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SAMBARRY:
neither is her personal choice.you sef rest

Her education is a waste. Leaving your marriage because your husband took a second wife in Nigeria? She should continue living in delusion. This is Africa not Europe or America.
The same way we reject same sex union is the same way the West reject polygamy.

SAMBARRY:
over reacted by protecting her dignity? Lol una sha like messiness and she no follow una play that game na why body dey pepper una

You start off wrong , a woman dignity is tided to marriage be under man,
ko sii aponlè fun olori ti o nii ade ori (vice versa) i.e there is no regard for a queen without a crown/king

pick out any divorced celeb in Nigeria whats the public perception ?
when you hear tiwa savage, ini edo, tonto, princess what comes to mind vs

when you hear omotola, joke silva what comes to mind in honesty ??


Trust me, its her life, her loneliness, over 60% of women that filed for divorce years after wished they didnt

Dogalmighty17:
Madam, you are not married. Your opinion counts for nothing. Any woman that allows another woman snatch her husband is a weakling and should be ashamed to even open her mouth to talk in public.

Her husband is not an object that can be snatched. He made his choices and this is not about her. Connect your brain before you type here next time.

HeadNigga:
polygamy is different from cheating. Yul cheated. He allegedly got the woman pregnant and used polygamy to "disguise"...lol

No be from cheating polygamy dey start

Precious452:
Her husband is not an object that can be snatched. He made his choices and this is not about her. Connect your brain before you type here next time.

He made a mistake and she made a choice ... her decision nailed the coffin you can't leave her out

Dogalmighty17:
Madam, you are not married. Your opinion counts for nothing. Any woman that allows another woman snatch her husband is a weakling and should be ashamed to even open her mouth to talk in public.

You say abeg see quote oh so na she carry the man abi you think a man would just leave his wife if he didn't want to. A man that wants to go should go haba free this lady, some men would cheat, still don't care about his own kids because they know they're just in this earth to reproduce, African men for me not all lack emotions.

Maybe it's because of how their fathers were I have seen good father's who bond well with their kids, at least the guy said it that she was his back bone and he loved her greatly, for so long nobody knew may, she's was known as yul's wife.... Now yul don decide allow her be, not every woman can take that thing called "polygamy".

chidiokay:
No be from cheating polygamy dey start

no...you can marry a second wife without cheating. It would have been better if yul had allowed the new wife remain a babymama

JoeRizzla:
She don warm different beds and noticed there's no commitment coming

Wahala

HeadNigga:
polygamy is different from cheating. Yul cheated. He allegedly got the woman pregnant and used polygamy to "disguise"...lol

Were you there when the copulation happened?

marksonrick:
She wasn't happy in the marriage again and left. Now, she has freedom and yet not still happy for being single.
Now, she understands why women are struggling to be a second wife and she's fighting so hard to be relevant.
Life sha, you never know what you have until you lose it.
Yul may be missing her but I believe MAY is on the regretting side.
The second wife have roamed and knacked different men, seeing that the singlehood life no make sense for women and forceful found herself a man.
MAY, thinking of freedom all these years found an exit excuse but found herself in the waterloo of men.
I know regrets are all over her.

Deep!

chidiokay:
Now she is sounding like cococandy... they are saying one thing and doing another

Marriage is the foundation of family did yul say family is the foundation

nonsense and Tpain

Yes she’s sounding like me and if I were in her situation, what she did is what I’d do too. Except I’d have officially filed for divorce by now (I don’t know if she has)

I love marriage but I won’t tolerate being married to a stupid man just to be called a married woman. I know when a woman tells you guys she likes marriage, to you that means she has to be okay with being mistreated in the marriage. Otherwise she’s not doing what she’s preaching.

Stupid!

Dogalmighty17:
Madam, you are not married. Your opinion counts for nothing. Any woman that allows another woman snatch her husband is a weakling and should be ashamed to even open her mouth to talk in public.

Just listen to yourself, so because her husband is promiscuous, got another woman pregnant married the said woman secretly, should May kill herself the answer is no she should live her life and she never dragged her ex husband like some women do

phosky:
https://eyesoflagos.com/2024/11/02/i-love-marriage-may-edochie-refutes-claims-of-promoting-divorce/

Na why I dey always advocate for polygamy, she for still dey married but nooo....

pocohantas:
Yul left the wife of his youth to go live with another man's wife. May only found out via blogs. Yet it is this woman Nigerian men choose to blame. She doesn't want to be part of the show of shame and she is entitled to that. If she chose to stay, y'all would still have something to say. So let her be.

Hopefully Yul doesn't wake years later to play the victim like Fred Amata. Same Yul that was dancing on IG after the death of his first son. We are here watching and we hope his supporters wouldn't twist history when it starts.

These men are really something else

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Her education is a waste. Leaving your marriage because your husband took a second wife in Nigeria? She should continue living in delusion. This is Africa not Europe or America.
The same way we reject same sex union is the same way the West reject polygamy.

Her education is a waste because she’s not sharing penis?🤮

chidiokay:
Yul fvccked up no doubt but she over reacted, these is africa and she was in raised in africa meaning she has the capacity to absorb polygamy but she allowed feminism mess up her head

They second wife would have killed her, she seems toxic and the husband is a simp. Ned is the man he is in control

cococandy:
These men are really something else

They are insufferable. If she had stayed, they would say Nigerian women can never leave the man if he has money. You can never please them. So put your mental and physical health first.

chidiokay:
He made a mistake and she made a choice ... her decision nailed the coffin you can leave her out

When your wife makes that kind of mistake, I hope you make the choice to stay.

Empty skull

pocohantas:
You can never please them. So put your mental and physical health first.

Always!

Orinechi:
Were you there when the copulation happened?

I was in the neighbourhood

HeadNigga:
May...so may will be without a husband for the rest of her life? I don't envy her...but yul really bleeped up.

guy u are not in the marriage with the man so don't judge the man , u dont know wat d man is going through. U only read wat is pasted on the internet. Who no go no know. if U go and he never happen to U no tink say URS is the best just wait.

cococandy:
Her education is a waste because she’s not sharing penis?🤮

Why is polygamy illegal in the US?

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Her education is a waste. Leaving your marriage because your husband took a second wife in Nigeria? She should continue living in delusion. This is Africa not Europe or America.
The same way we reject same sex union is the same way the West reject polygamy.

I don't agree with you, this is not polygamy but promiscuous from the husband to be cheating with a married woman and got her pregnant. So the Nteje man Sabi dance but for all the years he was married to May he never posted dancing with her or the children. It's better she is alive and enjoy with her children than die in marriage, many died silently this way in name of marriage

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Why is polygamy illegal in the US?

1) Women don’t like it. You can’t force a grown woman to endure a situation she doesn’t want to because the culture you created as a man permits you the man to do it. Seems like the men just make up stuff that favors them and then use culture and religion to force women to accept it. USA said no. Men and women are equal. Men and men are equal. Women and women are equal. Everyone should pick one and gedifok

2) Tax purposes. Uncle Sam loves his money. Polygamy would lead to a situation where one polygamous family is entitled to extreme cash refunds because of the insane amount of children that usually come from such marriages. Don’t play with Uncle Sam and his money. He’ll bury you under the jail for even thinking about financially abusing the system.

3) women hate polygamy

4) women dislike polygamy

5) women find it disgusting

Dogalmighty17:
Madam, you are not married. Your opinion counts for nothing. Any woman that allows another woman snatch her husband is a weakling and should be ashamed to even open her mouth to talk in public.

Her husband wasn't snatched, she chooses to leave her husband and marriage

cococandy:
Yes she’s sounding like me and if I were in her situation, what she did is what I’d do too. Except I’d have officially filed for divorce by now (I don’t know if she has)

I love marriage but I won’t tolerate being married to a stupid man just to be called a married woman. I know when a woman tells you guys she likes marriage, to you that means she has to be okay with being mistreated in the marriage. Otherwise she’s not doing what she’s preaching.

Stupid!

Can you like/love "something" but cant overlook the downside

It is possible to love two things but my sistas its not possible to love something and throw it away.

for instance,
i love Arsenal ... i cant narrate the number of hearts break arsenal has given me in decades But i cant leave that team, its a marriage for better for worse


use any other word but certainly not "love"

phosky:
https://eyesoflagos.com/2024/11/02/i-love-marriage-may-edochie-refutes-claims-of-promoting-divorce/

As usual, most men here displaying their lack of ability to reason deeply missed the most important point.

Who hosted the podcast? AY the Comedian!

Who did Yul warn to leave his then wife May alone? AY the Comedian.

Who is the 'God' behind all these packaging of May, sponsoring trips and using his vast media platforms to promote May? AY the Comedian.


When you connect all the dots, then you can now understand why it seems May is a superstar. The unseen hand behind the scenes is AY the Comedian. He has been the one fucking this woman mercilessly and promoting her. I pity the idiots who praise her as something special.

May Aligwe is a woman who wanted the divorce as fast as possible so that she can keep fucking both men and women.

But her adultery partner AY the Comedian has to put her up to say she loves marriage because a lot of men eyes are finally opening.

They now understand the message May is passing. She is literarily a motivation for other women to leave their husbands. So, if you are married and you are busy promoting May as a man, your wife is just looking you with one eye. One day she will have the courage to do it because if May can do it so can she!

There's nothing special about May but their is something sinister and evil about a man, sponsoring, encouraging and undermining his fellow man to Bleep his wife. AY whether in this life or the next, you will get your Karma from God and it won't be pretty! Peace!

cococandy:
1) Women don’t like it. You can’t force a grown woman to endure a situation she doesn’t want to because the culture you created as a man permits you the man to do it. Seems like the men just make up stuff that favors them and then use culture and religion to force women to accept it. USA said no. Men and women are equal. Men and men are equal. Women and women are equal. Everyone should pick one and gedifok

2) Tax purposes. Uncle Sam loves his money. Polygamy would lead to a situation where one polygamous family is entitled to extreme cash refunds because of the insane amount of children that usually come from such marriages. Don’t play with Uncle Sam and his money. He’ll bury you under the jail for even thinking financially abusing the system. If you get caught doing anything that’ll make you.

3) women hate polygamy

4) women dislike polygamy

5) women find it disgusting

Lmao😂🤣.
I'm not ready to have this discussion today. Take the win

Precious452:
Her husband is not an object that can be snatched. He made his choices and this is not about her. Connect your brain before you type here next time.

That phone in your hand, carefully open the back. Lift up the battery if you can. Under the battery, you will see where the manufacturer wrote "NOT TO BE OPERATED BY A FOOL."

Now, put the battery in its normal position, return the cover, sit back and then think about your life.

Dogalmighty17:
Madam, you are not married. Your opinion counts for nothing. Any woman that allows another woman snatch her husband is a weakling and should be ashamed to even open her mouth to talk in public.

Some of una go open smelly mouth with empty head dey yarn dust.
Where's the snatching here?
So because someone decides to marry 2-3 wives, then someone is snatching someone?
What of your grand mother or great grand mother that was probably 2nd or 4th wife?

chidiokay:
Can you like/love "something" but cant overlook the downside

It is possible to love two things but my sistas its not possible to love something and throw it away.

for instance,
i love Arsenal ... i cant narrate the number of hearts break arsenal has given me in decades But i cant leave that team, its a marriage for better for worse


use any other word but certainly not "love"

By your logic, since you Mr. Chidiokay loves marriage, you’ll still stay with a wife who cheats on you and has kids with another man?
That’s just a small downside right?

CHoccolaTE:
"Any woman that allows another woman to snatch her husband"
Because the husband is a zombie that only does what others allow abi wetin?

The worst part is that a lot of men actually reason like this, they will see husbands cheating and then conclude that it's because their wives caused it or "allowed" it.

Very funny creatures.

Men and women are biologically different

It takes extraordinary self control for most men with Fame and Status to be faithful to one woman...

Most women with the same Fame & Status seldom stay married

So women who are married to famous men should brace themselves.

If he is taking good care of her and the kids emotionally and financially.
She should have been wiser

Th only deal breaker is constant physical abuse.