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I am in shock and tears reading this ugly news.

She was a nice woman. Our paths crossed during my NYSC in Uyo, AKS.

May her gentle Soul RIP.
My condolences to her family

Oh Lord, protect our wives from such wicked and social media doctors that leaves pregnant women in the hands of nurses that do not care. I feel so much pain about this, may the Lord heal him of this deep wound

"When you marry a woman who cannot deliver naturally?"

I wish I understood this statement.

Are there women who choose not to deliver naturally? Isn't it circumstances that makes CS an option? Of course, aside from those woman who are woke and just want it.

Your statement is so insensitive.

nwirinedu:
Condolences. CS is not an easy operation; it gets worse when the patient has complications like high bp and Fibroid. Even if you are guaranteed 4 pregnancies in CS, its never advisable to do all of them. Manage 2.

This is what you get when you marry a woman who cannot deliver naturally. Cant blame the hospital for your poor choices.

Atleast they delivered the baby.

Kurugu92:
Beautiful woman,rip. Bro leave everything for the almighty cus he gave and take, no litigation will bring your wife back.may God strengthen you and protect the little boy

so they should continue killing people?

Most hospitals these days don't have patient anymore, any little delay, omo na operation straight.

Just because of the money wey dem Wan make.

You came with your wife alive, and you are leaving with her body,
No pain is greater than this one.

Kurugu92:
Beautiful woman,rip. Bro leave everything for the almighty cus he gave and take, no litigation will bring your wife back.may God strengthen you and protect the little boy

You mean God was the one who caused the wife's death?

Basiljoe:
As the person above suggested, no amount of suing or litigation can bring back the dead.

Count your losses and move on. Sorry, I know it's easier said than done.

Leave this shithole if you can, for sake of your son.

R.I.P to the dead.

That's why shit continue to happen, they need to be held accountable

nwirinedu:
Condolences. CS is not an easy operation; it gets worse when the patient has complications like high bp and Fibroid. Even if you are guaranteed 4 pregnancies in CS, its never advisable to do all of them. Manage 2.

This is what you get when you marry a woman who cannot deliver naturally. Cant blame the hospital for your poor choices.

Atleast they delivered the baby.

Just listen to yourself,

Poster take heart. There must be a story surrounding someone"s departure . The thing is we all will go someday ..be strong for your kids .

Chasito:
You came with your wife alive, and you are leaving with her body,
No pain is greater than this one.

All thanks to t pain

omoadeleye:
Does the man mean if the hospital had requested from him to cut her wife fibroid he wouldn't have permitted them to go ahead.

And moreover, does removing fibroid from one's body requires permission again and was the husband a doctor to determine if it is best to remove the fibroid or not, and where is the part in that write up that suggested that the hospital is incompetent?

So what the man just narrated shows that the hospital tried their best to put the wife in a good condition but it was mission impossible.

I understand the man's pain, but he should take it as force majeure

Yes they needed his permission, he wasn't there for Fibroid operation rather child's birth and should be informed if there was any development

Kurugu92:
Beautiful woman,rip. Bro leave everything for the almighty cus he gave and take, no litigation will bring your wife back.may God strengthen you and protect the little boy

what makes you think he is suing because he wants his wife back?

when your wife dies as a result of negligence, then you can take your own advice

If na ds eko forget it... Unprofessionalism everywhere!!! Rip to ur beloved wife

Basiljoe:
As the person above suggested, no amount of suing or litigation can bring back the dead.

Count your losses and move on. Sorry, I know it's easier said than done.

Leave this shithole if you can, for sake of your son.

R.I.P to the dead.

No country progresses with people with your retarded mindset.
You don't think that he owes it to his wife and family to fight for justice, or or maybe justice is a meaningless word to you?

What about fighting the hospital in court to ensure this does not happen again to another person - you never know it, including you.
I hate to hear opinions such as the one you are expressing here. It just shows lack of good sense of judgement.

They were only trying their best to save her ..all this litigation or no litigation won't help. They should have done a proper scan on her to know if there would be any complications, seems they find out all that during the operation ...Condolences

Newlymarried:
A man has accused a hospital of causing his wife's death due to medical incompetence.

The grieving husband took to Instagram to narrate how his wife was booked for a cesarean section on October 29, but the events that followed ultimately resulted in her death on October 30.

She leaves behind a daughter and her newborn son.

He shared a photo of his late wife and wrote: "Island maternity took my wife's life due to incompetence and stupidity.

Very stupidi set of people wacky doctors, perform so many errors ,as pride n talk to you anyhow expecialy the nurses n matron s
De will not do a goodjob iin public hospital but rander refer u to your private hospital.
De will come to work 9 and close 12 saying de are tired .
Dea was a time I took my wife to a general hospital on a Friday she was bleeding only for d matron to tell us to come on Monday dat dea is no doctor she lost d pregnancy but thank God we de alive
Nigeria government n state government need more work to be done.
They can try this in Yankee
I will also advice all husband should be allowed to enter d delivery broom with d doctors to see and act as evidence incase

Newlymarried:
A man has accused a hospital of causing his wife's death due to medical incompetence.

The grieving husband took to Instagram to narrate how his wife was booked for a cesarean section on October 29, but the events that followed ultimately resulted in her death on October 30.

She leaves behind a daughter and her newborn son.

He shared a photo of his late wife and wrote: "Island maternity took my wife's life due to incompetence and stupidity.

Very sttupidi set of people wacky doctors, perform so many errors ,as pride n talk to you anyhow expecialy the nurses n matron s
De will not do a goodjob iin public hospital but rander refer u to your private hospital.
De will come to work 9 and close 12 saying de are tired .
Dea was a time I took my wife to a general hospital on a Friday she was bleeding only for d matron to tell us to come on Monday dat dea is no doctor she lost d pregnancy but thank God we de alive
Nigeria government n state government need more work to be done.
They can try this in Yankee
I will also advice all husband should be allowed to enter d delivery broom with d doctors to see and act as evidence incase

Wonders shall never end in Nairaland. You made this kind of comment as a human being? As if it was of her own making not to deliver naturally. There have been countless happenings of women whose lives where at risk while trying to deliver naturally as they were advised to opt for CS but eventually paid with their lives. At least I know of one. She died while trying to deliver naturally like the previous births but this one got complicated and she lost her life because she refused to give consent for CS. Indeed the present generation of this nation has lost their conscience.

nwirinedu:
Condolences. CS is not an easy operation; it gets worse when the patient has complications like high bp and Fibroid. Even if you are guaranteed 4 pregnancies in CS, its never advisable to do all of them. Manage 2.

This is what you get when you marry a woman who cannot deliver naturally. Cant blame the hospital for your poor choices.

Atleast they delivered the baby.

omoadeleye:
Does the man mean if the hospital had requested from him to cut her wife fibroid he wouldn't have permitted them to go ahead.

And moreover, does removing fibroid from one's body requires permission again and was the husband a doctor to determine if it is best to remove the fibroid or not, and where is the part in that write up that suggested that the hospital is incompetent?

So what the man just narrated shows that the hospital tried their best to put the wife in a good condition but it was mission impossible.

I understand the man's pain, but he should take it as force majeure

It is called consent. You must obtain consent from the patient or whoever is acting on his/her behalf. You don't force treatment on people, you must receive their permission if they are capable or the husband in this case.

The way you guys reason like people in the dark ages is scary.

Kurugu92:
Beautiful woman,rip. Bro leave everything for the almighty cus he gave and take, no litigation will bring your wife back.may God strengthen you and protect the little boy

hmm black monkeys and leave everything for god. the countries that introduced u to this god have malpractice suites for this situation but a cursed black monkey aaaahhh

Newlymarried:
A man has accused a hospital of causing his wife's death due to medical incompetence.

The grieving husband took to Instagram to narrate how his wife was booked for a cesarean section on October 29, but the events that followed ultimately resulted in her death on October 30.

She leaves behind a daughter and her newborn son.

He shared a photo of his late wife and wrote: "Island maternity took my wife's life due to incompetence and stupidity.

Take heart, bro, and may her gentle soul rest in peace. That said, if you have the means and determination to pursue justice in court, I encourage you to go ahead. While it won’t bring her back, it could bring some peace to the family knowing that justice was served. She, too, would likely feel content, wherever she is, knowing her case wasn’t ignored.

Moreover, holding the hospital accountable could prevent them from carelessly handling future cases and risking more lives. This might not even be the first case of its kind there, but if someone before you had fought for justice, perhaps it wouldn’t have reached you. While some may advise leaving it to God, consider that your efforts could save others from suffering the same fate.

Iweakbro:
Leave everything for God? He should also leave reproduction and money-making for God. Christians nowadays are too docile and that is why the religion is fading.

He should press on with the litigation, to ensure the hospital never repeats that with another person's wife.

Exactly my point too.
If left unchecked, they'll continue.

That Island maternity hospital destroyed my daughter's nerve during birth. Dem spoil the baby hand without informing me, got to find out after 2 weeks.

Well, just leave everything for God.

Kurugu92:
Beautiful woman,rip. Bro leave everything for the almighty cus he gave and take, no litigation will bring your wife back.may God strengthen you and protect the little boy

It is not about bringing her back. He cannot. Very sad for him, her parents, and children. It is about hospitals experiencing the repercussion of negligence. Continous litigation is what leads to policy changes, administrative changes, and adding adequate measures to forestall human errors in the future. Allowing hospitals and medical personnel to go scot-free today ensures more negligence tomorrow.

Kurugu92:
Beautiful woman,rip. Bro leave everything for the almighty cus he gave and take, no litigation will bring your wife back.may God strengthen you and protect the little boy

Ode

If you have what it takes, please go ahead.. if I can use my connections to get you a lawyer. I would have. It worrisome, they were aware of the implications before going ahead on the C's, they just goofed based on the money involved. Those animals are just killing people.

VeryWickedBro:
Lagos Island maternity infanticide centre which is one of Tinubu's many achievements in Afonjaland


Motto: Itesiwaju ika

Biafran cannibal, remember today is Monday .

Hide under your infested bed so that Mazi Simon Ekpa's boys won't flog you

nwirinedu:
Condolences. CS is not an easy operation; it gets worse when the patient has complications like high bp and Fibroid. Even if you are guaranteed 4 pregnancies in CS, its never advisable to do all of them. Manage 2.

This is what you get when you marry a woman who cannot deliver naturally. Cant blame the hospital for your poor choices.

Atleast they delivered the baby.

Brother, I find your statement rather insensitive. 'This is what you get when you marry a woman who cannot deliver naturally'? It doesn't surprise me by the way, given the average mindset of the Nigerian populace, especially those who claim to be educated.

You do not even know the man or his deceased wife. You have no idea of the complications she may have had for surgery to have been required. And in what book did you ever read that Caesarian Surgery was a poor choice? Tell me, I pray thee, how to identify a woman who can birth 'naturally' on the first day of meeting her.

You do not blame a man who has just lost his wife and has to cater for his son alone, for his wife's death while giving such preposterous submissions. You might just be the next patient in the hospital needing a surgery for your wounds.

Kurugu92:
Beautiful woman,rip. Bro leave everything for the almighty cus he gave and take, no litigation will bring your wife back.may God strengthen you and protect the little boy

wrong! Pls where did you learn that God takes what He gave, religion don wound people .....when we are helpless we blame it all on God.

udemzyudex:
Most hospitals these days don't have patient anymore, any little delay, omo na operation straight.

Just because of the money wey dem Wan make.

I don't it's because of the money hospitals opt for CS.
It's often for the safety of the baby and mother.

CS is safer than virginal birth.