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It's heartbreaking to hear such a story, as trust and fidelity are foundational in any marriage. The man's experience highlights the emotional toll betrayal can take, and it's a reminder of the

Where that guy we be virgin hunter

This is funny af

Should we tell this dude comrades?

Who virginity help? I marry a virgin is just a way to massage masculine ego apart from that nothing special, good virtue is the real koko

Whre is that foolish guy on nairaland ,who always cry..."if you dnt marry ur wife as virgin" for whoever care to listen to come and read about reality and not be delusional again.

Terrible!!!!

Most demonic was the fact that she told him to swear with the "Bible" not to divorce her after her confession.

And foolishly, the man swore..

chatinent:
When I see those men that would be shouting "I must marry a virgin," I'd just be laughing. Little do they know that there is absolutely no 100% proven way to determine a virgin. And this is coming from a man who has slept with hundreds of girls.. automatically he was an untorn package.

If you no be virgin, you deserve persons like you.

Better marry person wey una genotype match and who get good character, because double-lane tarred roads have started converting to single lanes.

A word is enough for the fool and the wise.

A virgin without manners will frustrate you.

A Virgin after marriage is more prone to start sleeping with other people out of mere Christianity after she has experienced it once with you.

Marriage na real night market because people change doe many reasons.

The best thing is to tey as much as possible to minimize your happiness depending on another human being.

Hmm

Is that the wife in white? Hmmmm

Me I wouldn't continue o.

Kai?
Kut?

Akwai matsala.

He counted them?

Na social media content go end the world las las

DevilsEqual:
This mans case is just an outlier and they dont make the rules. In life, nothing is 100%

That woman is just a terribly greedy woman

outside this, Virginity of a woman at a marriageable age signifies many positive things. It goes beyond just the hymen
It symbolises a very high level of discipline, dedication, decency and moral standard

Its a trait that can also be passed on to a girl child. U cant give what u dont have

A virgin anyday

Absolutely.

She was just waiting for that day.

zed7:
Virginity is good, it shows self discipline but it's one of the least characteristics when looking for a wife. The guy only married a virgin wh0re. Then again, every wh0re was once a virgin.

Well said

CorrectionFLuid:
He counted them?

Na social media content go end the world las las

Did you watch the video?

It is a popular Lagos court oh

The day my eyes opened to how loose married women are in my office to any young / middle-aged successful man, since that day, I prayed to God to help me concerning marriage.

Just give me a widened heart to carry things.

Women are very easy to manipulate. All the married beautiful ladies on my office were extremely loose.

I got so weak. Hmm, I can't trust a woman. My eyes have seen. I can only pray to God to give me strength to walk.

Virgin girls do anal and get disvirgined by thier so called husbands #fact

chatinent:
Good points...only that you CANNOT really tell who a virgin is nowadays.


Talk about the hymen being intact to a doctor and watch him laugh. Hymen can fall off without sex. And it can be repaired. Check hymenoplasty.

So it's her words against yours. No ways to prove it.

I only vouch for good character, and compatibility.

Using your points, you can as well say that the man in this post may be wrong by claiming he met his wife a virgin.

DevilsEqual:
This mans case is just an outlier and they dont make the rules. In life, nothing is 100%

That woman is just a terribly greedy woman

outside this, Virginity of a woman at a marriageable age signifies many positive things. It goes beyond just the hymen
It symbolises a very high level of discipline, dedication, decency and moral standard

Its a trait that can also be passed on to a girl child. U cant give what u dont have

A virgin anyday

The bottom line is a man should marry a godly woman

Maybe those times she was a virgin, it was lack of opportunity

DevilsEqual:
This comment is devoid

Virginity doesnt automatically invalidates Good characters, unmatching Genotype, being Ambitious or whatever other quality u want in women


These things arent Mutually-exclusive

They can co-exist in same individual and Yes , If i have to choose between them, I would choose...

A virgin with good character over a non-virgin with good character
A virgin with bad character over a non-virgin with bad character

I think your comment is the devoid one. Read his post again then you realise yours holds no water.

Watch the full video!!

The man sef get plenty faults

Germi9:
Virgin girls do anal and get disvirgined by thier so called husbands #fact

Hmmmm

I know someone who has this experience

thegagoman:
There is one fact guys should know. Marrying a virgin does not guarantee fidelity in marriage.

Most virgins have more polluted minds than the non virgins. The only thing they have not done is penetration. Their coochy has been sucked, they have sucked d1cks and have their boobs fondles by numerous men and they have watched countless porn videos and created so many fantasies in their heads.

They decided to not do penetrative sex because of some religious stuff or their parents or whatever reasons they have. They want to have this pride of "My husband married me as a virgin" and use it as a bargaining tool with the so called husbands whenever the need arises

Very true..

What you have typed up here summarizes a virgin lady I met some months ago..

It's heartbreaking to hear such a story; trust is foundational in a marriage, and betrayal can deeply impact one's emotional well-being.

Marry a Virgin, Marry a Virgin...!

Una don see am?!!

When we tell people like Jeromestarks that virginity doesn't always translate to good or godly character, they say we are talking rubbish.

It's better to marry a repented and reformed slut then deceive yourself into marrying a hypocritical Virgin stalling for the right opportunity to explore.

MasterJayJay:
Doesn't change the fact that I must marry a virgin.


Even God had to choose a virgin for Jesus to come into the world.

More cases of paternity fraud has to do with women who did not marry as virgins.

The probabilty of a virgin bride being faithful is much more higher than others who are not virgins.

The man even said he met her as a virgin, not that they had their first sex after wedding. If you fornicated with a woman and deflowered her in the process, then marry her after few months. You did not marry a virgin.

I feel sorry for you. You're borderline delusional. From experience, I know it is better to be with a girl that has gotten bored of sex not the one that has not experienced sex.

Most virgins are not virgins self because they get f*cked anally and orally.

Become awake to reality, the sweetest girls I've been with are pastor's daughters and church leaders.

Everybody is human at the end, forget the religious facade.

Bro wake up.

bnanny:
Bro never trust a Nigerian girl oo. Even so called church girls are worst than oloshos and every Nigerian girls now are open oloshos or coded oloshos. .
Remember all the sad endings of Nigerian boys abroad who brought their wife's from village. A girl who knows nothing before in Nigeria will come abroad and start claiming right because they want to go into prostitution where the quick money is.

There's no quick money in prostitution abroad. Those women divorce their husbands because they want to possess his belongings and get him to pay child support. If the men are unable to do that, the government will start taking care of the children for the women.

One CNN documentary shows how Nigerian ladies run prostitution cartel in Europe (Italy, France and other parts of Europe). When the girls were interviewed with their identities covered, they said men pay them €30 for sleeping with them overnight. Many people make over €100 per day in Europe.

Why many of them go into prostitution is that they are illegal immigrants. One madam or another smuggled them into Europe with fake promises of working for one big company. They don't have legal documents to work. If not, legal work is better than prostituting in Europe.

chatinent:
If you no be virgin, you deserve persons like you.

👍🏾

MasterJayJay:
Doesn't change the fact that I must marry a virgin.


Even God had to choose a virgin for Jesus to come into the world.

More cases of paternity fraud has to do with women who did not marry as virgins.

The probabilty of a virgin bride being faithful is much more higher than others who are not virgins.

The man even said he met her as a virgin, not that they had their first sex after wedding. If you fornicated with a woman and deflowered her in the process, then marry her after few months. You did not marry a virgin.

You're a young boy who hasn't seen life. Virginity is a good virtue but if your own way to judge a woman's character is her hymen, you're in for a rude awakening

zed7:
Virginity is good, it shows self discipline but it's one of the least characteristics when looking for a wife. The guy only married a virgin wh0re. Then again, every wh0re was once a virgin.

Simple...virgin or not a whole is a whole.

Being a virgin doesn't mean she wasn't sexually active with many partners. it just means they didn't have penetrative sex.

Maybe she meant fifteen times and not fifteen guys . Well, who knows. Fear women.