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Stop trying to change the topic. The topic is not about who can abstain from sexual immorality and who cannot do that. The topic is about whether it is right or wrong for Christians to use intimacy gadgets. Is it right for Christians to use intimacy gadgets?

megastu:
I have been around for too long to believe that people always do what they say. Even you typing this will cheat if your husband/wife leaves you for 3-5yrs. Some do it after 6 months of absence, some 1 year and others 5 years depending on the temptation thrown around you. The bible asked us to get married to avoid temptation yet you will marry and abandon your spouse in another country and go to hustle. what do you think will happen? some go as far as putting the spouse in their parents' house. While this might be good for creating things to do and people to spend time with, it reduces the urge but eventually, the urge will envelop you.

Empresa:
Did Jesus, Paul or any of the apostles preach that masturbation or use of gadget is a sin?

Let me tell you something, the reason why you can't go to God directly except through Jesus is because all your righteousness is like a filthy rags before God. Who is righteous on Earth, non.

I appreciate your effort, but make it known as your candid opinion to the topic not a generalized answer

Also, did Jesus, Paul or any of the apostles preach that Christians should use intimacy gadgets? Answer this question or keep shying away from the truth.

Righthussle:
Let me answer like righteousness

No. Use intimacy gadgets and kiss your mansion in heaven goodbye. If you use those things, you'll go to HELL after death where fire will burn you.


Foolish woman, you want answers on how to use your own body from people that use their body the way they like.
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Most african women have low IQ. The easiest way you can identify a woman with low IQ is to ask her the simple question below.

Do you agree that whatever or whoever is behind the existence of the universe is a male?

If she agrees, then she is a woman with low IQ.

You're a woman with low IQ,
If you believe a woman was made out of a man.

You're a woman with low IQ,
If you believe the stupid story of how a woman caused a man to sin and by so doing brought death upon humanity.

you are actually the person with low IQ here.

bomsilaga:
The bible admonishes that, if we cannot control the passion, we should get married.
Now see the scenario differently from a judgemental standpoint.
She and her husband obeyed and got married. Life happens and working as a man is part of what has been instilled in a man.
There's no way, he would just come back and they must have thought it wouldn't take this long.
Tinubu has finished the country and if he didnt leave, he would have been broke having sex with his wife without the ability to feed her - which is worse?
In marriage, almost everything is permissible. Even the bible enjoins that fasting can be cancelled if your partner wants sex.

What exactly is your point? Are you saying that it is right for a Christian to use intimacy gadgets?

healthkknatural:
Self Control for How Many Years ....

As long as it is necessary. Or, should a Christian stop self control and consciously dwell in the sin fornication for any reason?

Righthussle:
Let me answer like righteousness

No. Use intimacy gadgets and kiss your mansion in heaven goodbye. If you use those things, you'll go to HELL after death where fire will burn you.


Foolish woman, you want answers on how to use your own body from people that use their body the way they like.
__________________________________________________________


Most african women have low IQ. The easiest way you can identify a woman with low IQ is to ask her the simple question below.

Do you agree that whatever or whoever is behind the existence of the universe is a male?

If she agrees, then she is a woman with low IQ.

You're a woman with low IQ,
If you believe a woman was made out of a man.

You're a woman with low IQ,
If you believe the stupid story of how a woman caused a man to sin and by so doing brought death upon humanity.

there is nothing like hell for human

Righthussle:
Let me answer like righteousness

No. Use intimacy gadgets and kiss your mansion in heaven goodbye. If you use those things, you'll go to HELL after death where fire will burn you.


Foolish woman, you want answers on how to use your own body from people that use their body the way they like.
__________________________________________________________


Most african women have low IQ. The easiest way you can identify a woman with low IQ is to ask her the simple question below.

Do you agree that whatever or whoever is behind the existence of the universe is a male?

If she agrees, then she is a woman with low IQ.

You're a woman with low IQ,
If you believe a woman was made out of a man.

You're a woman with low IQ,
If you believe the stupid story of how a woman caused a man to sin and by so doing brought death upon humanity.

for posting this comment, l will cancel ✖️ your name from the register of Heaven, you are not going to Heaven again

immortalcrown:
1.
What did I add or remove?

2.
Is it right for Christians to use intimacy gadgets?

My point is that it's not up to you nor I to decide what's right or wrong. If the revealed word of God doesn't call it wrong then it's ok to say you don't know.

tctrills:
My point is that it's not up to you nor I to decide what's right or wrong. If the revealed word of God doesn't call it wrong then it's ok to say you don't know.

It is not up to us to decide what is right or wrong, but you condemn rape and murder. Keep fooling yourself.

C2Ok:
So in this case, Masturbation is okay?

.if the husband approved and allowed it for her.

I partially disagree with you on your response to the lady's post for Christian advice. Why not advice her to communicate it with her legal husband. Its people like you that wrongly say married Christian couple can't do mouth action on each other, etc . Believe it or not. Whatever is mutually okay between married couple is acceptable by God, for as long as it is practiced within the confines if marriage.
God bless

immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

NOTE:
What applies to wives applies to husbands in this case. There is no double standards in Christianity.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.

Daejumong:
Hello Daejumong! Can I use intimacy gadgets as a Christian?

‘ I am a married 30 yr old born again Christian. My husband is working hard overseas and He has been away for 3 yrs. He sends money home regularly and he prays regularly with me!

The problem is I am burning with passion and I don’t want to cheat on him! He is still yet to get his papers and I am sure he is not cheating on me! He was the one that brought me to the Lord as I was a loose girl with a very high libido before I met Christ thru him.

Dae, do you think I should satisfy myself with adult toys so I don’t cheat on my hubby? I feel it’s a sin but I don’t want to go back to my vomit! Please advise me sir!’

Pastors and Mature married Christians, advice needed for this sister!

Just relocate and meet your husband...

because you have not start burning... By the time true burning and temptation crip into your life ..

You won't even remember Nairaland page again..

Dido will only further complicate matters ...

Nothing like real dick... Most especially from your husband... The feeling is heavenly..

My advice is for you to seek to be baptized with the Holy Spirit and the urge for illicit fun will disappear from your life.
Attend a Bible believing church and seek for Holy Ghost baptism.
Can I use intimacy gadgets as a Christian?

‘ I am a married 30 yr old born again Christian. My husband is working hard overseas and He has been away for 3 yrs. He sends money home regularly and he prays regularly with me!

The problem is I am burning with passion and I don’t want to cheat on him! He is still yet to get his papers and I am sure he is not cheating on me! He was the one that brought me to the Lord as I was a loose girl with a very high libido before I met Christ thru him.

Dae, do you think I should satisfy myself with adult toys so I don’t cheat on my hubby? I feel it’s a sin but I don’t want to go back to my vomit! Please advise me sir!’

Pastors and Mature married Christians, advice needed for this sister![/quote]

This is super story ... 🎶🎶🎵

I want to congratulate you for seeking for Godly counsel. The only answer to your predicament is for you to seek for Holy Ghost baptism in a Bible believing church and the urge will disappear.

This is a real concern.
It is similar to many life issues for a new believer for which you may not find explicit detail in the bible addressimg it directly. The marriage is obviously challenged with distance and for the health of the union, they may need to consider if the hubby's continued stay abroad is worth more than the marriage.
1. A Good conscience: If her heart(Conscience is part of this) is already condeming the act ot is sinful! I John 3:20-21 NKJV
*For if our heart condemns us, God is greater than our heart, and knows all things. Beloved, if our heart does not condemn us, we have confidence toward God.*
2. The Help of The Holy Spirit produces Self Control. Not by will power, but this is the higher order of living to which The Lord Jesus Said... with men it may be impossible but not with God. For with God, ALL things are possible!
Cheers!

Moniya4Real:
I partially disagree with you on your response to the lady's post for Christian advice. Why not advice her to communicate it with her legal husband. Its people like you that wrongly say married Christian couple can't do mouth action on each other, etc . Believe it or not. Whatever is mutually okay between married couple is acceptable by God, for as long as it is practiced within the confines if marriage.
God bless

Are you saying that God will not be aware of the gadget use because the gadget use happens within the confines of the marriage?

immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

NOTE:
What applies to wives applies to husbands in this case. There is no double standards in Christianity.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.

I don't concur with this assertion. It's better you aren't married to your husband. Being without your man for 3 years isn't a thing to joke with. Don't use the adult toys either. It's better you let him know what you're passing through. It's not easy to stay without your man (6 months) talkless of three years. Tell your husband and he should do the needful. Even if you are spirit-filled, definitely, your body will request for it. That's why those who loose their spouse at a tender age are mostly advised to remarry. I have someone who said she can stay for years without her husband and now, she's complaining that she can't hold her body any longer. Pls call your husband. Maybe he can enrol you in a school abroad and you will have the chance to meet him again.

Haha I tot born again Christians don't burn with that kind of passion....

For you to ask Dis question you are already into cheating...

We just thank God for God... very forgiving...

Teeyoo:
I don't concur with this assertion. It's better you aren't married to your husband. Being without your man for 3 years isn't a thing to joke with. Don't use the adult toys either. It's better you let him know what you're passing through. It's not easy to stay without your man (6 months) talkless of three years. Tell your husband and he should do the needful. Even if you are spirit-filled, definitely, your body will request for it. That's why those who loose their spouse at a tender age are mostly advised to remarry. I have someone who said she can stay for years without her husband and now, she's complaining that she can't hold her body any longer. Pls call your husband. Maybe he can enrol you in a school abroad and you will have the chance to meet him again.

What exactly do you not concur with?

You are clearly deviating from the post. The post is not about what the lady should do to take her mind off sexual cravings. The post is specifically asking whether it is right for a Christian to use intimacy gadgets. And I simply state that it is wrong for a Christian to use intimacy gadgets. So what exactly do you not concur with in my comment?

Procashtips:
3 years without sex for a 30yrs old woman?

Meaning she's been without it since 27yrs as a married woman!

Can you people be realistic for once?

Thank you for this. Some people commenting can't hold it for 1 year "if they are married, talkless of 3 years"

immortalcrown:
Also, did Jesus, Paul or any of the apostles preach that Christians should use intimacy gadgets? Answer this question or keep shying away from the truth.

Nobody preached it. Live your life carefully and enjoy it because that righteousness you think you have is like a filthy rag before God.

Empresa:
Nobody preached it. Live your life carefully and enjoy it because that righteousness you think you have is like a filthy rag before God.

It is better to have the rag than not having any form of cloth. So, what exactly is your point?

Urgent1Million:
She can as well bring a man to the house to fourk her. That's not sleeping around, is it?
Sleeping around is not the problem. Having sex with another man, woman, animal, object or herself is the problem.
Both husband and wife share the fault 50-50.
A loose woman with a high libido marries a born again Christian. Wrong decision.
A born again Christian who knows his wife was an unbeliever and lover of frequent sex travels abroad and leaves her without sex for three years! Wrong decision.
Life is about priorities.
Sometimes you reject money to build your family.
At this point, all I can say is that the woman will definitely have sex with another man.
You can call it cheating if you like.

Three years no sex for non virgin, its very difficult ooo

Procashtips:
3 years without sex for a 30yrs old woman?

Meaning she's been without it since 27yrs as a married woman!

Can you people be realistic for once?

Asin ehn! Three good years ...

immortalcrown:
It is not up to us to decide what is right or wrong, but you condemn rape and murder. Keep fooling yourself.

The word of God condemns rape and murder. Keep adding to the word of God.
Rev 22.18.
For I testify unto every man that heareth the words of the prophecy of this book, If any man shall add unto these things, God shall add unto him the plagues that are written in this book:

tctrills:
The word of God condemns rape and murder. Keep adding to the word of God.
Rev 22.18.
For I testify unto every man that heareth the words of the prophecy of this book, If any man shall add unto these things, God shall add unto him the plagues that are written in this book:

Your logic is that intimacy gadgets are not mentioned in the Bible. Gun is not mentioned in the Bible. Does it mean that people should use guns on fellow humans?

immortalcrown:
What exactly do you not concur with?

You are clearly deviating from the post. The post is not about what the lady should do to take her mind off sexual cravings. The post is specifically asking whether it is right for a Christian to use intimacy gadgets. And I simply state that it is wrong for a Christian to use intimacy gadgets. So what exactly do you not concur with in my comment?

I linked yours with the original comment. I'm married either for 9 years and I can proof my points. If I don't have the experience, I won't even bother to comment. Let's leave Christianity out of this (I'm a Christian also). Even in Churches, they always preach and implore husbands not to leave their wives and vice versa. Let's cut the story short and let's leave any doctrine out of it, the woman has tried enough. It's not easy

Teeyoo:
I linked yours with the original comment. I'm married either for 9 years and I can proof my points. If I don't have the experience, I won't even bother to comment. Let's leave Christianity out of this (I'm a Christian also). Even in Churches, they always preach and implore husbands not to leave their wives and vice versa. Let's cut the story short and let's leave any doctrine out of it, the woman has tried enough. It's not easy

Why should we leave Christianity out of it when they post is about a Christian? Why should we leave Christianity out of it when they post is focused on whether it is right for a Christian to use intimacy gadgets? Do you want to deviate from the topic?

Fiscus105:
Abi oooo, because you are a devoted Christian or Muslim, all your body anatomy would not function as it supposed to be.

God himself that design body, he knows that body must respond to appropriate and it has nothing to be with ur closeness to God, sex is physiological needs and no amount of holy spy can remove it from body.
Many of you are just following religion without even knowing what it entails.

No mind them , her husband wan cause her to sin

immortalcrown:
Your logic is that intimacy gadgets are not mentioned in the Bible. Gun is not mentioned in the Bible. Does it mean that people should use guns on fellow humans?

Oga though shall not kill. Please start reading your Bible. The word of God is not about your logic or mine. It's not about your opinion or mine.