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Mrwhite09:
lately, I have been thinking that for my life to change I must get married. I have been living in squalor for so long. Maybe when I get married and have another mouth to feed, I will have more derive to excape poverty.
Hohestly I am tired of all these sapa that I am facing.

Zooposki:
Don’t hate the feminine energy and you will rise. If you notice most poor and wretched Nairaland always insult women here. They will always remain poor and wretched.

wiseone28:
What is it?

Afonja44:
Did you eat the mosquito coils?

madone:
find a good girl to date first, then open ya ears to listen to her words of advice. No marry tiktok branded eeeediot ooo. Follow these steps
1. Get a job; it doesn't have to be a big job just something to get you some money at hand and keep yoir mind busy.
2. Change your wardrobe with some decent wear not expensive but clean and good fit. Some few shirts and trouser well ironed and neat will do.
3. Rent a room if you dont have one. Ask for family support just get a roof over your head, depending on the town you live get something decent not expensive, keep it clean.
4. Join a society and become active, it could be a church or mosque just be active and get involved with people and activities. And be friendly dont look down on your self
5. Start your search for a good girl there are many of them. Dont go to facebook group , tiktok, dating app or any thing social media. Just check thru your work place or a primary or secondary school close to your work place or close to your house, or your church or mosque you will see some young female teachers, no look yansh or breast look character there are no glory or destiny in big yansh or breast.
6. Look for girls in your religious group. You will see them those calm, focus girl them dey there, visit other religious organised programs you will still see them. The truth is that there are girls out there praying to meet a man like you.
7. When you meet the girl dont form dont lie, be real with her if she wan stay your sincerity will keep her.
8. If she agrees to date you the open your ear and listen to her advice then keep away from other girls and useless guys i bet you if you do well to love that girl yoir life will change.

Mrwhite09:
lately, I have been thinking that for my life to change I must get married. I have been living in squalor for so long. Maybe when I get married and have another mouth to feed, I will have more derive to excape poverty.
Hohestly I am tired of all these sapa that I am facing.

Mrwhite09:
its none of your fckng business

madone:
find a good girl to date first, then open ya ears to listen to her words of advice. No marry tiktok branded eeeediot ooo. Follow these steps
1. Get a job; it doesn't have to be a big job just something to get you some money at hand and keep yoir mind busy.
2. Change your wardrobe with some decent wear not expensive but clean and good fit. Some few shirts and trouser well ironed and neat will do.
3. Rent a room if you dont have one. Ask for family support just get a roof over your head, depending on the town you live get something decent not expensive, keep it clean.

4. Join a society and become active, it could be a church or mosque just be active and get involved with people and activities. And be friendly dont look down on your self

5. Start your search for a good girl there are many of them. Dont go to facebook group , tiktok, dating app or any thing social media. Just check thru your work place or a primary or secondary school close to your work place or close to your house, or your church or mosque you will see some young female teachers, no look yansh or breast look character there are no glory or destiny in big yansh or breast.

6. Look for girls in your religious group. You will see them those calm, focus girl them dey there, visit other religious organised programs you will still see them. The truth is that there are girls out there praying to meet a man like you.

7. When you meet the girl dont form dont lie, be real with her if she wan stay your sincerity will keep her.
8. If she agrees to date you the open your ear and listen to her advice then keep away from other girls and useless guys i bet you if you do well to love that girl yoir life will change.

Down2earth101:
Please do not waste your wisdoms on an empty vessel


Pjtech
Mrwhite09
Realitykings
Livewire5
pinkNature
SamueItemi337
ICTspecialist



Hey wise .. I owe you a surprise 💕

armadeo:
I be wan ask where you see bottle 7up buy and you dey complain.

I come realise say na mosquito coil stand be that.

Zooposki:
Keep trolling me. If I get angry with you, in a short while you will no longer be able to troll me.

madone:
find a good girl to date first, then open ya ears to listen to her words of advice. No marry tiktok branded eeeediot ooo. Follow these steps
1. Get a job; it doesn't have to be a big job just something to get you some money at hand and keep yoir mind busy.
2. Change your wardrobe with some decent wear not expensive but clean and good fit. Some few shirts and trouser well ironed and neat will do.
3. Rent a room if you dont have one. Ask for family support just get a roof over your head, depending on the town you live get something decent not expensive, keep it clean.
4. Join a society and become active, it could be a church or mosque just be active and get involved with people and activities. And be friendly dont look down on your self
5. Start your search for a good girl there are many of them. Dont go to facebook group , tiktok, dating app or any thing social media. Just check thru your work place or a primary or secondary school close to your work place or close to your house, or your church or mosque you will see some young female teachers, no look yansh or breast look character there are no glory or destiny in big yansh or breast.
6. Look for girls in your religious group. You will see them those calm, focus girl them dey there, visit other religious organised programs you will still see them. The truth is that there are girls out there praying to meet a man like you.
7. When you meet the girl dont form dont lie, be real with her if she wan stay your sincerity will keep her.
8. If she agrees to date you the open your ear and listen to her advice then keep away from other girls and useless guys i bet you if you do well to love that girl yoir life will change.

Mrwhite09:
na my evening food be that

Salubata:
catching cruise

So because he's not feeding well, he shouldn't get married

What If he's feeding from hand to mouth till 50s, marriage is not for him
Wack mentality


Have you read about the present governor of Ebonyi State

Have vision and never be lazy.


You should be married as well, you're not getting younger. There's no assurance that you'll see Davidolike husband in the next 10 years

ellizy:
Man you're really going through a lot man..
I'll advice you to get something doing first, engaging a woman in this condition is just like getting deeply rooted into poverty..
If you don't mind a little, send your details for some box up..
It's well with you

LtChisom:
I have an issue with so called church girls, immediately, I quoted, loved, shared this your very beautiful message, my fiancee is one of those very rare gems you find can see around and are churcheous in a way, since yesterday, she has been doing somehow because she said she wants to tell me something but don't want me to change it for her, infant, last night she opened up that she told her pastor about me and her pastor said he wants to see me, before this, she knows I hate pastors, church, anything religion, christianity, islam, buddhism, hinduism, judaism, infant anything that will inhibit me to think freely, don't misunderstand me, I am a follower of Jesus Christ alone, not christianity, I've told her that the only men I will meet in her life are men related to her by blood, she knows I will never meet that pastor, I told her I am Not comfortable with the wife I am marrying having more respect for another man who is not related to her by blood and who I've seen in a year and I've been with her do anything exceptional for her or upgrade her standard of living or added anything to her life, I am ready to sacrifice the love I have for her if she insists I will go and meet a fellow man like me that has same set of two testicles and one head like, if the man can't come and meet me, I feel tHis is the end of the road for me and her, no one should talk of love, I love here but not any other person.

Remember, this man she wants me to meet, I've not seen anything she has done to develop her, he is a fellow man like me, and I am so uncomfortable laying down my authority for my new family at the foot of another random man.

Hallelujah, Amen.

Mrwhite09:
lately, I have been thinking that for my life to change I must get married. I have been living in squalor for so long. Maybe when I get married and have another mouth to feed, I will have more derive to excape poverty.
Hohestly I am tired of all these sapa that I am facing.

Afonja44:
You eat mosquito coils?

ICTspecialist:
are you now the new attention seeking evening newspaper feminists that has taken over the likes of EreluRoz Mariangeles who happens to be the same person as Juwessgratitude aka MercyChen cococandy Ishilove, Ahnie with real names Anita SebakeOgene Osanebi who ran away from this forum after her pictures were casted but currently disguising with the moniker we4all.
See if I reason your matter ehn this forum go tire you

guysis:
Guy, is this a Sacrifice?

Down2earth101:
Like isaid it is a surprise

madone:
find a good girl to date first, then open ya ears to listen to her words of advice. No marry tiktok branded eeeediot ooo. Follow these steps
1. Get a job; it doesn't have to be a big job just something to get you some money at hand and keep yoir mind busy.
2. Change your wardrobe with some decent wear not expensive but clean and good fit. Some few shirts and trouser well ironed and neat will do.
3. Rent a room if you dont have one. Ask for family support just get a roof over your head, dependingon the town you live get something decent not expensive, keep it clean.
4. Join a society and become active, it could be a church or mosque just be active and get involved with people and activities. And be friendly dont look down on your self
5. Start your search for a good girl there are many of them. Dont go to facebook group , tiktok, dating app or any thing social media. Just check thru your work place or a primary or secondary school close to your work place or close to your house, or your church or mosque you will see some young female teachers, no look yansh or breast look character there are no glory or destiny in big yansh or breast.
6. Look for girls in your religious group. You will see them those calm, focus girl them dey there, visit other religious organised programs you will still see them. The truth is that there are girls out there praying to meet a man like you.
7. When you meet the girl dont form dont lie, be real with her if she wan stay your sincerity will keep her.
8. If she agrees to date you the open your ear and listen to her advice then keep away from other girls and useless guys i bet you if you do well to love that girl yoir life will change.

Mrwhite09:
lately, I have been thinking that for my life to change I must get married. I have been living in squalor for so long. Maybe when I get married and have another mouth to feed, I will have more derive to excape poverty.
Hohestly I am tired of all these sapa that I am facing.

madone:
i faced same challenge as yours. A man (Pastor) was trying to control and run my marital life. As if na him give me babe, they will want to control how you do the wedding as if there is a ritual list jesus christ gave them in particular.
I blocked him totally made my then fiancee, now my wife to distance from him.

To proof my point further i refused to do white or church wedding cos i cant do what i will talk against tomoro. I just did my traditional and court.
As for your fiancee na talk you go follow her talk but you must be subtle about it if you dont want to loose her.

If you truely love her dont act rude to her pastor for a start
but keep your head sharp to note all his acts, body language, spoken and unspoken words so u will know what you are up against. Cos these wilm form your reasons to remove her from the church if need arises

I will suggest you go face him. Hear him then start your process of removing your fiancee from the church if he is a control freak and if he has hidden agendas.
It must not be immediate removal take it step by step that is after you have seen the pastor to know his intentions.

Not all pastors or religious heads are bad good ones dey too. If you have found a good woman dont let another man's principle keep her away from you. Its even good that she knows your stand. Keep firm about it .

Remember my guy that for one to get honey he will have to visit the Hive. Once you get the honey you have no business with the hive anymore except you want to cultivate with it for more honey.

Just my little input.......

LtChisom:
Thank you very much.