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wunmi590:
My sister, my chose of English shock you ba?


No mind me 😆 🤣 😅 😌 😂

Abee79:
↪Foe those who don't have the patience to read the long post, here is a summary:
The writer describes a difficult situation in her relationship. Despite financial struggles, she endured abuse from her partner, including a recent violent incident in front of their children. This event was the final straw, leading her to leave him and move in with family. She believes her partner's current attempts at reconciliation are motivated by his own needs rather than genuine remorse. You're welcome 🤗

LordIsaac:
Seconded and Thirded. God bless your peace. But protect your privates from scavengers, in case you may have to return to him in future.

bukatyne:

LordIsaac:
Seconded and Thirded. God bless your peace. But protect your privates from scavengers, in case you may have to return to him in future.

Homeboiy:
No go dey sleep with married men to feed your kids o

Nobody send you go marry a gambler

cococandy:
You people never cease to be be weird about women’s bodies. What she does with her privates is definitely none of your business and also not his business as long as they’re no longer together.

Just weird

Lovecode89:
The truth is, it was not easy for me at all. I'm not financially stable, but at least I find peace and believe everything is going to be alright. Afterall, I have been the only one sourcing out everything even while staying together.
I was already a single mom even while living together with him.
What gave me the strength to move out this time was the fact that violence starts coming in.
The same man whom I can't left behind despite all his bad character and missbehavour, almost strangle me in the presence of our children sometimes ago.
Just because he got back home late and rushed to the kitchen as usual to eat and I said, why don't you buy anything along? Not even pure water and you're rushing to the kitchen to eat? Do you know if we have anything to eat?
Out of anger he came to me and held me by my neck. Almost strangle me.
I felt so terrible when my first child came and wrapped his head around my head telling me ''sorry Mummy''
After that incedent, I sat down, and imagine how selfish and wicked mother I was, chosing this man over myself and my two children. If I suffer and die here, who will be there for my kids? So, I choose my kids.
I moved out and packed all my things to a family member's place. We are there now. He's been coming around to visit and has been calling claiming he's missing us. But I'm sure is because he no longer see any free food nor free things to use and the house rent where he lives is almost due and he has nowhere to go and no money to renew.
I pray God help and heal each and everyone of us.

muyico:
inform his pastor or iman! single mom life isn't d Best,,, ur children need Father care and father disciplines!

2Radii:
Normal normal a no dey support women..

But with ur last lines eehn, abeg even if u want to go back to him, let him sort all those out first

Let him learn to provide
Let him pay for the rent
And some other unmentionables...


But wait, where una dey see all these Oloriburuku men self?? Where??


Make una date us una no go gree, una go talk say we no tall reach 8ft plus, but na we dey take care of our women pass.

muyico:
inform his pastor or iman! single mom life isn't d Best,,, ur children need Father care and father disciplines!

1Sharon:
Another good guy that is not "like the rest".

Men like you are usually the worst. Rest

2Radii:
Lol... I am from Ekiti, ask about us very well ma, we take care of our women .

None of my Ex will ever regret dating me cus even while they are all married, they are still striking a communication with me every now and then, wishing circumstances didn't separate us. While one was even planning to move away from her husband house and move in with me with three kids (tho the man has not paid her price sha), one want me to sha be visiting her, I don't know what she wants from me.

Inasmuch as I won't allow u sitting down idle in my house without doing ur own trade, I would never ask you how much u made today talk more of bringing a certain percentage put of it for this or dat.

I know my role as a man, I provide that even my woman confess to me that a be man.
I make a decent amount in a month averaging 1.5m, I don't womanise or drink, I mumu small as well, and I easily overlook things.

Tho I never said I am thoroughly innocent as I have my own dark side which is I hate disrespect from a woman I am taking care of, I can't stand it when u disrespect me unprovoked eehn, madam I can rap.

I am not saying all these to sugarcoat but for a woman to call u a sweet guy hmmm know that u must have bn a mumu, and I ready to be a mumu so far my woman respect me for that.

Maeve7:
The children don’t need a father who strangles their mother.

Lovecode89:
Every action equal to it's reaction.
No sensible woman will insult her husband if the man act right.

You don't always return home empty handed and go straight to eat up the little food kept for your children and still don't expect yourself to be called a non caring father before you know you are. If your wife call you wicked, non caring, heartless. She's only reminding you who you are. Is not an insult

muyico:
how sure re u? don't judge by one side of d story! I'm married man, sumtime! if my wife insults me,, it will be like make I brk her head! not everybody gat tolerance spirits, to ova luk insults!

celeb4reallife:
You have to be alive first, before you can decide either to marry some one or remain single

Lovecode89:
The truth is, it was not easy for me at all. I'm not financially stable, but at least I find peace and believe everything is going to be alright. Afterall, I have been the only one sourcing out everything even while staying together.
I was already a single mom even while living together with him.
What gave me the strength to move out this time was the fact that violence starts coming in.
The same man whom I can't left behind despite all his bad character and missbehavour, almost strangle me in the presence of our children sometimes ago.
Just because he got back home late and rushed to the kitchen as usual to eat and I said, why don't you buy anything along? Not even pure water and you're rushing to the kitchen to eat? Do you know if we have anything to eat?
Out of anger he came to me and held me by my neck. Almost strangle me.
I felt so terrible when my first child came and wrapped his head around my head telling me ''sorry Mummy''
After that incedent, I sat down, and imagine how selfish and wicked mother I was, chosing this man over myself and my two children. If I suffer and die here, who will be there for my kids? So, I choose my kids.
I moved out and packed all my things to a family member's place. We are there now. He's been coming around to visit and has been calling claiming he's missing us. But I'm sure is because he no longer see any free food nor free things to use and the house rent where he lives is almost due and he has nowhere to go and no money to renew.
I pray God help and heal each and everyone of us.

2Radii:
Normal normal a no dey support women..

But with ur last lines eehn, abeg even if u want to go back to him, let him sort all those out first

Let him learn to provide
Let him pay for the rent
And some other unmentionables...


But wait, where una dey see all these Oloriburuku men self?? Where??


Make una date us una no go gree, una go talk say we no tall reach 8ft plus, but na we dey take care of our women pass.

2Radii:
Ooh, I understand the angle at which u re coming from...in the pool of men, u re likely to pick 8 bad eggs before u see a good one while some would only pick one bad and the next would be good. Some are lucky to pick the good one at the first try...

U might be at no 5 already and none of them is nothing ti write home about..its not ur fault mama, its how life made it.

But I am very sure u will pull tru, ur belief does not really matter, when it is ur time universe will favour u with ur bone.

Kobojunkieee:
Thank your stars instead that you did not become another mumu Osinachi! She is food for worms all because she refused to allow her brain to speak sense to her mind. The man who killed her is still alive and her children may end up repeating the mistake of their father who can still feed them lies about their dead mother.

Tayorshd87:
∆ Religion killed osinachi including u if u are one of her fans because if she leaves u will tag her bad example for her personality as a gospel singer 😞 divorcing her husband .

Do you get it?

But in her next life she won't do or try such again 😢😭

because now she is gone forever

Lovecode89:
∆ You are very right. The truth is, it's not always easy to walk away. Every sensible woman with children will love to stay to make it walk, but it's very difficult to force a man who is not a kind human to build a home with the woman.
∆ It's takes exceptional grace to walk away especially, when there's no better hope anywhere.