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This is a FAKE NEWS !!!

The Police Officer NEVER mentioned anything like that but advised Nigerian Women to be responsible to their family !

Many people going into marriage, by concealing within them, that, they don't want the marriage to succeed.(Only to have biological kids and become free rangers)

Why would wife start behaving rudely to husband just because they go overseas?

Why would man says in the hierarchy of loving siblings, wife would be in 5th place? After mom, dad sister and blood brothers?


Yet we will still blame marriage institution rather than looking inward.

Goodnewsforlife:
I asked because it will b a great disservice to me arguing with a 20 year old guy who doesn't even have a girlfriend let alone wife

Don't worry when u get there u will understand better

It will also be of great disservice arguing with a 40 yr old guy who is married, let alone with kids, yet doesn't get the point.

Don't worry you will understand better.

Botragelad:
It will also be of great disservice arguing with a 40 yr old guy who is married, let alone with kids, yet doesn't get the point.

Don't worry you will understand better.

get married first bro

Botragelad:
Have you actually read the post? The video is from years ago, and that individual was acting on their own initiative. No sensible police officer would suggest that a woman shouldn't report a matter to them.

If someone is being abusive, you have every right to contact the police, it's their job to sort out whether you're being abusive or not. This isn't Africa, where people seem to get away with everything. Learn to behave yourself and follow the law. You're not above the law.

You chaps need to lose the macho attitude you have back in Africa, where you think you can boss women about as you please and torment them. Well, let me tell you, that sort of rot isn't tolerated in the UK or any decent society.

This is exactly how you lot mistreat women and tell them to deal with the situation until they end up dead.

UK is a decent society cos the law favor the women and Nigeria where the law "favour" the men is indecent society according to you.

cococandy:
He went to join the UK police with the Nigerian police mentality of telling women that domestic violence is family matter . Until they die then everyone will start screaming “wHy diDn’t She leAve?” 🙄

He was addressing the Nigerian community as a Nigerian but trust our overzealous naija uk bloggers, recorded the lecture and gave it a deceptive caption: " UK police advised NIgeran women.....bla bla"

Goodnewsforlife:
get married first bro

Marriage doesn't make you a man!
Neither should it make you lose common sense. Lol

femi4:
He was addressing the Nigerian community as a Nigerian but trust our overzealous naija uk bloggers, recorded the lecture and gave it a deceptive caption: " UK police advised NIgeran women.....bla bla"

He could have done that in plain clothes not police uniform. We went there to present himself as an authority figure from the police.

1stGenAmerican:
The UK Metropolitan Police have made it clear that they had no part in telling Nigerian women not to call the police on their husbands. The police officer speaking in Yoruba in this video is being investigated—I’m sure he’ll lose his job and possibly receive criminal charges which is good!

Here’s the story:



https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/met-cop-telling-nigerian-women-33655942


Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/8211011/uk-police-officer-advises-nigerian

some members of Nigerian community wey think the only thing uk and western world will offer them be freedom to misbehave and push their husbands out of the house at any slight instance done go report officer oo. No one support violence or abuse … but if anyone tells you most of your children will turn out great without their father or fatherly upbringing. You are lying to yourself!
Everything must not end in divorce .
Find a way to settle things !
Violence and abuse shouldn’t be tolerated though!

GloriousGbola:
it is always amazing that people think they can flee their financial difficulties in their home countries and somehow still import the backward attitudes that are responsible for the situations in their home countries.

This

Botragelad:
Who do you think you are that I owe you an answer to such question? The Queen of England? 😂

For the love of all things, don't even think about playing the 'age card' or you'll end up embarrassing yourself. If you're old enough to be married, you should be grown-up enough to know that reporting abuse/issues is a no-brainer, no matter how small it seems.

So you and your partner have an argument about a spilled milk...you gonna call the police..?? My God I pray I never meet your types

Orinechi:
UK is a decent society cos the law favor the women and Nigeria where the law "favour" the men is indecent society according to you.

don't mind d mugu

atiku4President:
UK authority must respond to that garbage that man was selling to innocent women. He directly and indirectly encouraged them to die in silence. He thinks UK is Nigeria where citizens are forced to take rubbish from fellow citizens and even from government.

I listened to every utterance the man made there was no time he told the women to remain in abusive marriage. I think feminists are doing too much. His advice bothers generally on family cohesion. The need for woman to tolerate and cooperate with their husband. He even gave a specific instance of unemployment on the part of the husband.

How feminists spined it to arrive at domestic violence beat my imagination.

The woke generation and their hypocrisy

Don't tolerate your husband, report him when he sneezes, when he farts, reports him, report him when he can't afford to pay the bill, report him when he cannot say his "I love you" audibly, report him when he is frustrated, goes out and refuses to return to your toxic embrace


When you're done killing him with reports, you have to transfer the aggression of irrelevant reports to your own children.

Osinwin gbogbo

citizen202:
So you and your partner have an argument about a spilled milk...you gonna call the police..?? My God I pray I never meet your types

Went over your head! 🤷‍♂️

Dude was an idiot who does not value his job.

cococandy:
He could have done that in plain clothes not police uniform. We went there to present himself as an authority figure from the police.

Even at that, the caption is wrong. There was no where in the video he said anything like that

citizen202:
So you and your partner have an argument about a spilled milk...you gonna call the police..?? My God I pray I never meet your types

don't mind that guy, I can bet he doesn't have a girlfriend

Don't stress yourself about all those kids

1stGenAmerican:
The UK Metropolitan Police have made it clear that they had no part in telling Nigerian women not to call the police on their husbands. The police officer speaking in Yoruba in this video is being investigated—I’m sure he’ll lose his job and possibly receive criminal charges which is good!
Here’s the story:

I personally used to think you are good but now I understand you are absolutely EVIL.
So losing his job will make you happy...?
It tells so much about you

If you are abroad as a man and your wife is in Nigeria, leave her there. If your children are with her, take them there but leave your wife in Nigeria. Come to see her as much as you can, let her enjoy nice trips around the world if you can afford it but don’t let her leave with you over there.




You will surely thank me later if you take the advice.

lonelydora:
UK is one place I won't like to live, even if they dash me visa with housing and job.

They complain about almost everything.

I pity men that go to UK without any second plan.

See, any day my wife calls police on me, no matter the issue, I will marry second wife that day.

Lol, you think you are doing the woman esp. if she is solid. Don't worry if the second wife calls police on you, marry the third wife and the fourth, fifth....

Goodnewsforlife:
don't mind that guy, I can bet he doesn't have a girlfriend

Don't stress yourself about all those kids

Why do you keep ranting about girlfriend and marriage. Is that what your life is basically all about? 😂

You mean one need to have a wife or girlfriend before you apply basic sense!

Botragelad:
Why do you keep ranting about girlfriend and marriage. Is that what your life is basically all about? 😂

You mean one need to have a wife or girlfriend before you apply basic sense!

u need to have a girlfriend or wife n must have stayed for minimum of a year to understand man n woman relationship

U can't understand what u haven't experienced

Laple0541:
If you are abroad as a man and your wife is in Nigeria, leave her there. If your children are with her, take them there but leave your wife in Nigeria. Come to see her as much as you can, let her enjoy nice trips around the world if you can afford it but don’t let her leave with you over there.

You will surely thank me later if you take the advice.

Don't marry a Nigerian woman at all. Go abroad and marry. Have your mixed kids with a white woman. They are the best. 🫂🫂

Goodnewsforlife:
don't b stupid
Guy I b Yoruba person, I hear Wetin d man talk n it's same advise any family oriented person will give

Nope.
That is the advice giving by religious or traditional folks to cover up abuse
and shame those who call out for help.

babtoundey:
I listened to every utterance the man made there was no time he told the women to remain in abusive marriage. I think feminists are doing too much. His advice bothers generally on family cohesion. The need for woman to tolerate and cooperate with their husband. He even gave a specific instance of unemployment on the part of the husband.

How feminists spined it to arrive at domestic violence beat my imagination.

The woke generation and their hypocrisy

Don't tolerate your husband, report him when he sneezes, when he farts, reports him, report him when he can't afford to pay the bill, report him when he cannot say his "I love you" audibly, report him when he is frustrated, goes out and refuses to return to your toxic embrace


When you're done killing him with reports, you have to transfer the aggression of irrelevant reports to your own children.

Osinwin gbogbo

don't mind all those mugus

I called them misogynist n not feminist

femi4:
He was addressing the Nigerian community as a Nigerian but trust our overzealous naija uk bloggers, recorded the lecture and gave it a deceptive caption: " UK police advised NIgeran women.....bla bla"

He shouldn't have given the advice in police uniform.
Yes, there will always be frivolous reports but it is not his place to discourage reporting officially

ivolt:
He shouldn't have given the advice in police uniform.
Yes, there will always be frivolous reports but it is not his place to discourage reporting officially

He never mentioned anything like that. Naija bloggers and sensational headlines. Even here on nl, they do the same thing

Everything he said was about both parents should work together to raise their kids to become responsible people in life

Goodnewsforlife:
u need to have a girlfriend or wife n must have stayed for minimum of a year to understand man n woman relationship

U can't understand what u haven't experienced

Absolute tosh!
You can understand the principles of physics without being a physicist, correct?
This attitude of yours is a recipe for disaster. Are you implying that only those with a partner have a valid opinion, while the single, divorced, or widowed are somehow less capable of understanding relationship.

And what about those who've had multiple relationships yet still can't get it right? Does their experience make them experts?

Laple0541:
If you are abroad as a man and your wife is in Nigeria, leave her there. If your children are with her, take them there but leave your wife in Nigeria. Come to see her as much as you can, let her enjoy nice trips around the world if you can afford it but don’t let her leave with you over there.
You will surely thank me later if you take the advice.

I bet you haven't done this personally, you're just talking out of your behind. Who will take care of the children? Do you think there's any free baby sitter or housegirl for you abroad?

Have you ever left Nigeria?

I have to go back to watch the video the guy speak so responsibly and didn't mention anything like that, he even said you can stop any of the police and report to us..

Laple0541:
If you are abroad as a man and your wife is in Nigeria, leave her there. If your children are with her, take them there but leave your wife in Nigeria. Come to see her as much as you can, let her enjoy nice trips around the world if you can afford it but don’t let her leave with you over there.




You will surely thank me later if you take the advice.

The man must surely be so low on the food chain, that women in that country he is in, don't find him marriage worthy and e wan dey form boss man for Nigeria wife.

If I had such children taken away from their mother, come into the service I work in here in the UK, I will CERTAINLY make sure I take it up and he will be getting and doing some visits that will make him sweat.😂😂