike:
If you need someone to talk to, you can reach out to me.

Immediately register your parents on HMO. It will cost you abt 3 to 5k monthly. With that, HMO will be footing most of the bills.

I understand how you feel... Stay strong bro

please can I have your WhatsApp number and what's HMO?

Frost124:
she has already gone for test, the results is not yet out

Okay

If you are not very careful, your dad will drag you into the mess of a life which he created for himself. High BP and other health challenges are very real and many young people are suffering from it, so the earlier you give a reasonable gap between you and that man, the better, for the safety of your health. Bible says a man will reap what he sows.

In all you do save your mother. I think you should stop paying your dad's hospital bills since you are going through a financial stress. Remember he caused this pain to his family. Telling your mother she's contracted the virus will cause her serious trauma, so if you open up ensure to be around her often, because she will hate her husband forever.

Frost124:
please can I have your WhatsApp number and what's HMO?

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