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I Don't Know If I Should Still Go With Him by Tumininu22(op): 8:13pm On Jun 13, 2024
I had a relationship of 3yrs and 4 months old. We met at my sister's place, he came to spend some time with his uncle, we started our love story, it gets to a point, I was no getting him

He truly showed me love and I love him so much too, he promised me heaven and earth. My sis doesn't like him because he smokes, he takes weed every day that I had to complain to him to stop smoking,

When he left his uncle's place, his attitude changed, then I got to know that he has trust issues, he told me not to cheat on him, because all the girls he ever dated cheated on him, I made a promise with my whole life...I left my sis place to my mom's place because of her attitude towards me all because, I was still dating my boyfriend. At my mom's place, I had an issue with my step father, so I ran to his place where his Mom lives. When I was there, I don't come out, I was always inside with him or if he wants to go out, I'll be locked inside, still he accused me of sleeping with his brothers and beat me, because of this we consulted a prophet, the prophet told him, I'm a good girl that I have a good heart

I left his place to my father's family, he still came to apologize, saying that it's was the drug that he was taking that lead to it, that he was very sorry. I had him back into my life, I did something that wasn't good, I told him I did something and I don't know what was wrong me that made me to do that, he couldn't keep my secret while I was trying to make amendment

I left my father's family place, to a sister place, even though we were not related, but she used me as her house help, while I was with this auntie, my boyfriend was in island suffering, he begged me on the phone, which I still reconsidered, he was broke that i was sending him money

When I left that auntie's place, he left Island back to his mom's place and I went back to my mom's place, we started seeing each other again,untill a day that we had an argument. That day I was at home at my sis place, I was the only one inside her house, my boyfriend called me that, he doesn't even trust me, who's there with me, I then did a video call with him, around 2am ooo, showing him every corner of the house, if truly someone was inside, he will hear sounds or notice something, we were cool at some point, he started again saying, he heard someone flushing the toilet, then I told him that he should leave me , I need to sleep, he didn't hang up for some minutes, he then hanged up and call again,

Meanwhile, he gave 700k that I should keep that when he sees more money, he will get an apartment, so when he called back, he asked me to send the money, I jokingly told him, I won't be sending it, till the next day, he came to my sis place with his mom, embarrassing himself and his mom. Buh the thing is ever since we separated, I still think about him, and I've been trying to get him out of my head buh it's not working, what should I do, he already came to beg me twice at my working place, I turned him down. He is still all over me, I think about him every free time and I'm sure he does too.

What should I do?
Re: I Don't Know If I Should Still Go With Him by advanceDNA: 9:34pm On Jun 13, 2024
Tumininu22:
I had a relationship of 3yrs and 4 months old. We met at my sister's place, he came to spend some time with his uncle, we started our love story, it gets to a point, I was no getting him

He truly showed me love and I love him so much too, he promised me heaven and earth.
What should I do?
U say wetin??

Wait.......So, when a drug taker was promising u heaven and earth......u ddnt remember to ask him where the rest of us will stay, including the principalities occupying the heavenly places ??

The place that made me laugh was u joking with 700k someone entrust u with

An in..why u sef like rough play...?? grin
Re: I Don't Know If I Should Still Go With Him by samwash(m): 10:42pm On Jun 13, 2024
If I may ask how old are you & your boyfriend?
Re: I Don't Know If I Should Still Go With Him by Tumininu22(op): 11:08pm On Jun 13, 2024
advanceDNA:
U say wetin??

Wait.......So, when a drug taker was promising u heaven and earth......u ddnt remember to ask him where the rest of us will stay, including the principalities occupying the heavenly places ??

The place that made me laugh was u joking with 700k someone entrust u with

An in..why u sef like rough play...?? grin
I did that to make him suffer, I didn't have the intention of keeping the money to myself, he just doesn't want to have sense, even after he has stopped smoking
samwash:
If I may ask how old are you & your boyfriend?
I'm 22 and he will be 26 this year
Re: I Don't Know If I Should Still Go With Him by Tumininu22(op): 11:12pm On Jun 13, 2024
I did that to make him suffer, I never had the intention of keeping the money to myself, he just doesn't want to have sense even after he had stopped smoking, I help him to stop smoking
Re: I Don't Know If I Should Still Go With Him by advanceDNA: 7:44am On Jun 14, 2024
Tumininu22:
I did that to make him suffer, I never had the intention of keeping the money to myself, he just doesn't want to have sense even after he had stopped smoking, I help him to stop smoking
How is he not having sense that u decides to make him suffer...??

And BTW...How did u help him stop smoking...because I have a smoker friend too, I want to make him stop ??
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