₦airaland Forum

Relations won't kill you.

Bluffly:
Close relations also do worst

Just sad. Why not live with relatives & get house-helps to come once or twice weekly to clean up, cook, and go, not live with you?

9japride:
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A lot of people just need to be careful. One should try to involve a relative when staying alone.
Treat the relative well. Using nairaland for example, there are monikers that hate the Igbos so much. Those monikers are regular people in the society and just imagine having such people close to an Igbo person.
I blame politicians for creating an environment for hatred to thrive just because they want to win elections at all cost.
That's just my own view

You got the bolded wrong. Politicians did not create the atmosphere of hate, they only exploit an existing atmosphere of hate to their advantage. We have never been a united people, they only exploit our division.

Lamanii22:
She doesn’t even need househelps, the house can’t be that dirty that she can’t clean by herself, there would be washing machine in the house, if she doesn’t like to cook she can order food, life is now flexible these days

Not everyone have the time to do all that......Nothing wrong hiring s house help.....

Goes around!

9japride:
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A lot of people just need to be careful. One should try to involve a relative when staying alone.
Treat the relative well. Using nairaland for example, there are monikers that hate the Igbos so much. Those monikers are regular people in the society and just imagine having such people close to an Igbo person.
I blame politicians for creating an environment for hatred to thrive just because they want to win elections at all cost.
That's just my own view

You still managed to bring your tribalistic and victim mentality into this issue.
Do you know how many yorubas and other tribes that have suffered the same fate in the hands of their domestic staff?

Who did this to you people sef.

Esthered:
3 new domestic staff at once, that was too risky.
It is easy to critique and not knowing her circumstances.

Isn't it more surprising that the 3 domestic staff could in one week of working together already plan to kill their boss?

It's crazy!

LuQuLuQu:
Recently married recently married...why was she living alone and where was the said husband?

The husband is a developer.

He's busy developing another region.

Godfullsam:
You still managed to bring your tribalistic and victim mentality into this issue.
Do you know how many yorubas and other tribes that have suffered the same fate in the hands of their domestic staff?

Who did this to you people sef.

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The person that was killed is Igbo, so I am letting my people to be wise.
Those who always attack Igbos can harm the Igbos. They are not joking.

This is why I hate criminals. They don't care about your material or intellectual worth all they care about is robbing you even if it's 100k and they can go any length to kill you in order to cover up

Too bad

TEYA:
You got the bolded wrong. Politicians did not create the atmosphere of hate, they only exploit an existing atmosphere of hate to their advantage. We have never been a united people, they only exploit our division.

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But not as extreme presently. This present political party holding the highest office used it to win elections.
Having a good leader goes a long way in creating sanity in the land.
You can't give what you don't have.

So in one week she’s offended all of them enough to warrant them conspiring and killing her.
This is sad. Most.people don’t deserve this kind of end.
Just imagine yourself in her shoes for a moment after all the discipline of schooling, relationships, aspirations and other choices. Some low life’s will just arrange you like that.
If the are truly guilty? May their end be worse than hers.

Pat081:
He said, “Investigations are still ongoing on the incident. What useless investigation again you have know them why not court Maybe they want to get back to her father who is the judge but those people will not get out of this case but wait ooo na lawyer will stand for this people too day of judgment will be very interesting against lawyers

Of course, the investigation will continue to see if there are external factors that are also involved

Big man syndrome none of your family with but only househelp
Anyway what will be will be.
Rip to the dead.

9japride:
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The person that was killed is Igbo, so I am letting my people to be wise.
Those who always attack Igbos can harm the Igbos. They are not joking.

Who are the people that hate igbos?

People hate igbos but don't hate anyone abi?
What makes you think those house helps that killed the woman are not igbos?

Try and do away with this your victim mindset.
That is my advice for you

Lamanii22:
She doesn’t even need househelps, the house can’t be that dirty that she can’t clean by herself, there would be washing machine in the house, if she doesn’t like to cook she can order food, life is now flexible these days

but staying alone also has it's own dark side! If anything happens at midnight or when no one is around she might give up before help comes!

Publish the names of the domestic staff, u will here something like Tobechukwu, Chinasa, Nnena etc. God safe us from these people. What even do I know, it is purely family matter.

There is something called accomplice and sponsored act...they may not be acting alone...if they do not do proper investigation to unravel who else might be involved...the real perpetrators will get away and plan to strike again...Donald trump shooter was killed instantly but if you see the amount of investigation that is going on now on that case...it is as if they havent found the shooter...

they are trying to find anyone else that might be involved in the shooting as a sponsor or accomplice and they are very serious about it...thats the only way to prevent future reoccurence

Pat081:
He said, “Investigations are still ongoing on the incident. What useless investigation again you have know them why not court Maybe they want to get back to her father who is the judge but those people will not get out of this case but wait ooo na lawyer will stand for this people too day of judgment will be very interesting against lawyers

Dont tell me you dont have close relations that are not well to do that you can uplift by atleast keeping them around the house, i know crime knows no bound but it is a bit fair.

"We do am, na we do am "

Sounds like something blurted under excruciating torture.


Such a needless waste of a youthful life !

Too bad... RIP young lady😌
# love all, TRUST NONE 💯💯

Odiriance4all:
only you three strange househelp
that the problem with most nigerians
once they become rich they dissociate themselves from close reletions and start trusting strangers

Even her close relatives can do this to her in this evil filled hearts of man and woman....the thing is she shouldn't be living in-house with those persons called human being under such employment status. They should be coming and going and in alternate days too so about 3 sets of house-helps, drivers and guards BUT what is a young lady without young children doing with this aids if not for them to kill her like they just did....over pampa dey kill, too much enjoyment dey kill, too much laziness dey kill, too much of everything is bad....I think of typing Rest-In-Peace but I remember that she might have died without accepting Jesus as her Lord and saviour which means no amount of rest in peace I type, it will be useless as it affirms nothing to begin with.

Don't train your children with shady resources... Na spirit led me to saying this.

gentleguy1975:
but staying alone also has it's own dark side! If anything happens at midnight or when no one is around she might give up before help comes!

It’s true sha, may we not employ people with wicked hearts…

Omo, the beatings and torture wey dem dey collect inside interrogation room fit make person agree to anything. That na we do am, na we do am sounds suspicious to me

OlofofoCorner:
Not everyone have the time to do all that......Nothing wrong hiring s house help.....

You’re right, may we not cross path with evil househelps

RIP dear very sad

Leemzyy:
Nthng wrong its just 3 na,at our former home we gat 6 househelp excluding security man,watery man,driver and the rest yea even tho no one is 2 be trusted including the relative u mentioned

Needless input. Lol.

The house help na Yoruba?