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I don't know what is wrong with me for the past two years, before I used to do well, when I have money I used to help people in need, family,friends and people online and offline but since 2023 just like that I don't know why or how I lost everything gradually gradually till I have nothing anymore and finding it very hard to come up.

I lost everything.

I lost my job
I lost my wife
I lost myself
I cannot feed myself anymore.
I have not bought a single wears,shoes or even singlet and boxer over two years now.
Now my shoes are damaged beyond repair.
My cloths are so faded and bad that its all torn or worn out
I lost my good look
I lost my hope
I lost my self respect
I lost my freedom.
I cannot even go out to where my mates are, am so rough that when you look at me you think an sick or mad or something , any job or work I try doesn't work.
Am just a defination of bad luck.

My account balance is 78.27 naira.
I have no girlfriend or any lady because I don't look normal poverty has taken over my life completely.

Thinking and challenges wants to end me.

I haven't been able to buy my body cream perfume or soap for over 6 months now.

Am getting tired of praying.
I don't know whom to help me, is this trial or bad luck not too much?

I have an std that due to lack of cash I left it untreated over a year now hoping I will have money to cure it but money won't come.

My penis has been discharging Whitish liquid ( gonorrhea).

Money runs from me no matter how hard I hustle, what can I do please advise me.
Am 35 now without anything worth of 5k in my entire life.

Readerr:
I don't know what is wrong with me for the past two years, before I used to do well, when I have money I used to help people in need, family,friends and people online and offline but since 2023 just like that I don't know why or how I lost everything gradually gradually till I have nothing anymore and finding it very hard to come up.

I lost everything.

I lost my job
I lost my wife
I lost myself
I cannot feed myself anymore.
I have not bought a single wears,shoes or even singlet and boxer over two years now.
Now my shoes are damaged beyond repair.
My cloths are so faded and bad that its all torn or worn out
I lost my good look
I lost my hope
I lost my self respect
I lost my freedom.
I cannot even go out to where my mates are, am so rough that when you look at me you think an sick or mad or something , any job or work I try doesn't work.
Am just a defination of bad luck.

My account balance is 78.27 naira.
I have no girlfriend or any lady because I don't look normal poverty has taken over my life completely.

Thinking and challenges wants to end me.

I haven't been able to buy my body cream perfume or soap for over 6 months now.

Am getting tired of praying.
I don't know whom to help me, is this trial or bad luck not too much?

I have an std that due to lack of cash I left it untreated over a year now hoping I will have money to cure it but money won't come.

My penis has been discharging Whitish liquid ( gonorrhea).

Money runs from me no matter how hard I hustle, what can I do please advise me.
Am 35 now without anything worth of 5k in my entire life.

A bullet to the head will do, you won't feel any pain anymore

DonBenny77:
A bullet to the head will do, you won't feel any pain anymore

am beyond pain by now

The simple thing I will tell you is ,

Ending it is not the next thing..
Trying it again is just the next thing after that , you can now end it ..

What I mean by trying it again is, try all of the things you lose ,give it a trial to own them again ... You mustn't try something once,twice or thrice and said you're fed up .. my friend try am again ..

Readerr:
■ I don't know what is wrong with me for the past two years, before I used to do well, when I have money I used to help people in need, family,friends and people online and offline but since 2023 just like that I don't know why or how I lost everything gradually gradually till I have nothing anymore and finding it very hard to come up.
I lost everything.
I lost my job
I lost my wife
I lost myself
I cannot feed myself anymore.
I have not bought a single wears,shoes or even singlet and boxer over two years now.
Now my shoes are damaged beyond repair.
My cloths are so faded and bad that its all torn or worn out
I lost my good look
I lost my hope
I lost my self respect
I lost my freedom.
I cannot even go out to where my mates are, am so rough that when you look at me you think an sick or mad or something , any job or work I try doesn't work.
Am just a defination of bad luck.
My account balance is 78.27 naira. I have no girlfriend or any lady because I don't look normal poverty has taken over my life completely. Thinking and challenges wants to end me. I haven't been able to buy my body cream perfume or soap for over 6 months now. Am getting tired of praying. I don't know whom to help me, is this trial or bad luck not too much? I have an std that due to lack of cash I left it untreated over a year now hoping I will have money to cure it but money won't come. My penis has been discharging Whitish liquid ( gonorrhea). Money runs from me no matter how hard I hustle, what can I do please advise me. Am 35 now without anything worth of 5k in my entire life.

Go back home to your mama and papa's house or back to the village or to relatives, and begin there tracing your way back.

Brother, thank God you still have a penn*is.

Kobojunkie:
Go back home to your mama and papa's house or back to the village or to relatives, and begin there tracing your way back.

am 35 bro and they are late

Sapasenator:
Brother, thank God you still have a penn*is.

I kindly request for assistance to help relieve my life please

Readerr:
am 35 bro and they are late

Go back to wherever your roots are and begin again tracing your steps from there.

Kobojunkie:
Go back to wherever your roots are and begin again tracing your steps from there.

ok thanks

Readerr:
ok thanks

Your life is not the lie... rather it is surely the way you chose to live it that is the lie. And to unravel the web, you need to get yourself where you accept where you are(along with all of the consequences you have to live with as a result of where you have been), take full responsibility for your many mistakes in life, and then chart and walk a better path for yourself from there.

Kobojunkie:
Your life is not the lie... rather it is surely the way you chose to live it that is the lie. And to unravel the web, you need to get yourself where you accept where you are, take full responsibility for your many mistakes in life, and then chart and walk a better path for yourself from there.

thank you

If some people just know what the Lord has done for us all ehn... You will remain alive.

MondayOmoAdugbo:
If some people just know what the Lord has done for us all ehn... You will remain alive.

right now I can exchange my life with a loaf of bread am worth noting

Readerr:
right now I can exchange my life with a loaf of bread am worth noting

Easier said...

Remain alive Bro,
That's all I will say.
Find means, good means.
Goodnight.
Take care.

MondayOmoAdugbo:
Easier said...

Remain alive Bro,
That's all I will say.
Find means, good means.
Goodnight.
Take care.

thank u

MondayOmoAdugbo:
If some people just know what the Lord has done for us all ehn... You will remain alive.

Which Lord did what? Your children are literally starving to death in Nigeria but here you are dragging a Lord into it as if when many of them eventually drop dead, it will not be the same Lord watching it all happen.

Kobojunkie:
Which Lord did what? Your children are literally starving to death in Nigeria but here you are dragging a Lord into it as if when many of them eventually drop dead, it will not be the same Lord watching it all happen.

Leave me out of your anger Mr man

MondayOmoAdugbo:
■ Leave me out of your anger Mr man

Of course, I am to blame for all of this suffering that is Nigeria today, right?

Dude it's just life, shit happens no matter how hard you planned your life or not, what will be will be.

Just try your best to stay positive no one knows tomorrow.

Sorry. I guess you start by doing some labour for 3 months. Gather some funds for feeding. Meet one artisan, e.g roof makers, plumbers, electrician, and other important skills (not tailor or barber) learn. Learn the business part of the skill too. Beg the boss and be humble and honest, learn for 2-3 years, you'll be very comfortable thereafter. Goodluck

Self pity wont help you if that is what you are looking for here i will advise you to change your mindset and think differently if you want to move forward in life .

You can find something doing, pray to God Almighty for guidance, stay strong and believe that you will surely come out of it

Sometimes you just have to loose all in order to find what is really important in this life and that is God. A lot of people think God is obligated to help them because things are bad and they are suffering. That is simply not true. Read your Bible. It actually says God will laugh at you when you fall into calamity after living a life of ignoring Him, His laws, principles etc. God is not santa clause. He owes you nothing. Bible says God so loved us that HE GAVE His only begotten son. He Gave. I.e, past tense. His love made Him kill Jesus for our sakes. The price for our sins has been paid and won't be paid twice! If you fail to take advantage of that price and submit your life to be led by God, you have no right to call upon HIM when you fall into problems. Your problems are the wages of your sin, the results of living for Satan in a world controlled by Satan.

God is good to His own. If you want your story to change, pray the sinners prayer and determine to begin to live right. Then actively begin to read your Bible everyday so that you will not be spiritually ignorant. Alot of Christians claim to serve a God they do not know. They don't know why bad things are happening around the world nor how to be safe even when it seems the whole world is going to the dogs. They don't know the love and joy, jealousy and anger of God. They think God is that person they go to sing and dance to on Sundays in different houses of jamboree. Read your Bible everyday at a set time for at least an hour, daily. Do this and watch your life begin to change.

That being said, you are no good to anyone living the way you described. Take care of yourself. Cut your hair and beards. Clean yourself up. Walk around the neighbourhood in faith that God has heard your prayer of repentance and will locate you with help. Do not despise these days of lowering aka wilderness experience. It is an important stage in forming of men who know the fear of God.

You must be sick you bloody FUUUL

Some of you are so pathetic! All you do is log into Nairaland from dawn to dusk; keeping tabs on the members that do 'give away', then you open new accounts, follow them, and come up with sob stories to elicit pity.

You are a man, so do what your fellow men are doing to make money(as long as it is not something that is damaging to humanity). There are so many opportunities for men out there, you just need to find it, and stop being a cry baby.

Must some people insulte?

YoungThug14:
You must be sick you bloody FUUUL

what is your issues