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Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by immortalcrown(m): 5:57pm On Oct 27, 2024
tctrills:
Oga though shall not kill. Please start reading your Bible. The word of God is not about your logic or mine. It's not about your opinion or mine.
Madam, no man or woman should have sex except with his or her spouse. Isn't this the commandment from God to Christians? Or, has the word of God become about your own logic?
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Teeyoo(m): 5:59pm On Oct 27, 2024
immortalcrown:
Why should we leave Christianity out of it when they post is about a Christian? Why should we leave Christianity out of it when they post is focused on whether it is right for a Christian to use intimacy gadgets? Do you want to deviate from the topic?
I'm not deviating from anything, I've mentioned earlier that it's a sin to use the gadget. It's better the husband invite her wife through other means since the husband's papers aren't complete. It's as simple as that
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by immortalcrown(m): 6:04pm On Oct 27, 2024
Teeyoo:
I'm not deviating from anything, I've mentioned earlier that it's a sin to use the gadget. It's better the husband invite her wife through other means since the husband's papers aren't complete. It's as simple as that
Then, what exactly is the assertion you don't concur with in my comment?
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by tctrills: 6:10pm On Oct 27, 2024
immortalcrown:
Madam, no man or woman should have sex except with his or her spouse. Isn't this the commandment from God to Christians? Or, has the word of God become about your own logic?
The commandment is not to have adultery or fornication but then let's leave it here. If you want to go on creating your own commandments good for you.
Matthew 15:8-9 KJV. This people draweth nigh unto me with their mouth, and honoureth me with their lips; But their heart is far from me. But in vain they do worship me, Teaching for doctrines the commandments of men.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by merits(m): 6:52pm On Oct 27, 2024
Daejumong:
Hello Daejumong! Can I use intimacy gadgets as a Christian?

‘ I am a married 30 yr old born again Christian. My husband is working hard overseas and He has been away for 3 yrs. He sends money home regularly and he prays regularly with me!

The problem is I am burning with passion and I don’t want to cheat on him! He is still yet to get his papers and I am sure he is not cheating on me! He was the one that brought me to the Lord as I was a loose girl with a very high libido before I met Christ thru him.

Dae, do you think I should satisfy myself with adult toys so I don’t cheat on my hubby? I feel it’s a sin but I don’t want to go back to my vomit! Please advise me sir!’

Pastors and Mature married Christians, advice needed for this sister!
Once a hoe is always a hole.Never marry for pity.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by bomsilaga(m): 7:06pm On Oct 27, 2024
immortalcrown:
What exactly is your point? Are you saying that it is right for a Christian to use intimacy gadgets?
What is your point?
Are you saying that as a Christian, you should be hypocritical?
If bible verses cannot be used to counter what I have said, then I am afraid personal experiences and what GO said will not cut in for you.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by immortalcrown(m): 7:11pm On Oct 27, 2024
bomsilaga:
What is your point?
Are you saying that as a Christian, you should be hypocritical?
If bible verses cannot be used to counter what I have said, then I am afraid personal experiences and what GO said will not cut in for you.
You have not used any Bible verse to counter my point. So, you have no fact against my comment.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by bomsilaga(m): 7:13pm On Oct 27, 2024
immortalcrown:
I admit that classifying the use of an intimacy gadget as adultery may be wrong.

But you are wrong for saying that the use of the gadget is right with the husband's approval.
Have you not noticed that the Bible didn't spend so much time talking about sin and the devil?
It has always being about the body which is capable of committing unspeakable sins and Christ has redeemed us
The use of intimacy gadgets can be wrong because 9/10 one can get some health challenges, delusional, addicted, self pity, etc. the major problem here is the consequences and not the act itself. Especially addiction because that is when the devil comes in to keep one in it for so long affecting the natural use of the Instruments.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by immortalcrown(m): 7:27pm On Oct 27, 2024
bomsilaga:
Have you not noticed that the Bible didn't spend so much time talking about sin and the devil?
It has always being about the body which is capable of committing unspeakable sins and Christ has redeemed us
The use of intimacy gadgets can be wrong because 9/10 one can get some health challenges, delusional, addicted, self pity, etc. the major problem here is the consequences and not the act itself. Especially addiction because that is when the devil comes in to keep one in it for so long affecting the natural use of the Instruments.
Stop running around the bush. Go straight to your point. Are you saying that it is right for a Christian to use intimacy gadgets?
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by lendahand(m): 8:21pm On Oct 27, 2024
Illusioneffect:
How will fasting cure your sexual desires? You guys with your AI generated useless solutions like you haven't had sex before. Is it the Holy Spirit that'll come down and cure her sexual desires?
Rather, you are the person with a generation Z-thought pattern, whose thinking ability has been impaired cuz of AI. Fasting is an ancient practice that subdues your flesh and exalts your spirit. Both light and dark societies use it positively and negatively respectively. It is very potent if you set your heart on God while fasting.

NB: I'm not in support of the husband staying many years away from the wife oo but rather than the wife engaging in sexual sins as a married woman, she should beckon on God to assist her till the situation changes.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Oxygen1998: 8:31pm On Oct 27, 2024
Her royal highness, the highest of all IQs
The beacon of IQ, kindly elucidate who came first and from whom.
You honour
Righthussle:
Let me answer like righteousness

No. Use intimacy gadgets and kiss your mansion in heaven goodbye. If you use those things, you'll go to HELL after death where fire will burn you.


Foolish woman, you want answers on how to use your own body from people that use their body the way they like.
__________________________________________________________


Most african women have low IQ. The easiest way you can identify a woman with low IQ is to ask her the simple question below.

Do you agree that whatever or whoever is behind the existence of the universe is a male?

If she agrees, then she is a woman with low IQ.

You're a woman with low IQ,
If you believe a woman was made out of a man.

You're a woman with low IQ,
If you believe the stupid story of how a woman caused a man to sin and by so doing brought death upon humanity.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Righthussle: 8:47pm On Oct 27, 2024
Oxygen1998:
Her royal highness, the highest of all IQs
The beacon of IQ, kindly elucidate who came first and from whom.
You honour
Between the hen and the egg who came first?
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Illusioneffect(m): 9:31pm On Oct 27, 2024
lendahand:
Rather, you are the person with a generation Z-thought pattern, whose thinking ability has been impaired cuz of AI. Fasting is an ancient practice that subdues your flesh and exalts your spirit. Both light and dark societies use it positively and negatively respectively. It is very potent if you set your heart on God while fasting.

NB: I'm not in support of the husband staying many years away from the wife oo but rather than the wife engaging in sexual sins as a married woman, she should beckon on God to assist her till the situation changes.
Fasting is not sex brother. It could help distract for a while but it doesn't in the long run. Not all problems is solved with fasting
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Moniya4Real(m): 12:04am On Oct 28, 2024
And what if the husband approves of uy?
immortalcrown:
Are you saying that God will not be aware of the gadget use because the gadget use happens within the confines of the marriage?
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by DaddyCash: 6:48am On Oct 28, 2024
Nothing replaces raw live gbola!
The bigger, the sweeter.
Ladies, don't deceive yourselves...toys are toys; preek na preek served warm and raw!
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by PropertyOffers(f): 8:43am On Oct 28, 2024
chudez0147:
What nonsense entitlement?? Hope you can say same for the husband
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Waterwaytega(m): 9:21am On Oct 28, 2024
My Dear..
There is nothing that our God can not do..
I was once into masturbation for years..
Because when the urge comes like this,it will be difficult to resist it..but I sat down and tot about it..and I prayed against such burning spirit that would take me over board only to have a regret at the end..

See after using this things you will have a regret..that's when you know it is Satan becus he will abandone u in shame and smile away.


Pray to God..pray that he will send his holy spirit to help you..

He helped me,he helped others here I am such and he will definitely help you once you ask...Matthew 7v7..john 14v14

I shall be praying for you
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Pacesetter123(m): 10:06am On Oct 28, 2024
So for your mind now,you think you are married now..oo?
You are not serious!!
You just got married newly and all of a sudden,boooom... your husband traveled abroad and leave you for good 3 years and still counting.
He travels with your permission and you are here asking us silly questions.
Didn't you know "body no be firewood" when you agreed he should relocate to abroad and leave you here in Nigeria?
Shebi you said he sends you money regularly?
Then enjoy the money nah since that is your priority in marriage and forget about sexual satisfaction.

And you said for good 3 years he can't still get his papers ready.
Nah Mediterranean sea him take Japa ni?
So even if it takes him 20 years to sort out his papers, you will still wait and burning with passion for that number years?
The fooooolishnesss is for what exactly?
Or ,so that when they say all married women in your village should raise their hands, you can also be among?
Nonsenseee!
Na so your Mama marry your Papa?
I don't think there's any tradition in Nigeria,or even the Bible we hold as Christians that would advise you to marry and keep one partner in Lisbon or Amsterdam while the other partner is in Kafanchang or Uzuakoli for 3,4,10,.......years and still counting.
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by bomsilaga(m): 10:36am On Oct 28, 2024
immortalcrown:
Stop running around the bush. Go straight to your point. Are you saying that it is right for a Christian to use intimacy gadgets?
Grow above right or wrong and seek a personal relationship with God. Peace out
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by immortalcrown(m): 10:42am On Oct 28, 2024
bomsilaga:
Grow above right or wrong and seek a personal relationship with God. Peace out
Stop running around the bush. Go straight to your point.

1.
Are you saying that it is right for a Christian to use intimacy gadgets?

2.
Does seeking personal relationship with God go against distinguishing between right and wrong?
Re: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Maysdevices(f): 11:39pm On Oct 28, 2024
Righthussle:
Stop making these kind of bogus statements. All men don't believe it is a man that is behind the existence of the universe. Some men believe the being behind the existence of the universe is neither a man nor woman.
Ok

Most men are religious and believe in an Abrahamic religion which says God is male

Does this mean most men have low IQs?
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