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3kay945:
To respond to this, I think your gender needs to be known. Are you a female?

This is silly question.
What has gender got to do with immorality.
Desist from Adultery if you're one of them.
Everytime you hear them say do DNA test , do DNA test.
Cheating is sin. Tomorrow maybe too late

Olowologbon

Afonja44:
Only a foolish man gets married to begin with

That's not a kind thing to say. Individuals like you facing serious mental health issues or psychological problems may believe they are acting wisely or making sound decisions, but their actions may appear as foolishness to others who are not experiencing the same struggles. It's unfortunate that your parents have had a negative impact on your life. However, don't make the mistake of allowing "random street girls" to bear your children just to avoid marriage; this could potentially harm your children's lives as well. I hope you find healing soon.

Peace!

BadBradley:
you should be concentrating on your apparent low education or learning a craft instead of dabbling into matters beyond your cognitive abilities or life experience.

Your words are not aligning and judging by your post, you're still under your parents eating free food and you haven't even earn your own living.

If you're not married you can't speak for or against marriage, that's intellectual hypocrisy and stupidity.

ify2016:
This is silly question.
What has gender got to do with immorality.
Desist from Adultery if you're one of them.
Everytime you hear them say do DNA test , do DNA test.
Cheating is sin. Tomorrow maybe too late

Don't have headache on this issue o, I just ask humble question so as to know the respond to offer but if you decide to take this path, I wish you well. I never told you I indulge in such, I am just catching fun with various responses.

By the way, the stuff won't stop till eternity. If you're reasonable, you will agree with me. Cheers.

Almunjid:
That's not a kind thing to say. Individuals like you facing serious mental health issues or psychological problems may believe they are acting wisely or making sound decisions, but their actions may appear as foolishness to others who are not experiencing the same struggles. It's unfortunate that your parents have had a negative impact on your life. However, don't make the mistake of allowing "random street girls" to bear your children just to avoid marriage; this could potentially harm your children's lives as well. I hope you find healing soon.

Peace!

Foolish married man spotted

You are yet to tell us what u husband did to you. You can never stop you husband from having a side chic since u people said we should marry one wife. My only anger is when a man doesn't provide for his family. Just make sure u provide everything ur family needs then u are good to go

Bullfallo:
Married men of nowadays are very foolish unlike in the past. The awoke or wiseness in modern time is making them do stupid things outside their children or wife will be so ashamed of.

Many of the things they cannot do at home. Ask for money they will tell you they don't have but will spend much more just to nack a street girl from the slum. The things they do for nack sake just to feel belongs.

Some of them have not taken their children outing or wife but they buy fish barbecue and juice for random girls outside of no value to their life.

With the economy hardship now alot and many more of girls are now so interested with married men. They see them as cash cow. While they Think they are enjoying life But it's just a waste of there scares resources.

To nack a street girl who is just a local girl from the ghetto that is forming porche. most men spend up to 500k. Girls are now very smart they first make sure they chop him first because of his desperation.

Their communication is very brief and it all about money wastage and or sex. These girls first of all bill the man for something big that needs to be done urgently. Something like iPhone or paying rent before they will agree to visit the man in an hotel. Most good hotel in town is from 40k and some of these girls will never agree to go local hotel with a married man for that matter. But something big and standard.


When my friend was telling me the amount he spent sleeping with one girl. I was shocked. She doesn't agree to local hotel. But standard that cost 30k twice a week and other expenses that follows. Billing for a new phone and buying clothes and making hair. Just because she knows how to nack.

He advised himself when he calculate the amount he spent within a Short time. If he doesn't he was heading for destruction. For someone that have wife and kids at home.

Men don't spend much to bleep girls nowadays. Just know how to bleep she and her friends will be disturbing you for all night

BigBrother9ja:
These op na frustrated ignorant MUMU

Which married men is SHE talking about?

DON'T BLAME YOUR HUSBAND OR ANY MARRIED MEN FOR YOUR ORDEAL.

KARMA SOMETIMES WAIT TO DEAL WITH MANY GIRLS IN THEIR MARRIAGE.

SAME YOU DATED VARIOUS GUYS AS UNDERGRADUATE...
SAME YOU DATED ONE OR DIFFERENT MARRIED MEN BEFORE YOUR OWN MARRIAGE...

SAME YOU WAS NOT LOYAL OR COMPLETELY COMMITTED TO ANY GUY YOU DATED IN THE PAST, EVEN TO YOUR CURRENT HUSBAND...

Now that the table has turned,
YOUR HUSBAND IS IN HIS PRIME...
YOU'VE NOW BECOME OLD, USED, UNAPPEALING, UNDESIRABLE AND LESS ATTRACTIVE AS YOU USED TO BE BEFORE, YOU NOW WANT YOUR MAN WHO DIDN'T EVEN MARRY YOU AS A VIRGIN, WHO YOU DON'T RESPECT NOR GIVE PEACE OF MIND TO BE LOYAL TO ONLY YOU

Dey play
Some of una never see anything yet
WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.
JUST AS YOU DATED MARRIED MEN TOO BEFORE, OTHER GIRLS MUST AND WILL DATE YOUR OWN HUSBAND TOO

Damn! This is the bitter truth...very bitter truth.

thesicilian:
What's your point?

honestly

Not a new occurrence. Na normal, normal.

Bullfallo:
Married men of nowadays are very foolish unlike in the past. The awoke or wiseness in modern time is making them do stupid things outside their children or wife will be so ashamed of.

Many of the things they cannot do at home. Ask for money they will tell you they don't have but will spend much more just to nack a street girl from the slum. The things they do for nack sake just to feel belongs.

Some of them have not taken their children outing or wife but they buy fish barbecue and juice for random girls outside of no value to their life.

With the economy hardship now alot and many more of girls are now so interested with married men. They see them as cash cow. While they Think they are enjoying life But it's just a waste of there scares resources.

To nack a street girl who is just a local girl from the ghetto that is forming porche. most men spend up to 500k. Girls are now very smart they first make sure they chop him first because of his desperation.

Their communication is very brief and it all about money wastage and or sex. These girls first of all bill the man for something big that needs to be done urgently. Something like iPhone or paying rent before they will agree to visit the man in an hotel. Most good hotel in town is from 40k and some of these girls will never agree to go local hotel with a married man for that matter. But something big and standard.


When my friend was telling me the amount he spent sleeping with one girl. I was shocked. She doesn't agree to local hotel. But standard that cost 30k twice a week and other expenses that follows. Billing for a new phone and buying clothes and making hair. Just because she knows how to nack.

He advised himself when he calculate the amount he spent within a Short time. If he doesn't he was heading for destruction. For someone that have wife and kids at home.

Talk about your husband and leave us alone. We are not your husband.

descarado:
If you can't cope, don't do court and church marriage.
Tell your spouse beforehand your prick is public toilet, okay?

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I now see the reason why lots of people don't do church weddings..

Relax your muscles

Afonja44:
Foolish married man spotted

I'm not yet married. But the fact that I don't share the same opinion with you shows that I'm not suffering from the same mental health issues or psychological problems you're struggling with. Once again, I hope you find healing soon!

Peace!

To nack a street girl who is just a local girl from the ghetto that is forming porche. most men spend up to 500k. Girls are now very smart they first make sure they chop him first because of his desperation.[/quote]*posh
Secondly 500k?
In today's Nigeria?
😄😄😄😄

zyzxx:
In this Tinubu Era, Wives don't need to advice their husband not to cheat, this economy is enough to make a cheat miserable

😁😁😁

thesicilian:
What's your point?

thank u for that question..

Bullfallo:
Married men of nowadays are very foolish unlike in the past. The awoke or wiseness in modern time is making them do stupid things outside their children or wife will be so ashamed of.

Many of the things they cannot do at home. Ask for money they will tell you they don't have but will spend much more just to nack a street girl from the slum. The things they do for nack sake just to feel belongs.

Some of them have not taken their children outing or wife but they buy fish barbecue and juice for random girls outside of no value to their life.

With the economy hardship now alot and many more of girls are now so interested with married men. They see them as cash cow. While they Think they are enjoying life But it's just a waste of there scares resources.

To nack a street girl who is just a local girl from the ghetto that is forming porche. most men spend up to 500k. Girls are now very smart they first make sure they chop him first because of his desperation.

Their communication is very brief and it all about money wastage and or sex. These girls first of all bill the man for something big that needs to be done urgently. Something like iPhone or paying rent before they will agree to visit the man in an hotel. Most good hotel in town is from 40k and some of these girls will never agree to go local hotel with a married man for that matter. But something big and standard.


When my friend was telling me the amount he spent sleeping with one girl. I was shocked. She doesn't agree to local hotel. But standard that cost 30k twice a week and other expenses that follows. Billing for a new phone and buying clothes and making hair. Just because she knows how to nack.

He advised himself when he calculate the amount he spent within a Short time. If he doesn't he was heading for destruction. For someone that have wife and kids at home.

Op, the Bible says "Judge not", let the married men breathe biko. Married men need to have a way to let out the steam sometimes. E nor easy.

IF YOU ARE A MARRIED WOMAN

AND YOU DIDNT MARRY YOUR HUSBAND AS A VIRGIN.

It will be intellectual hypocrisy and dishonesty for you to complain, if he treats you and the kid(s) well and you and the kid(s) lack nothing.

Someone wrote up there he should give headsup...

If your Husband didn't marry you a virgin, did you tell him the exact number of your body counts, affairs, debauchery, box😺 for highest bidder LovePeddler phase...?

If you didn't have such a LovePeddler past, then he probably owes you such headsup for being a clean slate... to decide if you will accept or not.

And I can bet, A man who is bold enough to give such headsup, has got his finances SETTLED, and has lots of OPTIONS.

Knowing female nature, that most wouldn't even deal with a young man faithfully, with genuine burning desire (a long term view of the relationship progressing to marriage) if he doesn't have a STABLE LIFE, or they perceive the MAN is at the brink of gaining STABILITY.

The person without sin, should cast the first stone

Dogalmighty17:
Thunder fire you there. Do you know that it is side chicks that make a good number of marriages to stand? Do you know the economic value and importance of side chics to the Nigerian economy? Side chics are what make most Nigerian men motivated to keep going. The government should even legalize them and appreciate them.

Chai!!! Appreciate wetin?
Wetin my ear don hear for this forum ehnn.
Tufiakwa

Some of these men go outside because their wives INTENTIONALLY refuse to have sex with them for flimsy reasons. I have had grown men lamented to me how their wives with-hold sex. So, what should they do? Mastur.bate? I find the usual hypocrisies by Nigerians to be very nauseating and annoying.

As for the expenses, except you are well-to-do, there is no point monopolising a babe. That is one mistake many Nigerian married men try to make. You go straight to the point: pay for the sex. The gift aspect should be left for her ignorant BF and wealthy men. Have a budget and stick to it.

There are strategies for this lifestyle. The last time I listed such, a mod hid my post.

0neal:
IF YOU ARE A MARRIED WOMAN

AND YOU DIDNT MARRY YOUR HUSBAND AS A VIRGIN. It will be intellectual hypocrisy and dishonesty for you to complain, if he treats you and the kid(s) well and you and the kid(s) lack nothing.

If your Husband didn't marry you a virgin, did you tell him the exact number of your body counts, affairs, debauchery, box😺 for highest bidder LovePeddler phase...?

That is it. As long as the man does not bring diseases home, takes care of the family financially and emotionally, and doesn't bring another child home, he is fair game by me. Women have had admirers since they turned 15, and this continued all the way to their mid-30s. The small admiration men dey get, they become apprehensive. Another issue is having lots of children. Raising children is expensive.

Black men are the most susceptible to prostrate cancer and constant sex reduces the occurrence. YET we have grown men declined that feature in their marriages. I am yet to read Nairaland's woman activists address that part. We have had Nairaland men narrated how their current wives had lots of sex before marriages, but reduced them upon being married and when the children came into the picture. As if testosterone cares whether children dey or not.

ify2016:
This is silly question.
What has gender got to do with immorality.
Desist from Adultery if you're one of them.
Everytime you hear them say do DNA test , do DNA test.
Cheating is sin. Tomorrow maybe too late

What is your opinion about married women who refuse to have sex with their husbands for flimsy reasons? Women who use sex as a weapon while married?

Bantino:
Hmmmmmmm believe it or not, the institution of marriage is very sacred and for some reasons side chicks are now the instruments used to destroy this sacred institution. A word is enough for the wise!!!

You do not tell a child not to be mad, as long as he is able to stay in the wood alone.A numbers of things are associated with side chicks. Its economic waste,diseases could be gotten from there,you would be broken your marital vow to your wife and God,you would put yourself in unnecessary bondages and responsibilities. Honestly, the lists are inexhaustible. I don talk my own as elder in the house.

Nigeria married men are mostly simps.

They are the reason the country is in disarray!

Men that their wives influenced important decision making in the bedroom.

Nigeria married men disgust me a lot!

OP Ty is your grammar na wao. You for write in pidgin na. Haba.

franchasng:

But the guy was making a valid point, side chicks make the world go round. They help to circulate wealth and keep the economy a bit balanced if not wealth will be in the hands of few lucky families.If men don't cheat, the world will be boring, 90% of women will die wretched and poor, many families will remain forever poor till eternity.It is men's desire to keep multiple partners that push them to assist ladies which helps to grow the nation's economy.It's all over the world. Elon Musk the richest man in the world once paid a chick millions of dollars just to get her not to talk about their affair.PDiddy being a cheat helped many American ladies became stars they are today, same with R. Kelly.
Donald Trump nkor? If Ned Nwoko remained a one man one wife, how would Regina Daniels life and her family be today?
Men's cheating habit is the reason women are finding the world a bit enjoyable and reason women even get opportunities in the business, corporate, entertainment, politics and showbiz world.When you examine the negative side of something, also look at the positive sides.
Kiss the truth my dear sisters, sadly

They know these things but routinely deny the truth. So much dishonesty by so-called modern day women.

NL Association of Married Men neva ready to change 😂😂🤣🤣

Why would a wise man spend that much? If I give you 2k or 3k, and you refuse, I look for others. ToTo is plenty in town; besides, short time in a decent hotel ranges from 2k to 5k in my area. Las Las with 8k I go knack wella plus including beer and pepper soup.

Gerrard59:
They know these things but routinely deny the truth. So much dishonesty by so-called modern day women.

You are on point jare. 3 gbosas 👊👊👊 for you.

Toto is way cheaper than u think.... ebi n pa everybody