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Nigerian Lawyer, Opeyemi Mabawonku who works with PWC results to violently beating his wife, Abiola, former lead HR at Paystack right in front of their two daughters pic.twitter.com/o2ZGd5VPoL

— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) October 27, 2024

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LAboWIPyPNk?si=MO3bYgdE5qSEg778



Oluwafunmilayo @FunmiKolz

why does this busybody YouTuber with his dirty rough voice, poor narrative skills and a dirty face can't just keep quiet and allow people watch in peace?

We can hear and see for ourselves....many Nigerian YouTubers are just annoying and useless like this fool

Where did he beat her?

highchief1:
I know and yes I’m in Africa if na abroad I will be dealt with.My wife don talk of relocation tire I Dey laugh for my mind.she knows I can afford it but I always tell her I can’t afford it for now.My guy that was happily married for about 10yrs just moved his family to Canada.in less than 2yrs their marriage is now shaking.Abroad own worst.we Dey even fit manage marriage here small.The only thing marriage is doing to me now is the bills it makes me pay.But balling,bachelor no ball reach me half.

Them no ball reach you simply because you have the resources. Imagine you were single like Don Jazzy, the balling no go be here.

My cousin wey women like Wella for Naija here got married and they were mocking me for still being single and following olosho, cos he's a year younger than I am.

Hin carry hin wife go Canada and the woman don run leave am, for nothing oh!

I no fit just laugh walahi

I thank God for the OT Naija women don give me. Shi Shi dem no go see, na only my Children go bear my surname, make one weyrey no come tarnish my image for me abeg...

BadBradley:
why does this busybody YouTuber with his dirty rough voice, poor narrative skills and a dirty face can't just keep quiet and allow people watch in peace?

We can hear and see for ourselves....many Nigerian YouTubers are just annoying and useless like this fool

Watch the non-intrusive version here:

Nigerian Lawyer, Opeyemi Mabawonku who works with PWC results to violently beating his wife, Abiola, former lead HR at Paystack right in front of their two daughters pic.twitter.com/o2ZGd5VPoL

— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) October 27, 2024

Ndidi2:
and who told you she hasn't counted the cost ?

Then let everybody dey hin dey.

All I know be say one is a victim here and one set the other up to change the narrative

How did the video leak? Could be a TikTok comedy skit.

fredoooooo:
This one don enter women trap

seriously

fredoooooo:
This one don enter women trap

Seriously

1Sharon:
Notice how she ignored him & only wanted a 3rd party involved when she became threatened. Nigerian men have constantly asserted they beat their wives because she frustrated him. Here she's doing everything to get away from him, but he's not allowing her. Shiorrrr.

Tell her to keep her mouth shut. She was most likely murmuring provocative words.
If you understand their language, you'll know she was seriously accusing her husband of cheating.

Verbal abuse has same effect on mental health as physical abuse. Women should learn to stop using their mouth to bring doom on themselves.

That being said, all she has done is not an excuse for the man to beat her. I support the law to take its course on him.

Another man down! Anyway no be everybody wey carry preek under leg be man o. See this rich man just fall him hand like this? He should be locked up with hardened criminals with instructions to deal with him morning and evening for like 6 months. But wait o, the cctv, him forget? Or na the woman secretly install am?

highchief1:
some women no get head sha but instead of hitting a woman why not walk away.

Hitting a woman is not right, but for how long will you keep running from your own home?

gabbytabby:
Koni da fun iwo na. Awon werey Oloriburuku.

I need to be banned for 24 hours. Unless I no go sleep on top this issue.

SMHFU!

cococandy:
Na for woman hand you go die last last.

You keep defending the woman. But your brain did not tell you provocation can bring out the monster in anybody.

The man was wrong for hitting her in the first instance, but why did she first provoke and keep provoking him? Even in his fury, she kept nagging and murmuring seemingly provocative words.

this same man can't face is fellow man

sexiestharam:
Learn how to write coherently. I couldn't understand anything you wrote.

learn to use ur brain u dirty thing

Legal beating legally by a legal practitioner can
never be illegal before their legal children except the children are not the legal children of a legal marriage conducted in a legal court by legal representatives of the illegal Nigeria.

TopeSanwolu:
Exactly 👍🏽 people with no experience always think they can do better with faith 🤣🤣🤣

God bless u bros

cococandy:
Disgusting

As expected, even without knowing what transpired we say know to domestic violence


However, from the days of the bible we have seen women ruin a man's life and take his livelihood ...
is that the only thing women know how to do

Konquest:
The male YouTuber commenting in the video is largely talking trash here! Some of his opinions are quite annoying. These kinds of YouTubers make unguarded comments with the intention of finally breaking up people's lives and relationships. First off, the lady made an allegation of infidelity against her PwC lawyer husband which he found offensive and CLEARLY denied in the video.

Women (married and unmarried) naturally tend to read body languages and get suspicious whenever they see other ladies with their men and so they begin to analyze and overanalyze situations in their heads. She made some rude or cutting statements in the video footage which triggered the lawyer's anger which then led him into throwing things at her from the dining table.

In any event, anger management is key here and he should have walked away. It seems he just came into the house from work fully dressed and must have been stressed up. He did well by telling his daughters to leave so as NOT to see him and his wife querelling. Women can test your patience a lot as a man but you have to also learn to understand them and talk thinks out firmly and calmly. Walk away even if she continues to "nag" about the issue and let a third party like her father know about the alleged false accusations she has made against you. All men have a healthy ego and don't like to be talked down upon relentless, and women have to get iron-clad evidence in these kinds of situations before leveling allegations of seeing another woman against any man.

If a man is presented with iron-clad evidence by his spouse that he's having an affair with another woman, he'll accept responsibility and apologize WITHOUT getting violent.

Both of them have to come together in the presence of trusted family members and iron things out now that the video of the CCTV footage is in the public domain. They must apologize to one another and the lawyer has to specially apologize to everyone because he was caught on camera throwing things in anger and ensure it NEVER happens again. If a man is tired of his wife and has no passion for her anymore then he should get separated from her and engage in co-parenting. Period.

All these one na unnecessary English, the video evidence is there for the whole world to see. Regardless of what the wife said to her husband, he has no right to assault her, period.

NoToPile:
She avoided him enough na, and didn't even raise her voice at least some of us understand Yoruba and can pick snippets of the talk even if the audio is echoing.

Some people are still blaming her even when all she did is avoid him and threatened to call her dad when it was turning violent and then duck under the table. Na wa oo.


Modified : The audio is clearer on Twitter

The man asked if she wants to relive him of his job in Yoruba when she said she will call her Dad, maybe the dad is a top shot.

To think this happened today, it's so disheartening. Nawa oo.

Sharp sharp them don tag Lagos DSVA

As much i dont support the man, be mindful only the woman knows the camera is On ... its was premeditated, a set up to get evidence to nail the man

as far as that video is concerned... the woman's reaction is guided. even if the fight had started in the bed room naa that dining side the fight go end

greypencils:
Guys! Imagine that woman being your sister, imagine that woman being your mother, imagine that woman being your daughter, can you take it watching someone else beat your mother, your sister, your daughter, can you?

That is exactly how it feels doing that to someone else daughter. If you know you can't control your anger, PLEASE DONT GET MARRIED. Remain a male LovePeddler fucking whores. If you don't value your woman she has others who would value her.

The last thing you should do is hurt a woman this way. If you need advice on how to totally control a woman without hitting her, contact me. I will give a free master class. But domestic violence is not it. Let's do better PLEASE.

All these emotional manipulative "imagine" "imagine" does not hold up ... there is a build up to everything

A woman that set up a cctv secretly clearly has a motive ... however the man fvck up

Lovelander:
Weak man, beating women is where people like him excels. What a shame

If your wife slapped you twice in front of your kids what will you do

Akfrenzy:
Bigot

I talk am 😆

Why are you g@y 🤪

Why are you pained ? 😳😂

stvpid ib0 p!g 🐖

1Sharon:
Pls explain to me how she didn't handle the situation well? Didn't you see where she tried to walk away silently and he stopped her?

Didn't you see that she only spoke up when he pushed her violently?

Is there another way to de-escalate a situation aside walking away? 🤔 Pls teach us.

You just spinned and twisted this scenario to make sense in your eyes. I salute your mental gymnastics.

All her actions in that video is invalid .... she knows the cctv is on , she chose that angle, she is the one recording you dont expect her to react in any way that will limit her chances to gather empathy nd nail the man

it reminds me of Ruth kadiri movie, 3rd marriage 🤣 watch if you can
someone like cococandy wil neva watch a movie like that

Try this with my daughter. And my catfish won't be fed for 2 weeks, till I dump your body into the pond.

If you can't tolerate her anymore it's better to divorce than this nonsense.

I wonder why some women still choose to remain in abusive marriages.


The worst part of the whole matter is that he's doing it in the presence of their children.

lebete3000:
E no sabi anything. E no know say woman problem dey inside their DNA. Dem no fit well rara. Come to Psychiatric hospital where I work, apart from Igbo and Colos wey dey disturb boys for there, na women get pure craze pass.

They're more likely to run mad than men, barring the use of any psychoactive substance.

Bro I sabi this gender very well. They're not well created and there's a faulty gene in everyone of them.

That gender 🤣🤣 one day 10 mood 😆
i was watching 3rd marriage by ruth kadri and for a minute i thot of getting cococandy and pocohantas help they need

LilMissFavvy:
You cheat on your wife, and Still have the guts to beat her? Some women are really low and can take anything from this gender in the name of marriage. What if the objects he threw blinded her eyes? Children, learn to protect your mother's from assault.

You are just unbelievable , i have known you for years by your comments ... you need therapy or even if na deliverance

you always come off like someone with traumatized childhood ... try happiness once in a yle shuldnt be impossible

iamtoofan:
All these emotional manipulative "imagine" "imagine" does not hold up ... there is a build up to everything

A woman that set up a cctv secretly clearly has a motive ... however the man fvck up

Will u stand there while your mother is being hit by another man? Simple question. You wont. Simple answer. Do the right thing and stop being an hypocrite. There is no justification whatsoever to hit a woman. If You cant stand her, walk away from the marriage. Full stop.

Drella:
Hitting a woman is not right, but for how long will you keep running from your own home?

for the rest of my life bro.I am not running to the bush.i am running to another home.as a married man make sure you have two houses

lebete3000:
Them no ball reach you simply because you have the resources. Imagine you were single like Don Jazzy, the balling no go be here.

My cousin wey women like Wella for Naija here got married and they were mocking me for still being single and following olosho, cos he's a year younger than I am.

Hin carry hin wife go Canada and the woman don run leave am, for nothing oh!

I no fit just laugh walahi

I thank God for the OT Naija women don give me. Shi Shi dem no go see, na only my Children go bear my surname, make one weyrey no come tarnish my image for me abeg...

lol your mind Dey back.

iamtoofan:
As much i dont support the man, be mindful only the woman knows the camera is On ... its was premeditated, a set up to get evidence to nail the man

as far as that video is concerned... the woman's reaction is guided. even if the fight had started in the bed room naa that dining side the fight go end

Genius! For her to set up a camera , it means this incident wasn't the first. He has been assaulting her for a while. What is wrong is wrong. Stop defending nonsense.