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Good morning Nairalanders, last night I and my wife was having some arguments and she threatened to take my life and send me to the afterlife and later start apologizing endlessly saying it's a joke, she has called hundreds of missed calls but I haven't been able to pick up as I'm hell bent to do what's on my mind, which is sending her back to her parents house. The threat still rings a bell on my head until this very moment, and I don't think I'd be able to comfortably live with her under same roof again. See screenshot below of the threat and her apologies claiming it's a joke.

From your chat, you self can frustrate person. You too frustrate her and you no come get better word for mouth.

More....

More..

You are not a good husband too for constantly using foul languages for your wife. Check yourself bro.

Omo... see vile and bile

Fear catch me

Na so marriage dey be


OP, there are more experienced people here on NL, dem go guide you through

BUt going by her last messages, it shows she may not mean all that but then threat to life

I confuse o

madridguy:
You are not a good husband too for constantly using foul languages for your wife. Check yourself bro.

E don enter am
Those Cococ.... and others will come for his head today

Dem go finish am

Man uses foul language on his wife as if shes his rented slave

madridguy:
You are not a good husband too for constantly using foul languages for your wife. Check yourself bro.

I was angry, the word she said make me loose myself.

DevilsEqual:
Omo... see vile and bile

Fear catch me

Na so marriage dey be


OP, there are more experienced people here on NL, dem go guide you through

BUt going by her last messages, it shows she may not mean all that but then threat to life

I confuse o

I'm so confuse as well, from her text she meant it, now saying it's a joke.

DevilsEqual:
E don enter am
Those Cococ.... and others will come for his head today

Dem go finish am

Man uses foul language on his wife as if shes his rented slave

I pray someone doesn't threaten to take your someday, foul language would be a child's play on what you'd have done.

Kyng1:
I was angry, the word she said make me loose myself.

And she wasn't angry...?

Didn't your foul words make her loose herself too.

You both are guilty of the same doings!

I wasn't willing to believe this is actually an exchange of words between a husband and wife until I read the last part.

I'm speechless rn.

Your mind seems prepared already to leave her, you just needed a good excuse . You have one

She has Apologised baba.
If she aren't pregnant, I will be wondering where her frustration is coming from.
She just need your love and care for her and the babe that's all.
Please forgive her just this time. She has learnt her lesson but next time she makes a comment like that, boot her ass out.

And remember she promised to dey bomb facebook for you oh all day.

brain54:
And she wasn't angry...?

Didn't your foul words make her loose herself too.

You both are guilty of the same doings!

I would never make such a threat no matter the frustration.

TerrouMuda:
She has Apologised baba.
If she aren't pregnant, I will be wondering where her frustration is coming from.
She just need your love and care for her and the babe that all.
Please forgive her just this time. She has learnt her lesson but next time she makes a comment like that, boot her ass out.

And remember she promised to dey bomb facebook for you oh all day.

Lol, tank's boss... I will do as you say, thank you.

Kyng1:
I'm so confuse as well, from her text she meant it, now saying it's a joke.

How about you post what you said that led to that statement from her.

That woman is 8 months pregnant for God's sake.

She sounds so tortured. My goodness!!!

RoyalBlu:
How about you post what you said that led to that statement from her.

That woman is 8 months pregnant for God's sake.

She sounds so tortured. My goodness!!!

It's because of the baby, that I'm frustrating her and she might have complications that she has landed on the hospital 4 times now because of me and it's affecting her baby that if anything should happen to the baby after her antinental scan on Friday which is tomorrow, she'd send me to the afterlife.

Treat a Wife well, &you end up with an Angel.
Treat a Wife badly, &you end up with a Devil.

The Choice is yours.

Kyng1:
Lol, tank's boss... I will do as you say, thank you.

No, thank you for forgiving her.
Na man you be.

Come o, why are you frustrating her?
Preg women use to act funny, you'd need to bear with her.

U sure say U ready for marriage like dis

Ahmed0336:
Come o, why are you frustrating her?
Preg women use to act funny, you'd need to bear with her.

U sure say U ready for marriage like dis

I wasn't ready boss, her pregnancy lead to the marriage, I wasn't in anyway ready. The love isn't there also.

I no dey put mouth for husband and wife wahala again.

U are simply not a good man to that woman.

I started feeling bad from the way and manner u may have frustrated that lady.

Is it even a crime to be a wife.

Treat that woman well,a breastfeeding mother at that.

Stop using curse words on ur wife and family...u are the head of the home. I wonder what would make a man to tell his wife to go and Bleep stone.

Apologise to her and start making your marriage work.

I blame u for everything because u don't know ur role as the Head. I have never abused my wife of 9years not even by mistake.

Seriously,I don't know how u guys are doing it.

Lastly,do not destroy ur home...rather rediscover yourself and make amends to make ur marriage work.

I blame ur wife for exchanging words with u in such a tensed situations.

This,I will say here is exactly what I will tell my brother/son in the absence of his wife.

Be a good man my brother.

Good luck to u as u guys amend and live in harmony thereafter.

I don't even give a fvck about you two misfits cum yahoo couple.. its that poor baby who didn't ask to be born into this trash I pity.

Kyng1:
I wasn't ready boss, her pregnancy lead to the marriage, I wasn't in anyway ready. The love isn't there also.

Don't marry a woman out of pity...you'll live to regret it for the rest of your life.

Kyng1:
It's because of the baby, that I'm frustrating her and she might have complications that she has landed on the hospital 4 times now because of me and it's affecting her baby that if anything should happen to the baby after her antinental scan on Friday which is tomorrow, she'd send me to the afterlife.

Now you're talking.

If really you're doing all these things to her, she's only trying to make you realize you'll see pepper if anything should happen to the baby.

She went overboard with her choice of words no doubt. But then...
Pregnancy comes with a whole lot of package. Your choice of words clearly shows you don't even understand this.

madridguy:
From your chat, you self can frustrate person. You too frustrate her and you no come get better word for mouth.

Thank you,from the screenshots seen, he's a narcissist,a tormentor,hot tempered,an abuser and very uncouth.


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Imagine telling his wife to go fvck a stone....gush.
Baby hasn't arrived yet and see the words they're throwing at each other


Oga for your information,rain drops on every roof.

First of OP;
The duty and responsibility of a husband is to love his wife no matter what.

You failed there.....

Marriage is not for the faint-hearted. You as a man really need to be matured both in mind and attitude. A wife is the reflection of what her husband is.

All women have bad mouth. No exception! But for a woman to go to the extent of threatening your life, hmmm you're in danger. You need to retrace your steps man.

That unborn child should not be experiencing this crualty between you and your wife. Put your house in order.

Bomb Facebook ke😂😂
You guys were clearly not ready for this marriage 😂

Husband and wife matter. I no fit put hand. Una two go come settle dey look me as enemy.