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Bro, no need to ask her! Just carry her go do cleansing and be free!!

pelusi:
I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.

Now I will be returning to Nigeria next week. For this 7 months, I kept myself and did not mess around(slept) with any woman.

However, it's not that I don't trust my wife, but atimes I have an instincts that she may not hold herself like I did and may have fallen in hands of men.

Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman.

Now I'm coming back soonest,I'm scared if she has slept with another man and I was suggesting before sleeping with her to sit her down and ask her to sincerely tell me if she has fallen in my absence,so that necessary things(cleansing) can be done before I sleep with her.

On the other hand, I'm reasoning whether asking her such will cause a misunderstanding in the marriage.

Please advise on the best way to go about this.

It's simple, check her phone, anything strange you discover is what it is...

The surest way to catch a cheat, as far as I'm concerned, is to act like you are not interested in finding out at all. There's that atmosphere of nonchalance that encourages a culprit till they make a very obvious mistake on something they should have kept secret.

Do nothing, find out everything. What you wish to do next after your findings is up to you

[quote author=JoeEeL post=132915209]Yes na. After d long call she made that day, I discovered the same call was amongst the frequently contacted list wey I don take note of some time ago.

Baba no talk like that o, wetin u mean? U no fi dey wit ur woman 24/7 na. 🤣 Day go come when u go gats travel or separate.

Even within a single day or d space of a few hours, that's enough for a woman to cheat. Women when going to the market or school or to and from work place tend to branch elsewhere. Sometimes from visiting their fellow girls as excuse, they branch elsewhere.

Baba, e get one hotel for my area that time, I do see girls that dont live too faraway from the neighbourhood being picked by yahoo boys. I also hav quite a number of female friends & evn my ex then that do gist me about some things.

Baba, u can reduce d chances gan-an, but u can never fully eliminate it. Men always want to boast about their wife's fidelity because they can't imagine otherwise. I fit bet say at least 30% of d husbands of those women wey that equitorial guinea guy f**k go fit don swear b4 say nobody be touch their woman.

The remaining 70% wey get doubt about their woman no go believe say them go fit do am raw, and to make it worse, facing camera and smiling.

Baba, tread carefully abeg o. No go slogodo.[/quote

Hungry follow dey make girls dey jonse and if you no dey smash your woman well. She go reason to meet another guy. Trust me, sex starved girls dey loose guard well all those Guinea woman check well most of their men no dey smash dem well reach that man own. Na why e dey easy for me to dey meet am on a regular. The man wife own case na just say na normal cheating but not all naija woman dey that loose. Only if money and sex dey deprived from them. Then dey begin jonse

AlphaNugget:
Ask.

You paid her bride price. It is your right.

Meanwhile, OGs can know from how slack the pußsy is 🤥

Na lie, in this present age and time you won't know if you have a co-pilot, op shouldn't be surprised meeting his wife a bloodless virgin again.....

Latakia:
yes I'm proud and I'm sure you are so ashame to accept why your father never trust your mother a silly habbit u took after from

Oloriburukú
Proud kìll there dirty lowlife olosho

You have trust issues. The real question is to ask yourself if you sleep with hoes when you travel?

A sign of distrust or unhealthy relationship

Latakia:
is it your proud? Abi na me say make u no trust your wife just because u grew up seeing your father having trust issue with your mother for sleeping around

Weyrey olosho
Continue gathering bodycount
Surely your life will be more miserable than that of your olosho mama
If HIV no kpai you, na rituals dem go carry u do last last

pelusi:
Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman

LOL.

Rooneyx:
Bro trust me I dey use her phone like say na my own. She no fit try am. Men wey no dey check their woman phones too follow dey loose guard well. Person wey to dey smash on a steady dey flex no go get time go look anywhere only if you no dey hit her well. E get as you go load your babe well time no go dey meet another man. E no dey possible

Correct. Well wishes boss

But d issue of checking womens fone is a sensitive topic.

If u suggest that, na d same guys here go dey bash u say u dey insecure, say who go cheat go cheat, say u be privacy intruder etc.