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Zonefree:
This is wrong and also the reason most marriage fail.

My dad used to cook better egusi soup with tomatoes back then. I don't know where he learnt that, maybe Lagos, cos that's where he grew up. Na me dey help am grind the tomatoes while my mum , sister and other siblings will be watching movies at the sitting room.

Cooking doesn't stop a man from being a man.

Seems ur dad is my kind of person sir, i dy cook and add twists according to my likeness my cousins prefer me cook because i must add one twist wey go burst brain, my aunt say woman no fit do shakara for me based on cooking, my principle be say u can never ever overstep it, infact some of sexmate dy chop instant bye bye and blocking if that female manipulation won even enter their mind.

Koppaguard:
Na to go marry second wife or invite my side chick to come prepare food for me in the house, if marriage don tire her, make she pack go her papa house.

Yeah right... Shebi na only cooking and cleaning dem create women for?!!

Kamala Harris
Michelle Obama
Okonjo Iweala
Chimamanda Adichie
Etc.

If their husbands had your backward mentality, would they be where they are today?!!

They do that because they got what they wanted, but not all of them do that.

If your woman does this just get another woman to come and cook.

Men should also learn how to cook

Me and my wife we both cook

Some food I can cook better than her, she doesn't touch anything when it's time to eat the said food vice versa

Zonefree:
This is wrong and also the reason most marriage fail.

My dad used to cook better egusi soup with tomatoes back then. I don't know where he learnt that, maybe Lagos, cos that's where he grew up. Na me dey help am grind the tomatoes while my mum , sister and other siblings will be watching movies at the sitting room.

Cooking doesn't stop a man from being a man.

Stop saying this outside, you are disgracing your family. Nobody will read this and allow their family member to marry from this dysfunctional family you painted

It’s not about the women
It’s the foundation you laid for her
Women relate with u based on how to teach her or let her sees u

Marry traditional ladies not the woke ones
And don’t tolerate nonsense

MaziObinnaokija:
Wen you marry MBEKE with LONG NAIL,JEZEBELS eyelashes, behave like somebody wey nor dey drink GARRI plus EPA.U take her to those sophisticated eatery, instead of buka ,.U MARRIED A LIABILITY, USELESS THING. and the RESULT u get is I YAM TIRE .



Enter village/Town go fond wife material nor these nowadays things that tied ⛓️ 🔗 ⛓️ 🔗 on their legs, wear short/jumpers around. Some of them are EMPTY UPSTAIRS

Some of you will marry village girl and still cheat on them with city girls... moderation is the key too much of everything is bad if city girls are moderate but faithful and willing to do chores and village girls are moderate not too local as well no issues attached... being a man doesn't mean everything is for a woman also help out if you can it creates a stronger bond even with the kids and your wife sef will try and look neat and good for you,see as some men dey labour their wives ,yes we all know that is her duty but they're limits to it,I don't see anything bad in preparing food if I'm around then you can do it together chat away ...as for those slay queens men are the reason this girls who no get shishi feel entitled they want to overdo because of the society want to be called odugwu so they marry them,pay for nanny,chef,cleaner everything she only does TikTok and GRWM people want to follow this trend and then the circle continues now what is reigning is dated for 3 months and getting married later if things don't go as planned for this guys dey will say that's not what you promised me lazy girls... If you have the money for what suits you but support in ways you can and never allow her think you don't have a choice doing it for her. So do the one whey your power reach

TheWinterBird:
Me that loves to cook. I feel bad for my future husband. Na to drag me away from the kitchen everyday.

We get the message......now, tell us how to pursue it further.

Zonefree:
This is wrong and also the reason most marriage fail.

My dad used to cook better egusi soup with tomatoes back then. I don't know where he learnt that, maybe Lagos, cos that's where he grew up. Na me dey help am grind the tomatoes while my mum , sister and other siblings will be watching movies at the sitting room.

Cooking doesn't stop a man from being a man.

True
I do the cooking most of the time and I wish to teach my twins to do same...
So it doesn't stop me from my manly duties
And to say the least e dey pain her, because after cooking my niggas will eat and we bounce to play snooker.

Zonefree:
This is wrong and also the reason most marriage fail.

My dad used to cook better egusi soup with tomatoes back then. I don't know where he learnt that, maybe Lagos, cos that's where he grew up. Na me dey help am grind the tomatoes while my mum , sister and other siblings will be watching movies at the sitting room.

Cooking doesn't stop a man from being a man.

Lol....ur mom turned u and ur dad to sisis ...reason u hv this mentality.... how can ur dad be cooking egusi while ur mom will be watching tv

VinnyBaba:
Our Nigerian Ladies can Visit and cook for their YAHOO boy Boyfriend at every Hour he Desires
But once they get Married to a Man, Cooking becomes STRESS for them.

They start Disturbing the Husband for Housemaid.
But during their University Days, some of these same Ladies Co-habited and cooked for their Boyfriend before going for Lectures.

PLEASE, MARRIED MEN AND WOMEN HERE, What's the Cause of This? 🤔😒

because Many Married men do NOT have Breakfast b4 going to Work
as their Wives always claim they are Tired. 😟

I can't relate because I married a Wife not a baddie.
Even when there's food at home, she still ask what food choice I'll prefer to eat even when she's very loaded 😊.

NB:
I'm a level 9 public servant and she's a full time Public servant too and still contributes her finance willingly in our running of the Home.
She's My gift from God🙌🏽

VinnyBaba:
Our Nigerian Ladies can Visit and cook for their YAHOO boy Boyfriend at every Hour he Desires
But once they get Married to a Man, Cooking becomes STRESS for them.

They start Disturbing the Husband for Housemaid.
But during their University Days, some of these same Ladies Co-habited and cooked for their Boyfriend before going for Lectures.

PLEASE, MARRIED MEN AND WOMEN HERE, What's the Cause of This? 🤔😒

because Many Married men do NOT have Breakfast b4 going to Work
as their Wives always claim they are Tired. 😟

Ladies don't do anything aside their family for free. Know this and know peace oga

Nobody dey vex for food again. Eateries dey everywhere. Na when you no get money.

seguno2:
Does N18,000 of 2015 buy more than N70,000 today in food, clothing, transportation, rent etc

Yes 18,000 will get you two bags of rice, while 70,000 can't buy you one

VinnyBaba:
Our Nigerian Ladies can Visit and cook for their YAHOO boy Boyfriend at every Hour he Desires
But once they get Married to a Man, Cooking becomes STRESS for them.

They start Disturbing the Husband for Housemaid.
But during their University Days, some of these same Ladies Co-habited and cooked for their Boyfriend before going for Lectures.

PLEASE, MARRIED MEN AND WOMEN HERE, What's the Cause of This? 🤔😒

because Many Married men do NOT have Breakfast b4 going to Work
as their Wives always claim they are Tired. 😟

Ladies don't do anything aside their family for free. Know this and know peace oga.
I asked a lady who stays with my brother and his wife, she's related to the wife, she cooks and all of that. I was jobless then, I asked her for 5k n she didn't give me o. No problem. She asked me for 10k I gave her excuse. We don't talk to each other. She went and be telling people when she was giving me food on my brothers house I visit then.
A lady by default don't care about you but her Interest. The hate people way the show sense like them

Obierika:
Do you still do campaign after election victory?

Just fulfil electoral promises. Is it too much to ask?

VinnyBaba:
Agreed, But in Marriage Setting, a Husband should NOT be cooking when the Wife is in that Living space with him.

Most of our Girls who Date YAHOO boys, they cook at the Guy's Beck and call.

But when they get into Marriage, Most claim Tiredness.

Bros outside Nigeria oh, both hubby and wifey de run cooking and dish washing oh


Living abroad no be your mate, na why many Naija married men with some bar no de like to migrate completely with their family

Proserpina:
What's the evidence to back up your claim?

How many Nigerian homes employ the service of house helps in this present economy?

Is life the same in university and after?

Do all those who cohabit get married and expand their union?

Do these "pablets" who cook for "pablos" work?

Your problem is you fail to realize that marriage is not the same as dating. Lol

Na really pablets
😂😂😂😂

efighter:
Stop saying this outside, you are disgracing your family. Nobody will read this and allow their family member to marry from this dysfunctional family you painted

Don't mind him
A man should cook when and only when the Madam is indisposed
Or he cooks for fun
But that picture he painted is repugnant to me

If my wife says she can't cook that I should employ a house maid, it would give me more gladness. Na me go do the interview for prospective housemaids so that I can use my stone to kill two birds

Are the men handicapped? Must their wives cook for them?

VinnyBaba:
Our Nigerian Ladies can Visit and cook for their YAHOO boy Boyfriend at every Hour he Desires
But once they get Married to a Man, Cooking becomes STRESS for them.

They start Disturbing the Husband for Housemaid.
But during their University Days, some of these same Ladies Co-habited and cooked for their Boyfriend before going for Lectures.

PLEASE, MARRIED MEN AND WOMEN HERE, What's the Cause of This? 🤔😒

because Many Married men do NOT have Breakfast b4 going to Work
as their Wives always claim they are Tired. 😟

That's why it is not advisable for any guy to date or marry any lady that has dated a Yahoo boy before.

They are a disaster waiting to happen.

Zonefree:
This is wrong and also the reason most marriage fail.

My dad used to cook better egusi soup with tomatoes back then. I don't know where he learnt that, maybe Lagos, cos that's where he grew up. Na me dey help am grind the tomatoes while my mum , sister and other siblings will be watching movies at the sitting room.

Cooking doesn't stop a man from being a man.

I can't believe this is coming from you. Stop whining us.

Zonefree:
Men should try and learn how to cook. Don't allow any woman hold you hostage because of food.

If she refuse cooking, enter kitchen, make your meal, eat and bounce. Then, deprive her of things she normally gets from you.

I hate to see men complain about food every time. Cooking is a basic survival instinct not gender based.

This is not a wise solution unless you have both agreed to this with reasonable reasons or you are actually tired of your wife.

efighter:
Stop saying this outside, you are disgracing your family. Nobody will read this and allow their family member to marry from this dysfunctional family you painted

Oh it's dysfunctional because the men are cooking and the women could actually sit in the living room and enjoy themselves.

This stinking mentality is what makes men and women at bukas give ladies strange looks and attitude when they come to buy food. Enjoyment is only for men. It's a sacrilegious thing for women to sit back while the men cook. Or even while other women cook. Because women are below and the slaves.

Fvcking fake tin gods.

Zonefree:
This is wrong and also the reason most marriage fail.

My dad used to cook better egusi soup with tomatoes back then. I don't know where he learnt that, maybe Lagos, cos that's where he grew up. Na me dey help am grind the tomatoes while my mum , sister and other siblings will be watching movies at the sitting room.

Cooking doesn't stop a man from being a man.

I have some questions for you bro:

1. Why were you and your dad preparing food while your mother and sister relaxed in front of the tv?

2. Were they busy working all day and were so tired they needed to chill?

Could it be that you were raised to cook while the women chilled, and this is the reason why you feel it's OK for a man to go out, provide and still return home to prepare meals?

Men are not exempted from cooking.
Cooking/ preparing your food is number one priority in every human schedule.
When you are hungry and famished, nothing else will work out well until you eat.
So, cooking and preparing meals is a big survival instinct that man and woman must possess.

In marriage, yes, women are supposed to provide food for the household. The number one priority for woman in a family setting is to make meals for the family.
Where this assignment is lacking from the woman in the house, nothing stops the man from taking the responsibility of cooking for the house or at least cook for himself.
For breakfast, it takes a lot of responsibility for the family to make breakfast available before leaving for the day assignment.
The woman in the house must be the type that can manage time and resources and take responsibility seriously for the family to be able to enjoy breakfast every day of the week.
God help us

agos:
your dad did it, does not mean it is right

Does not make it wrong either. Some couples do it. It shows he is caring. And besides, family romance.

VinnyBaba:
Our Nigerian Ladies can Visit and cook for their YAHOO boy Boyfriend at every Hour he Desires
But once they get Married to a Man, Cooking becomes STRESS for them.

They start Disturbing the Husband for Housemaid.
But during their University Days, some of these same Ladies Co-habited and cooked for their Boyfriend before going for Lectures.

PLEASE, MARRIED MEN AND WOMEN HERE, What's the Cause of This? 🤔😒

because Many Married men do NOT have Breakfast b4 going to Work
as their Wives always claim they are Tired. 😟

Na see finish dey cause am. And somehow I dey believe say women are lazier than men. Their complaints dey pass work wey them dey do. Men work hard and quietly... May be becos they are always expected to work hard and provide for the family. So, they have resolved to their fate, while women come into marriage with the mentality of - I will be taken care of.

It’s not just about cooking; it's about the whole dynamic.

TheWinterBird:
Me that loves to cook. I feel bad for my future husband. Na to drag me away from the kitchen everyday.

😆 I’m the same. I can never get tired of it, maybe they will have to lock the kitchen to keep our attention hahaha

Lol.. All I know be say woman no fit use food do shakara for me, if you're tired OK ooo.

I'll just go to the kitchen and cook.