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lately, I have been thinking that for my life to change I must get married. I have been living in squalor for so long. Maybe when I get married and have another mouth to feed, I will have more derive to excape poverty.
Hohestly I am tired of all these sapa that I am facing.

Mrwhite09:
lately, I have been thinking that for my life to change I must get married. I have been living in squalor for so long. Maybe when I get married and have another mouth to feed, I will have more derive to excape poverty.
Hohestly I am tired of all these sapa that I am facing.

In this your pit you are in, you wanna drag someone's daughter in with you


Wicked soul... You can barely feed how do you intend to feed another

Guy, is this a Sacrifice?

guysis:
Guy, is this a Sacrifice?

na my evening food be that

Hmmm!

whytevardy:
You will die before six months and nobody is going to give a Bleep.

Why are you this wicked!?! Why wishing him death? What wrong has he done to you?

Mrwhite09:
na you go kee me?

I have the feeling that you are a great soul being troubled by toxic people around you. I think you need to read this article titled 'How To Handle Your Haters'. Thank me later.

You will die before six months and nobody is going to give a Bleep.

Mrwhite09:
lately, I have been thinking that for my life to change I must get married. I have been living in squalor for so long. Maybe when I get married and have another mouth to feed, I will have more derive to excape poverty.
Hohestly I am tired of all these sapa that I am facing.

You dey enjoy T-pain no reach yr side

ojun50:
You dey enjoy T-pain no reach yr side

he is dealing with me mercilessly

whytevardy:
You will die before six months and nobody is going to give a Bleep.

na you go kee me?

Yeah marriage brings blessings. Get married immediately.

Mrwhite09:
na my evening food be that

You eat mosquito coils?

Afonja44:
You eat mosquito coils?

didnt u see the bread and pure water?

Mrwhite09:
didnt u see the bread and pure water?

Did you eat the mosquito coils?

You won't. A man who is unable to save himself from an accident will hardly be able to do it for two people. You are terribly poor. First of all, take care of yourself. Forget about marriage.

Mrwhite09:
lately, I have been thinking that for my life to change I must get married. I have been living in squalor for so long. Maybe when I get married and have another mouth to feed, I will have more derive to excape poverty.
Hohestly I am tired of all these sapa that I am facing.

From frying pan to fire? Why do you think you have to bring someone else into your hard life?

One year after wedding, pickin will land, what plans do you have? Have you checked the prices of Pampers.
Even rich guys are avoiding marriage, you wan put head.

Yoruba says " Okun wo ya a, Osa wo ya a , omo buruku tori bo"

find a good girl to date first, then open ya ears to listen to her words of advice. No marry tiktok branded eeeediot ooo. Follow these steps
1. Get a job; it doesn't have to be a big job just something to get you some money at hand and keep yoir mind busy.
2. Change your wardrobe with some decent wear not expensive but clean and good fit. Some few shirts and trouser well ironed and neat will do.
3. Rent a room if you dont have one. Ask for family support just get a roof over your head, depending on the town you live get something decent not expensive, keep it clean.
4. Join a society and become active, it could be a church or mosque just be active and get involved with people and activities. And be friendly dont look down on your self
5. Start your search for a good girl there are many of them. Dont go to facebook group , tiktok, dating app or any thing social media. Just check thru your work place or a primary or secondary school close to your work place or close to your house, or your church or mosque you will see some young female teachers, no look yansh or breast look character there are no glory or destiny in big yansh or breast.
6. Look for girls in your religious group. You will see them those calm, focus girl them dey there, visit other religious organised programs you will still see them. The truth is that there are girls out there praying to meet a man like you.
7. When you meet the girl dont form dont lie, be real with her if she wan stay your sincerity will keep her.
8. If she agrees to date you the open your ear and listen to her advice then keep away from other girls and useless guys i bet you if you do well to love that girl yoir life will change.

Ode

I use to think this way but it is wrong. Self motivation is key.. put your self first.. u see when I even started making more money I didn’t feel like getting married again. I now feel no woman is worth all my sweat. No woman deserves my love and care. So I use and dump them . First of all love yourself to want to work hard and give yourself the best.

God bless you

For this advice

madone:
find a good girl to date first, then open ya ears to listen to her words of advice. No marry tiktok branded eeeediot ooo. Follow these steps
1. Get a job; it doesn't have to be a big job just something to get you some money at hand and keep yoir mind busy.
2. Change your wardrobe with some decent wear not expensive but clean and good fit. Some few shirts and trouser well ironed and neat will do.
3. Rent a room if you dont have one. Ask for family support just get a roof over your head, depending on the town you live get something decent not expensive, keep it clean.
4. Join a society and become active, it could be a church or mosque just be active and get involved with people and activities. And be friendly dont look down on your self
5. Start your search for a good girl there are many of them. Dont go to facebook group , tiktok, dating app or any thing social media. Just check thru your work place or a primary or secondary school close to your work place or close to your house, or your church or mosque you will see some young female teachers, no look yansh or breast look character there are no glory or destiny in big yansh or breast.
6. Look for girls in your religious group. You will see them those calm, focus girl them dey there, visit other religious organised programs you will still see them. The truth is that there are girls out there praying to meet a man like you.
7. When you meet the girl dont form dont lie, be real with her if she wan stay your sincerity will keep her.
8. If she agrees to date you the open your ear and listen to her advice then keep away from other girls and useless guys i bet you if you do well to love that girl yoir life will change.

Down2earth101:
In this your pit you are in, you wanna drag someone's daughter in with you


Wicked soul... You can barely feed how do you intend to feed another

You think someone's daughter coming from a better pit will listen to him? For her, this is an upgrade 😂 😂 😂 😂

madone:
find a good girl to date first, then open ya ears to listen to her words of advice. No marry tiktok branded eeeediot ooo. Follow these steps
1. Get a job; it doesn't have to be a big job just something to get you some money at hand and keep yoir mind busy.
2. Change your wardrobe with some decent wear not expensive but clean and good fit. Some few shirts and trouser well ironed and neat will do.
3. Rent a room if you dont have one. Ask for family support just get a roof over your head, depending on the town you live get something decent not expensive, keep it clean.
4. Join a society and become active, it could be a church or mosque just be active and get involved with people and activities. And be friendly dont look down on your self
5. Start your search for a good girl there are many of them. Dont go to facebook group , tiktok, dating app or any thing social media. Just check thru your work place or a primary or secondary school close to your work place or close to your house, or your church or mosque you will see some young female teachers, no look yansh or breast look character there are no glory or destiny in big yansh or breast.
6. Look for girls in your religious group. You will see them those calm, focus girl them dey there, visit other religious organised programs you will still see them. The truth is that there are girls out there praying to meet a man like you.
7. When you meet the girl dont form dont lie, be real with her if she wan stay your sincerity will keep her.
8. If she agrees to date you the open your ear and listen to her advice then keep away from other girls and useless guys i bet you if you do well to love that girl yoir life will change.

Guy I need buy you beer . What a wisdom

chidifrank:
Guy I need buy you beer . What a wisdom

thanks baba

Tayorshd87:
God bless you

For this advice

yiu are welcome

I think the op is under pressure, either through friends.. or family... Abeg don't make decisions based on pleasing people..
Even mad people give birth and get married... Marriage is not an achievement...
All am saying do things at your pace... Don't let society put pressure on you

Marry now and see

Don't let all the tales by moon light of people put you into miseries...

Make sure you make enough money before your duck even start to erect, not to talk of even having a bane you want to marry...

Not even under this Tinubu time, just go and work and make sure you are earning almost 500k before you get married

Lemme sha believe your just catching cruise🙄

you even see bread and pure water self,some no see,you even get mosquito coils,alaye you be big man,you are doing well,just marry like three wives and your way go opem

Who told you that?

It's not just about you and the woman who will chose to settle down with you but it's about the innocent children you will be bringing into abject poverty