₦airaland Forum

Bullfallo:
Married men of nowadays are very foolish unlike in the past. The awoke or wiseness in modern time is making them do stupid things outside their children or wife will be so ashamed of.

Many of the things they cannot do at home. Ask for money they will tell you they don't have but will spend much more just to nack a street girl from the slum. The things they do for nack sake just to feel belongs.

Some of them have not taken their children outing or wife but they buy fish barbecue and juice for random girls outside of no value to their life.

With the economy hardship now alot and many more of girls are now so interested with married men. They see them as cash cow. While they Think they are enjoying life But it's just a waste of there scares resources.

To nack a street girl who is just a local girl from the ghetto that is forming porche. most men spend up to 500k. Girls are now very smart they first make sure they chop him first because of his desperation.

Their communication is very brief and it all about money wastage and or sex. These girls first of all bill the man for something big that needs to be done urgently. Something like iPhone or paying rent before they will agree to visit the man in an hotel. Most good hotel in town is from 40k and some of these girls will never agree to go local hotel with a married man for that matter. But something big and standard.


When my friend was telling me the amount he spent sleeping with one girl. I was shocked. She doesn't agree to local hotel. But standard that cost 30k twice a week and other expenses that follows. Billing for a new phone and buying clothes and making hair. Just because she knows how to nack.

He advised himself when he calculate the amount he spent within a Short time. If he doesn't he was heading for destruction. For someone that have wife and kids at home.

Is because of the stupid wives they will not give you what you want, till you do something for them or even beg, when you get mango outside?

Gerrard59:
Some of these men go outside because their wives INTENTIONALLY refuse to have sex with them for flimsy reasons. I have had grown men lamented to me how their wives with-hold sex. So, what should they do? Mastur.bate? I find the usual hypocrisies by Nigerians to be very nauseating and annoying.

As for the expenses, except you are well-to-do, there is no point monopolising a babe. That is one mistake many Nigerian married men try to make. You go straight to the point: pay for the sex. The gift aspect should be left for her ignorant BF and wealthy men. Have a budget and stick to it.

There are strategies for this lifestyle. The last time I listed such, a mod hid my post.

sir please list again. Please

thesicilian:
What's your point?

Go after street girls if you are married. Enjoy life while you may

Zonefree:
Nairaland chapter of Association of Adulterous Married Men have descended on the innocent OP.

🤣🤣🤣🤣

What are you trying to say, did their family complained or did they hire you to post this shit ?

Zonefree:
OP is saying the undiluted truth.

Wrapper go reach am where e reach married men.😂😂😂

Gerrard59:
Women have had admirers since they turned 15, and this continued all the way to their mid-30s.

The small admiration men dey get, they become apprehensive.

Another issue is having lots of children. Raising children is expensive.

Black men are the most susceptible to prostrate cancer and constant sex reduces the occurrence. YET we have grown men declined that feature in their marriages.

I have yet to read Nairaland's woman activists address that part.

We have had Nairaland men narrated how their current wives had lots of sex before marriages, but reduced them upon being married and when the children came into the picture.

As if testosterone cares whether children dey or not.

I used a pretty female dp for my Twitter, now X account for a while.

within that period I got lots of followers and DMs from men.

Some guys are thirsty...Testosterone on steroid

Most modern women activist are so preoccupied with retribution and supremacist ideology, they would rather focus on having more freedom, push strong and independent womanhood narrative than be bothered about promoting laws and values that keep the family unit bonded together.

We are better together than apart

Thanks for the info, I will research more on prostate cancer

Bleep WELL MAKE U NO GET AM

0neal:
I used a pretty female dp for my Twitter, now X account for a while.

within that period I got lots of followers and DMs from men.

Some guys are thirsty...Testosterone on steroid

Most modern women activist are so preoccupied with retribution and supremacist ideology, they would rather focus on having more freedom, push strong and independent womanhood narrative than be bothered about promoting laws and values that keep the family unit bonded together.

We are better together than apart

Thanks for the info, I will research more on prostate cancer

0neal:
I used a pretty female dp for my Twitter, now X account for a while. within that period I got lots of followers and DMs from men. Some guys are thirsty...Testosterone on steroid. Most modern women activist are so preoccupied with retribution and supremacist ideology, they would rather focus on having more freedom, push strong and independent womanhood narrative than be bothered about promoting laws and values that keep the family unit bonded together. We are better together than apart. Thanks for the info, I will research more on prostate cancer

Testosterone is both the bane and power of every man. It makes us who we are while also being a potential downfall when we succumb to its demands at every point. Men across the world crave sex. It is not a lie when red pillers say "Women are the gatekeepers of sex". My annoyance is how married women will withhold sex from their men (a basic need of his) while expecting the same men to keep to their agreements of being providers and security. We would be told that many women also earn money these days. That is true. However, as seen in the developed world especially the US and Korea, a gender divide has occurred where most men don't get sex let alone enough while women live separate lives. The result? Low marriage and birth rates.

As for prostate cancer, yes, it affects most black men for yet-to-be-identified reasons. And I tell you for free, many married men don't get enough sex from their wives, especially after childbirth. Women can be h0rny as well, but a man is always H0RNY. The hormone no dey rest. It is that reason men patronise sex workers - the very reason they exist. Apart from poverty which leads to an increase of sex workers in any country, the demand for sex by men is the major determinant for their existence. It is why I am appalled when young men criticise sex workers or have this belief that sex is free. It is not free. Every man pays for sex at a point. The other day, on Facebook, a man narrated how recently Nigerian ladies in the UK have had so much money that they travel endlessly across the country. E sure me die say most young Nigerian men in the UK never embark on similar trips. Furthermore, he stated how upon the money these ladies have, they bill the men as well as one billed him for whisky if not "no show for am".

In summary, the focus of every young man should be to build financial sustainability for himself, keep fit and be healthy. No dey fight for women's love. A man's commitment should be HARD to get, just as women have commodified sexual intercourse.

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Thundafireseun:
Nansense and meaningless post …

I just wasted 5mins of my life

Op dey vex say married men dey chop him serious babe like suya..lol🤣🤣guy no dey lie deceive yourself NOT all married men spend foolishly as you portray in you epistle. Besides dont be ignorant because some single guys and even yahoo boys spend 10times more that married men and married men still chop their girls so what's your point?

Dogalmighty17:
Thunder fire you there. Do you know that it is side chicks that make a good number of marriages to stand? Do you know the economic value and importance of side chics to the Nigerian economy? Side chics are what make most Nigerian men motivated to keep going. The government should even legalize them and appreciate them.

Is this true?
Most Nigerian men motivated to keep going for side chick?! aka no moral and shameless woman who don't mind to disrespecting other woman (married man's wife) and don't mind to sleeping with married man or chasing married man?

This is kind of interesting to me.
Please I want you to teach me about it more.
I like to know and I wanna learn!

franchasng:




But the guy was making a valid point, side chicks make the world go round. They help to circulate wealth and keep the economy a bit balanced if not wealth will be in the hands of few lucky families.


If men don't cheat, the world will be boring, 90% of women will die wretched and poor, many families will remain forever poor till eternity.


It is men's desire to keep multiple partners that push them to assist ladies which helps to grow the nation's economy


It's all over the world.


Elon Musk the richest man in the world once paid a chick millions of dollars just to get her not to talk about their affair.


PDiddy being a cheat helped many American ladies became stars they are today, same with R. Kelly.


Donald Trump nkor?

If Ned Nwoko remained a one man one wife, how would Regina Daniels life and her family be today?


Men's cheating habit is the reason women are finding the world a bit enjoyable and reason women even get opportunities in the business, corporate, entertainment, politics and showbiz world.

When you examine the negative side of something, also look at the positive sides.

Kiss the truth my dear sisters, sadly

So it is imposible for women in your family to make money and remain rich without dating married men? Be like say your mama was your old boy side chick.