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cococandy:
When your wife makes that kind of mistake, I hope you make the choice to stay.

Empty skull

anticipated, should my wife cheat n get pregnant for another man thats 90% not a mistake, a woman is the custodian of her womb ... logically she allowed it

A wife that got pregnant from outside wants to leave her marriage .. she cant marry two men so whats she up to

Its possible to share a husband but how two men will share one wife ... maybe i need to come to your school

HitSong:
Some of una go open smelly mouth with empty head dey yarn dust.
Where's the snatching here?
So because someone decides to marry 2-3 wives, then someone is snatching someone?
What of your grand mother or great grand mother that was probably 2nd or 4th wife?

Fulani. Is reading comprehension your problem?

chidiokay:
No be from cheating polygamy dey start

If you look at it deeply it is not cheating

For someone like Yul whose Dad is one of the most revered Nollyhood Icon

Yul has been exposed to the life of been a celebrity's Son from childhood

I see it as him letting his self-control guard down to exercise one of his numerous options his eyes find appealing.

chidiokay:
anticipated, should my wife cheat n get pregnant for another man thats 90% not a mistake, a woman is the custodian of her womb ... logically she allowed it

A wife that got pregnant from outside wants to leave her marriage .. she cant marry two men so whats she up to

Its possible to share a husband but how two men will share one wife ... maybe i need to come to your school

You’re the custodian of your sperm. If you don’t want to have babies with a woman who’s not your wife, you’ll keep your penis in your underwear. It’s not hard at all

Yes you may need to come to my school to learn how to share a wife. Women have been sharing husbands since time immemorial when you people lied to them that God created you to cheat on them and abuse them. Heaven hasn’t fallen. It won’t fall if you learn to share your wives too.

You can wait your turn for marital sex the way women in polygamy have to wait.
You can provide your quota to the upkeep of the home just as those women do.
You should know your place and don’t question your wife.
You should be willing to accept the kids from the marriage as yours too because you’re one big happy family. Thankfully DNA is alive and well. You can easily differentiate which kids are yours (IF YOU MUST).

cococandy:
By your logic, since you Mr. Chidiokay loves marriage, you’ll still stay with a wife who cheats on you and has kids with another man?
That’s just a small downside right?

i love my woman, if she cheat depending on the circimstances i have capacity to forgive her, no one is infallible

But if she is carrying another man child thats on a whole new level, its only logical the man that got her pregnant take responsibility over her .... how will he do that when she is still understand my roof ?

will i be feeding and making love to another man's pregnancy or invite the man to move in nature favors a man might sound unfair or annoying but the truth

Exactly the same way you feel about the situation is the way May felt.

You people’s inability to see women as humans just like you is the reason why it’s impossible to have any meaningful conversation with you.

Yes you can feed and make love to her while she’s carrying another man’s child. The same way you expect her to care for you and serve you while you’re supporting another woman who is pregnant for you somewhere else. It’s not difficult at all.

Y’all like to claim men and women are biologically different. Well Duh.
For one you’re OBVIOUSLY not as evolved as women are.

Empathy is a sign of higher intelligence and evolutionary progress. Many men are not there yet. There’s simply no capacity for you to feel or recognize that. The neural pathways just don’t exist for you. It’s as simple as that. That’s why I know everything I’m saying to you is like fetching water with a basket but I try anyway.
Maybe in a few 100 years, a more evolved man will stumble upon the relics of this forum in an archive somewhere and he’ll get it.

chidiokay:
i love my woman, if she cheat depending on the circimstances i have capacity to forgive her, no one is infallible

But if she is carrying another man child thats on a whole new level, its only logical the man that got her pregnant take responsibility over her .... how will he do that when she is still understand my roof ?

will i be feeding and making love to another man's pregnancy or invite the man to move in nature favors a man might sound unfair or annoying but the truth

Dogalmighty17:
Madam, you are not married. Your opinion counts for nothing. Any woman that allows another woman snatch her husband is a weakling and should be ashamed to even open her mouth to talk in public.

So she should kee herself?

HeadNigga:
May...so may will be without a husband for the rest of her life? I don't envy her... but yul really bleeped up.

But Ned Nwoko didn't, right?

chidiokay:
Yul fvccked up no doubt but she over reacted, these is africa and she was in raised in africa meaning she has the capacity to absorb polygamy but she allowed feminism mess up her head

She must not accept the polygamy . She can always do what makes her happy but coming to internet to create impression that she is moved on and doing fine is what I do not understand ..I think she loves the media attention she is getting . Interview by AY , that's something else . Omoni has used her to promote her movie, princess hair is using the opportunity to make her sales ..if I l may ask ,of what importance is the doha women conference to the world . Women conference where we did not see the powerful women of the world nor hear the outcome of the conference. The likes of Ngozi Ezeonu, Anita okoye , Chioma chukwuka, ierti Doyle, shaffi bello and so are all divorced . They are doing fine without media hyping . They are all grinding and doing there thing . Until I see her get real Ambassadorial deal from multi companies I will know she has uped her game. For now let her enjoy her media attention . The only pity I feel for her ,is she loosing her child. Yul has been on the media so whatever he is doing there should not be a surprise. This does not mean I am commending Yul is just that May can do more than this over hyping internet moving on and success. I am even surprised she is now taking .

chidiokay:
anticipated, should my wife cheat n get pregnant for another man thats 90% not a mistake, a woman is the custodian of her womb ... logically she allowed it

A wife that got pregnant from outside wants to leave her marriage .. she cant marry two men so whats she up to

Its possible to share a husband but how two men will share one wife ... maybe i need to come to your school

They desperately want to do what the minority of HIGH STATUS plus famous men can do and get away with it.

I keep asking why dont she and ladies with same mindset have relationships or marry homeless or low/zero status men who will love and cherish them for raising their status and will be faithful to such women all their lives as gratitude for taking them from the street.😅

The delusion and hypocrisy stinks

They will always argue to be WHORES

I saw a video on Tiktok where a medical Doctor was stating why its a biological proclivity for some African men to be polygamous, especially black men with susceptibility to prostrate cancer... I read the comments from women

Non of them have the mindset of empathy to take the challenge to ginger their fellow women scientists to focus on finding a cure for prostrate cancer affecting their men, the predominant argument was If she cheats back nko...if it is me, i will cheat back

cococandy:
You’re the custodian of your sperm. If you don’t want to have babies with a woman who’s not your wife, you’ll keep your penis on your underwear. It’s not hard at all

Yes you may need to come to my school or learn how to share a wife. Wonne have been sharing husbands since time immemorial when you people lied to them that God created you to cheat on them and abuse them. Heaven hasn’t fallen. It won’t fall if you learn to share your wives too.

You can wait your turn for marital sex the way women in polygamy have to wait.
You can provide your quota to the upkeep of the home just as those women do.
You should know your place and don’t question your wife.
You should be willing to accept the kids from the marriage as yours too because you’re one big happy family. Thankfully DNA is alive and well. You can easily differentiate which kids are yours (IF YOU MUST).

what if i took pre caution, what if there is an agreement But women being women she breached ... as an opportunist

Coco we are not babies, When a woman does not want to get pregnant for a man ... let his sperm be thicker than nick canon nothing will happen 99%
follow this analog
i believe your phone came with a follow cum cord, but there are times situation as force you to use another cord, someone else cord you did and your phone was still intact

But can your phone charging port serve another phone without altering or leaving your phone ... i can forgive your answer cos you are not tech savy

Mgbeke feeling funky

0neal:
They desperately want to do what the minority of HIGH STATUS plus famous men can do and get away with it.

I keep asking why dont she and ladies with same mindset have relationships or marry homeless or low/zero status men who will love and cherish them for raising their status and will be faithful to such women all their lives as gratitude for taking them from the street.😅

The delusion and hypocrisy stinks

They will always argue to be WHORES

I saw a video on Tiktok where a medical Doctor was stating why its a biological proclivity for some African men to be polygamous, especially black men with susceptibility to prostrate cancer... I read the comments from women

Non of them have the mindset of empathy to take the challenge to ginger their fellow women scientists to focus on finding a cure for prostrate cancer affecting their men, the predominant argument was If she cheats back nko...if it is me, i will cheat back

I find it ridiculous that the only time women are so obliged to reciprocate is where a man cheat

its would have made much sense, if women dont limit reciprocating to just cheating

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Her education is a waste. Leaving your marriage because your husband took a second wife in Nigeria? She should continue living in delusion. This is Africa not Europe or America.
The same way we reject same sex union is the same way the West reject polygamy.

Her education is a waste, ke?? Na u dey feed her when day break?
U beat person, still won tell her how to cry?

maasoap:
But Ned Nwoko didn't, right?

Ned is a Muslim, His first wife knew he was going to have a polygamous home at some point. He sure consulted her before taking another wife...the basic difference is that Yul married to legitimise an unwanted pregnancy, after cheating...Ned on the other hand married Regina before sleeping with her and getting her pregnant

smartec:
Someone filed for divorce, and still claims she is not advocating for divorce. So what the hack is she doing

She is zombielizing her followers

HeadNigga:
Ned is a Muslim, His first wife knew was going to have a polygamous home at some point. He sure consulted her before taking another wife...the basic difference is that Yul married to legitimise an unwanted pregnancy, after cheating...Ned on the other hand married Regina before sleeping with her and getting her pregnant

You would think this is common sense.

Athemisia:
Her education is a waste, ke?? Na u dey feed her when day break?
U beat person, still won tell her how to cry?

Welcome to Nigerian marriage. Women with humane husbands do not know what God did for them.

chidiokay:
I find it ridiculous that the only time women are so obliged to reciprocate is where a man cheat

its would have made much sense, if women dont limit reciprocating to just cheating

It's crazy they always argue about the one thing that is so damn easy for them to get.

No doubt, Yul na mumu man sha

For him to waste his options of having a 2nd wife with a woman who was already married is low bar.

Like young single ladies don finish for Nigeria??

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The person you were having back and forth with wrote "women have evolved" 😅

Them no they evolve to take majority of jobs as Waste Disposal?

Is It labour intensive & technical Jobs like Plumbing, Electrician, Lumber Jacks and forestry Jobs or High Tension Electricity Towers maintenance Jobs, or maintaining high communication towers.

Working in underground mines and dangerous offshore oil rigs

Women have only evolved to cheat back on their Husbands, and not accept polygamy

like women has not been engaging in paternity fraud since time immemorial (even low and High status men don collect), before men came up with DNA testing to prove suspicion.

Judy Austin is a very desperate woman.
She might have eliminated May if she hadn't left the marriage. Her son died mysteriously, could have been her or any of the children next.
All d same, May should mellow down and stop gallivanting. She needs to raise her kids

Athemisia:
Her education is a waste, ke?? Na u dey feed her when day break?
U beat person, still won tell her how to cry?

if i beat you, i am not saying dont "CRY" but dont take decisions that might affect more people, other than me

babe moan but dont shout there is a difference, get the context

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Her education is a waste. Leaving your marriage because your husband took a second wife in Nigeria? She should continue living in delusion. This is Africa not Europe or America.
The same way we reject same sex union is the same way the West reject polygamy.

The irony is she will be living off married men going forward.

0neal:
It's crazy they always argue about the one thing that is so damn easy for them to get.

No doubt, Yul na mumu man sha

For him to waste his options of having a 2nd wife with a woman who was already married is low bar.

Like young single ladies don finish for Nigeria??

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The person you were having back and forth with wrote "women have evolved" 😅

Them no they evolve to take majority of jobs as Waste Disposal?

Is It labour intensive & technical Jobs like Plumbing, Electrician, Lumber Jacks and forestry Jobs or High Tension Electricity Towers maintenance Jobs, or maintaining high communication towers.

Working in underground mines and dangerous offshore oil rigs

Women have only evolved to cheat back on their Husbands, and not accept polygamy

like women has not been engaging in paternity fraud since time immemorial (even low and High status men don collect), before men came up with DNA testing to prove suspicion.

Yes we choose cheating to reciprocate on, we don't want your oil rig and other physical intensive jobs that is meant for men, we choose to "evolve" when it comes to cheating because it affects mental health and the family unit as a whole, since most of you men have refused to see women as humans and not objects to manhandle and misbehave anyhow especially emotionally, we choose to give it right back to you same fold,

So keep crying, cos it's obvious from the many complaints and constant tears and threats of DNA bla bla bla that the repercussion of what you started first hits home, yet you all still indirectly try to gaslight, manipulate, and coerce women to accept polygamy and see cheating as a norm, keep it up, we will continue to leave useless men that can't stick to their wives alone and continue to reject polygamy till thy kingdom come or cheat right back, there is nothing anyone of you can do about it.

LordIsaac:
The irony is she will be living off married men going forward.

Yes she is, so how does that affect your existence?

MrAmbrose:
I watched that interview on fb. That woman is indeed intelligent, she speaks eloquently, she's indeed a woman of substance. God bless her.

Camera behaviour vs non camera behaviour

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Her education is a waste. Leaving your marriage because your husband took a second wife in Nigeria? She should continue living in delusion. This is Africa not Europe or America.
The same way we reject same sex union is the same way the West reject polygamy.

It's her choice, respect it. It's not everyone that love to share stuff like that. If we reverse the case, will you be willing to share your woman with other men

This has nothing to do with Europe or America

cococandy:
1) Women don’t like it. You can’t force a grown woman to endure a situation she doesn’t want to because the culture you created as a man permits you the man to do it. Seems like the men just make up stuff that favors them and then use culture and religion to force women to accept it. USA said no. Men and women are equal. Men and men are equal. Women and women are equal. Everyone should pick one and gedifok

2) Tax purposes. Uncle Sam loves his money. Polygamy would lead to a situation where one polygamous family is entitled to extreme cash refunds because of the insane amount of children that usually come from such marriages. Don’t play with Uncle Sam and his money. He’ll bury you under the jail for even thinking about financially abusing the system.

3) women hate polygamy

4) women dislike polygamy

5) women find it disgusting

Interesting , culture we created abi nature just favor us

You call that in the US equality ... a system design to refree a match wearing home team jersey 🤣

A woman can just wake up, raise hell in the house, call 911 and police will rush down to eject the man, base on her word only

if men and women are equal in america how come america is yet to have female president

the western world you so much adore, women get away with many things just as men get away with things here in africa, we are all bias

Naturally a woman want what other women want ... so how do you validate women hate polygamy

Sarah blessed Abramham with her maid,

the major instigator of take a 2nd wife are usually from mothers, i have never seen where a father called his son to take a 2nd wife ...

which man will say; go in to my driver 🤣 happy sunday muah !

Dogalmighty17:
Madam, you are not married. Your opinion counts for nothing. Any woman that allows another woman snatch her husband is a weakling and should be ashamed to even open her mouth to talk in public.

A man, a full human adult, can be snatched?

Stop infantilizing men, even children struggle if anyone tries to snatch them away!

HeadNigga:
May...so may will be without a husband for the rest of her life? I don't envy her...but yul really bleeped up.

What is new under the sun. ?. How about those who never got married throughout Thier lifetime?

Weaklings fight for fellow adults.
If a man decides to go with another woman, he is not worth fighting for. why fight to retain an irresponsible man if you are not mentally ill?

Dogalmighty17:
Madam, you are not married. Your opinion counts for nothing. Any woman that allows another woman snatch her husband is a weakling and should be ashamed to even open her mouth to talk in public.

chidiokay:
You start off wrong , a woman dignity is tided to marriage be under man,
ko sii aponlè fun olori ti o nii ade ori (vice versa) i.e there is no regard for a queen without a crown/king

pick out any divorced celeb in Nigeria whats the public perception ?
when you hear tiwa savage, ini edo, tonto, princess what comes to mind vs

when you hear omotola, joke silva what comes to mind in honesty ??


Trust me, its her life, her loneliness, over 60% of women that filed for divorce years after wished they didnt

ok you follow her live for house to know what pushed her to opt for divorce abi you see any woman who is treated with love wey go wan exit?

The woman carry her dignity go,its better than the one wey yul and him wife dey disgrace themselves online. Who public perception epp?

Public perception wey go say Jesus is lord today and tomorrow go say crucify him.shioorr

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Her education is a waste. Leaving your marriage because your husband took a second wife in Nigeria? She should continue living in delusion. This is Africa not Europe or America.
The same way we reject same sex union is the same way the West reject polygamy.

yinmu

Her life,her choice. Yul has chosen polygamy, may chose not to be part of it,case closed.make everybody rest .you say her education is a waste.na you pay her school fees? Abi you want make she dey use her bsc dey drag for mud under the guise polygamy

pocohantas:
Yul left the wife of his youth to go live with another man's wife. May only found out via blogs. Yet it is this woman Nigerian men choose to blame. She doesn't want to be part of the show of shame and she is entitled to that. If she chose to stay, y'all would still have something to say. So let her be.

Hopefully Yul doesn't wake years later to play the victim like Fred Amata. Same Yul that was dancing on IG after the death of his first son. We are here watching and we hope his supporters wouldn't twist history when it starts.

Yul courted Judy a long time. You really believed May found out through blogs?