₦airaland Forum

Guys don't listen to this church people, nothing is wrong with masturbation. Just do it moderately, masturbation safe lives

GiZcorp:
Same thing I said when ice launched and I missed out big time despite having 35m ice coin. I am not taken chances this time around

shine your eyes, don't put much hope alive on those things.. Not all glitters are gold..

Many are using masses to cashout on their wack project, if u can think twice na after Notcoin pay other follow..

I farm some, but with zero hope..

johnog4sure:
Dont mind dem it seems he wants to sell book, I also started masturbating from teenage, but I simply grew over it, I still do occasionally to ease stress but I greatly lost interest, my point is if you are psychologically healthy u will just stop enjoying it naturally.

nobody can entirely stop masturbating, just do it moderately

Menemonic:
shine your eyes, don't put much hope alive on those things.. Not all glitters are gold..

Many are using masses to cashout on their wack project, if u can think twice na after Notcoin pay other follow..

I farm some, but with zero hope..

Well, I just do those stuff just in case any decides to pay again. No much hope attached thou

chatinent:
If that's really what you got from my post, you'd need to really work on how your brain assimilates content it takes in. No insults.

You need to work on your self too, Wánkèr. No insults

yemmit90:
Stop stressing yourself, the only way to stop masturbation is by having constant real sex. Masturbation is mostly done by those lacking real sex or good sex. When you have access to sex anytime you want it, masturbation automatically become more irritating and a waste of time to you.

Be deceiving yourself. I know a married man who masturbates just after having sex with the wife. He waits until the woman goes back and then masturbates. He couldn't control his tears when he was sharing this

porthouse7:
nobody can entirely stop masturbating, just do it moderately

I try stopping this shit reach 3 good months but come back stronger sef..

☹️

GUNITGuy:
Please help me I stop today it starts 3weeks time or even 5months that's the longest ...I want to stop this for Life

u don't have to stop bro, enjoy ur self service, u know know how much problems u have stayed away from, just do it moderately

Menemonic:
I try stopping this shit reach 3 good months but come back stronger sef..

☹️

u get work and ur life balance, and it's not disturbing ur daily activity, u don't need to stop the enjoyment, forget all this church rubbish talk

Menemonic:
dey there..
He might be fighting something, or doing something else wrong..

Don't be deceive

Meanwhile I have a friend that doesn't engage in all that but.. He womanize like mad...

😆😆😆😆

porthouse7:
nobody can entirely stop masturbating, just do it moderately

correct

Nothing wrong with the two acts.

Only thing is, just like every other activity, even your church activity, too much of it is bad.
Carry your low self-consciousness waka comot for road.

66ungs:
PLEASE no matter what, never you try the mistake of divorcing yur wife, cause your children will suffer it most

but u had a divorce na, all this 'no matter what' na hm don kill many men o

seanwilliam:
lol. Make I paste u link to the new Victoria cake video she released yesterday , let’s see if…

Even on Sunday, you no wan fear God....


Anyway, send me link for WhatsApp

yemmit90:
Stop stressing yourself, the only way to stop masturbation is by having constant real sex. Masturbation is mostly done by those lacking real sex or good sex. When you have access to sex anytime you want it, masturbation automatically become more irritating and a waste of time to you.

Na the only solution you talk so, every other suggestions na void 🤷‍♂️

You go soon talk truth.

Hmmm, for this "great tinubulation" wey we dey so, Una still get power to dey masturbate and watch porn?

Kobojunkie, I know say you for don beat your meat tire today for Yankee.🥱

chatinent:
Nigerians think it's a sin to stop masturbation but only for them to continue adultery and fornication. And I always see people celebrating that they stopped it only for them to intensify it the other way round.

If you must wipe, maybe due to high libido, it's better you masturbate than do adultery or cheat! All wetin your church dey teach you Na just make dem talk. Even Solomon Njideka for Bible had many wives, girlfriends, people's wives and etc, and still cheated several times with people's girlfriends! And the Bible called him a good wise man!

What was wise and good about the sin?

Religion will always make everything a sin. But una forget God not forgiving Eve was a sin too since he didn't follow what he wants us to do!



Na una dey tag everything as sin but committing worse sins than the supposedly avoided sin.


Una bi Christians, but na still una be tribalists, na still una dey keep multiple partners, na still una dey do yahoo, but every other thing is a sin. Lol.

The thing dey always shock me. Just as you said, you'll see the Christian calling masturbation a sin and not engaging in it, gladly engaging in fornication and adultery. Abi, no be Naija again? Where hotels abound and constantly serve so-called Christian men and women, including pastors, engaging in all sorts of illicit sex. Listening to any of these Christian rants is just a total waste of useful time.

yemmit90:
Stop stressing yourself, the only way to stop masturbation is by having constant real sex. Masturbation is mostly done by those lacking real sex or good sex. When you have access to sex anytime you want it, masturbation automatically become more irritating and a waste of time to you.

There may be element of truth in your assertion but the reality is actually the opposite if not how do you explain certain men preferring to Fap instead of knacking their wife. A lot of wifes have complained about this. One even made a video of her husband fapping in the toilet but starving her of knacking for long.

judedwriter:
What's the difference between masturbation and fornication??

You should have said marriage is the solution.

Strangely, though, some married couples still masturbate.

So self discipline and deliverance are the major keys to stopping it.

The married ones that are still mastubating is not getting good sex from their partner. If you are married and having good sex, i mean a very good one with the person you love you can never mastubate.

THE DAY YOU BEGIN TO WATCH BLUE FILM ,IS THE DAY THOSE WHO NEED YOU BOTH MALE AND FEMALE BEGIN TO SLEEP WITH YOU INSIDE DREAM, YOUR WIFE MIGHT LEAVE YOU, YOUR HUSBAND MIGHT LEAVE YOU,IN NO TIME

femi4:
It's never interesting, I don't know why people got stuck

Things that I tried once and never found interesting include

Smoking
Alcohol
Watching porn
Betting
Masturbation

how do I stop sportybet? Though am cashing out oo

chatinent:
Nigerians think it's a sin to stop masturbation but only for them to continue adultery and fornication. And I always see people celebrating that they stopped it only for them to intensify it the other way round.

If you must wipe, maybe due to high libido, it's better you masturbate than do adultery or cheat! All wetin your church dey teach you Na just make dem talk. Even Solomon Njideka for Bible had many wives, girlfriends, people's wives and etc, and still cheated several times with people's girlfriends! And the Bible called him a good wise man!

What was wise and good about the sin?

Religion will always make everything a sin. But una forget God not forgiving Eve was a sin too since he didn't follow what he wants us to do!



Na una dey tag everything as sin but committing worse sins than the supposedly avoided sin.


Una bi Christians, but na still una be tribalists, na still una dey keep multiple partners, na still una dey do yahoo, but every other thing is a sin. Lol.

throw more bombs pls

DARLINGTON869:
Make God help me cos I son TRYYYYYY to stop but nothing works. I successfully stopped gambling. I don't smoke or even drink. But you see masturbation, that's my weakness right now. It is well.

Nothing is wrong with you. Don't shoot yourself into a moral hellhole that will make guilt destroy your mental health. Masturbation is totally normal for young, healthy adults. Most would indulge in it, at least until they get married or start having steady sexual partners. It's nothing to be ashamed of. What's you should be more worried about is allowing someone guilt trip you into such a state where your mental health starts taking a beating because you masturbate. That's something you may never be able to recover from.

David0002:
A lot of us are going through this problem or addiction, but they don't know how to stop it and it has affected their lives. What are my talking about, I am taking about Masturbation and watching pornography.

To tell you the truth, this is the most common addiction that has affected billions of people worldwide. This is a global problem. No religion is exempted from it.

I cannot start discussing what I do not know, because this is what I was into for a very long time. I was so addicted to this terrible sin. I first started with the sin of watching pornography, later in life, I graduated into masturbation.

Let me give you a brief story. When I was still young and innocent, not up to 10 years old if I am not mistaken, I and my siblings vistited a friend's house in the next street after our own. When we went to his house, there was light. He said he wanted to put something for us to watch. So he put the CD plate, because by then, internet where you can access pornography was not common as of then. Little did I know that it was pornography that he wanted to put on. So when he put it on, I started watching after watching it, my innocence was taken away and the spirit of pornography entered me.

From that moment, I wanted to know more and watch more pornography. I became addicted to it at a tender age. Any money that enter into my hand, I will rush to the market to buy the CD plate. Yet they will sell it to me no matter how young I was. For more than 20 good solid years, I was addicted to pornography. It became worst when the internet came out. I can now watch it easily without going to buy the CD plate again.

It was in the year 2018 that I graduated to masturbation. I had been watching where they do masturbate and I wanted to try it out my self. After series of trials, I mastered the evil art. Infact no day passes without me masturbating. I masturbate 3-4 times in a day. As I was watching the pornography, I will be masturbating at the same time.

After masturbating, I will be weak, hungry, filled with guilt, regret and remorse. But to stop it became a problem infact it affected me. I started looking for solution. I prayed, fasted, went for deliverance, cried, did a lot of things. But after all these things, I will still go back to pornography and masturbation.

It was until I read a book. After reading the book, I applied what I read in the book. The spirit of masturbation and pornography Left me immediately and the spirit of God took over my life. I tell you the truth, from that moment up till now I have not masturbated, I have not watched pornography, God has been keeping me by His spirit. Let me tell you the truth, I paid dearly for these evil act and I am still kind of paying the price now. Every sin has its consequences.

Watching pornography and masturbation is a terrible sin before God. Let me tell you the truth. As you masturbate, you are opening a portal or a gateway for demons to possess and afflict you. Infact, as you masturbate, you are having sexual intercourse with demonic spirits. You have welcomed evil spirits into your life and hear this truth, for these spirits to leave you becomes a problem.

Watching pornography and masturbation has terrible consequences. You may not see it now, but when the problems associated with it manifests, be ready to face the consequences.

Many of you reading this are still watching pornography and masturbating. You do this, yet you call yourself a Christian, yet on Sunday, you go to church. Hear this truth, many church workers, choir, ushers, instrumentalist, pastors, pastors wife, single and married are under this addiction of pornography and masturbation.

You may have tried so hard to stop it, but it is not yielding any result. You may have stopped it for 1 month, 2 months, 3 months, 6 months, even up to 1 year, after, you relapse or go back to it.

Don't you know that masturbation has terrible consequences. You call it 'pleasure' don't you know you are destroying your body which is the temple of God. Anybody that destroy the temple of God, God will destroy him. It is the bible that says it, not me. I want to ask you brother, sister, why are you polluting your spirit and body with this terrible sin, don't you know that masturbation can affect your sexual health, it can lead to premature ejaculation in men, masturbation can damage your reproductive organ, oh yes. It can lead to near impotency. It can lead to erectile dysfunction. It can make your organ not to function as it is suppose to function, it can reduce your sexual hormones and bring it to near Zero. As a man, watching pornography and masturbation can make you be seeing women as sex objects and nothing more, among other things.

It is only Jesus that can save you, He has the power to break the yoke of masturbation and watching pornography from your life. I repeat again, He has the power to break the yoke. All you have to do is to go to Him in sincerity and cry out to Him to help you.

Go to him in prayer. I prefer you do it with fasting. Tell God how it is doing you, tell Him what you are passing through. Tell Him all that is in your mind. Bare everything open before Him. Don't hide anything from Him. Tell Him that you really want to stop this evil act. He is there with you, and He hears you. Confess it before Him, He will forgive you, cleanse you and give you the power to overcome this evil addiction once and for all, just as He did it for me.

Next, wow never to indulge in it again, because the temptation must surely come again. Satan will try all means to lure you back and to make you think you cannot stop it. Let me tell you the truth. If I can stop it, you can stop it too. All you have to do is to resist the devil in the name of Jesus, and he will flee from you. Shalom.

Happy Sunday to you all.

Op you didn't mention the name of the book you read. Don't you think others could also benefit from it?

A lot of us are going through this problem or addiction... WHO TOLD YOU?


but they don't know how to stop it.... HOW DID YOU KNOW??

and it has affected their lives.... HOW?

People masturbate for different reasons.

1. For pleasure
2. To reduce stress
3. To stay away from sexual encounter with a lady that either has HIV or gridlock.

Ponography is a private thing, some like action movies, other like adult movies.

I stand corrected if am wrong.

Barteze:
There may be element of truth in your assertion but the reality is actually the opposite if not how do you explain certain men preferring to Fap instead of knacking their wife. A lot of wifes have complained about this. One even made a video of her husband fapping in the toilet but starving her of knacking for long.

don't mind them sir.. They have a very long way to go, thinking marriage and good sex alone is the solution Hmmm eyya..



If you're chronic in masturbation you don't need to watch even porn to start sef..

The only solution is to moderate it and move on with your own life if yours is chronic..

Simple

I was waiting for the author mention the title of the book that helped him quit his addiction, aĺas! He did not. That's a big omission.

David0002:
A lot of us are going through this problem or addiction, but they don't know how to stop it and it has affected their lives. What are my talking about, I am taking about Masturbation and watching pornography.

To tell you the truth, this is the most common addiction that has affected billions of people worldwide. This is a global problem. No religion is exempted from it.

I cannot start discussing what I do not know, because this is what I was into for a very long time. I was so addicted to this terrible sin. I first started with the sin of watching pornography, later in life, I graduated into masturbation.

Let me give you a brief story. When I was still young and innocent, not up to 10 years old if I am not mistaken, I and my siblings vistited a friend's house in the next street after our own. When we went to his house, there was light. He said he wanted to put something for us to watch. So he put the CD plate, because by then, internet where you can access pornography was not common as of then. Little did I know that it was pornography that he wanted to put on. So when he put it on, I started watching after watching it, my innocence was taken away and the spirit of pornography entered me.

From that moment, I wanted to know more and watch more pornography. I became addicted to it at a tender age. Any money that enter into my hand, I will rush to the market to buy the CD plate. Yet they will sell it to me no matter how young I was. For more than 20 good solid years, I was addicted to pornography. It became worst when the internet came out. I can now watch it easily without going to buy the CD plate again.

It was in the year 2018 that I graduated to masturbation. I had been watching where they do masturbate and I wanted to try it out my self. After series of trials, I mastered the evil art. Infact no day passes without me masturbating. I masturbate 3-4 times in a day. As I was watching the pornography, I will be masturbating at the same time.

After masturbating, I will be weak, hungry, filled with guilt, regret and remorse. But to stop it became a problem infact it affected me. I started looking for solution. I prayed, fasted, went for deliverance, cried, did a lot of things. But after all these things, I will still go back to pornography and masturbation.

It was until I read a book. After reading the book, I applied what I read in the book. The spirit of masturbation and pornography Left me immediately and the spirit of God took over my life. I tell you the truth, from that moment up till now I have not masturbated, I have not watched pornography, God has been keeping me by His spirit. Let me tell you the truth, I paid dearly for these evil act and I am still kind of paying the price now. Every sin has its consequences.

Watching pornography and masturbation is a terrible sin before God. Let me tell you the truth. As you masturbate, you are opening a portal or a gateway for demons to possess and afflict you. Infact, as you masturbate, you are having sexual intercourse with demonic spirits. You have welcomed evil spirits into your life and hear this truth, for these spirits to leave you becomes a problem.

Watching pornography and masturbation has terrible consequences. You may not see it now, but when the problems associated with it manifests, be ready to face the consequences.

Many of you reading this are still watching pornography and masturbating. You do this, yet you call yourself a Christian, yet on Sunday, you go to church. Hear this truth, many church workers, choir, ushers, instrumentalist, pastors, pastors wife, single and married are under this addiction of pornography and masturbation.

You may have tried so hard to stop it, but it is not yielding any result. You may have stopped it for 1 month, 2 months, 3 months, 6 months, even up to 1 year, after, you relapse or go back to it.

Don't you know that masturbation has terrible consequences. You call it 'pleasure' don't you know you are destroying your body which is the temple of God. Anybody that destroy the temple of God, God will destroy him. It is the bible that says it, not me. I want to ask you brother, sister, why are you polluting your spirit and body with this terrible sin, don't you know that masturbation can affect your sexual health, it can lead to premature ejaculation in men, masturbation can damage your reproductive organ, oh yes. It can lead to near impotency. It can lead to erectile dysfunction. It can make your organ not to function as it is suppose to function, it can reduce your sexual hormones and bring it to near Zero. As a man, watching pornography and masturbation can make you be seeing women as sex objects and nothing more, among other things.

It is only Jesus that can save you, He has the power to break the yoke of masturbation and watching pornography from your life. I repeat again, He has the power to break the yoke. All you have to do is to go to Him in sincerity and cry out to Him to help you.

Go to him in prayer. I prefer you do it with fasting. Tell God how it is doing you, tell Him what you are passing through. Tell Him all that is in your mind. Bare everything open before Him. Don't hide anything from Him. Tell Him that you really want to stop this evil act. He is there with you, and He hears you. Confess it before Him, He will forgive you, cleanse you and give you the power to overcome this evil addiction once and for all, just as He did it for me.

Next, wow never to indulge in it again, because the temptation must surely come again. Satan will try all means to lure you back and to make you think you cannot stop it. Let me tell you the truth. If I can stop it, you can stop it too. All you have to do is to resist the devil in the name of Jesus, and he will flee from you. Shalom.

Happy Sunday to you all.

Ashez:
God help us

you have to help yourself before god do the rest

IdeasYapayaski:
A lot of us are going through this problem or addiction... WHO TOLD YOU?


but they don't know how to stop it.... HOW DID YOU KNOW??

and it has affected their lives.... HOW?

People masturbate for different reasons.

1. For pleasure
2. To reduce stress
3. Rape :better not to become rapist again..
4. To stay away from sexual encounter with a lady that either has HIV or gridlock.

Ponography is a private thing, some like action movies, other like adult movies.

I stand corrected if am wrong.

i updated the list again..

Therock5555:
Even on Sunday, you no wan fear God....


Anyway, send me link for WhatsApp

Walai you no get shame 😀
U go church today atall?

He is the alpha and omega, the greatest ever grace this earth for the sake of our sins and one day he is definitely coming back.
Thank you jesus always for taking care of me and my loved ones and friends.