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Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Ebukamatth(m): 2:49pm On Aug 03, 2024
WhiteIverson:
Do me 2k out of the 20million. I'll also pay in 12 months
Do me 2million make I help my business
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Nice2023(m): 2:50pm On Aug 03, 2024
BeigJawnson:
You no see say Nice2023 may not be Nice in 2024?

E be like say na last year Nice you been dey talk too... See the moniker now grin
I am very nice and still nice...that I know for sure and I don't need to say what i can't do.

If I am not led to do something,forget it.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by WhiteIverson: 2:52pm On Aug 03, 2024
BeigJawnson:
You no see say Nice2023 may not be Nice in 2024?

E be like say na last year Nice you been dey talk too... See the moniker now grin
Haha e fit be true o😂😂
Hin niceness don expire last year. Make i drop for you na my boss. I know say your niceness still dey🙌
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by JikSneh: 2:53pm On Aug 03, 2024
Stop explaining.

You are just a stingy person
Nice2023:
There is no hunger my brother.

The money is not for food is for my business.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Hedonisco: 2:54pm On Aug 03, 2024
I would never hesitate to give money to any of my family members. Might not give the full amount of it is a large sum. But must give a reasonable part of it. It is compulsive. It is why I work. No questions asked and no explanations needed.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by 43Ronin: 2:54pm On Aug 03, 2024
Nice2023:
Not a big deal...I told my my brother in law that I needed the sum of 20million last month,within a space of 5minutes I got the alert.

Currently,I am to return the money in 12months time.
You no get brothers or sisters. Asking your sisters husband for such huge amount is lame
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by correctguy101(m): 2:55pm On Aug 03, 2024
Mariangeles:
That's not true.

A sister will most likely ask her brothers to give her, and not to lend her.
At least, that is what I would do. 🥰

Borrow from brothers kor! 🙄
True for me..


Can't recall a time when those girls returned money taken from me, even the married ones. And as big brother, I've never asked even if they request again...

Smh
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Akalia(m): 2:55pm On Aug 03, 2024
Nice2023:
Those who have been programmed to be mentally poor forever doubts everything. That is why it is easy and stupid for poor people to think that every rich man is yahoo man into rituals.

Let me shock u once more,my in law has nothing less than 50 trucks that loads cement within the country.

So,I don't need to tell u more than u should know.

Be cooling down...u no get be say,u no get.

We are not from the same family,don't forget that u need to write bogus letter of about 450 pages. I don't have such in my family okay.
Typical Broke ass nigga (very loud) grin grin grin
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Mariangeles(f):
Omoawoke:
You think white girls are leeches like you are? They work for their money and pay their bills themselves.
A lady in the US will not mind working the oddest jobs proudly as long as she can pay her bills. Unlike you in Nigeria that will rather leech on a man and be claiming big girls than get your hands dirty and work
You think all brothers are like you towards their sisters?
Ogbeni, take your bitter, broke, stingy-ass self away from my mention!
Ki lo kan mi pelu awon white girls?
Se mo ran won n'se ni?


FYI, real brothers look out for their sisters.
They don't leave them to be lured and preyed upon by men like you.
Odidi okunrin l'awon brothers mi!
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by ivandragon: 2:58pm On Aug 03, 2024
Hmm...

In reality, this does not really represent a loving family per se.

There is a certain stage in life when rendering financial assistance without taking on responsibility is easier to do.

A better reflection of a caring family would be to send the money and then immediately ask a question like, 'I hope you are OK?' Or 'Are you safe?' That is showing more love and willingness to go even further than just sending money and not knowing if there is an immediate danger.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Omoawoke(m): 2:59pm On Aug 03, 2024
Mariangeles:
You think all brothers are like you towards their sisters?
Ogbeni, take your bitter broke stingy self away from my mention!
Ki lo kan mi pelu awon white girls?
Se mo ran n'se ni?


FYI, real brothers look out for their sisters.
They don't leave them to be lured and preyed upon by men like you.
Odidi okunrin l'awon brothers mi!
Hehehe, Oshey..
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Tradepunter2: 3:01pm On Aug 03, 2024
Mariangeles:
That's not true.

A sister will most likely ask her brothers to give her, and not to lend her.
At least, that is what I would do. 🥰

Borrow from brothers kor! 🙄
That's soo true.... My younger sisters don't borrow.... They just ask and I never expect them to pay back 😂😂😂..... It's good thing, knowing they don't lack
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by komzy589(m): 3:01pm On Aug 03, 2024
englishmart:
Before I collect money from my siblings, I need to write a 450-word proposal. That doesn't even guarantee anything.
In this life, pray to have caring people around.
Tax collector…why not pray to be a caring person yourself.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Nice2023(m): 3:02pm On Aug 03, 2024
JikSneh:
Stop explaining.

You are just a stingy person
While u are a nairaland 419.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Nazgul: 3:02pm On Aug 03, 2024
CanadaOrBust:
This is not true at all. Define good job. Do most people in US have "good job"? 90% of people in US will not lend you $100
90% of Nigerians in the US doing average jobs can easily send back $100 to their families back home in a moment's notice....how much more those with good jobs.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by victorVIC1(m): 3:03pm On Aug 03, 2024
I trust my elder brother for this kind matter. His response will be, your standard chartered account?
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by komzy589(m): 3:04pm On Aug 03, 2024
sisqodean09:
If you've got fams like this you just don't know what God has done for you
You cannot have a family like this if you’re not like this. God doesn’t do this kinda things for us. It’s as it is.
If you’re like this, there’s a good chance that most members of your family will be like this.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Mariangeles(f): 3:04pm On Aug 03, 2024
Tradepunter2:
That's soo true.... My younger sisters don't borrow.... They just ask and I never expect them to pay back 😂😂😂..... It's good thing, knowing they don't lack
Thank you, nnaa. 🙂
Keep taking care of them biko.

Babygirls have nothing to prove to anybody.
I mean, why should they, when they have brothers that are capable? gringrin
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Staywithbina: 3:05pm On Aug 03, 2024
I love my family , we love ourselves and Omo when it comes to sharing things ,we share everything to the last ,I can tell you no uncle or aunt or anybody has been my back bone except my family ,my bro be packing out to squat with a friend and he be sending me money cos he feels mine needs urgent attention,well I get I de show love to the last too ,a friend turned brother ,his name is syks ,that man has been my back bone too ,may you live longer bro ,my brothers and sisters ,my mother ,I love you guys ,being an entrepreneur is not an easy one but you guys has always stood grounds for me ,I love you guys
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Smithwilliams826: 3:06pm On Aug 03, 2024
This is the right way. Not like some Nigeria girls that will b begging other pple brothers for money.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Tradepunter2: 3:08pm On Aug 03, 2024
Mariangeles:
Thank you, nnaa. 🙂
Keep taking care of them biko.

Babygirls have nothing to prove to anybody.
I mean, why should they, when they have brothers that are capable? gringrin
True.... 😁😁😁
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by appliedscience(m): 3:12pm On Aug 03, 2024
Most times the reason for not giving is not whether or not one has the fund to give out but largely because of the financial attitude, ability and intelligence of the person asking!!!.. Imagine dangote asking otedolla for $100m. He doesn't need to question him before giving out the fund!!!
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Mariangeles(f): 3:13pm On Aug 03, 2024
correctguy101:
True for me..


Can't recall a time when those girls returned money taken from me, even the married ones. And as big brother, I've never asked even if they request again...

Smh
We love brothers like you. 🥰😄
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Geonigga(m): 3:14pm On Aug 03, 2024
You see your Nigerian woman entitlement mentality,quote author=Mariangeles post=131289907]

That's not true.

A sister will most likely ask her brothers to give her, and not to lend her.
At least, that is what I would do. 🥰

Borrow from brothers kor! 🙄[/quote]
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by BlackyOne: 3:17pm On Aug 03, 2024
Nice2023:
Not a big deal...I told my my brother in law that I needed the sum of 20million last month,within a space of 5minutes I got the alert.

Currently,I am to return the money in 12months time.
Does your brother in-law have a single I can marry grin
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by ManOfSon: 3:17pm On Aug 03, 2024
Let's start from the most obvious questions. Is this a first time? Or is he in the habit of persistently tormenting his brothers with requests like this? Is he going to provide a persuasive reason for this request? Was he grateful the last time a brother gave him something or did he view the gift as an entitlement?
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Pootle: 3:17pm On Aug 03, 2024
i could have been FTC but under rated the topic now it has hit front page....

morale dont underestimate anything in this life
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Nice2023(m): 3:18pm On Aug 03, 2024
BlackyOne:
Does your brother in-law have a single I can marry grin
I married the last girl.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by BlackyOne: 3:19pm On Aug 03, 2024
RoyalBlu:
A girl with five caring male siblings...

That's bliss!!!
Girls of these days would rather have 5 Hot simp boyfriends
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Segzy19: 3:20pm On Aug 03, 2024
Why your brother in law?
No one in your own family is rich that can borrow you the money? So your BIL borrowed you 20m...

Shame!

Now, you should stop lying... It's not good...
Some of us can easily spot liers....😜


Nice2023:
Not a big deal...I told my my brother in law that I needed the sum of 20million last month,within a space of 5minutes I got the alert.

Currently,I am to return the money in 12months time.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by BlackyOne: 3:22pm On Aug 03, 2024
Nice2023:
I married the last girl.
You married your sister in-law? shocked

Okay Sha, does your brother in-law have a grown up daughter ready for marriage?
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