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Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by LZAA: 7:54am On Nov 09, 2024
Keyword here is "private"
Every private organization has it's own set of rules
If you want the regular joe treatment get a government job😁
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by pamelerin: 7:55am On Nov 09, 2024
Well, may God open doors for you to begin to see the need for you to own your own school. Your years of experience in teaching profession is not a waste. It's a passion for you and you will succeed in it. Begin to plan on how you can start something for yourself, something like an after-school lesson. It may be tough at the beginning, but the later days will be worthwhile
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by SimplyProprties: 7:56am On Nov 09, 2024
Hmmmm🤔
Allotrope69:
The child wasn't punished or sanctioned at all. No teacher will weigh in. In fact, the sch owners are happy when there's disunity among the staff
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by sprints1: 7:57am On Nov 09, 2024
Kobojunkie:
I don't think you even see what is right in front of your eyes all this while. undecided

Using the rod is why Nigeria as a country is where it is today with over 150 million adults afraid to stand up against the barely 20,000 ruining their lives and destroying the future of their children. You have millions on whom this so-called rod was used who turned out wicked incompetent individuals incapable of running their communities and society at the local, state, and even national levels. An entire nation of over 200 million people without the critical, emotional, and social intelligence necessary to capably lead and rule over themselves...this is the result of all your "Spare the rod and spoil the child" campaigns from the time of your ancestors. Yet you are blindly suggesting the same even after all of this? undecided

2. And what should happen when there are no parents to teach kids? The kids should be allowed to freely roam without Education? Please cut the bull! undecided

3. But you have not discussed anything about the progress of education. I am not a teacher by profession but I regularly teach kids without needing to lift even a finger against them. I do this every day. The priority is to raise mentally stable, socially and emotionally intelligent children who understand how to abide by the law in whatever it is they do and pursue. How many of those have been raised in your Nigerian schools, for example? undecided
alright, you want me to give solutions to education in a country that doesn't value opinions from people like me. I know you are fine with the matrix. We are raising kids to be obedient slaves and tools for the rat race, most of these children can't do things on their own they don't know anything about critical thinking, they can't think outside the box they locked them with principles and laws they do not need to know. You are making a lot of sense literally. But you have not seen the problem from my point of view. I am not forcing you to agree. I have been teaching professionally for 9 years with my TRCN and B.ed. I did a lot of research on curriculum planning and alternative resources to learning. You made mention of emotional intelligence which is very essential in children lives. You can't have emotional intelligent children if they do not learn to accept criticism in the cruel way. These days you correct a child by the rod you are violating his human rights, you correct a child verbally you are abusive. You encourage a child you are manipulative. That's why children these days are prone to killing themselves out depression that never existed but they lack emotional intelligence. I teach biology as a subject and I try my possible best to relate my subject with the real world. I can body tell 3/4 of what is learnt in school is unecessary. We have left things like psychology of the mind, ignored psychomotor development, importance of values... But we want our wards and children to be perfect. I always let my students know mistake is acceptable it becomes a problem when it is becomes repetitive. I do not quickly use the rod. I would have warned a child 3 times if repeated after that I will flog I do not care if you Tinubu' daughter. That is me. Money is not me, but my integrity and values is my strength.
Countries like china that are not wiser theoretically are doing well than us because they communicated with nature more than we do. How many times do we bask in the sun. This is part of the things that boost pur cognitive memory. We know have more dumb children than we do in the past because of negligence. Our children are not eating right and locked in 4-walls for close 250 days in a calendar year. Until you realize school is an indoctrination and prison you can never see sense in my statement
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by wunmi590(m): 7:58am On Nov 09, 2024
Allotrope69:
Amen. Thanks
The position of mathematics teachers is always available in almost every schools 🏫, even in bigger schools as long as you know your onions, please leave a place that is not favourable for you...
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by NobleStag007: 8:00am On Nov 09, 2024
Life is simple. If you're displeased with your place of work. Try change it, if not working.. find another job
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by NobleStag007: 8:00am On Nov 09, 2024
wunmi590:
The position of mathematics teachers is always available in almost every schools 🏫, even in bigger schools as long as you know your onions, please leave a place that is not favourable for you...
Exactly.
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by stillseth: 8:02am On Nov 09, 2024
They are telling you to quit you’re adamant and still fighting for a system that’s oppressing you and not treating you fine .
You have been a year for 9 years and teach across 4 states in Nigeria but at the moment you’re earning 40k ? You really need to reevaluate.. it’s either you quit the school or with your experience look for a better school that pays well. There are teachers warning over 100k in Lagos, ogun, Abuja, PH

The reason why I quoted this your comment is cos I hope someday in the future when you have kids and they start asking you what happened, you’re going to tell and explain to them exactly this comment you posted.

You seems like a laid back kinda type of guy


Allotrope69:
Oga pls free me.
What do u know?

What is weakness in me dancing for my students when teaching them?
If u lack what to say, pls kindly ignore the post.
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by promami: 8:05am On Nov 09, 2024
Allotrope69:
As a teacher in this particular sch, I and my colleagues have been completely dissatisfied with some of the school's anti-worker policies.

There's no decision or policy that favors the teachers. We are always at the receiving end of every decision.
For instance, as a form Teacher and also a teacher of Mathematics, I must ensure that my students eat their foods(Lunch). I must monitor them closely to make sure they don't take their foods home. They must finish their food.
If any student absents himself/herself, I must call the parents to check. Failure to do so would be akin and tantamount to insensitivity and lack of care for my students. These are JSS3 students we are talking about. But if the teacher is absent due to one reason or the other, same parents would not bother to check on the teacher even if they are aware.

Here's the most annoying part for me. I have a student. A new student who just came in in September. The child hasn't been doing well. The parents came on Open Day and met with me, we discussed on the way forward and how we can help the child to do better. This is a student who cares less about studies, so it is almost difficult to help him. Today we concluded our second Continuous Assessment Test and almost every teacher whose subjects had been written have all marked their scripts. I told this particular student to go round the teachers and get the scores of all His subjects for me. They offer 18 subjects. But to my surprise, the proprietoriess told me to go round the teachers and get his scores. She said so in the presence of this child. This is a woman that knows how busy I am as a Maths teacher, I barely even sit in my class cos I am always up and doing. What's wrong in a child carrying out this simple task?

Some supervisors came from the Ministry of Education a few weeks ago, and they noticed that we over pamper the children. They told us that they hope we have a university for them, because the way we are pampering them, if they go to higher institutions with such lackadaisical & nonchalant attitude, they will fail. So it's either we reduce the way we do it or we build a university for them to continue the pampering. It's not like the sch is a big sch where parents pay heavy sums as sch fees. Fee is 40k per term.

As a teacher, if a student fails to do your assignment, and u discipline that child, the proprietoriess will blame u. And if u don't discipline that child to Correct him/her, and same proprietoriess finds out that the students didn't do your assignment, she will public scold you. Shout at an erring student, it's a problem. Flog the child, it's a problem. Talk to the child, it's a problem. They will find a way of misconstruing your words to suit their narratives. A student can insult u and u won't do anything. If u do, they will label u as wicked. They will ask u why u can't see the child as just a child and overlook things. It's really frustrating.
You can imagine catching a JSS 2 student doing test and exam malpractice, if u deduct the child's score, it's a problem. If u flog, it's a Problem. I once deducted a child's score when I caught him him cheating in an exam. I mean, this boy had the impetus, guts and audacity to open his Maths notebook and be copying directly to his exams script. I used my red pen to deduct just 10marks, and in the end, I was told not to deduct any score. It was said right in the presence of this same student, and other students present there. I was weak. Very weak.

Some parents also try to bully teachers cos they are backed up by the school owners. After all, a customer is always right. If a Parent contracts u to have a private lesson for their child, and such parent refuses to pay you at the time they should pay, and u dare ask for your money, u could be in hot soup. The parent might call the school owners to report that you're harassing them and you will get the blame. In fact, the school owners tell u what to charge them.

The proprietor of the sch is who understands all these, but his wife is different. His wife is so sentimental, biased and emotional and unfair when judging cases. There are three staff there who can never be wrong in her eyes. Three days into my assumption of duty there, I was told about this by some old staff, but I doubted until I found out that what I heard was actually the truth. I believe a Boss should carry everyone along and not love some and despise others. She goes as far as gossipping about her staff with other staff(her right-hand staff).

How can a Proprietoress who was once a teacher in someone's sch boldly tell her staff that their Future end here in her sch, and that the students are now the future. And that the children will be more successful than the teachers? . It tells a lot as to how she sees and perceives her employees and reason she mistreats her staff. She has placed a limit on us that we can't go beyond where we are.

See, I love teaching and God knows. I'm so passionate about this profession despite the fact that it is almost not a lucrative job. I have taught in Nine(9) private schools, in four(4) different states of this country so I'm well experienced by God's grace. But this sch is something else. The only good thing is that they don't owe salaries. Never.
I love teaching, but can't practice it as my primary occupation. I admire your resilience.
I'll advise you to look for job elsewhere. Employee satisfaction is one of the determinant of success in their job. As you're saying all these, you're obviously not happy. Look for job elsewhere where your contributions are appreciated more.

That said, be like say you go be my founding principal for my school. I like your attitude.
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by fobiflex(m): 8:06am On Nov 09, 2024
Allotrope69:
As a teacher in this particular sch, I and my colleagues have been completely dissatisfied with some of the school's anti-worker policies.

There's no decision or policy that favors the teachers. We are always at the receiving end of every decision.
For instance, as a form Teacher and also a teacher of Mathematics, I must ensure that my students eat their foods(Lunch). I must monitor them closely to make sure they don't take their foods home. They must finish their food.
If any student absents himself/herself, I must call the parents to check. Failure to do so would be akin and tantamount to insensitivity and lack of care for my students. These are JSS3 students we are talking about. But if the teacher is absent due to one reason or the other, same parents would not bother to check on the teacher even if they are aware.

Here's the most annoying part for me. I have a student. A new student who just came in in September. The child hasn't been doing well. The parents came on Open Day and met with me, we discussed on the way forward and how we can help the child to do better. This is a student who cares less about studies, so it is almost difficult to help him. Today we concluded our second Continuous Assessment Test and almost every teacher whose subjects had been written have all marked their scripts. I told this particular student to go round the teachers and get the scores of all His subjects for me. They offer 18 subjects. But to my surprise, the proprietoriess told me to go round the teachers and get his scores. She said so in the presence of this child. This is a woman that knows how busy I am as a Maths teacher, I barely even sit in my class cos I am always up and doing. What's wrong in a child carrying out this simple task?

Some supervisors came from the Ministry of Education a few weeks ago, and they noticed that we over pamper the children. They told us that they hope we have a university for them, because the way we are pampering them, if they go to higher institutions with such lackadaisical & nonchalant attitude, they will fail. So it's either we reduce the way we do it or we build a university for them to continue the pampering. It's not like the sch is a big sch where parents pay heavy sums as sch fees. Fee is 40k per term.

As a teacher, if a student fails to do your assignment, and u discipline that child, the proprietoriess will blame u. And if u don't discipline that child to Correct him/her, and same proprietoriess finds out that the students didn't do your assignment, she will public scold you. Shout at an erring student, it's a problem. Flog the child, it's a problem. Talk to the child, it's a problem. They will find a way of misconstruing your words to suit their narratives. A student can insult u and u won't do anything. If u do, they will label u as wicked. They will ask u why u can't see the child as just a child and overlook things. It's really frustrating.
You can imagine catching a JSS 2 student doing test and exam malpractice, if u deduct the child's score, it's a problem. If u flog, it's a Problem. I once deducted a child's score when I caught him him cheating in an exam. I mean, this boy had the impetus, guts and audacity to open his Maths notebook and be copying directly to his exams script. I used my red pen to deduct just 10marks, and in the end, I was told not to deduct any score. It was said right in the presence of this same student, and other students present there. I was weak. Very weak.

Some parents also try to bully teachers cos they are backed up by the school owners. After all, a customer is always right. If a Parent contracts u to have a private lesson for their child, and such parent refuses to pay you at the time they should pay, and u dare ask for your money, u could be in hot soup. The parent might call the school owners to report that you're harassing them and you will get the blame. In fact, the school owners tell u what to charge them.

The proprietor of the sch is who understands all these, but his wife is different. His wife is so sentimental, biased and emotional and unfair when judging cases. There are three staff there who can never be wrong in her eyes. Three days into my assumption of duty there, I was told about this by some old staff, but I doubted until I found out that what I heard was actually the truth. I believe a Boss should carry everyone along and not love some and despise others. She goes as far as gossipping about her staff with other staff(her right-hand staff).

How can a Proprietoress who was once a teacher in someone's sch boldly tell her staff that their Future end here in her sch, and that the students are now the future. And that the children will be more successful than the teachers? . It tells a lot as to how she sees and perceives her employees and reason she mistreats her staff. She has placed a limit on us that we can't go beyond where we are.

See, I love teaching and God knows. I'm so passionate about this profession despite the fact that it is almost not a lucrative job. I have taught in Nine(9) private schools, in four(4) different states of this country so I'm well experienced by God's grace. But this sch is something else. The only good thing is that they don't owe salaries. Never.
So with these things to stated above, you choose to remain there cuz they don’t owe? You’re really the reason the school owner treats you the way she wants
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by sweetrace(f): 8:07am On Nov 09, 2024
Allotrope69:
The teachers there are all women. We are 42 teaching staff in bothe the creche, kindergarten, nursery, primary and secondary. Out of the 42 staff, only five a men, including me. But even the men still act as women. They are controlled by the school owners. Three weeks ago, I was informed that I would be given management position in the school, but I politely turned it down. Why? Because as a management staff, my suggestions will never be given due consideration so what's the point? There's also no special salary for that. I told my Boss, that I will always come up with ideas to better the sch and act the way he wants, but I can't accept the role of being a management staff. He was shocked.
Now we can't have a union. They won't allow it. Cos they will see it as a rebellious union. I first taught in 2012. And after a term in that sch, I was made the dean of studies and chairman of staff welfare. I was so so close to the sch owners and was highly influential cos I was extremely dedicated to duty. That's the sch I will never forget . A great sch who wants discipline and sanity
With your mindset, you should not be a teacher. You may be smart when it comes to your subjects, but not when it comes to people.
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by CHEMEASY(m): 8:08am On Nov 09, 2024
If I will advise you, that environment is very toxic. Find a better school while you are still there. There are many better schools in all ramifications. The last private school where I taught is the direct opposite of your experience. They pay very high and they have good moral standards. I think it's about the culture, tradition and ethics of the founders
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by lavylilly:
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Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by Nicoddemus(m): 8:14am On Nov 09, 2024
Allotrope69:
As a teacher in this particular sch, I and my colleagues have been completely dissatisfied with some of the school's anti-worker policies.

There's no decision or policy that favors the teachers. We are always at the receiving end of every decision.
For instance, as a form Teacher and also a teacher of Mathematics, I must ensure that my students eat their foods(Lunch). I must monitor them closely to make sure they don't take their foods home. They must finish their food.
If any student absents himself/herself, I must call the parents to check. Failure to do so would be akin and tantamount to insensitivity and lack of care for my students. These are JSS3 students we are talking about. But if the teacher is absent due to one reason or the other, same parents would not bother to check on the teacher even if they are aware.

Here's the most annoying part for me. I have a student. A new student who just came in in September. The child hasn't been doing well. The parents came on Open Day and met with me, we discussed on the way forward and how we can help the child to do better. This is a student who cares less about studies, so it is almost difficult to help him. Today we concluded our second Continuous Assessment Test and almost every teacher whose subjects had been written have all marked their scripts. I told this particular student to go round the teachers and get the scores of all His subjects for me. They offer 18 subjects. But to my surprise, the proprietoriess told me to go round the teachers and get his scores. She said so in the presence of this child. This is a woman that knows how busy I am as a Maths teacher, I barely even sit in my class cos I am always up and doing. What's wrong in a child carrying out this simple task?

Some supervisors came from the Ministry of Education a few weeks ago, and they noticed that we over pamper the children. They told us that they hope we have a university for them, because the way we are pampering them, if they go to higher institutions with such lackadaisical & nonchalant attitude, they will fail. So it's either we reduce the way we do it or we build a university for them to continue the pampering. It's not like the sch is a big sch where parents pay heavy sums as sch fees. Fee is 40k per term.

As a teacher, if a student fails to do your assignment, and u discipline that child, the proprietoriess will blame u. And if u don't discipline that child to Correct him/her, and same proprietoriess finds out that the students didn't do your assignment, she will public scold you. Shout at an erring student, it's a problem. Flog the child, it's a problem. Talk to the child, it's a problem. They will find a way of misconstruing your words to suit their narratives. A student can insult u and u won't do anything. If u do, they will label u as wicked. They will ask u why u can't see the child as just a child and overlook things. It's really frustrating.
You can imagine catching a JSS 2 student doing test and exam malpractice, if u deduct the child's score, it's a problem. If u flog, it's a Problem. I once deducted a child's score when I caught him him cheating in an exam. I mean, this boy had the impetus, guts and audacity to open his Maths notebook and be copying directly to his exams script. I used my red pen to deduct just 10marks, and in the end, I was told not to deduct any score. It was said right in the presence of this same student, and other students present there. I was weak. Very weak.

Some parents also try to bully teachers cos they are backed up by the school owners. After all, a customer is always right. If a Parent contracts u to have a private lesson for their child, and such parent refuses to pay you at the time they should pay, and u dare ask for your money, u could be in hot soup. The parent might call the school owners to report that you're harassing them and you will get the blame. In fact, the school owners tell u what to charge them.

The proprietor of the sch is who understands all these, but his wife is different. His wife is so sentimental, biased and emotional and unfair when judging cases. There are three staff there who can never be wrong in her eyes. Three days into my assumption of duty there, I was told about this by some old staff, but I doubted until I found out that what I heard was actually the truth. I believe a Boss should carry everyone along and not love some and despise others. She goes as far as gossipping about her staff with other staff(her right-hand staff).

How can a Proprietoress who was once a teacher in someone's sch boldly tell her staff that their Future end here in her sch, and that the students are now the future. And that the children will be more successful than the teachers? . It tells a lot as to how she sees and perceives her employees and reason she mistreats her staff. She has placed a limit on us that we can't go beyond where we are.

See, I love teaching and God knows. I'm so passionate about this profession despite the fact that it is almost not a lucrative job. I have taught in Nine(9) private schools, in four(4) different states of this country so I'm well experienced by God's grace. But this sch is something else. The only good thing is that they don't owe salaries. Never.
You still have time to wail. If I were you I'd just look away, let them do whatever they want I care less. I'd just concentrate on my self interest
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by sprints1: 8:16am On Nov 09, 2024
VinnyBaba:
Brotherly, the World has changed and as a Smart person,
You must change with the times. smiley

If you are Opportuned to teach in a school of Wizkid, Davido, Tiwa Savage, etc children and they insult you,
will you really be able to discipline them in a Pattern you would want? undecided

You will be Forced to look for Softer styles of Discipline.

That's is the Point KoboJunkie is trying to make. smiley
no problem, sir am a teacher and a trained one I worked personally with a retired professor of philosophy of education. He taught me study technology coined by one the compass people Lord Ron Hubbard . I learnt a lot from him during my days as an undergraduate and will always appreciate him till this day. I would have flogged Tiwa savage and davido as a teacher if they are spoilt. I go beat shege banza comot their body. And I know I will resign. Because am like Jose mourinho in the workspace I have never worked more than 2 years in an establishment. I get bored easily. No matter how much am paid. I always leave. Back to the point, laissez - faire approach to discipline has never worked in education you can ask anyone who is an educationist. Works for a short while when it backfires you will lose your respect and pedigree as a teacher. We were beaten in school did we die. We shouldn't bring western culture into our African culture. Traditional education which is a form of informal education it is important you flog and punish a child who defiant and stubborn. Make we stop this trend of spare the rod. This spoilt brat needs to be dealt with. Most of their parents don't give them the required basic home training. There is nothing like softer discipline. Even the form of softer discipline which B.F skinner is also not a soft discipline and it doesn't work on Nigerian students. Even in military settings they put the trainees under unfavorable conditions in order to get the best out of them. But some wings here want us us overpamper children by buying ice cream for them when they call me a stupid teacher
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by Nicoddemus(m): 8:19am On Nov 09, 2024
illicit:
I never said that...

It takes investigation to decide if the teacher was stupid or not

Do you think that being a teacher means that someone can't be stupid?


We have seen a lot of stupid adults
I've nothing to tell you just continue with this your stupid woke way of seeing things
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by Sammology: 8:25am On Nov 09, 2024
As a school teacher if you are not happy with the school management.
Stop complaining and open your own...... nobody is holding you back. Stop chastising the school management because the outcome is not in your favor. You even brought it to social media and this is a one sided story
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by Success3593: 8:25am On Nov 09, 2024
We teachers give them the chance to treat us like that cos we are always scared of losing our job and they know the fear is in us. And to some of us comparing our system of learning here to uk and us, please let’s stop it cos that is one of our major problem in this country
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by spiceadole(f): 8:28am On Nov 09, 2024
Kobojunkie:
Enter government work where's he can be the one assaulting and oppressing ordinary Nigerians instead, abi? . undecided
He must not assault and oppress people because he is a govt worker but at least,he won't be the victim or be at the mercy of greedy employers and their clients.

I worked in 7 private hospitals in Nigeria and almost ran mad..I started feeling like a human being the moment I got into the government hospital.

Besides,there is no future in private jobs.
Op just has to quit
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by Sola2010: 8:31am On Nov 09, 2024
I worked in a private school in Abeokuta,the most expensive school in the state at that time. The school proprietress made sure we have no time to apply to other school due to the staff plan she designed. You resume by 7am and close by 5pm. You can never have the time to attend interviews for other jobs. I was an OND holder at that time but thank God today,I have multiple degrees. I resigned from the school,wrote jamb and went to the university,i never allowed their mentality of their students are the future hold me down. Think about this too
Also,there's nothing wrong in checking after your absent students. Please work on yourself. None of your students life is better than yours except you chosed it to be so.
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by femijohn21(m): 8:38am On Nov 09, 2024
My friend, the problem is that we have baby parents this day. Somebody that supposed to be under a parent still receiving lectures on how to build homes are already doing parenting duties, that is why many marriages don't work nowadays. Go and visit these big big schools you will see, most of these students and pupils with these non challan attitudes are from break up homes.

To some schools owner, all they care is to populate the school at the expense of their staff betterment. They even lie to their parents in case whereby a student is not doing well academically or morally just to maintain population.

I don't want to write too much, I have seen a lot in private school settings, some are well disciplined that they will call a spade a spade and also other are on the contrary that they will keep deceiving their parents that their wards are making progress.
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by gbagyiza: 8:39am On Nov 09, 2024
The major issue in Nigeria is that teachers r poorly paid and less regarded but a teacher is meant to build a strong bond with his students and do all it takes to help them achieve success in their studies. Most of the Nigerian teachers lack these skills and professionalism in handling students. In advanced countries, the teacher/student relationship is mutual and cordial. Most of the teachers in Nigeria don't enjoy the job because society doesn't value them. Nobody cares about their welfare, they are like a rejected child that is the reason most of them are unhappy doing the job.
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by iInjureHerYansh: 8:47am On Nov 09, 2024
Sharpsharp00123:
u are an idiot

So a student says a teacher is stupid n we should overlook that n start investigation right?

U really dey craze
Ah swear the capping just tire me
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by illicit(m):
Joybeau:
What do you mean by " he must have mentored him to say that?" Don't you know that family upbringing plays a vital role in children's behaviour? Look, let me tell you, some parents are really bad at home training and are lazy. They leave everything to teachers. I don't take responsibility for what is not mine
I mean he might have been really stupid to put himself in that situation where his student will tell him to his face that he is stupid

In all my days of teaching, I have yeah seen student trying to diss teachers but never see one tell a teacher to his face that that they are stupid

The teacher must have been really stupid then
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by mhiztaNexy(m):
Kobojunkie:
1. Comprehension dey elude you? huh

2. In every part of which world? The world inside of your head abi which one? huh

3. And here is your showcasing the very dearth of critical reasoning ability among Nigerians I was referring to earlier. That Woke virus you are so afraid of is the reason why many Nigerians today would gladly — and have been doing so en masse by the way— to those Western countries where those Western cultures are more tolerant and accepting of them than their papa/mama land ever was and could be in their lifetime. You can't see this because obviously, you are too blind to see what has been right in front of you all this while. The terrible consequences of our ways of raising children in Nigeria... is the nation that is Nigeria today... a nation where the people would rather brave the desert and swim the deep sea to escape to the Western countries with their Western cultures and Woke life. undecided

4. Western culture does not tolerate violence. Hence the reason why kids who resort to violence in schools are adequately punished by the Law and system in their countries. In those countries the Law works and the people respect and do all that is necessary to ensure it is upheld no matter who violates it. undecided

5. See this one! So the reason why over 150 million Nigerian adults living in Nigeria honoring their oppressors by doing absolutely nothing to get rid of them, all at the same time seeing absolutely nothing wrong in attacking the weak and the poor when they can get the upper hand over them, is not to be blamed at all? It is the greedy politicians who are to blame for all of Nigeria's problems? 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Topic? You claimed Spare the Rod And Spoil the child but Nigeria is a clear example of how using the Rod produces nothing but a nation of millions of incapable, majorly corrupt, and morally bankrupt people lacking critical reasoning skills and ability to chart a meaningful future for themselves and their society as a whole.
I am done dragging with you because you are obviously missing the point. Western culture does not tolerate violence yet they keep killing themselves every now and then, and we see it on the News almost every month😂. Well, you are not used to reality but scripted movies in your corner.

I will say it again, your are irredeemably stupid and there's nothing no one can do about it.

THEY HAVE NO CULTURAL VALUES BUT WE HAVE OUR CULTURE HERE! LET THAT SINK INTO YOUR DUMBHEAD.

You can train your kids the way you want. But please don't let them come my way or saner people's way if they are mannerless and rude because you wouldn't like the consequences of their actions. You and your kids will be severely dealt with, the hard way and you will learn.

Whiteman asslicker is talking about how Nigeria is the only one with corruption issues and bad governance, please tell me why your lords have different political views and what they campaign with. WHEN YOUR LORD KAMALA WAS CAMPAIGNING, WHAT WAS SHE TALKING ABOUT AND USING AGAINST TRUMP? WHEN YOUR OTHER LORD TRUMP KEPT TALKING ABOUT INFLATION AND EXCESSIVE SPENDING OF THE GOVERNMENT WITH DAMAGING EFFECTS ON THE ECONOMY AND THE CITIZENS, WHAT'S THAT CALLED? IS THERE ANY PART OF THE WORLD THAT'S NOT BATTLING POOR GOVERNANCE? I AGREE WE LACK BASIC AMENITIES HERE BUT IS IT RELATED TO PROPER UPBRINGING OF LITTLE KIDS OR BAD GOVERNANCE AND CORRUPTION FROM ADULTS LIKE YOU THAT DON'T INSTILL FEAR AND DISCIPLINEhuh?

Stop relating dirty politics with how to train mannerless children. If you like spare the rod, I will use it for you.

Na better beating em dey use drive madness comot pikin body. Why mad man no dey ever challenge soldier?

I'm done trying to make you have small sense.

Whatever you type next, keep it for your kids.
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by illicit(m): 8:57am On Nov 09, 2024
Lamasta:
So if someone you are training calls you stupid is this the response you will givehuh
It wouldn't happen.

Not to my face...

If it happens, there are disciplinary measures the school will take

Do you think.i should punch the child in the face?
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by olaideeeedris(m): 9:03am On Nov 09, 2024
And u are still in that school? With that there 40k school fees, it is crystal clear they can't pay a good renumeration
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by Ezennia101(m): 9:06am On Nov 09, 2024
Allotrope69:
Thank you so much for these words. I'm deeply touched and humbled. May your prayers come to fruition in my life in Jesus name. 🙏🙏
I'll definitely keep the standard.
When and how he will do it I personally don't know, but I promise you he will surely do it . Just keep praying remain positive and diligent, don't forget to tell us when it comes through cos I would love to bear witness to your testimony. Our God never fails .
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by Amsty: 9:07am On Nov 09, 2024
Pls leave the school. There are absolutely many other reasonable schools that are earnestly in need of your service. Take the bold step and vamoose the useless school.
Such schools breed criminals into the society.
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by bitbillionaire: 9:08am On Nov 09, 2024
Kobojunkie:
huh huh Dismiss a student for calling a teacher stewpid? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😀

You have never raised children before, have you? undecided
You will most likely overpamper and spoil your kids from the way you are talking.
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by NoToPile: 9:13am On Nov 09, 2024
What I find amusing in this thread is the notion that all students who attend expensive schools are not disciplined.

There are high end schools whose students know that there are consequences for actions and they wouldn't do such actions because of the consequences.

Well mannered children exist in expensive schools too.

When grooming a child and he/she knows there are no consequences for actions, you are heading for trouble In training that child.
Re: Why Are Private Schools Like This? by haweezee: 9:18am On Nov 09, 2024
Look for another school and leave there.......
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