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Hello Daejumong! Can I use intimacy gadgets as a Christian?

‘ I am a married 30 yr old born again Christian. My husband is working hard overseas and He has been away for 3 yrs. He sends money home regularly and he prays regularly with me!

The problem is I am burning with passion and I don’t want to cheat on him! He is still yet to get his papers and I am sure he is not cheating on me! He was the one that brought me to the Lord as I was a loose girl with a very high libido before I met Christ thru him.

Dae, do you think I should satisfy myself with adult toys so I don’t cheat on my hubby? I feel it’s a sin but I don’t want to go back to my vomit! Please advise me sir!’

Pastors and Mature married Christians, advice needed for this sister!

Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

NOTE:
What applies to wives applies to husbands in this case. There is no double standards in Christianity.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.

Let me answer like righteousness

No. Use intimacy gadgets and kiss your mansion in heaven goodbye. If you use those things, you'll go to HELL after death where fire will burn you.


Foolish woman, you want answers on how to use your own body from people that use their body the way they like.
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Most african women have low IQ. The easiest way you can identify a woman with low IQ is to ask her the simple question below.

Do you agree that whatever or whoever is behind the existence of the universe is a male?

If she agrees, then she is a woman with low IQ.

You're a woman with low IQ,
If you believe a woman was made out of a man.

You're a woman with low IQ,
If you believe the stupid story of how a woman caused a man to sin and by so doing brought death upon humanity.

How did you end up marrying a church man when you know you have a high libido?

It is a recipe for adultery because your insatiable desire will always win.

I think you may have married the man due to the money and benefits you saw and now you are thinking of returning to where you truly belong - the streets.

Good luck.

She should discuss her needs with her husband. If he permits her to use toys, she should go ahead.

She can use it naw no bible evidence that said he cannot use it since she is not sleeping around

It's MASTURBATION in females!

Keep asking for rules.

Until you wake up and realize that you are an embodiment of the law.

Not a question for me to answer but for the Godly people to answer?

You're not serious. Is this frontpage Worthy?

Was religion created for God
Or God for Religion..?
Between God and Religion who came first?
IF Religon is a creation of man, that simply means we all can wake up one morning and start up ours.
Your Religon today is simply a product of your environment (existence), meaning the family you would be born into determines to a larger extent the "God" you will serve.
Better wake up and take decisions for your sanity.
Your sanity ought to be your priority

Jamb question

Hmmm

Damnnn niggar

Isoright...

Grab my weed on a Sunday morning sit in the uncompleted building close to my house to drag my weed while I read people's comments on this issue

Expanse2020:
She can use it naw no bible evidence that said he cannot use it since she is not sleeping around

She can as well bring a man to the house to fourk her. That's not sleeping around, is it?
Sleeping around is not the problem. Having sex with another man, woman, animal, object or herself is the problem.
Both husband and wife share the fault 50-50.
A loose woman with a high libido marries a born again Christian. Wrong decision.
A born again Christian who knows his wife was an unbeliever and lover of frequent sex travels abroad and leaves her without sex for three years! Wrong decision.
Life is about priorities.
Sometimes you reject money to build your family.
At this point, all I can say is that the woman will definitely have sex with another man.
You can call it cheating if you like.

immortalcrown:
As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

What nonsense entitlement?? Hope you can say same for the husband

Yes

Don't use it. If you start using it, it will reach a stage you will not like it and you will feel like see a man.

GothamCities:
She should discuss her needs with her husband. If he permits her to use toys, she should go ahead.

Nice point.

Dear brethren, pls note that it is never my wish to disturb you. In God's name, I seek for your help. I'm starving to death. No comforter, no helper. Pls reach out to me 🙏🙏🙏

NO,

because she will get used to them and her husband's PREEK will now seem useless to her when he is back.

She should read the book of Revelation anytime she is hor.ny.

Daejumong:
Hello Daejumong! Can I use intimacy gadgets as a Christian?

‘ I am a married 30 yr old born again Christian. My husband is working hard overseas and He has been away for 3 yrs. He sends money home regularly and he prays regularly with me!

The problem is I am burning with passion and I don’t want to cheat on him! He is still yet to get his papers and I am sure he is not cheating on me! He was the one that brought me to the Lord as I was a loose girl with a very high libido before I met Christ thru him.

Dae, do you think I should satisfy myself with adult toys so I don’t cheat on my hubby? I feel it’s a sin but I don’t want to go back to my vomit! Please advise me sir!’

Pastors and Mature married Christians, advice needed for this sister!

Yes, even when he's around and he didn't satisfy you..... go ahead and use it.

Afterrall, you guys ve been using your fingers, graduating to toys won't change anything

she should use cucumber
when she finished she eat it...

She can use only Olive oil bottle , when she’s doing it , she should assume she’s anointing her KUNJAZ 😏

AuntieGO:
Women should learn to take their minds off their insatiable lust by engaging in work

3 years without sex for a 30yrs old woman?

Meaning she's been without it since 27yrs as a married woman!

Can you people be realistic for once?

Madam just use the dildos and help yourself out half a loaf is better than none

Sexual sin is the dumbest most restrictive thing religions have ever created.

Imagine wanting to poop but you can't because one guy in the sky will get angry you didn't poop a certain way.

What's the point of giving sexual desire if you don't want people to meet them.


God will be easier to worship, if there is less h0rny people worrying about what God will do to them if they satisfy their horniness.

GothamCities:
She should discuss her needs with her husband. If he permits her to use toys, she should go ahead.

So in this case, Masturbation is okay?