₦airaland Forum

GloriousGbola:
Thanks to the foolish man, all Nigerian police officers will be watched and monitored closely going forward as being domestic violence friendly.

Also there will be strict instructions that they only communicate in English. And there will be immediate reviews of any non English communications.

Rest assured that all UK police of Nigerian origin are now under a searchlight.

The met police are undoubtedly reading this and other threads, seeing the casual attitudes towards domestic violence, and planning on vetting of all Nigerian police officers.

It will now likely be much harder for Nigerians to get hired as police.

Another own goal by foolish Nigerians thinking they are smarter than dumb white men.

cococandy:
He went to join the UK police with the Nigerian police mentality of telling women that domestic violence is family matter . Until they die then everyone will start screaming “wHy diDn’t She leAve?” 🙄

cococandy:
I don’t need to address the issue of false reporting. There’s already a law against making false police reports. It’s a crime. Unless you’re asking me to be like you people and assume that anyone who reports domestic abuse is lying. We call that being abuse apologists



The fact that you consider therapy fraudulent is a great indication that you might be in need their services. People who need introspection, self reflection and self accountability are often the ones who hate to do it the most

1Sharon:
Coughing and sneezing.

santaclaws:
Yea, teach me western professional ethics as if I haven't lived in one of the best European countries and helped others to secure opportunities there.

The emphasis here isn't even on his work ethics, it's about how you're rejoicing at the possibility of him getting sacked, probably because you never liked the comments circulating on social media about women reporting their husbands... Admit the truth woman!

Ignore the woman boss. You should have known the kind of lady she is. They are all over here in London and many European countries. By the time they end up sending all the male folks to prison and break the family system, the Independence they so crave for, we,d see how they,d succeed.

atiku4President:
UK authority must respond to that garbage that man was selling to innocent women. He directly and indirectly encouraged them to die in silence. He thinks UK is Nigeria where citizens are forced to take rubbish from fellow citizens and even from government.

sonofthunder:
It's not about laws but ability to execute. The laws only protect women and condemn men. We all watched how the law proved a woman falsely accused a famous actor of abuse yet the law did not met out matching judgement against said woman. You want me to rely on such laws. Laws that enable women to cheat on their wives and still initiate divorces and take away more than half of the man's hardwork and lifetime achievements?

Therapy is largely unhelpful and doesn't end up getting results in as much as 60% of cases. Even therapists themselves are questioning their profession.

Female therapist are questioning their fellow gender and their desire for the right thing to be done.

Your problem is you take the cases of 53 men out of 30million who beat or abuse their wife's and use it to avail women of their hypocrisies.

cococandy:
Men who cheat on their wives can still initiate divorce. No one will stop them. The problem is y’all want to eat your cakes and have it.

Oh the man’s hardwork and lifetime achievements? Right because the women didn’t work and didn’t have any achievements in the home. Only what the men did matters. Pfft 🙄. It’s your refusal to acknowledge the contributions of the women in your lives that make you feel this way. And it’ll continue to be the root of your (generic) frustrations. You guys have made up your minds not to respect the women in your lives and value their work in the home. That’s why you can take a bold stand in public and claim “all the man achieved”, as if the woman was a bystander the whole time.


unhelpful to people like you who don’t see the importance of it

reputable sources pls



If only that were the true statistic. I can’t take you seriously if you’re going to be blatantly lying

1Sharon:
Good job.

If you call the police for a ridiculous reason they actually tell you it's not a police matter and they hang up the phone. Even pranking the police is a crime in the UK.

Let them keep lying to themselves that they're wives are reporting them for coughing and sneezing.

Flangelo12:
Trust me.

We make the rules and there's absolutely nothing you can do about it.

cococandy:
He could have done that in plain clothes not police uniform. We went there to present himself as an authority figure from the police.

pocohantas:
Okay, when men kill, it is because women transfer aggression. But when they report una to police, una dey innocent? Penìs logic.

lonelydora:
UK is one place I won't like to live, even if they dash me visa with housing and job.

They complain about almost everything.

I pity men that go to UK without any second plan.

See, any day my wife calls police on me, no matter the issue, I will marry second wife that day.

descarado:
Zip it if you don't know what to say.

Sometime I wonder if sone of you are up to 14yrs with your level of reasoning

Flangelo12:
Make me.

descarado:
That was a very old video. Probably 10yrs cos I can still remember fragments of what happened prior to that sensitisation.
The met police sent them there. He was there with fellow officers.
That time also, met were looking for yoruba people specifically to train as officers who can use yoruba language while on duty.
It was very sensational here that time. (I think those threads were part of lost threads when nairaland crashed)
As long as it does the job. That man on that video was with superior officers. I don't understand yoruba so I can't interpret what was said but that time, Nigerians in uk were on fire and crime rate and report both for frivolities were at its peak.
Don't know why the video resurfaced again.
Hmm

sonofthunder:
All reputable sources madam, you are just too lazy to be objective in the information you accept.

All information can easily be gotten if you are not too lazy to research, just the same way it's easy to research information on women who divorce their husbands for refusing to train another man's children they conceived out if wedlock, women who hit their heads against the wall to lie to police officers, men who endure physical abuse from their wives because the law is "powerless" in bringing the women to book even in the face of glaring evidences, women who falsely accuse their husbands and even other men of rape and upon investigation that it was false, nothing is done to the woman.


But yes, go ahead and bury your head in the sand while you direct your hatred at me.


And in most cases, the woman contributed nothing to the development of the man, the man was already wealthy and well to do before making the mistake of bringing and unfortunate woman into his home but then you can cherry on with your delusion.

ZTsambad:
Abeg most of dis rights are rubbish propaganda and a fallacy of the west

GloriousGbola:
The audience he was with are they in Nigeria?
The audience he was with was he there as himself or as a representative of the met police?


Let me put this is terms you will understand

In Nigeria it is against the law to be gay.

An NGO was shut down for promoting lgbtq. It does not matter if gays have rights in the west. It does not matter if the NGO was promoting human rights.

Can a un French national come to a in convention in Nigeria and start advising gays in French in how to bypass Nigerian laws on gays?

This should be simple for you to understand. You cannot promote attitudes that are against the a country's law and against accepted cultural norms, especially hard issues like dv.

cococandy:
That’s interesting they are distancing themselves from it now. Or maybe they sent him and what he said wasn’t exactly what they expected

I think it resurfaced again because of NL busy bodies and their always wanting something to say about abroad women.

HaneefahRN:
Your wife will not call police on you if you are a good husband. If you like marry 10th wife, if you are abusive they have the right to protect themselves against you

lagosrd:
■ All perfectly understood however, what . Saying is that he was only giving his own advices based on moral grounds and I don't think he should be crucified for that.

Kobojunkieee:
There are Indians and people of other nationalities in the same UK and they don't particularly think the laws favor women. The major reason why you Nigerians in particular believe that the laws favor women is because your minds were raised in a backward place where men are proclaimed superiors to women and many of you derive your very self-esteem from that idea. If you don't like it over in the UK, don't bother showing up in America or anywhere else in the more civilized climes cause you won't find it any easier.

Orinechi:
■ U have spoken to all the indians and people of other nationalities in the UK to have come up with this ur finding. Do I expect anything better from a pseudo care- giver?

Kobojunkieee:
What is a pseudo care-giver?

Orinechi:
How is what u posted related to the subject of discourse?

Mindlog:
I work here in the UK, with a London borough, work in the children and family services department, where I work with children taken away from their family because of neglect, abuse, domestic violence, drugs etc. The Policeman of Nigerian origin was not authorised to make such statements in either languages. If he wanted to give such advice, do so in personal capacity without wearing the UK police uniform...

descarado:
We don suffer for this abroad.

If you are earning more than your hubby and your hubby don't have any problem with it, you are in paradise. It's very hard for most naija men to accept the fact that their wives earn more than them.
All these problem came from financial empowerment for the ladies.