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Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by emapeteum(m): 8:07pm On Oct 22, 2024
You speak the mind of many. Most of these girls are about money money money because they sense desperation in men who are after their skirts. I, as a single guy experienced this recently from a girl I proposed to marry, I realized early that she was after money and she expected me to place her on a monthly salary of over 200K. It was as if I was buying goods, it was irritating.
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by armyofone(m): 8:10pm On Oct 22, 2024
Bullfallo:
Married men of nowadays are very foolish unlike in the past. The awoke or wiseness in modern time is making them do stupid things outside their children or wife will be so ashamed of.

Many of the things they cannot do at home. Ask for money they will tell you they don't have but will spend much more just to nack a street girl from the slum. The things they do for nack sake just to feel belongs.

Some of them have not taken their children outing or wife but they buy fish barbecue and juice for random girls outside of no value to their life.

With the economy hardship now alot and many more of girls are now so interested with married men. They see them as cash cow. While they Think they are enjoying life But it's just a waste of there scares resources.

To nack a street girl who is just a local girl from the ghetto that is forming porche. most men spend up to 500k. Girls are now very smart they first make sure they chop him first because of his desperation.

Their communication is very brief and it all about money wastage and or sex. These girls first of all bill the man for something big that needs to be done urgently. Something like iPhone or paying rent before they will agree to visit the man in an hotel. Most good hotel in town is from 40k and some of these girls will never agree to go local hotel with a married man for that matter. But something big and standard.


When my friend was telling me the amount he spent sleeping with one girl. I was shocked. She doesn't agree to local hotel. But standard that cost 30k twice a week and other expenses that follows. Billing for a new phone and buying clothes and making hair. Just because she knows how to nack.

He advised himself when he calculate the amount he spent within a Short time. If he doesn't he was heading for destruction. For someone that have wife and kids at home.
They have been doing that since Adam the son of man came. Just that no social media to broadcast their escapades. Where did you think the children learned such from ?
The good thing is the daughters of Eve, Adam's wifey are catching up instead of staying home praying and crying.
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by LordIsaac(m): 8:11pm On Oct 22, 2024
Dogalmighty17:
OP save this your post so that you will advise yourself when you marry. This idiot may not even have just one girlfriend as a single guy o. He may have several yet he is blasting married men.
Hmmmm....deep! grin
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by Tegabadguy(m): 8:18pm On Oct 22, 2024
grin grin grin grin grin grin mind your business
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by CaptainFM1: 8:23pm On Oct 22, 2024
For women, money answereth all things.

For men, puoussy answereth all things.
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by mightyhaze: 8:25pm On Oct 22, 2024
thesicilian:
What's your point?
To stop patronizing street and patronize your lovely family instead
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by Omalicious1: 8:32pm On Oct 22, 2024
Bullfallo:
Married men of nowadays are very foolish unlike in the past. The awoke or wiseness in modern time is making them do stupid things outside their children or wife will be so ashamed of.

Many of the things they cannot do at home. Ask for money they will tell you they don't have but will spend much more just to nack a street girl from the slum. The things they do for nack sake just to feel belongs.

Some of them have not taken their children outing or wife but they buy fish barbecue and juice for random girls outside of no value to their life.

With the economy hardship now alot and many more of girls are now so interested with married men. They see them as cash cow. While they Think they are enjoying life But it's just a waste of there scares resources.

To nack a street girl who is just a local girl from the ghetto that is forming porche. most men spend up to 500k. Girls are now very smart they first make sure they chop him first because of his desperation.

Their communication is very brief and it all about money wastage and or sex. These girls first of all bill the man for something big that needs to be done urgently. Something like iPhone or paying rent before they will agree to visit the man in an hotel. Most good hotel in town is from 40k and some of these girls will never agree to go local hotel with a married man for that matter. But something big and standard.


When my friend was telling me the amount he spent sleeping with one girl. I was shocked. She doesn't agree to local hotel. But standard that cost 30k twice a week and other expenses that follows. Billing for a new phone and buying clothes and making hair. Just because she knows how to nack.

He advised himself when he calculate the amount he spent within a Short time. If he doesn't he was heading for destruction. For someone that have wife and kids at home.
What are about married women? Can we talk about what they do outside their homes too?
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by samwash(m): 8:37pm On Oct 22, 2024
So all married men have money.
To be married means automatically the man get money. Nonsense
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by InvertedHammer: 8:44pm On Oct 22, 2024
Bullfallo:
Married men of nowadays are very foolish unlike in the past. The awoke or wiseness in modern time is making them do stupid things outside their children or wife will be so ashamed of.

Many of the things they cannot do at home. Ask for money they will tell you they don't have but will spend much more just to nack a street girl from the slum. The things they do for nack sake just to feel belongs.

Some of them have not taken their children outing or wife but they buy fish barbecue and juice for random girls outside of no value to their life.

With the economy hardship now alot and many more of girls are now so interested with married men. They see them as cash cow. While they Think they are enjoying life But it's just a waste of there scares resources.

To nack a street girl who is just a local girl from the ghetto that is forming porche. most men spend up to 500k. Girls are now very smart they first make sure they chop him first because of his desperation.

Their communication is very brief and it all about money wastage and or sex. These girls first of all bill the man for something big that needs to be done urgently. Something like iPhone or paying rent before they will agree to visit the man in an hotel. Most good hotel in town is from 40k and some of these girls will never agree to go local hotel with a married man for that matter. But something big and standard.


When my friend was telling me the amount he spent sleeping with one girl. I was shocked. She doesn't agree to local hotel. But standard that cost 30k twice a week and other expenses that follows. Billing for a new phone and buying clothes and making hair. Just because she knows how to nack.

He advised himself when he calculate the amount he spent within a Short time. If he doesn't he was heading for destruction. For someone that have wife and kids at home.
/
No woman is a gold-digger.

All the man has to do is say NO to her requests.

Case closed.

A man complaining about gold-diggers is a weak and effeminate man with low self-esteem who cannot muster the courage, look a lady in the eyes and tell her to kick rocks.

/
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by franchasng:
Bullfallo:
Married men of nowadays are very foolish unlike in the past. The awoke or wiseness in modern time is making them do stupid things outside their children or wife will be so ashamed of.

Many of the things they cannot do at home. Ask for money they will tell you they don't have but will spend much more just to nack a street girl from the slum. The things they do for nack sake just to feel belongs.

Some of them have not taken their children outing or wife but they buy fish barbecue and juice for random girls outside of no value to their life.

With the economy hardship now alot and many more of girls are now so interested with married men. They see them as cash cow. While they Think they are enjoying life But it's just a waste of there scares resources.

To nack a street girl who is just a local girl from the ghetto that is forming porche. most men spend up to 500k. Girls are now very smart they first make sure they chop him first because of his desperation.

Their communication is very brief and it all about money wastage and or sex. These girls first of all bill the man for something big that needs to be done urgently. Something like iPhone or paying rent before they will agree to visit the man in an hotel. Most good hotel in town is from 40k and some of these girls will never agree to go local hotel with a married man for that matter. But something big and standard.


When my friend was telling me the amount he spent sleeping with one girl. I was shocked. She doesn't agree to local hotel. But standard that cost 30k twice a week and other expenses that follows. Billing for a new phone and buying clothes and making hair. Just because she knows how to nack.

He advised himself when he calculate the amount he spent within a Short time. If he doesn't he was heading for destruction. For someone that have wife and kids at home.
I can feel your pain bro, it hurts when a pot belly married man collect your girlfriend despite all the time you spent at the gym to build 9 packs, a pot belly married man just come from nowhere and shag your babe that has been telling you stories just because him get money while u are a brokeass single foool trying to form saint out of konji frustration and financial brokeness cheesy
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by braine(m): 8:48pm On Oct 22, 2024
What’s your business tho? Is it your money?
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by franchasng: 8:56pm On Oct 22, 2024
BigBrother9ja:
These op na frustrated ignorant MUMU grin

Which married men is SHE talking about?

DON'T BLAME YOUR HUSBAND OR ANY MARRIED MEN FOR YOUR ORDEAL.

KARMA SOMETIMES WAIT TO DEAL WITH MANY GIRLS IN THEIR MARRIAGE.

SAME YOU DATED VARIOUS GUYS AS UNDERGRADUATE...
SAME YOU DATED ONE OR DIFFERENT MARRIED MEN BEFORE YOUR OWN MARRIAGE...

SAME YOU WAS NOT LOYAL OR COMPLETELY COMMITTED TO ANY GUY YOU DATED IN THE PAST, EVEN TO YOUR CURRENT HUSBAND...


Now that the table has turned,
YOUR HUSBAND IS IN HIS PRIME...
YOU'VE NOW BECOME OLD, USED, UNAPPEALING, UNDESIRABLE AND LESS ATTRACTIVE AS YOU USED TO BE BEFORE, YOU NOW WANT YOUR MAN WHO DIDN'T EVEN MARRY YOU AS A VIRGIN, WHO YOU DON'T RESPECT NOR GIVE PEACE OF MIND TO BE LOYAL TO ONLY YOU grin cheesy cheesy

Dey play
Some of una never see anything yet cheesy cheesy cheesy
WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.
JUST AS YOU DATED MARRIED MEN TOO BEFORE, OTHER GIRLS MUST AND WILL DATE YOUR OWN HUSBAND TOO cheesy
Bros there is nothing like karma when it comes to issues like this, the earlier people understand this sad truth the better for them.


Some ladies who didn't even had sex all through their singlehood and only got deflowered by their supposed heartthrob husband who later turns to a chronic womanizer chasing after anything in skirt. What would you say caused a lady that married as a faithful virgin to end up marrying a chronic womanizer who doesn't even show her much care or love?


Some runs girls do end up marrying faithful shy men who don't cheat on them or cheat on her once in a blue moon.


It's all about chance, destiny and timing, nothing like karma.


We always believe karma will visit evil people and people who do bad but look around you bro, from Nigeria to USA to Canada to UK to China to Malaysia to Japan to Israel to Saudi Arabia to UAE, to France, to Brazil to India, etc, there are millions of evil men and women balling big and enjoying every good thing that this life offers and some do enjoy this life despite their evil ways till they die at even old age while some good men and women die poor and in very terrible sickness or situation.



Life is funny, nobody really understand this life


Just make sure you do your best to remain financially successful, stay healthy and alert always and avoid being too bad and do good whenever you canz enjoy life and hope for the best, karma don't exist cos if it does, Putin shouldn't be alive, Tinubu shouldn't be President enjoying life, Buhari wouldn't have ruled twice and now enjoying retirement, IBB wouldn't be alive till date, and so many other people around the world
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by JaySmart4422: 8:57pm On Oct 22, 2024
If a side chick is so good and valuable to you as a man what is stopping you from making her your second wife?

Why not bring her in if E sure for you that she will be your last bus stop .

As for every married woman reading my undiluted advise to you is to take out the thought of your husband from your mind.

Especially those women whose husband are after anything in skite.

Leave with your husband as if you two are flats mate

Stop caring if he goes and and don't come back don't bother calling him.

If he likes he should stay a mount outside his home never lift your phone to call him or text.

Never let him feel his Extra marital affairs Is hurting.


Just look for something you love doing and put you whole you into it

That way you will not even know a man like him exist.

Embrace your children direct all the love to them.

If you can apply this in your marriage I tell you the man sef go think say you be witch and he will feel you have another man that is nacking you reason you are not bothered about him.

When he is tired he will come back home n back to his sense.

Sometimes allow them play throw them away
Leave that life of a woman who is with her husband but partially a widow.

If you husband doesn't change
After applying this

Old age will humble him

By then the children are all grown up and for the fact that they saw the way he treated you they may not even have time for him in his old age.

Sometimes when they say children are more concerned about their mothers than the father ask them

How many times does the father stayed home with them when they were young n growing up


How did he treat their mom right before their eyes when he was still young.


Men of this generation old age go humble many of go.


Many may not even see their children close to them by then cos they won't have time for you

Same way you had no time for them or their mother when you were young.

Be very careful
Side chi will come n go but wife n kids are forever thinking twice
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by TheGift: 8:58pm On Oct 22, 2024
thesicilian:
What's your point?
The point is that some men with spouses do stupid stuff for the sake of sex!!!
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by ify2016: 9:00pm On Oct 22, 2024
Zonefree:
Nairaland chapter of Association of Adulterous Married Men have descended on the innocent OP. grin
God bless you. Sudden death to any married man suffering his family, spending on random women and sleeping with random girls when his family is denied proper attention.
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by appini: 9:00pm On Oct 22, 2024
Some of them dey use juju to catch men. Particularly the one that likes to call on video calls. Man wey non be millionaire dey pay rent for two sidechicks. No be juju be that.
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by candygist: 9:01pm On Oct 22, 2024
thesicilian:
What's your point?
You are too slow
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by AmalaAtiEwedu: 9:03pm On Oct 22, 2024
Zooposki:
Wife material/appliance taking care of the home front while husband is out there drinking, smoking, and knacking different sidechicks. No stress for the sidechick since she is only there for the money. Wife material/appliance, una well done o. Once the wife appliance is worn out from all the strsss, she will sharply be replaced.
ZooPussy on d beat cool
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by franchasng: 9:03pm On Oct 22, 2024
JaySmart4422:
If a side chick is so good and valuable to you as a man what is stopping you from making her your second wife?

Why not bring her in if E sure for you that she will be your last bus stop .

As for every married woman reading my undiluted advise to you is to take out the thought of your husband from your mind.

Especially those women whose husband are after anything in skite.

Leave with your husband as if you two are flats mate

Stop caring if he goes and and don't come back don't bother calling him.

If he likes he should stay a mount outside his home never lift your phone to call him or text.

Never let him feel his Extra marital affairs Is hurting.


Just look for something you love doing and put you whole you into it

That way you will not even know a man like him exist.

Embrace your children direct all the love to them.

If you can apply this in your marriage I tell you the man sef go think say you be witch and he will feel you have another man that is nacking you reason you are not bothered about him.

When he is tired he will come back home n back to his sense.

Sometimes allow them play throw them away
Leave that life of a woman who is with her husband but partially a widow.

If you husband doesn't change
After applying this

Old age will humble him

By then the children are all grown up and for the fact that they saw the way he treated you they may not even have time for him in his old age.

Sometimes when they say children are more concerned about their mothers than the father ask them

How many times does the father stayed home with them when they were young n growing up


How did he treat their mom right before their eyes when he was still young.


Men of this generation old age go humble many of go.


Many may not even see their children close to them by then cos they won't have time for you

Same way you had no time for them or their mother when you were young.

Be very careful
Side chi will come n go but wife n kids are forever thinking twice
Unfortunately as it may be, nobody can stop reggae because reggae is life.


There is no amount of complaints or preaching or scare tactics or counseling or advice that will stop men and women, married and single from desiring to try out other people different from their main partner, it has been happening even from the time of Bible and will continue till the end of time, there is nothing anybody can do about it, its called life and that is what makes life interesting, intriguing and mysterious.


Just do your best, be the best you can be as a man or woman, be good when necessary, be kind, show kindness to all when necessary, make sure you are financially productive and healthy, stay smart, stay informed, live life, enjoy life, make impacts whenever you can and hope for the best, and always remember that your happiness does not lie in any man or woman's hand, try and build yourself financially and otherwise so that you can give yourself joy for who you are and not wait for one partner called husband or wife or girlfriend or fiancee or boyfriend to be your only source of joy
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by candygist: 9:06pm On Oct 22, 2024
Dogalmighty17:
Thunder fire you there. Do you know that it is side chicks that make a good number of marriages to stand? Do you know the economic value and importance of side chics to the Nigerian economy? Side chics are what make most Nigerian men motivated to keep going. The government should even legalize them and appreciate them.
See another mumu man.
Toto done wound you.
Your side chick for done lock you thrower key inside river.
Your wife should just give up on you, no amount. Of prayer can work.

embarassed
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by ify2016: 9:10pm On Oct 22, 2024
candygist:
See another mumu man.
Toto done wound you.
Your side chick for done lock you thrower key inside river.
Your wife should just give up on you, no amount. Of prayer can work.

embarassed
It still baffles me how some married men comfortably sleep with another woman. How do they even feel when they return home to their family. Justifying immorality is sin in the eyes of Almighty. Adultery is sin.
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by daniwise(m): 9:13pm On Oct 22, 2024
Na person wen get extra go do this rubbish.
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by franchasng: 9:13pm On Oct 22, 2024
candygist:
See another mumu man.
Toto done wound you.
Your side chick for done lock you thrower key inside river.
Your wife should just give up on you, no amount. Of prayer can work.

embarassed
cheesy cheesy grin



But the guy was making a valid point, side chicks make the world go round. They help to circulate wealth and keep the economy a bit balanced if not wealth will be in the hands of few lucky families.


If men don't cheat, the world will be boring, 90% of women will die wretched and poor, many families will remain forever poor till eternity.


It is men's desire to keep multiple partners that push them to assist ladies which helps to grow the nation's economy


It's all over the world.


Elon Musk the richest man in the world once paid a chick millions of dollars just to get her not to talk about their affair.


PDiddy being a cheat helped many American ladies became stars they are today, same with R. Kelly.


Donald Trump nkor?

If Ned Nwoko remained a one man one wife, how would Regina Daniels life and her family be today?


Men's cheating habit is the reason women are finding the world a bit enjoyable and reason women even get opportunities in the business, corporate, entertainment, politics and showbiz world.

When you examine the negative side of something, also look at the positive sides.

Kiss the truth my dear sisters, sadly cry
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by onadana: 9:19pm On Oct 22, 2024
thesicilian:
What's your point?
I really don't understand what he is even saying.
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by Testimony1988(m): 9:29pm On Oct 22, 2024
Such people need deliverance from adultery.
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by Oyerinde16(m): 9:34pm On Oct 22, 2024
Truth is that Most house wife are nothing better that those side chicks... They are only house wife's who have deviced means to Monitor and take everything the man has in the name of marriage...
If you check, this wife's want to collect everything and spend it miserably on what the man knows nothing about... Like spend on her own miserable brothers n sisters, family etc...

So this mean too have found ways to hide this wealth and spend the little they can on small girls...

Even if you spend that little u spend on girls on your wife, it will still be as if you did nothing...
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by matoota: 9:39pm On Oct 22, 2024
Dont come to Nairaland to lament


If that's what your hubby or your dadd does.
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by Dynamicboss: 9:40pm On Oct 22, 2024
Dogalmighty17:
Thunder fire you there. Do you know that it is side chicks that make a good number of marriages to stand? Do you know the economic value and importance of side chics to the Nigerian economy? Side chics are what make most Nigerian men motivated to keep going. The government should even legalize them and appreciate them.
This is a disgraceful statement o! Chei na human being yan this one! Lobatan
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by 3kay945(m): 9:47pm On Oct 22, 2024
Bullfallo:
Married men of nowadays are very foolish unlike in the past. The awoke or wiseness in modern time is making them do stupid things outside their children or wife will be so ashamed of.

Many of the things they cannot do at home. Ask for money they will tell you they don't have but will spend much more just to nack a street girl from the slum. The things they do for nack sake just to feel belongs.

Some of them have not taken their children outing or wife but they buy fish barbecue and juice for random girls outside of no value to their life.

With the economy hardship now alot and many more of girls are now so interested with married men. They see them as cash cow. While they Think they are enjoying life But it's just a waste of there scares resources.

To nack a street girl who is just a local girl from the ghetto that is forming porche. most men spend up to 500k. Girls are now very smart they first make sure they chop him first because of his desperation.

Their communication is very brief and it all about money wastage and or sex. These girls first of all bill the man for something big that needs to be done urgently. Something like iPhone or paying rent before they will agree to visit the man in an hotel. Most good hotel in town is from 40k and some of these girls will never agree to go local hotel with a married man for that matter. But something big and standard.


When my friend was telling me the amount he spent sleeping with one girl. I was shocked. She doesn't agree to local hotel. But standard that cost 30k twice a week and other expenses that follows. Billing for a new phone and buying clothes and making hair. Just because she knows how to nack.

He advised himself when he calculate the amount he spent within a Short time. If he doesn't he was heading for destruction. For someone that have wife and kids at home.
With all due respect, have you consider that human buy good memories for themselves?

Depending on what they desire... cool
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by 3kay945(m): 9:52pm On Oct 22, 2024
ify2016:
It still baffles me how some married men comfortably sleep with another woman. How do they even feel when they return home to their family. Justifying immorality is sin in the eyes of Almighty. Adultery is sin.
To respond to this, I think your gender needs to be known. Are you a female? cool
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by 3kay945(m): 9:54pm On Oct 22, 2024
Tallesty1:
Traffic in Ghana is caused by married men that do not want to go home.
grin cheesy
Re: The Things Married Men Do Outside Nowadays by 3kay945(m): 9:56pm On Oct 22, 2024
LtChisom:
This idiot even cheats and lives a dirty promiscuous life, tueh!
Hopeless yoruba man.
If you are an IgBo and live an adulterous life, may thunder fire you.
grin
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