₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,330,962 members, 8,447,979 topics. Date: Sunday, 19 July 2026 at 12:42 PM

Toggle theme

What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... - Family (2) - Nairaland

Nairaland ForumNairaland GeneralFamilyWhat To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... (32292 Views)

1 2 3 4 5 Reply (Go Down)

Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by omonla10(m): 11:07am On Aug 20, 2024
God help d men o
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by BABANGBALI: 11:07am On Aug 20, 2024
KiNg0G:
I can't imagine marrying and sexing one pucsy all my life...as a chronic womanizer
the thing fit kill prick self. If prick fit talk e go dey request for different different women for each day and even ask for roster to be made for dem
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Zooposki(f): 11:07am On Aug 20, 2024
Jamiubond009:
If he's tired of the kuntus,forget it.Men get tired of doking one kpekus.Variety is the spice of life
I agree as a confirmed woman. Different varieties of gbola is the spice of life.
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by idanone(m): 11:07am On Aug 20, 2024
B
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by idanone(m): 11:08am On Aug 20, 2024
Na make woman get sense on how to manage their home that matters.
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by delishpot: 11:08am On Aug 20, 2024
Yeye dey smell
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Gosh234: 11:08am On Aug 20, 2024
Oluromantic:
That's why I support men marrying older or slightly older women. Although women will always be women but there are significant differences.

You think all this thing you listed aren't too cumbersome for the comprehension of someone who believes the man is to do the caring by his age compared to hers. How many sense women get let alone those with younger age
older women are self-centred and quick to use reverse psychology
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Reality3080: 11:09am On Aug 20, 2024
francissmithz:
This one just come advertise her wares grin
u sabi
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by gassbee:
chigoziri2403:
How will you have erection in this austerity times
erection does not recognize the existence of the economy
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by ucbenjamin696(m): 11:16am On Aug 20, 2024
IN AFRICAN CHINA VOICE:- Food no dey,water no dey,shey naw sex wan cum dey man head,must it be SEX SEX SEX & SEX huh
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Atolu01: 11:19am On Aug 20, 2024
"Men don't take disrespect, insult and social embarrassment with levity!"


So it is supposedly Women that take disrespect, insult and social embarrassment with levity. Scum.
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by allenpaul(m): 11:20am On Aug 20, 2024
onumadu:
One thing is missing conspicuously from your list.

What is missing?
GOOD FOOD. (home meal well made)
Good food is what signals to a married man that he is "home", and that "home" can be anywhere if the wife is slacking in that department.
Most married men are responsible (which is why they married in the first place).
Understand this first.
Such men hate eating outside.
After he's had a great MEAL you prepared, he would be available for other things (including your seductions) .
Most married men are captured by other women outside using just food.
After eating there, other things become possible.
This is why most responsible men HARDLY eat outside, particularly foods cooked by women who they suspect is eying them.
Take this advice and thank me later. cool
. Are you a marriage counselor?if you aren't you got helluva experience.simple thing Man needs good food and peace every other things will follow naturally.
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by spiceadole(f): 11:24am On Aug 20, 2024
How women have so much interest in se.x baffles me.

Sex,for me,is for procreation.

I'm done with child bearing.

I will be glad if my husband loses interest..Better for me
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Shomek(m): 11:26am On Aug 20, 2024
Okay oo nonsense
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Komu1048(m): 11:29am On Aug 20, 2024
Reality3080:
The economy is really not smiling n much load is a man so the last thing a struggling man will think about at this stage is sex

Come to think about it
House rent
School bills for kids
Home maintenance
Feeding
Fuel for house n car(s)
Family ( most especially parents of both sides)
His siblings who need little support

I never even talk about how himself wan get savings n how e wan flex

Omo things are hard
U leave out hospital bills that can when unprepared for. The worst thing to have is a woman lacking empathy
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by ITbomb(m): 11:30am On Aug 20, 2024
Check his BP first
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by nwirinedu(m): 11:36am On Aug 20, 2024
Apart from illness and stress men don't just loose interest, sometimes its the women who turn off the switch. The fact that the man was caught with another woman proves this. Ladies need to explain why they turn on and turn off the switch and complain later when oga finds an alternative.

You cannot eat your cake and have it. grin
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Mom007(f): 11:36am On Aug 20, 2024
Ha! Fire on d mountain oo! Unless u married ned nwoko and his age mates, men don't just loose interest in sex but the other way round. If your otherwise young and virile husband suddenly starts loosing interest in sex, He is probably getting doses from elsewhere. Just saying.
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by RomanticOO7: 11:40am On Aug 20, 2024
Find a way to make him worry Les about money .
Don't make him feel he is not doing enough , encourage and commend his efforts to provide for the family .
Don't talk about your needs before sex , do it after , if you must .
Help him financially .
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by chigoziri2403(m): 11:41am On Aug 20, 2024
gassbee:
erection does not recognize the existence of the economy
It does brother, how can blood flow to the phallus when it's needed more in the brain to think of how to escape piled up debts
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Komu1048(m): 11:41am On Aug 20, 2024
spiceadole:
How women have so much interest in se.x baffles me.

Sex,for me,is for procreation.

I'm done with child bearing.

I will be glad if my husband loses interest..Better for me
I swear, na person like u I suppose marry, Its like a magic when I see men craving for sex or talk about sex. If 2say my prick no dey stand I for say maybe I have low libido. I c sex as a dirty habit. And i swear my wife is clean, far better than me in cleanliness. I'm always happy when I have a job that will take me away from home for min 6months coz I no I won't even have to think of sex( me too only engage in it for procreation n as a responsibility). Before married, ive engage in many sex to really check if its sweet like people talk but its pure trash. Of all the wahala wey dey this world na sex person go dey think. I can only have urge for sex if I don't have it for more than a year.
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by LtChisom: 11:42am On Aug 20, 2024
Hemanwel:
It's a good thing that this kind of threads are created for the married to refresh their marital responsibilities, so as to keep the fire burning in their love lives.

However, as a man, father, and a husband, these are my personal experiences in marriage:

- We need to regularly appreciate our wives.
- Your wife should be your best friend.
- Do the house chores together.
- Understand your wife's weakness and make her see it rather as strength.
- Be in constant communication with your wife, even while at work.
- Be romantic. Initiate seductive conversations. Be playful with her.
- In times of argument, do it with love. If you notice she's still angry, cuddle her and laugh it off.
- Always make your wife feel special. Buy her gifts. Take her out, even after birthing 5 children.
- For your marriage to work, the onus lies on the man/husband. What you put in is what you get.
What of me wey wash pant this morning while taking my bath, and she is in her cycle from yesterday
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Softmen: 11:46am On Aug 20, 2024
FRANCISTOWN:
Age has nothing to do with the IQ level of an individual. Many older women are stupid.
At least, there are many grown people who deprive themselves of sleep to watch BBNaija.
Yes U right just like my brother's wife
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Sholuwa224: 11:46am On Aug 20, 2024
onumadu:
One thing is missing conspicuously from your list.

What is missing?
GOOD FOOD. (home meal well made)
Good food is what signals to a married man that he is "home", and that "home" can be anywhere if the wife is slacking in that department.
Most married men are responsible (which is why they married in the first place).
Understand this first.
Such men hate eating outside.
After he's had a great MEAL you prepared, he would be available for other things (including your seductions) .
Most married men are captured by other women outside using just food.
After eating there, other things become possible.
This is why most responsible men HARDLY eat outside, particularly foods cooked by women who they suspect is eying them.
Take this advice and thank me later. cool
Wait now where you come from self you get sience man this is the right up she suppose start the right up whit now you they correct am Weller thank you .
Wise man
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by MVLOX(m): 11:46am On Aug 20, 2024
Hemanwel:
It's a good thing that this kind of threads are created for the married to refresh their marital responsibilities, so as to keep the fire burning in their love lives.

However, as a man, father, and a husband, these are my personal experiences in marriage:

- We need to regularly appreciate our wives.
- Your wife should be your best friend.
- Do the house chores together.
- Understand your wife's weakness and make her see it rather as strength.
- Be in constant communication with your wife, even while at work.
- Be romantic. Initiate seductive conversations. Be playful with her.
- In times of argument, do it with love. If you notice she's still angry, cuddle her and laugh it off.
- Always make your wife feel special. Buy her gifts. Take her out, even after birthing 5 children.
- For your marriage to work, the onus lies on the man/husband. What you put in is what you get.
As a man you could do all this and still not get the right response.... What I have noticed about many women is that immediately you start something which is actually not suppose to be your usual role, they would always want more even when they Dem selves don't want to make their own needed improvement and put in the work.... For me in particular I haven't had any intercourse with my wife for more than a year and honestly it's not something I am even thinking of doing at all again.... There are more important things to life than sex.....
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by fitinwell: 11:49am On Aug 20, 2024
seunoladele:
© Seun Oladele, 2024.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
I read through there is no place in your write up , that mentioned Praying together as couples..

There is special bond when couples pray together at Night...

But majority of couples aren't sincere with themselves, due to there own selfish interests.
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Toosure70: 11:49am On Aug 20, 2024
I need another wife urgently please
1 2 3 4 5 Reply

Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down?Zimbabwean Man Divorces Wife For Shouting Ex-Lover's Name During Love MakingMy Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad234

Nigerian Man Ties His Son To His Back And People Make Fun Of HimShould I Adopt My Fiancee's Son Legally?Police Nabs Newly Married Man For Impregnating Sister-In-Law In Anambra