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I had done everything for pur marriage to work but she refused to amend our marriage and we separated now that I am living happily with my new babe then boom she started spreading rumours about me molesting her daughter something I have never done before she is doing all this thing because she is jealous that I am living happily after our separation. So I've contacted her asking her why is she spreading false allegations on me and if she is sure that I molested her daughter she should take the matter to the police so the police will request for a medical report on the child to see if I did it or not. She said she will take the matter to the police which she hasn't done but she keep spreading rumours about something that I have never done and people started believing her without her having any valid evidences. She is ruining my reputation with lies and I don't know what to do? Please help

You married a single mum?

I wanted to ask if you were a fool but then I realised you married a Nigerian Single Mother so I know tha answer to that.

So I'll go straight to the solution to your problem:

DON'T wait for her to take the matter to the police. She'll NEVER do that. It's more satisfying for her to assassinate your character and damage your reputation while you continue to squirm HELPLESSLY.

Instead, get off your ass and FILE a police report. Take ACTION and don't even let the bitch know.

THEN, get a lawyer and file a DEFAMATION lawsuit against her. What she's doing is a CRIME. It's not just trash talk.

Do BOTH immediately. And when she comes to beg you (as she definitely would), don't listen. Don't entertain her. Don't withdraw your case.

Let the bitch hustle for lawyer money along with feeding herself and her child in this Tinubu's cursed economy.

People like your ex-wife ONLY learn when the weight OVERWHELMING consequences hit them like a Dangote trailer.

Teach her a PAINFUL lesson. And gain your reputation back with a BOOST.

You this guy again!
Is it that time of the season again?

Zonefree:
Your married a single mum?

Yes she was a single mum when I married her

Handsomejok:
Yes she was a single mum when I married her

With how many kids.

Zonefree:
With how many kids.

She had 1 and we have 2 together

Handsomejok:
She had 1 and we have 2 together

She'll remarry again, making it 3 husbands.


My condolence to the potential husband.

Namaster:
I wanted to ask if you were a fool but then I realised you married a Nigerian Single Mother so I know tha answer to that.

So I'll go straight to the solution to your problem:

DON'T wait for her to take the matter to the police. She'll NEVER do that. It's more satisfying for her to assassinate your character and damage your reputation while you continue to squirm HELPLESSLY.

Instead, get off your ass and FILE a police report. Take ACTION and don't even let the bitch know.

THEN, get a lawyer and file a DEFAMATION lawsuit against her. What she's doing is a CRIME. It's not just trash talk.

Do BOTH immediately. And when she comes to beg you (as she definitely would), don't listen. Don't entertain her. Don't withdraw your case.

Let the bitch hustle for lawyer money along with feeding herself and her child in this Tinubu's cursed economy.

People like your ex-wife ONLY learn when the weight OVERWHELMING consequences hit them like a Dangote trailer.

Teach her a PAINFUL lesson. And gain your reputation back with a BOOST.

I don't think it is easy to establish a case of DEFAMATION in a Law Court based on rumours & hearsay.

Go report at a police station...

You can also obtain a cease and desist order from a court.

Asides this I don't think there is much you can do for someone bent on putting a dent on your reputation.

Except you want to take the laws into your hands... Which I will not advise!

Handsomejok:
I had done everything for pur marriage to work but she refused to amend our marriage and we separated now that I am living happily with my new babe then boom she started spreading rumours about me molesting her daughter something I have never done before she is doing all this thing because she is jealous that I am living happily after our separation. So I've contacted her asking her why is she spreading false allegations on me and if she is sure that I molested her daughter she should take the matter to the police so the police will request for a medical report on the child to see if I did it or not. She said she will take the matter to the police which she hasn't done but she keep spreading rumours about something that I have never done and people started believing her without her having any valid evidences. She is ruining my reputation with lies and I don't know what to do? Please help

Get a lawyer to write her to desist from her slander or be ready to prove it in court.

Handsomejok:
Yes she was a single mum when I married her

I have no pity for you because I am sure you must have been warned about single mothers before you entered the union.

I've preached it several times here.

Singles should marry singles.

Single mothers should marry single fathers.

Widows should marry widowers.

I know life no get formula but the safest bet is Each should marry their kind.

Handsomejok:
I had done everything for pur marriage to work but she refused to amend our marriage and we separated now that I am living happily with my new babe then boom she started spreading rumours about me molesting her daughter something I have never done before she is doing all this thing because she is jealous that I am living happily after our separation. So I've contacted her asking her why is she spreading false allegations on me and if she is sure that I molested her daughter she should take the matter to the police so the police will request for a medical report on the child to see if I did it or not. She said she will take the matter to the police which she hasn't done but she keep spreading rumours about something that I have never done and people started believing her without her having any valid evidences. She is ruining my reputation with lies and I don't know what to do? Please help

After what you had done to the same girl when she was barely 2 years of age— you condemned the child of witchcraft against your progress—, oga, e had to take your side in this issue. Since you already have a woman of your own, please let your ex take care of the child while you make sure you pay her child support at least.

You again with wife drama? Only you?

My friend stand up for your right

Handsomejok:
Yes she was a single mum when I married her

you no well oh

DepressedBully:
■ is your brain located insider your anus for you be shutting smelly defecating opinion?
Pay child support for another man's child? Are you stupid and cursed?

Your brain is indeed located in your anus. OP made clear the child in question is his daughter, but since comprehension go dey difficult for you na why you no fit connect the dots at all.

Namaster:
I wanted to ask if you were a fool but then I realised you married a Nigerian Single Mother so I know tha answer to that.

So I'll go straight to the solution to your problem:

DON'T wait for her to take the matter to the police. She'll NEVER do that. It's more satisfying for her to assassinate your character and damage your reputation while you continue to squirm HELPLESSLY.

Instead, get off your ass and FILE a police report. Take ACTION and don't even let the bitch know.

THEN, get a lawyer and file a DEFAMATION lawsuit against her. What she's doing is a CRIME. It's not just trash talk.

Do BOTH immediately. And when she comes to beg you (as she definitely would), don't listen. Don't entertain her. Don't withdraw your case.

Let the bitch hustle for lawyer money along with feeding herself and her child in this Tinubu's cursed economy.
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People like your ex-wife ONLY learn when the weight OVERWHELMING consequences hit them like a Dangote trailer.

Teach her a PAINFUL lesson. And gain your reputation back with a BOOST.

I don't subscribe to this. What if she coerce her daughter to lie? Don't underestimate women o!.The Op should just ignore her competely instead of going the police route.