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raumdeuter:
That hot temper brag, do they also do this to people above them? Like if they have a female boss, a female soldier or Sanwo-Olu

Abi na just people under them

Egbon, e get some hot tempered people wen their egungun no sabi highway until dem lassdent. Na that time their eye go clear.

afrodoc2:
In the words of VDM, "He gon' learn".

One of the best traits to have is self-control.

Absolutely Doc!

GloriousGbola:
man

this happened 12 noon yesterday, was uploaded 5pm same day

i hope this woman thought this through sha

she is 'former lead HR' which implies she is currently unemployed
the man is effectively out of a job and may not be able to secure a job in corporate nigeria.

That's irrelevant if you ask me. She can get another job. Na woman and the outpouring of sympathy trust me inside 24hrs she go see work, now If that vase connected and she dies what happens.

I hate seeing illogical men in action. He could have caused a permanent problem with his fit of rage. And then he's a lawyer for that matter. Just a complete dumbass. He should have thought it through

I won't be surprised if he's not a first time offender. Nigeria is the only place you get away with this kind of behavior. We all know this

Sportsweb:
This thing is always funny to me.

Jihadist lovers will post photos of people protesting in Western countries as agenda to their jihadist cause, there's freedom of protest there and nothing much western government can do.

But let someone try that rubbish of protesting what Putin doesn't like or what Kim, Xi or ayotollah doesn't like and get killed or imprisoned ASAP.

Honestly they are full of crap.

You enjoy the liberties of where you are then you criticize it. How convenient.

A40:
That's irrelevant if you ask me. She can get another job. Na woman and the outpouring of sympathy trust me inside 24hrs she go see work, now If that vase connected and she dies what happens.

I hate seeing illogical men in action. He could have caused a permanent problem with his fit of rage. And then he's a lawyer for that matter. Just a complete dumbass. He should have thought it through

I won't be surprised if he's not a first time offender. Nigeria is the only place you get away with this kind of behavior. We all know this

From the audio sef, it seemed he was suspected to have a sidechic. The side piece sef go deny am

This incident wey video dey and can't be denied. He's toast

GloriousGbola:
Likely they have a housemaid. Cctv in homes is a deterrent for what housemaids can get up to. From theft to the same violence captured on camera.

The man Don enter am. A Google search of his names shows this all over social media.

He has deleted his linkedin page.

The man is obviously a violent man and he is going down for it. Make the guy go Dey train animals like pigs as hustle after his career is buried in this case.

A40:
I have no issues with it. It's to protect all parties involved.

An Airman's wife tried to poison his coffee with bleach. CCTV camera is what saved his behind. The pros far outweigh the cons

He's a stupid man and he's very fortunate this happened in Nigeria, he for sleep inside sanko with just one call anywhere civilized.

Let's say for the sake of argument she did something to jeopardize his job. Surely beating her up would improve his chances of keeping it? No smart man should joke with his freedom or ability to make money. And if his wife is dumb enough to mess with that knowing they have two daughters to feed you leave her.

DV is a serious thing. What if he killed her.

As I dey if woman dey stress me it's either you leave house for me or I leave house for you. Laptop, mattress and bedside fridge is all I need to survive.

What that man did is unconscionable

The fact that the lady said she will call her father in the video makes it look as if this is not the first thing they are having a quarrel that has snowballed into a physical affair.

Sometimes I wonder why people can’t walk away from such toxic relationship . They both should’ve gone their separate ways .Some people will claim maybe it’s because of the children they both decided to stick up till this moment .

As far as I’m concerned , it’s better to raise children as single parents than to raise kids in a toxic and violent marriage where the kids get to see their parents always going physical at the slightest provocation. It damages the psyche of the kids sef.

iamoyindamola:
Yes
And he's a well to-do how he foolishly forgot about it or maybe the wife planted it to get evidence because this doesn't look like the first time

I will always feel uncomfortable inside a private residence where there’s CCTV inside the living room and any other room.

I mean I can’t imagine visiting someone with CCTV inside his living room, we have private discussions and I don’t know if our conversation is on record and can be used against me if it gets to the wrong hands.

If it was a camera planted by the wife to nab the man for his domestic violence against her, then it makes sense 👍

BlueRayDick:
The fact that the lady said she will call her father in the video makes it look as if this is not the first thing they are having a quarrel that has snowballed into a physical affair.

Sometimes I wonder why people can’t walk away from such toxic relationship . They both should’ve gone their separate ways .Some people will claim maybe it’s because of the children they both decided to stick up till this moment .

As far as I’m concerned , it’s better to raise children as single parents than to raise kids in a toxic and violent marriage where the kids get to see their parents always going physical at the slightest provocation. It damages the psyche of the kids sef.

What they couldn't do to sir j, this one will collect wotowoto
He as price market and must pay
He messed up especially working in a company that have lot of females , will he have assault his colleagues too

A40:
That's irrelevant if you ask me. She can get another job. Na woman and the outpouring of sympathy trust me inside 24hrs she go see work, now If that vase connected and she dies what happens.

I hate seeing illogical men in action. He could have caused a permanent problem with his fit of rage. And then he's a lawyer for that matter. Just a complete dumbass. He should have thought it through

I won't be surprised if he's not a first time offender. Nigeria is the only place you get away with this kind of behavior. We all know this

Unfortunately you are wrong there. Lagos is a place where if you are reported to the right people you are in big trouble. They are obviously in lagos.

It is very relevant because there is an economic downturn right now. companies are laying off right left and center. We have been discussing the economy for weeks now. Jobs are not waiting out there for people.

It is also relevant because the woman is likely the one who released the video. Maybe she sent it to family and it blew up, or maybe she sent it straight to twitter. Businesses in general and Nigerian businesses in particular do dirty, shady and dodgy stuff and will be wary of employing people who can take issues to social media. Certainly not fintechs who are in the news everyday for aiding and abetting fraudsters

This could have been done off social media. Send the video to lagos dvsa. Send it to pwc hr. Same result without possible blowback to the victim

This comes back to Ibimes advise at the time. Think your steps through to ensure you can maintain your pikins lifestyle.

BlueRayDick:
I will always feel uncomfortable inside a private residence where there’s CCTV inside the living room and any other room.

I mean I can’t imagine visiting someone with CCTV inside his living room, we have private discussions and I don’t know if our conversation is on record and can be used against me if it gets to the wrong hands.

If it was a camera planted by the wife to nab the man for his domestic violence against her, then it makes sense 👍

I am sure he will have calm down and blame himself for the few minutes madness
Looking at the wife movement in the video, I think she planted it to get him, her wordings are clearer than the man and picked carefully

iamoyindamola:
What they couldn't do to sir j, this one will collect wotowoto
He as price market and must pay
He messed up especially working in a company that have lot of females , will he have assault his colleagues too

I do tell people that if a man touches my female relative (either my daughter , sister or any close family relative ) and such man claims it’s because he was provoked ; I will arrange for him few soldiers to take him to barrack and provoke him big time. Now let’s watch how he will react to the soldiers provocation inside guard room.

If the guy can go physical like this with his wife , only good knows the kind of emotional abuse he would’ve subjected some of his subordinates to. He may be one of those managers that will keep lambasting you and making you feel less about yourself just because you make a little mistake in a report .

GloriousGbola:
Unfortunately you are wrong there. Lagos is a place where if you are reported to the right people you are in big trouble. They are obviously in lagos.

It is very relevant because there is an economic downturn right now. companies are laying off right left and center. We have been discussing the economy for weeks now. Jobs are not waiting out there for people.

It is also relevant because the woman is likely the one who released the video. Maybe she sent it to family and it blew up, or maybe she sent it straight to twitter. Businesses in general and Nigerian businesses in particular do dirty, shady and dodgy stuff and will be wary of employing people who can take issues to social media. Certainly not fintechs who are in the news everyday for aiding and abetting fraudsters

You are right about Lagos but you don't need to report this kind of DV
The evidence is there on a platter, he will surely get arrested and arraigned
All those DV agencies and feminists will be fighting all over the case, he's toast and I have no pity for such stupid men
All those objects he was throwing if one hit her on the head nko, he must dance soapy

BlueRayDick:
I will always feel uncomfortable inside a private residence where there’s CCTV inside the living room and any other room.

I mean I can’t imagine visiting someone with CCTV inside his living room, we have private discussions and I don’t know if our conversation is on record and can be used against me if it gets to the wrong hands.

If it was a camera planted by the wife to nab the man for his domestic violence against her, then it makes sense 👍

Look at the video. It says camera 04. This is standard camera deployment in an upper middle class home. Likely cameras in everyplace but the master bedroom servant quarters and restrooms.

BlueRayDick:
I do tell people that if a man touches my female relative (either my daughter , sister or any close family relative ) and such man claims it’s because he was provoked ; I will arrange for him few soldiers to take him to barrack and provoke him big time. Now let’s watch how he will react to the soldiers provocation inside guard room.

If the guy can go physical like this with his wife , only good knows the kind of emotional abuse he would’ve subjected some of his subordinates to. He may be one of those managers that will keep lambasting you and making you feel less about yourself just because you make a little mistake in a report .

I think he's a lawyer, he knows the law
You are going to far with soldiers, area boys need just paraga money to treat him fvck up

BlueRayDick:
I will always feel uncomfortable inside a private residence where there’s CCTV inside the living room and any other room.

I mean I can’t imagine visiting someone with CCTV inside his living room, we have private discussions and I don’t know if our conversation is on record and can be used against me if it gets to the wrong hands.

This is also why I said she may have trouble with employment after this. For the very same reason. You have to be very very careful when reporting wrongdoing in corporate Nigeria and avoid drawing a spotlight to yourself. I have seen multiple instances where ogas at the top squashed obvious cases of blatant theft and corruption.

Forget the company hotline bs, corporate hates whistleblowers.

If you are into business that involves partnership or intend to go into one, please read this and learn one or two from it.

https://x.com/wizarab10/status/1850552117070573698?s=46

I didn’t even know there was trouble in paradise before now. Recently I wanted to a family eat out at a traditional themed restaurant and Ile-Iyan came to my mind. I messaged them on IG to ask about their services , opening/closing time , menu list , etc and I was shocked when I was told they only operate Lekki outlet and don’t have an Ikeja outlet.

In my mind I assumed they probably closed down the Ikeja GRA outlet due to economic hardship and all. Few days later algorithm brought sponsored video of the Ikeja outlet and I was confused . I now discovered the Ikeja outlet was named Ile-Iyan by PODS while the Lekki outlet was named Ile-Iyan . I just guess they are two different outlets owned by two different owners .

It was only when I saw the twitter thread that I fully understood what happened . Apparently they were initially business partners whose business relationship had gone sour and now they are in court slugging it out.

raumdeuter:
From the audio sef, it seemed he was suspected to have a sidechic. The side piece sef go deny am

This incident wey video dey and can't be denied. He's toast

I'm not sure any woman will be happy her husband is having a sidechic. Unless she's also playing away match. I don't know why these men don't follow Niger Delta man playbook and be upfront from the start that you're not a one woman man.

If a riff raff like Portable can be juggling multiple women without stress why are you sneaking around like small pikin. Woman can never respect you with that pattern

GloriousGbola:
This is also why I said she may have trouble with employment after this. For the very same reason. You have to be very very careful when reporting wrongdoing in corporate Nigeria and avoid drawing a spotlight to yourself. I have seen multiple instances where ogas at the top squashed obvious cases of blatant theft and corruption.

Forget the company hotline bs, corporate hates whistleblowers.

You are partly right. She won’t get a job in a Nigerian owned company easily for the reason of being viewed as a snitch . You know there are some meeting u will be inside , they will discuss some things you are not really cool with but you don’t have a choice but to separate your conscience from doing your job of listening .

For example she’s HR ; she may be in a meeting where they will be discussing how they need to pay some bribes to the police or a judge to have a case instituted by a staff against her company quashed . As part of your job u are expected to be in that meeting and be down with that management’s decision however unethical it may seem. Now having someone like her in that room will surely make her superiors uneasy cos they wouldn’t know if she’s recording or not.

She will however get job in any international company where they will not judge her based on what happens or has happened in her personal life .

BlueRayDick:
If you are into business that involves partnership or intend to go into one, please read this and learn one or two from it.

https://x.com/wizarab10/status/1850552117070573698?s=46

I didn’t even know there was trouble in paradise before now. Recently I wanted to a family eat out at a traditional themed restaurant and Ile-Iyan came to my mind. I messaged them on IG to ask about their services , opening/closing time , menu list , etc and I was shocked when I was told they only operate Lekki outlet and don’t have an Ikeja outlet.

In my mind I assumed they probably closed down the Ikeja GRA outlet due to economic hardship and all. Few days later algorithm brought sponsored video of the Ikeja outlet and I was confused . I now discovered the Ikeja outlet was named Ile-Iyan by PODS while the Lekki outlet was named Ile-Iyan . I just guess they are two different outlets owned by two different owners .

It was only when I saw the twitter thread that I fully understood what happened . Apparently they were initially business partners whose business relationship had gone sour and now they are in court slugging it out.

The sheriff is a useless guy is all I will say. You are looking for capital funding while planning to japa.

You do not inform your partner of this. That on its own is fraudulent and duplicituos to me. A large part of what drives businesses is the principals. Their experience, relationships, skills and connections.

Our business has like all businesses gone through difficult times. My partner got some employment offers. I told him simply, this business cannot run if you or I take up paid employment. It will die.

A partner japaing without notice is the same thing.

BlueRayDick:
If you are into business that involves partnership or intend to go into one, please read this and learn one or two from it.

https://x.com/wizarab10/status/1850552117070573698?s=46

I didn’t even know there was trouble in paradise before now. Recently I wanted to a family eat out at a traditional themed restaurant and Ile-Iyan came to my mind. I messaged them on IG to ask about their services , opening/closing time , menu list , etc and I was shocked when I was told they only operate Lekki outlet and don’t have an Ikeja outlet.

In my mind I assumed they probably closed down the Ikeja GRA outlet due to economic hardship and all. Few days later algorithm brought sponsored video of the Ikeja outlet and I was confused . I now discovered the Ikeja outlet was named Ile-Iyan by PODS while the Lekki outlet was named Ile-Iyan . I just guess they are two different outlets owned by two different owners .

It was only when I saw the twitter thread that I fully understood what happened . Apparently they were initially business partners whose business relationship had gone sour and now they are in court slugging it out.

Funny enough I know more of the ikeja outlet than lekki
Because those influencers went to the ikeja GRA more

GloriousGbola:
Unfortunately you are wrong there. Lagos is a place where if you are reported to the right people you are in big trouble. They are obviously in lagos.

It is very relevant because there is an economic downturn right now. companies are laying off right left and center. We have been discussing the economy for weeks now. Jobs are not waiting out there for people.

It is also relevant because the woman is likely the one who released the video. Maybe she sent it to family and it blew up, or maybe she sent it straight to twitter. Businesses in general and Nigerian businesses in particular do dirty, shady and dodgy stuff and will be wary of employing people who can take issues to social media. Certainly not fintechs who are in the news everyday for aiding and abetting fraudsters

This could have been done off social media. Send the video to lagos dvsa. Send it to pwc hr. Same result without possible blowback to the victim

This comes back to Ibimes advise at the time. Think your steps through to ensure you can maintain your pikins lifestyle.

Former HR of Paystack in this kind public gbege will definitely see work and see help. Leave that story. Girl power is no joke. We saw it with Cassie and Meg. Thousands of women might be being battered everywhere unseen but this one will be used as rallying cry. It might not be the plummest of gigs but she will not be left hanging. I guarantee it

These are different times and women are in more sensitive positions these days. Casting someone that is trying to beat you to a pulp in this degree is not connected with shady practices and what not. Two very different things

I'm not pro bringing your domestic issues to social media either but for this extreme behavior I will make an exception. That gospel singer maybe if she did so she would have still been alive by now.

You can only maintain your pikin lifestyle when you're alive and in sound health and mind. What lifestyle do you hope to maintain having this kin person around

A40:
I'm not sure any woman will be happy her husband is having a sidechic. Unless she's also playing away match. I don't know why these men don't follow Niger Delta man playbook and be upfront from the start that you're not a one woman man.

If a riff raff like Portable can be juggling multiple women without stress why are you sneaking around like small pikin. Woman can never respect you with that pattern

It’s the society, the expectation the society places on some of these guys makes them to always want to conform with standards they are not up to.

Everybody wants to be seen as that man with one wife and his beautiful family when in fact he has several sidechics he sees on a regular . Some may even be church workers , deacons and all sorts . They assume those roles but still Dey do their things on things in secret . Na when wife come know gbege go shele and before u know it , things may snowball into DV .

I used to have two neighbors . One upstairs who is 100% streets . He’s lived in the UK wella and na Omo ignore. Then the other one is all these Christ embassy pastor but if you look well u will know he’s a pretender and he Dey do things .

One time the street Egbon was telling me how the Christ embassy guy was always pretending and always doing like na him holy pass when he’s not.

Apparently the Christ embassy guy one day went to a mall with his wife and while he was trying to check out , his wife went to get one or two things off the counter . Na so pastor Dey collect cashier lady number Dey sweet talk her not knowing the wife has returned . That was how the wife created a serious scene there . The embarrassed lady had to be forced to delete the number and spilled out the whole beans that it was the husband that made advances at her o, not like she was trying to collect madam’s husband .

So eventually they left the place . Women being women , she somehow told the street egbon’s wife about the incident . Na so that one take tell the husband say she no know say her own husband even better pass that yeye Christ embassy man wey Dey form holy holy. She said she knows her husband will not disrespect her like that collecting number of a girl right in the mall where they both went to shop.

In my mind I was now like ; why did that man choose to be a Christ embasssy pastor when he could have been a street niggga doing his things ? Now everybody expects some level of decorum from him but he can’t give what he doesn’t have , he just has to keep pretending . Funny enough a friend of mine had told me on 3 different occasions that he saw that Christ embassy man in our house with girls in his car inside their estate . He asked if I’m sure that man is a pastor and I just told him maybe he’s going to counsel the girls .

GloriousGbola:
The sheriff is a useless guy is all I will say. You are looking for capital funding while planning to japa.

You do not inform your partner of this. That on its own is fraudulent and duplicituos to me. A large part of what drives businesses is the principals. Their experience, relationships, skills and connections.

Our business has like all businesses gone through difficult times. My partner got some employment offers. I told him simply, this business cannot run if you or I take up paid employment. It will die.

A partner japaing without notice is the same thing.

The guy is a typical Nigerian start-up guy who believes because they nurtured the business idea and started it , they are allowed to do as they like with the seed capital from investors .

They want to keep spending the company’s money like personal money and don’t want to be questioned for it. They forget once a business moves from being a sole proprietorship , you owe other co-owners explanations about managerial , financial and operational decisions .

iamoyindamola:
Funny enough I know more of the ikeja outlet than lekki
Because those influencers went to the ikeja GRA more

Me too, it was the Ikeja outlet that caught my attention initially. That was why I was shocked when I messaged them and they denied existence of the Ikeja outlet .

I guess it’s the bitterness that’s still worrying the owner

A40:
Former HR of Paystack in this kind public gbege will definitely see work and see help. Leave that story. Girl power is no joke. We saw it with Cassie and Meg. Thousands of women might be being battered everywhere unseen but this one will be used as rallying cry. It might not be the plummest of gigs but she will not be left hanging. I guarantee it

These are different times and women are in more sensitive positions these days. Casting someone that is trying to beat you to a pulp in this degree is not connected with shady practices and what not. Two very different things

I'm not pro bringing your domestic issues to social media either but for this extreme behavior I will make an exception. That gospel singer maybe if she did so she would have still been alive by now.

You can only maintain your pikin lifestyle when you're alive and in sound health and mind. What lifestyle do you hope to maintain having this kin person around

She is former paystack hr. Not current paystack hr. We don't have access to the terms of her disengagement so all that is speculative.


It is however easier to get a job while employed than unemployed.

Also her sisters in corporate are just as crooked as men and just as wary of whsitleblowing types.

DissTroy:
Today I had to do a presentation on the Host Community Development Trust Fund (HCDTF) of the Petroleum Industry Act (PIA), and the role of state governments (Niger Delta particularly) in cushioning the local socioeconomics.

Expectedly, some state government pens-for-hire and apologists took offence at the salvos I fired at Niger-Delta State Governors and holding them responsible. They didn't even focus on the main issue which was the HCDTF.

To embarrass them, I pulled up data from BudgIT and showed them comparative analyses I had done beforehand to back up my claims that state governors (ND governors especially) are mostly incompetent and the humongous amounts they receive do not tally with the developmental strides.


Attached are the screenshots of the FAAC to the Rivers, Delta, and Akwa Ibom State Governments. If you are from the Niger Delta not holding your state governor accountable while heaping all of the blame at the feet of successive administrations of the Federal Government from GEJ to Tinubu, you are part of our problem.

Look at the monthly allocations for these three states then give me any valid reason why any community in Rivers, Delta and Akwa Ibom should lack pipeborne water, electricity, or functional schools. Just one. #47 billion monthly. #33 billion monthly. #28 billion monthly. MONTHLY! But you excuse them?

State governors are just as guilty as the federal government in the mess we are in. Don't exonerate them indirectly by looking away.

I guess they didn't know who they were dealing with.

Can you kindly post the link to what all state governors get from FAAC, I want to see that of Edo. 🙏

BlueRayDick:
The fact that the lady said she will call her father in the video makes it look as if this is not the first thing they are having a quarrel that has snowballed into a physical affair.

Sometimes I wonder why people can’t walk away from such toxic relationship . They both should’ve gone their separate ways .Some people will claim maybe it’s because of the children they both decided to stick up till this moment .

As far as I’m concerned , it’s better to raise children as single parents than to raise kids in a toxic and violent marriage where the kids get to see their parents always going physical at the slightest provocation. It damages the psyche of the kids sef.

There are so many emotionally unstable people out there. And without this video it would have been he say she say or we don't get the full context

If he knew there's a camera watching will he behave that way and Secondly if you're with a woman trying to cost you your job cos you're cheating, is the logical thing to do catch a DV case to compound the issue.

This is a clearly emotional man that's not even thinking logically in the slightest

I've never quite understood it. Verbal disagreements are even problematic cos that's the foundation of it all but once it starts getting physical I believe all bets are off.

You're setting a terrible environment for the kids. It's harder to raise them alone but the peace. There's not a dollar amount to it. I wouldn't deal with a physically violent woman no way, hell talking to me wrong might get you on permanent ice, so I don't understand why anyone would advice a woman to stick it through with a violent man

GloriousGbola:
She is former paystack hr. Not current paystack hr. We don't have access to the terms of her disengagement so all that is speculative.


It is however easier to get a job while employed than unemployed.

Also her sisters in corporate are just as crooked as men and just as wary of whsitleblowing types.

I've told you sha. Don't be surprised if people rally round and find her something. This is not even a work related matter. She outed a man trying to assault her. What do you think the narrative and optics would be if a woman who did this was allowed to rot in the unemployment line

We are still a performative people at the end of the day

@Gloriousgbola please do u have link to free version of nitro or any other free app that allows to edit and affix electronic signature to PDF without out having to print and physically sign the document ?

BlueRayDick:
@Gloriousgbola please do u have link to free version of nitro or any other free app that allows to edit and affix electronic signature to PDF without out having to print and physically sign the document ?

Will post links later today. Not on my pc yet

pdfgear - it is 101% free
adobe reader DC -

links in the attachment.

spambot has been revitalized and has banned me twice already

GloriousGbola:
Will post links later today. Not on my pc yet

Thanks