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For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Manson1(m): 8:06pm On Jul 14, 2023
Things nobody may tell you about marriage:

1) At some point in marriage, love may fade, you will only need commitment to survive. Especially when your partner changes from the person you knew initially.

2) As a woman, enjoy your single life now because when you marry, you will let go of certain lifestyle and enjoyment because of kids and family responsibilities.

3) As a man, when you marry , you must let go of certain life for your family reputation and integrity.

4) Attraction Wanes. This is one of the things nobody tells you about marriage. Even if you marry the most beautiful woman or a handsome man, one fine day, the attraction is sure to wane.You may feel that your partner is no longer attractive or your partner may feel the same about you. But still, the marriage can survive when you fall inlove with your partner's soul, not just the body.

4) Your in-laws are not your friends. Relate with them with caution.

5) You can stay many months without séx because of responsibilities.

6) Marriage is work, you work to make it work.

7) You need to forgive because you will always be offended.

8.) Childbirth can change your physical look or cause damage to your body. A successful child delivery is a miracle

9) If you marry someone who feels he or she is too good for you, you will suffer. The person will always make you feel less, like you're privileged to marry him/her

10) If you're a career driven person, marry a supportive partner, Marry someone who is eager to aspire. If you marry unsupportive partner or someone who settles for status quo, you will suffer alot

Cc; Walshak Kos

Let's hear from the married folks cool

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by taylor89(m): 8:07pm On Jul 14, 2023
kiss
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by mokset123: 8:13pm On Jul 14, 2023
Raising children nor be moi moi

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Zonefree(m): 8:17pm On Jul 14, 2023
Marriage is overrated!

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Nobody: 8:46pm On Jul 14, 2023
Just know that married men are going through a lot

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Zyxsc: 8:59pm On Jul 14, 2023
1. For a man, it's just a bills-paying institution. You go pay bills sotey you go forget wetin carry you enter the marriage in the first place

2. Enjoy your bachelorhood Wella before going into it. 40 is not too late for a man to get married.

3. You can't prove you're mentally strong until you're married because na then you go know what it takes to retrain an adult child like your wife. She go do some kain things wey be say, e fit make you go crazy.

4. If you can avoid it, please do. It's not worth it. Once you're married, you'll loose a part of your freedom. You can only regain it at the detriment of your home.

5. Don't go into marriage because of children. They may grow up and not make you happy by going against your wish (of course, they have their own lives to live. You've lived yours). Don't go into marriage because you love your girlfriend. Na this one go clear your eyes pass. Go into marriage because you want a life-long friend. Even at that, it's still a gamble. E fit shock you 10 years down the line.

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Favourrrr: 9:46pm On Jul 14, 2023
Life

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Cimar: 9:47pm On Jul 14, 2023
No real love in marriage,

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by STEWpid(f): 9:47pm On Jul 14, 2023
Chai..

Nobody should tell you anything about marriage because majority of those who gives better marriage advice do not even have a better home themselves.

Be prepared, be determined to have a better marriage life, caution yourself when it's required, know your partner before marriage and be sure you can cope well with it, and take it as simple as ABC.

L'oba kuku tan!

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by datola: 9:47pm On Jul 14, 2023
Marriage na scam people are coming...

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by olorundipe9090: 9:47pm On Jul 14, 2023
Ots a SCAM

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Dimaya: 9:47pm On Jul 14, 2023
Attention wanes

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Purelive(m): 9:48pm On Jul 14, 2023
Nobody tells you that the attraction will one day fade

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by KamsiViva: 9:48pm On Jul 14, 2023
Hmm...

Marriage is so beautiful when you marry right.

Lots of challenges will come but with the right partner, you both are sure to pull through.

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by NigerianAngelo(m): 9:48pm On Jul 14, 2023
People have very happy and natural marriages.


1. Pray a Novena to the Sacred Heart before marriage. (Maybe the Litany).


2. You could fast for one (1) day, nine (9) days, or thirty (30) -- taking only one full meal daily.


God bless all Nigerians.

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by NDakota: 9:49pm On Jul 14, 2023
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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Monitechh: 9:49pm On Jul 14, 2023
Marriage is over exaggerated

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Cholls(m): 9:49pm On Jul 14, 2023
My brother sex is not easy to get

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Holybaddo: 9:49pm On Jul 14, 2023
Bills on bills
No One Told Me Pampers price will Increase

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by b3llo(m): 9:50pm On Jul 14, 2023
Se.x will become a duty instead of the fun you enjoy as single.

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Celepope: 9:50pm On Jul 14, 2023
That women are very selfish and self centered. Always looking out for themselves and their family.

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by tunjijones(m): 9:51pm On Jul 14, 2023
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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by OloYeOfEgbE: 9:52pm On Jul 14, 2023
Hmmm....

If you ain't ready for the downs and if you tend to forget its about the kids,biko remain single,enjoy your life and date as many people as you want during Ups till ya die. God no go vex.

Choice

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by isabi2lof: 9:53pm On Jul 14, 2023
The single ones are the ones that will answer this your question undecided

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by BabaCommander: 9:53pm On Jul 14, 2023
Marriage is the sweetest thing ever.

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by OBTOREPA(m): 9:53pm On Jul 14, 2023
Thanks, I'm not fully married yet.

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Emma1Oj(m): 9:53pm On Jul 14, 2023
No body said their will be total see finish after seeing each other unclothedness and when the woman becomes the bread winner for the family.

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Ashez: 9:54pm On Jul 14, 2023
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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by TheBTCinvestor: 9:54pm On Jul 14, 2023
Sex is a chore in marriage undecided

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Janiobi(m): 9:55pm On Jul 14, 2023
Marriage no be by force. Ask monkey

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Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Goldbw122(m): 9:55pm On Jul 14, 2023
knowledge
Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by olisefom: 9:56pm On Jul 14, 2023
It's pure work.

Nogo come with the mind of "settling down".

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