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You great people had really really spoken well ..
One way or the other man must encounter one on his journey of life , either baby daddy, boyfriend, girlfriend etc ..

Everyman will . one thing I do say is , just remain alive or stay alive regardless of how it hits you ..

Mine , as I waited enough to have one , I still got dealt with , to even say we're living in my house ( my personal house) , she works and I've never for once go a day without her food allowances plus provisions at home , men , she's always on my neck , flirting with boys around , the only child she bore for me , there was a time we had dispute over the child when a boyfriend called to claim the child .. I stomach that ( because I have my plan over that child ) ..
The one she did last , that made me sent her to her parent was , I caught her with pregnant test strip while it's over 5 months we've had sex , she said she's sick , and I said you're sick and the nurse or friends or what you think is to come and do pregnant test ? ..

Omo , I asked her severally and she insisted, na im i sent her to her parent sharply that no be only me go judge this one .

You might , read this and blame me of not having sex with her for 5months ,
Note , she had being flirting with guys and I caught her , she defend it , lied and go as far as protecting those relationship and I informed his parent about it ..

Since then , I just had to refrain from her ...

You need to stay alive o .. I don talk my own ..

dkidd:
Your matter strong o

There are many similar cases , it still normal sef , men dey see sege ... Thats why i laugh when people say get money ooo before you marry ... I dey laugh say trying times will come cus its part of life , she go run .. better marry hustler wey respect you and ready to build with you if not

TossTos:
You great people had really really spoken well ..
One way or the other man must encounter one on his journey of life , either baby daddy, boyfriend, girlfriend etc ..

Everyman will . one thing I do say is , just remain alive or stay alive regardless of how it hits you ..

Mine , as I waited enough to have one , I still got dealt with , to even say we're living in my house ( my personal house) , she works and I've never for once go a day without her food allowances plus provisions at home , men , she's always on my neck , flirting with boys around , the only child she bore for me , there was a time we had dispute over the child when a boyfriend called to claim the child .. I stomach that ( because I have my plan over that child ) ..
The one she did last , that made me sent her to her parent was , I caught her with pregnant test strip while it's over 5 months we've had sex , she said she's sick , and I said you're sick and the nurse or friends or what you think is to come and do pregnant test ? ..

Omo , I asked her severally and she insisted, na im i sent her to her parent sharply that no be only me go judge this one .

You might , read this and blame me of not having sex with her for 5months ,
Note , she had being flirting with guys and I caught her , she defend it , lied and go as far as protecting those relationship and I informed his parent about it ..

Since then , I just had to refrain from her ...

You need to stay alive o .. I don talk my own ..

Nowadays it's more sensible to educate men who aren't yet married. I made alot of mistakes and I understand better now

NOETHNICITY:
I wouldn’t have sent them the money

I would have simply told my son that I have enough food in my house for him, and that he should tell his mom to bring him back

God bless you sir

Ringstonermasks:
Are men still complaining about women in T-Pain era ?


Ona get mind o.


Economy is making more women submissive. Any woman who doesn't submit genuinely, should leave ur life for good. You don't have to impress anyone, flex ur broke life well cos once u start making real money, u won't av d opportunity to enjoy dat broke moment again.

Tallesty1:
Two things that happened recently in Bayelsa:

Man A wanted to relocate back to Nsukka, so he started selling his properties and belongings. Meanwhile, his wife was busy planning to “Japa” and he had no idea. Only his first son, who was her favorite, knew about her plans.

The woman took all the money and fled. People thought she was missing, and her family in Nsukka was already giving the man a hard time, say make he find their daughter for them. Months later, when the son she promised to bring over finally reached her by phone, she told him to “face his life” and stopped contacting him. The son then opened up to his dad about what had happened and later committed suicide.

Man B had a wife who was sleeping around like a rabbit. The mumu wouldn’t divorce her. Las las the wife hired people to kill him and kill him they did, they attacked him brutally. The news even made the papers. When the police called the wife to identify her husband she looked at what was left of him and casually said, “Yes, that’s him.” No tears, no emotion. The next thing she asked for was the key to his shop.

A policeman got angry and arrested her as suspect in the man's death, this triggered triggered an investigation. The deeper they went, the worse the story became. Soon, the Igbo chairman was invited by the police and told that some big people wanted the case dropped; and it was.

End of story for the man.

Women kill men all the time, but no one talks about it enough. Read Purple Hibiscus and see other ways they do it and go unpunished. Nigerians rarely bother with autopsies.

As a man, you’ve got to look out for yourself because no one else will. Don't wait until you're sick before you get a proper medical check-up. When they diagnose you with any illness or warn you of something likely to happen, ask the doctor what could have caused it, because some of these people will kill you slowly and then blame it on the life you led as a young man or the alcohol you drank.

We have a case at hand as I type this and he is alive today because someone suggested he stopped eating the wife's food.

My suspicion is true..... You're a police officer.

JASONjnr:
My suspicion is true..... You're a police officer.

😂 😂 😂 😂.


Why do you think so?

Kamalex2:
Hahaha your own too small, mine was just left about an hour ago, but Alhamdulilah

Hmmmmm

What happened bro?
Care to share?

Tallesty1:
😂 😂 😂 😂.


Why do you think so?

Because those stories are detailed information from a police station.

My brother is a prison officer and he tells us about crimes that are not captured on news dailies.

emmaodet:
Hmmmmm

What happened bro?
Care to share?

U too like gist.....

Seunomobo:
So why are you getting emotional about this?
Life is transactional.
The earlier you understood this , the better for you.
Don't take this to heart.
Just keep doing your best to support your son .
Everything will fall in place..
Btw, I supported my elder sister to leave her lazy, struggling, I don't care attitude hubby,cos no be understanding, pity and miracle she go chop..
She's gladly a side chick to a married man and she's very happy with him than being with the useless man she used to be with ..
Before you come for me, just know say, I get am before no be property....
If you like call me and my sister ashawo, that one no be insult eh, find better insult give me then I'll reply you

Hmmmmmmm....
You sister gladly divorced her struggling hubby to happily become a side chick to another married man.
Hmmmmm.... Now the hubby is lazy because things changed for him.
I get am before no be property ..... Means he was doing well before things changed.
May God help men out there

advanceDNA:
U too like gist.....

We learn more everyday bro.
A lot is happening out there which is a lesson to us

emmaodet:

We learn more everyday bro.
A lot is happening out there which is a lesson to us

Nor be learn be ur aim joor...na the sweetness of gist u dey find

TossTos:
You great people had really really spoken well ..
One way or the other man must encounter one on his journey of life , either baby daddy, boyfriend, girlfriend etc ..

Everyman will . one thing I do say is , just remain alive or stay alive regardless of how it hits you ..

Mine , as I waited enough to have one , I still got dealt with , to even say we're living in my house ( my personal house) , she works and I've never for once go a day without her food allowances plus provisions at home , men , she's always on my neck , flirting with boys around , the only child she bore for me , there was a time we had dispute over the child when a boyfriend called to claim the child .. I stomach that ( because I have my plan over that child ) ..
The one she did last , that made me sent her to her parent was , I caught her with pregnant test strip while it's over 5 months we've had sex , she said she's sick , and I said you're sick and the nurse or friends or what you think is to come and do pregnant test ? ..

Omo , I asked her severally and she insisted, na im i sent her to her parent sharply that no be only me go judge this one .

You might , read this and blame me of not having sex with her for 5months ,
Note , she had being flirting with guys and I caught her , she defend it , lied and go as far as protecting those relationship and I informed his parent about it ..

Since then , I just had to refrain from her ...

You need to stay alive o .. I don talk my own ..

Na WA aaaaaaaaaa !!!!!
You sef dey try dey take rubbish oooo.
Caught your wife flirting with guys and you still enduring such nonsense in you own personally built house?
Walahi tallahi... I go don send am packing sinceeeee
I have very very very LOW tolerance for bullshit as you see me so

advanceDNA:
Nor be learn be ur aim joor...na the sweetness of gist u dey find

1stDoggystyle:
Nowadays it's more sensible to educate men who aren't yet married. I made alot of mistakes and I understand better now

Hmmmmm
But when you want to educate the singles one, many especially women quickly come to shut you down or gaslight you that why you no divorce your own before encouraging others not to marry.
Or abusing you of being a talkative as a married man... Every time cho cho cho cho like woman

emmaodet:
Hmmmmmmm....
You sister gladly divorced her struggling hubby to happily become a side chick to another married man.
Hmmmmm.... Now the hubby is lazy because things changed for him.
I get am before no be property ..... Means he was doing well before things changed.
May God help men out there

Yes..You want make she leave her helper?
She no follow the man wife drag position..
Her husband na her helper and she no fit leave am.
Na only once in 6 months then dey see but him dey take care of her and the useless guy's children wella..
If you were in such vulnerable state you will do same.
I can't write all about their lives here, but I'm happy she ditched his silly, lazy, waiting for a miracle , always chanting God will do it smelly ass....

Emma09:
U are a ruthless Man with this Ur write up. How are you even better than those so called women? As for me, na both gender get wahala. Just pray make God give u better woman.

@bold:

Few of the posts that made sense.

Tallesty1:
Two things that happened recently in Bayelsa:

Man A wanted to relocate back to Nsukka, so he started selling his properties and belongings. Meanwhile, his wife was busy planning to “Japa” and he had no idea. Only his first son, who was her favorite, knew about her plans.

The woman took all the money and fled. People thought she was missing, and her family in Nsukka was already giving the man a hard time, say make he find their daughter for them. Months later, when the son she promised to bring over finally reached her by phone, she told him to “face his life” and stopped contacting him. The son then opened up to his dad about what had happened and later committed suicide.

Man B had a wife who was sleeping around like a rabbit. The mumu wouldn’t divorce her. Las las the wife hired people to kill him and kill him they did, they attacked him brutally. The news even made the papers. When the police called the wife to identify her husband she looked at what was left of him and casually said, “Yes, that’s him.” No tears, no emotion. The next thing she asked for was the key to his shop.

A policeman got angry and arrested her as suspect in the man's death, this triggered triggered an investigation. The deeper they went, the worse the story became. Soon, the Igbo chairman was invited by the police and told that some big people wanted the case dropped; and it was.

End of story for the man.

Women kill men all the time, but no one talks about it enough. Read Purple Hibiscus and see other ways they do it and go unpunished. Nigerians rarely bother with autopsies.

As a man, you’ve got to look out for yourself because no one else will. Don't wait until you're sick before you get a proper medical check-up. When they diagnose you with any illness or warn you of something likely to happen, ask the doctor what could have caused it, because some of these people will kill you slowly and then blame it on the life you led as a young man or the alcohol you drank.

We have a case at hand as I type this and he is alive today because someone suggested he stopped eating the wife's food.

I have grown tired of advising most men of nowadays because most of them appear to have lost their senses to the opposite sex. All they think about is puccy. So, it's almost impossible to reason with them.

Almost everyday men are murdered by their so called wives and girlfriends and the truth is 95% of the time the women go Scott free because of the same men.

Check out this scenario. A married cheating women connives and either stabs the husband to death or even hire assassins to do it. The news gets posted on social media. Most young men laugh it off, joke about it, trivializes it. The case gets to the police, the IPO who is most likely a man will negotiate with the woman. Not for money oh but for sex. He will start fucking the murderer and eventually mess up the case, introduce dubious evidence to create doubt in the prosecution, the judge dismisses the case for lack of diligent prosecution. The female murderer is free! The process repeats and so on.

I am begining to think that most men are such dumbstards! They can trivialize the death of their fellow man for puccy!

There's no hope!

Seunomobo:
So why are you getting emotional about this?
Life is transactional.
The earlier you understood this , the better for you.
Don't take this to heart.
Just keep doing your best to support your son .
Everything will fall in place..
Btw, I supported my elder sister to leave her lazy, struggling, I don't care attitude hubby,cos no be understanding, pity and miracle she go chop..
She's gladly a side chick to a married man and she's very happy with him than being with the useless man she used to be with ..
Before you come for me, just know say, I get am before no be property....
If you like call me and my sister ashawo, that one no be insult eh, find better insult give me then I'll reply you

Ok, this post takes the cake

When you hear reality is stranger than fiction, you go dey wonder how ba?
Pray life doesn't happen to you, or better still, develop the capacity to absorb and move on....else you'd realize movies barely scratch surfaces of reality as Life is deeper than our imagination can handle.

Emma09:
Money is like a guest so says the proverb. U should have diversified ur income and had other side hustle. Now as Job don go, u gats toan up and stand up to Ur feet again.

when I never happen to you na so so advice you go dey give. Things can go sideways anytime man.

Tallesty1:
Two things that happened recently in Bayelsa:

Man A wanted to relocate back to Nsukka, so he started selling his properties and belongings. Meanwhile, his wife was busy planning to “Japa” and he had no idea. Only his first son, who was her favorite, knew about her plans.

The woman took all the money and fled. People thought she was missing, and her family in Nsukka was already giving the man a hard time, say make he find their daughter for them. Months later, when the son she promised to bring over finally reached her by phone, she told him to “face his life” and stopped contacting him. The son then opened up to his dad about what had happened and later committed suicide.

Man B had a wife who was sleeping around like a rabbit. The mumu wouldn’t divorce her. Las las the wife hired people to kill him and kill him they did, they attacked him brutally. The news even made the papers. When the police called the wife to identify her husband she looked at what was left of him and casually said, “Yes, that’s him.” No tears, no emotion. The next thing she asked for was the key to his shop.

A policeman got angry and arrested her as suspect in the man's death, this triggered triggered an investigation. The deeper they went, the worse the story became. Soon, the Igbo chairman was invited by the police and told that some big people wanted the case dropped; and it was.

End of story for the man.

Women kill men all the time, but no one talks about it enough. Read Purple Hibiscus and see other ways they do it and go unpunished. Nigerians rarely bother with autopsies.

As a man, you’ve got to look out for yourself because no one else will. Don't wait until you're sick before you get a proper medical check-up. When they diagnose you with any illness or warn you of something likely to happen, ask the doctor what could have caused it, because some of these people will kill you slowly and then blame it on the life you led as a young man or the alcohol you drank.

We have a case at hand as I type this and he is alive today because someone suggested he stopped eating the wife's food.

Finally!! A man who tells it like it is!!!

As a man...YOU ARE ALL YOU GOT!!! I keep telling these simps these things but dem no dey hear!!!

Kamalex2:
It's a very long story, she has already doing this before packing out without anyone sent it out, she rent house outside even before moving that time, but whenever she get sick or need money she will ask me then take her to the hospital and paid bills, she beg me to please let her return back so i talk my family then and we settled everything's before she is moving out now again says One Alfa and others was telling her we should not married each other

Lol....just let her be bro.

Seunomobo:
So why are you getting emotional about this?
Life is transactional.
The earlier you understood this , the better for you.
Don't take this to heart.
Just keep doing your best to support your son .
Everything will fall in place..
Btw, I supported my elder sister to leave her lazy, struggling, I don't care attitude hubby,cos no be understanding, pity and miracle she go chop..
She's gladly a side chick to a married man and she's very happy with him than being with the useless man she used to be with ..
Before you come for me, just know say, I get am before no be property....
If you like call me and my sister ashawo, that one no be insult eh, find better insult give me then I'll reply you

Your sister is a side chick to a married woman and you are happy?

Werey ni e sha

Did they curse your sister not to be productive or is she dead, blind or dumb not to stand alone and make money for herself?

You are not a man..you are shameless...

Kamalex2:
It's a very long story, she has already doing this before packing out without anyone sent it out, she rent house outside even before moving that time, but whenever she get sick or need money she will ask me then take her to the hospital and paid bills, she beg me to please let her return back so i talk my family then and we settled everything's before she is moving out now again says One Alfa and others was telling her we should not married each other

I see stories like yours and wonder why men have become so weak. I only allow a woman to disrespect me once. I always let them know there will be consequences. They know and what I can do if they fûck up. That fear factor translates to a man who knows his worth and won't tolerate nonsense and women love that shiit.

Your wife packed out and you took her back in was your first mistake. Everything went downhill from there.

Seunomobo:
Yes..You want make she leave her helper?
She no follow the man wife drag position..
Her husband na her helper and she no fit leave am.
Na only once in 6 months then dey see but him dey take care of her and the useless guy's children wella..
If you were in such vulnerable state you will do same.
I can't write all about their lives here, but I'm happy she ditched his silly, lazy, waiting for a miracle , always chanting God will do it smelly ass....

Jesus!!!

😂😂😂😂👋..see reasoning Tori olorun. This one just sold out his sister for advanced prostitution and is proud of it!!!

You, the married man are the reason why simps disgust me.

luminouz:
Jesus!!!

😂😂😂😂👋..see reasoning Tori olorun. This one just sold out his sister for advanced prostitution and is proud of it!!!

You, the married man are the reason why simps disgust me.

Everyone cannot appeal to you.
Live with that reality werey

luminouz:
Your sister is a side chick to a married woman and you are happy?

Werey ni e sha

Did they curse your sister not to be productive or is she dead, blind or dumb not to stand alone and make money for herself?

You are not a man..you are shameless...

Oloriburuku, and who told you that she's not making money for herself, them tell u say the job wey person get for this present economy dey enough to survive, not to talk of feeding 3 extra mouths..
Onyioshi onyiberibe, so u think say because you don rush to condemn my sis now, I go rush to go fight am say make she leave the man, werey , I tell you say she no fit leave the man, she no fit leave her helper, if you want die make you die quick now [right][/right] .
Oloshi

luminouz:
I see stories like yours and wonder why men have become so weak. I only allow a woman to disrespect me once. I always let them know there will be consequences. They know and what I can do if they fûck up. That fear factor translates to a man who knows his worth and won't tolerate nonsense and women love that shiit.

Your wife packed out and you took her back in was your first mistake. Everything went downhill from there.

The only think black men have are egos...smelly egos bigger than their future..Na this kind type go marry oyinbo, Caucasian and the likes dey do yes sir yes sir for white woman..
Respect kill you there

Seunomobo:
The only think black men have are egos...smelly egos bigger than their future..Na this kind type go marry oyinbo, Caucasian and the likes dey do yes sir yes sir for white woman..
Respect kill you there

Now I see why your life is like that...you and your sister.

So it's ego for me to ask you not to sell off your sister for money? Ego to ask her to work for her money and stop depending on married men?

Ego to say the truth?

God will cure you of your mádness!!!