why are some people always very insultive? is it because of the home they are from or what?

to a large extent yes and also personality

Upbringing.

coolier:

Upbringing.

You are right.

complex and low self esteem

Some people have never been loved so they are angry with themselves

kokoye:

complex and low self esteem

correct .
Also the need to belong  and to be what they are not.

@post
na because they need a very hard dirty slap across their face

genetic make up so they cant help it

It's their temperament plus they may have issues in their life and take it out on other people.

cos you SUCK

rubi:

Some people have never been loved so they are angry with themselves

Abeg ask them o!
Dem full d forum.

Because some people are meant to be insulted

abi o.

Radiant:

Because some people are meant to be insulted

Right on girl!!!

Anyway, I tend to be very insultive sometimes but I learnt my lesson the hard way. I met this really kool guy, and after dating him a few days, I wanted something serious. But hey, I’ve gotta do my thing okay?? Anyway, I called him a jerk over a misunderstanding we had and that was the last I heard from him. I’ve always regretted losing him and wondered if I lost my something real.

I really don’t know why people do it but like some1 said, it’s a personality thing. Its really not so bad when you get to know that they really don’t mean any harm.

yes but its like second nature to some,and they feel incomplete if they v not insulted in a day

lucabrasi:

yes but its like second nature to some,and they feel incomplete if they v not insulted in a day

true. alongside their upbringing. to insult them back embarrases me sometimes

makes me wonder why i reply to some people's insults at times. No one was born to be insulted but some people are too ill mannered to stay put without insulting

LMAO!! Janami, don't be scared to mention my name

hoooo. . . . .  i am shaking in my boots!
i don forget where i meet you sef   please remind me . i dnt give pple like you second thot o

Ohh yeah, you sure do remember.

and here we go again,

@radiant
_*sigh* eeyah .  .  .  u just want to be noticed. ok .  .  .  .ok  .   .   . i notice u. _*sigh* will u stop stalking me now?

NAH IT'S COZ DEY GET issuses, PROBLEMS, BUKATA,

They get angry easily.May be they have a bad day.

I think it's to do with the up bringin of some people. Naija's are well known for yabbin.

It's in the blood - and connected to the tongue

Mustay:

It's in the blood - and connected to the tongue

I'm with you on this.

@poster!! simple. genetically inherited personality couple with the environment brings insult.

1) low self esteem so they insult others to make themselves feel better

2) the person being insulted deserves the insult

3) poor anger management coupled with type of aggressive personality

4)  type of environment one grow up in